hey mitch: nice post. i'm the same, i never felt that i was connecting with other gays by liking joni, whereas other musical loves of mine at one time or another (musical comedies, bette midler, soft cell) did have a gay tinge. i didn't come to this list for gay solidarity either, and i was kind of surprised by how many gay men and women are here.
it was an essay by cliff chase, that you can find on jonimitchell.com, that for me crystalized something of her appeal to gay men, at least. like many people here, my first internet search was joni mitchell and i consumed wally breese's site. and that essay is still one of the finest things i've read. i highly recommend it. here's the link to part 1 (there're three parts) http://www.jonimitchell.com/TroubleChildPart1.html best to you, patrick in ny np - kaija saariaho - chbteau de l'bme (dawn upshaw singing)