Hi Lalmon,
Thanks for sharing,but I have to differ with you a
little bit.Let's us not make decisions
in life or generalise things based on one of the
events or cases that took place in some corner of the
world.
Another thing is that we need to work on is to
develop our self image than developing the image
.Image is what other people think about you.Self image
is what you think about yourself.The Lord has created
every
one equal and gave them equal value.BA and BTech
are educational degrees people aquire from
universities.
we should focus on qualifying ourselves for the
final interview of Jesus than on these little things.
By the way this is my personal sharing and not an
advise.
God Bless
George Kuriakose
--- Lalmon C Kurian <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Hi friends
>
> I have some acute views about dowry. If I am wrong,
> pls forgive me. I feel, there is nothing wrong in
> getting dowry. For this I have my justification. You
> can just think of the current kerala. I can tell you
> a
> very interesting story, if you can listen me.
>
> Well, the story goes like this. …There is one very
> nice, happy family. The father is a schoolteacher
> and
> mother is a housewife. By gods grace they have got
> two
> children; the first one is a smart guy cupped with
> intelligence, moral values and humbleness. The
> second
> once is cute sweet little girl. She was blessed with
> the beauty and softness. They both stated going to
> school, guy in 1st std and girl in LKG. But the time
> was on his way to heaven and mean while our hero,
> prince Guy and heroine Princess Gal was going to
> their
> youth. Gay took his Engineering from a well-known
> institute and working as a software engineer in
> reputed MNC. But unfortunately, our heroin could not
> reach up to that but still she completed her BA
> degree
> from a private college. Slowly; the time came for
> the
> guy to get marry. Many faces came to his hand as
> color
> snaps of beauty queens, but at last he selected a
> very
> humble cute girl as his life partner. She was very
> humble and god fearing, but she did only Bsc degree.
> And they lived happily. But soon, the other thing
> happened; our heroin is going to get marry. So many
> guys came her way, doctors, engineers, IPS, IAS…etc,
> but at last she selected her partner, a smart IPS
> guy.
> But everybody knew that this guy is leading a very
> bad
> life, but has much treasure in his pocket. But this
> girl and her parents didn’t think about his
> character,
> but just saw his money and position. And now it’s
> your
> tern to answer me what happen to their life, they
> are
> ENJOYING OR NOT.
>
> Well, apart from that, I would like to point out
> one
> important thing that AN IAS GUY CAN MARRY A BA GIRL,
> BUT A BA GUY CAN NEVER EVEN DREAM OF AN IAS GIRL….
> But
> ACCEPTING DOWRY IS NOT FAIR…girls are short, and
> hence
> they will always look UP and as we poor guys are
> tall,
> always we need to look DOWN…nothing official about
> it,
> is it not?
>
> I have a request to u guys and gals pls think at
> least
> once before telling some comments about anything…
>
>
>
> Note: - But I am not going to ask any dowry as I
> believe; if we marry a girl, then we should be
> capable
> of nourishing her, even without her father’s help!!!
>
> Luv Lalmon
>
>
> =====
> Lalmon C kurian
> Senior Software Consultant.
> Infosys Technologies Ltd.
> Bangalore.
> Ph: 9845208884,
> 91-80-3474156.
> Visit: www.lalmon.com
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