Richard.

I have been away for a while hence my lateness in commenting on your email and 
usually I don't comment until I see if anybody else has answered but with 600+ 
to work through..... "illegitimate" is still the official British word, 
previously it was "bastard".

WRT a prolific relation perhaps "partnered" could be used, although personally 
I'm not keen on it. I seem to remember getting "had a relationship with" into 
the program at some time but at the moment cannot think how!

Ron Ferguson
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Date: Mon, 8 Oct 2007 10:13:03 +1000
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Children out of Wedlock

Allen, re your subject, I have several children in my family tree of the same 
situation. As the core of my relations are British, I can tell you that on the 
official birth certs they are marked "Illegitimate" I know that this may be now 
an out of date use of language given modern families, but it was a word current 
for its time. Perhaps we need to live with the change in use of words, in 
context with the relevant current values around the time of birth. Im not sure 
what the official word for a child out of wedlock is right now. Perhaps some 
other reader can assist.
Richard.

On 10/8/07, Allen Prunty <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Thank you Jim... I never knew about this one... it is hard to find this
information on your website and I find it often cryptic.

Now my question is (as my GGG Uncle that really got around the town) has
many relationships recorded as children there are descriptors like
"spouse" we could change on that page.

How can we respectably change it to something other than spouse...
there's the old word concubine... what's the appropriate word to
describe someone who has had a child with someone out of wedlock.

I know that the legal term for the child is Bastard... is there a nicer
term for that?  I do want to publish this for my family eventually and
want to use the most polite terms as I can.  My grandmother who keeps up
on modern terms has labled him as a "man-slut" but I don't think that's
what I want to go down in our history either.

It seems that the more you shake the family tree the more "skeletons"
fall out.

Allen

Jim Terry wrote:
> For help with "non-traditional families," please see the article "Adding
> Multiple Parents and Single Parents in Legacy" at
> http://www.legacyfamilytree.com/tipsMultiple-SingleParents.asp. This article
> has been available here for two or three years.
>
> No disrespect intended, but you don't seem to have all the facts.
>
> Thank you,
>
> Jim Terry
> Technical Support
> Legacy Family Tree




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