Brian, how then do you treat adoptions? Eliz Not Today and Not without a Fight (Anon)
For all that has been, thanks. For all that will be, yes. (Dag Hammarskjold) On Thu, Dec 26, 2013 at 2:10 PM, Brian L. Lightfoot < br...@the-lightfoots.com> wrote: > There is no genealogy in same-sex marriages thus there are no same-sex > marriages in genealogy. > > If you want something for recording people, their lives and their > relationships, it's called a diary. > > > Brian in CA > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: singhals [mailto:singh...@erols.com] > Sent: Thursday, December 26, 2013 10:16 AM > To: LegacyUserGroup@LegacyUsers.com > Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Same Sex Partnerships/Marriages > > Most two-sex marriages these days aren't "life-long" either, though. > > My not needing the ability to add same-sex relationships doesn't mean > someone else won't need it, and I can always not-use it if it's there. > > If someone's keeping count, here's a "it might be a nice option" vote. > > Cheryl > > Ellen wrote: > > I do not record relationships of couples who do not marry. I also do > > not record all know "best friends" or "pets" or anything else except > > for Church recognized marriages. If you want that, that is your > > option. From the studies that I have seen and from all of the rare > > same-sex pairs that I have known, same-sex relationships typically are > > not "life-long". > > Not everyone wants Legacy to make this possible, but it sounds like > > they might have with the below info. I support them in not adding this > > as a feature. Legacy hears from the few who want it far more often > > than those of us who are grateful for it not being there. > > > > God bless, > > Ellen > > > > On Dec 20, 2013, at 5:03 AM, Kathy Thompson wrote: > > > >> Only problem is, this work-around doesn't "stick". > >> It dissappears with updates and it seems to disappear between program > >> loads as well. > >> > >> Need something more permanent in light of today's society and the > >> legality of gay marriage in many countries today - heck even without > >> gay marriage being legal, we should respect and record the life-long > >> partnerships that two people had - we do it for men and women who > >> don't marry, we should be able to do it for same-sex relationships as > >> well > >> > >> Please don't start on gay rights - I'm mearly putting my two cents > >> forward that this feature is something that is needed for accuracy in > >> recording people, their lives and their relationships. > >> > >> > >> On 20 December 2013 07:00, Sherry/Support > >> <she...@legacyfamilytree.com <mailto:she...@legacyfamilytree.com>> > >> wrote: > >> > >> No - but there is an extensive work-around if you're > >> comfortable with using Access. It's in the KB on our > >> website > >> > >> http://support.legacyfamilytree.com/article/AA-00549/14/Tips-and-How- > >> Tos/Same-sex-couples.html > >> > >> > >> Sincerely, > >> Sherry > >> Technical Support > >> Legacy Family Tree > > > > > > Legacy User Group guidelines: > http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Etiquette.asp > Archived messages after Nov. 21 2009: > http://www.mail-archive.com/legacyusergroup@legacyusers.com/ > Archived messages from old mail server - before Nov. 21 2009: > http://www.mail-archive.com/legacyusergroup@legacyfamilytree.com/ > Online technical support: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Help.asp > Follow Legacy on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/LegacyFamilyTree) and > on our blog (http://news.LegacyFamilyTree.com). > To unsubscribe: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/LegacyLists.asp > > > Legacy User Group guidelines: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Etiquette.asp Archived messages after Nov. 21 2009: http://www.mail-archive.com/legacyusergroup@legacyusers.com/ Archived messages from old mail server - before Nov. 21 2009: http://www.mail-archive.com/legacyusergroup@legacyfamilytree.com/ Online technical support: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Help.asp Follow Legacy on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/LegacyFamilyTree) and on our blog (http://news.LegacyFamilyTree.com). To unsubscribe: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/LegacyLists.asp