Thank you also Ed, all of you helped me a great deal.  I now
understand how to enter it into Legacy.

Janet

On 8/17/05, Ed Barnard <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Janet,
> 
> Genealogically speaking, any time two people have a child, that's a
> "marriage". When a woman has three children by three different fathers,
> that gets represented as three "marriages".  If she is actually married
> to a fourth person, that's four "marriages". For what it's worth, that's
> how the LDS church defined the standard.
> 
> Genealogically speaking, that makes sense. That is, if the whole point
> is to keep track of who is related to whom by blood, that makes sense.
> The trouble, very obviously, is that is NOT the common meaning of the
> word marriage. We all know what "getting married" means... it's a formal
> commitment before witnesses, confirmed by the local church and/or state.
> 
> In Legacy, though, the question is NOT "did she have a ring on her
> finger, and who gave her that ring." That's one of TWO questions. The
> other is, "Did they have child or children, and who are the parents."
> 
> If he put a ring on her finger, you obviously record *that* couple as
> married. They are/were.
> 
> But if there was a child, you also record that child's two parents as a
> marriage. You can then go in the marriage edit screen, and change the
> descriptive words to reflect the actual situation. Change "husband" to
> "father" or whatever's appropriate.
> 
> I haven't specifically answered your question. I was talking in general
> terms. But hopefully that does help to explain the situation!
> 
>  Ed Barnard
> 
> On Tue, 2005-08-16 at 22:23, Janet LaVerne Lee wrote:
> > I have a couple who were never married who had a child.  I need to add
> > a (friend, companion ?????) what to the man?  Then can I add a child
> > for them?  How do I then add a husband to her later?  You will have to
> > be pretty explicit, I am new to doing this.
> >
> > Thank you anyone for help,
> >
> > Janet
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