…and, we have been encouraged to support the Mall.
There, you can get/bring coffee and sit in the various outdoor spots.
There is also “drop-in” at both Twisted Tree and Tack Room.
I see folks who sit in Twisted Tree for hours…also folks with young kids in the 
AM.
I have often been walking to Donelan’s or the bank and see someone I know and 
join them.
Do people really envision themselves going  to sit in a lobby of a building, 
just to hang out?

I suspect that is not what most are yearning for.

———
Sara Mattes




> On Oct 10, 2023, at 2:18 PM, ٍSarah Postlethwait <sa...@bayhas.com> wrote:
> 
> According to the Library code of conduct, they have a designated coffee area 
> already and food and drinks are permitted in certain parts of the building. 
> 🤷‍♀️
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> 
> 
> On Tue, Oct 10, 2023 at 2:03 PM sally kindleberger <skindleber...@gmail.com 
> <mailto:skindleber...@gmail.com>> wrote:
>> But eating food in the library is not encouraged- so no coffee/goodies!
>> 
>> 
>> On Tue, Oct 10, 2023 at 1:55 PM Sara Mattes <samat...@gmail.com 
>> <mailto:samat...@gmail.com>> wrote:
>>> …and, one can always sit in the “tower room” near the Reference Desk and 
>>> talk.
>>> I meet/see /talk to people there,  fairly regularly.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> ———
>>> 
>>> Sara Mattes
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>>> On Oct 10, 2023, at 11:36 AM, Carol Ryan <urch...@comcast.net 
>>>> <mailto:urch...@comcast.net>> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>> I drop by the library often . Sometimes I plan to meet friends there. 
>>>> Other times I see people unexpectedly. I see friends and neighbors with 
>>>> their children. In my opinion the library is one of our town hubs. I have 
>>>> never been told to be quiet at the library. There is one designated quiet 
>>>> room. The library is open for many hours every week. It is cool on hot 
>>>> days and warm on cold days. It is a beautiful building filled with natural 
>>>> light, views to look outside and comfortable seating. It is filled with 
>>>> books, music and there are computers for people to use.There is a gallery 
>>>> at the Library. They even have coffee. I enjoy getting to know the 
>>>> librarians . A few years ago we had a conversation with the head librarian 
>>>> about the library’s quest to encourage more people to come by. Let’s use 
>>>> it so we don’t lose it.
>>>> 
>>>> Carol Ryan
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>> 
>>>>> On Oct 10, 2023, at 11:21 AM, Linda McMillan <mcmillanlin...@gmail.com 
>>>>> <mailto:mcmillanlin...@gmail.com>> wrote:
>>>>> 
>>>>> Hi Carol,
>>>>> I love our library, but reserving the Tarbell Room doesn’t meet the need 
>>>>> of those who just want to drop in and see who is there, hang out a bit 
>>>>> and socialize. Plus, going to an event is very different from seeing 
>>>>> people on a day-to-day basis without a special event that causes lots of 
>>>>> people to show up. Sometimes, folks don’t feel like going to “an event”. 
>>>>> I think a Community Building would serve this unique need, in my opinion.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Linda McMillan
>>>>> 
>>>>>> On Oct 9, 2023, at 8:35 PM, Carol Ryan <urch...@comcast.net 
>>>>>> <mailto:urch...@comcast.net>> wrote:
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> There are many different spaces at our wonderful library . Some are 
>>>>>> designated as quiet space others are not. It’s a great place to meet 
>>>>>> with friends or bump into neighbors. You can reserve the Tarbell Room 
>>>>>> for free! Lovely gathering spot outside as well.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Carol Ryan
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> On Oct 9, 2023, at 5:01 PM, Linda McMillan <mcmillanlin...@gmail.com 
>>>>>>> <mailto:mcmillanlin...@gmail.com>> wrote:
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> At the library, you are supposed to be quiet, not talking and chatting 
>>>>>>> with folks. It’s for reading.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> On Oct 7, 2023, at 11:43 AM, Sara Mattes <samat...@gmail.com 
>>>>>>>> <mailto:samat...@gmail.com>> wrote:
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> What is the likelihood you would meet any of these folks at a Hartwell 
>>>>>>>> CC, between the hours of 9:30 AM and 3:30 PM?
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> We meet at events like you have just described - at DeCordova, at 
>>>>>>>> Pierce House ( First Day, 4 th of July), at Codman Farm, at the 
>>>>>>>> Library, and sometimes at events at the schools ( Town Meeting, eg), 
>>>>>>>> and Winter Carnival.
>>>>>>>> …just a few examples.
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> …just a reality check.
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Sent from my iPad
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>>> On Oct 7, 2023, at 6:05 AM, Anne Sobol <anne.so...@gmail.com 
>>>>>>>>> <mailto:anne.so...@gmail.com>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>>> The Twisted Tree at DeCordova was open last night from 5-9. I arrived 
>>>>>>>>> at 6 and was disappointed not to see anyone in my age group (over 
>>>>>>>>> 75), but I bought an interesting non-alcoholic drink and went out on 
>>>>>>>>> the terrace to mingle with the young adults and their beautiful, 
>>>>>>>>> active children. A woman with a lovely little daughter said she'd met 
>>>>>>>>> me at the dump (how Lincoln!), and we commenced to talk about how we 
>>>>>>>>> had both grown up in Lincoln (I in the '50's, she I think she said in 
>>>>>>>>> the '90's). We both had lived in California when Covid hit in 2020, 
>>>>>>>>> and ended up moving back to Lincoln. She told me about her work and 
>>>>>>>>> we discussed how we found Lincoln after living in California. She 
>>>>>>>>> asked me for my contact info and we agreed to get together for coffee 
>>>>>>>>> in the future.
>>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>>> I went into the shop to get a plastic cup for the remains of my 
>>>>>>>>> drink, and struck up conversation with a man and his wife, both more 
>>>>>>>>> or less my age, who were waiting in line (the only other people my 
>>>>>>>>> age I saw while I was there, they in the company of their family and 
>>>>>>>>> small children). He was into the Hanscom expansion opposition, and we 
>>>>>>>>> had an animated conversation until I felt I had to leave to get ready 
>>>>>>>>> for a trip in the morning. We exchanged info about where we lived and 
>>>>>>>>> they invited me to stop by.
>>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>>> When people ask me what I want in a Community Center, I say a place 
>>>>>>>>> to meet people without a specific date. This is what I got at the 
>>>>>>>>> Twisted Tree DeCordova last night. I haven't related to the 
>>>>>>>>> often-mentioned notion of intergenerational mixing in the context of 
>>>>>>>>> a Community Center, but I enjoyed last night mixing with younger 
>>>>>>>>> people and their children.
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