Francisco, I'm sorry but Jacob words' are correct.
I've not so much simpathy for the author, but anyway it's a good start point to correct your manners:
http://www.catb.org/esr/faqs/smart-questions.html --I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
