**(but lemme tell you what, leigh, you sure do know how to make someone feel like they accidently blew up a building).** hmm... see that's you taking my sttuff out of context... i was just trying to make a point about you and your comment... i have no intentions of making you feel like you had blown up any buildings... what i had meant to do is make you SEE WHAT WAS WRONG IN WHAT YOU SAID... that's all :) **my point is that other kids aren't going to understand, and homosexuals should keep that in mind before they either adopt (i personally feel this is the better way to go...)** kids are cute things, but pretty much usually awful along the lines of tolerance... i am sure as hell not going to quell my desires because some little 7 year old shit head may not like it. there are ways you can go about doing things... move to somewhere with a large gay population, there will probably be alot of kids there with "alternative parents"... and i'm sure it's not like you're having two fire island gay people as the common gay parent... most of them will be normal... kids also don't understand retardation and birth defects... doesn't mean that parents prone to things like that shouldn't breed... love and bayyyyybeeees, leigh