(Very Long Letter)
Dear Friends:

I am enclosing an article about my 
son who was beaten last
Friday by the Minneapolis police.  
Please read and forward it on to as 
many people as possible.  If this kind of 
behavior is to stop, we as a community must 
make it stop.I sent this to all the major 
newspapers and Thank you for your support

Titilayo
(See attached file: My son & the police.doc)

Every Mother�s Nightmare
By Titilayo Bediako

Every mother who has a Black son, worst 
nightmare is that her child will have an 
altercation with the police.  This 
terrifying experience happened for my 
son on Friday, May 30th on the 
northside of 
Minneapolis.  

My son is a fourteen year old who takes 
great pride in the way he dresses.  
On Friday, he wore white shorts; a blue 
shirt and blue dew rag, covered by a white 
visor, and blue tennis shoes.   He is 
graduating from eighth grade and has 
passed the Minnesota Basic Standards Test 
and Math and Reading.  He does not do drugs 
and is not in a gang.  He has aspirations to 
be an airline pilot; he loves sports, math 
and playing chess.

As my son and his friend were leaving 
the corner store on Penn and Golden Valley 
Road, they were greeted at the door by a 
police officer on a bicycle.  Two other 
Black male youth were walking outside the 
store behind my son and his friend.  The 
officer told all four boys to put their 
hands up against the wall.

Since my son was ten years old, I have 
had to unfortunately teach him that he does 
not have the same rights as other citizens 
because he is a Black male.  I have told him 
if the police ever stop him, to say as 
little as possible, do what they tell him 
to and to never ever talk back to them.  
There are too many horror stories where 
Black male youth have come up dead, missing, 
or extremely hurt by one wrong word to 
the police.

As the officer tells my son and the other 
boys to hold up the wall with their hands, 
the white male police officer comes up to my 
son and commands him to pull out his wallet.  
As he reaches for his pocket to find his 
wallet, the officer punches him in the face, 
grabs both of his arms with one hand and grabs 
him by the neck with his other hand and 
begins to chock my son.  Quickly and fiercely, 
the officer throws him to the ground.  Then 
the officer begins to kick my son in the 
stomach and legs.  He took his fist and 
punched him in his face several times.  
The police officer took out his handcuffs 
and cuffed him so tightly that scars were 
left on his wrists.  The �protector of 
the community� grabs my son�s wallet out 
of his pocket and slaps him in the face 
with it.
 

The officer proceeds to make a bizarre 
statement to my son, �Why aren�t you 
following my instructions?�  My son responds, 
�Sorry sir, I was getting my wallet out like 
you told me.�  �No, I didn�t,� snorted 
the officer, �It makes me very angry when 
people don�t follow my instruction.�  The 
police officer began going through my son�s 
pocket and then he takes off  my son�s 
shoes, looking for drugs.  He tells my 
fourteen year old, �I�ve seen you before, 
and I know you have drugs.�  He phones in 
my son�s name to the central office to 
verify the police record that this Black 
boy must have because this officer 
�knew� him.

�Why are you here?� the officer demanded to 
know from my son.  My son replied, �My friend 
and I were buying candy from the store.�  
�Where do you live?� the officer retorted, 
�South Minneapolis,� he quickly commented.  
In another bizarre twist the officer said,� 
Have you ever been on 38th and Chicago 
Avenue?�  My son said, �Yes sir.�  The 
officer continues to say, �This spot (Penn 
and Golden Valley Road) is just like being 
over there.  People get in trouble over here 
all the time, just like over there.  When 
you wear rags on your head it makes you a 
suspect.�  

The officer�s phone begins to ring.  He is 
told that  my son does not have a police 
record.  To add insult to injury, the officer 
says to my son, �Are you ever going to get 
in trouble like this again?�   He says, 
�No sir.�  The other officer standing next 
to the assaulting police comments, �He�s 
lying.�  They take the handcuffs off my son 
and tell him he can go.  They let my son 
know that they are doing him a favor by 
letting him go.

Imagine how terrified I am when my son 
calls and informs me that he has been beaten 
by the police.  As I pick  him  up from his 
friend�s house on 16th and Penn, tears come 
to my eyes as I see how they have scared 
and bloodied his face.  As we drive down 
Plymouth Avenue, we pass the police station.  
I stop and have my son come with me so that
 the officer in charge can see what their 
people have done to my son.  When I tried to 
get in, the door was locked.  It wasn�t 
until an elderly African American man came 
out of the building could we go into the 
police station.  I asked to speak to the 
officer in charge.  As my son explains to 
Sergeant Young, who was in charge, what 
happened to him, the sergeant looks at 
me and says, �Well it wasn�t one of my guys.  
Those guys on bikes are in another unit 
downstairs and they are closed for the night.  
You have three choices, 1) report to the 
supervisor downstairs tomorrow, 2) call 
internal affairs, or 3) call CRA.�  I say 
in an upset tone, �I can�t make a report?� 
In a very nasty tone he said, �No.�  Feeling 
very emotional, I say, �What use are you if 
I cannot report a crime when it happens?�  
The lead officer looks at me and says, 
�Get your ass out of my house!�  I look at 
him and say, �The police station is your 
house?�  He says, �You damn right, 
get out.�
 

This experience is reminiscent of slavery 
days, when the �master� beat and maimed 
African Americans for no other reason 
than they �looked� like they might be 
doing something wrong.  So many mothers 
teach our son�s to be respectful, do their 
best, and stay out of trouble; my son gets 
beat up by the police for no other reason 
than the police  have the power to do so.  
This incident did not happen at night, it 
happened at 6:00 p.m.   The sun was shining 
and it was a bright day.  How have the 
police come to feel so comfortable to beat 
up on our children without fear of 
reprisal?

My son comes from a long line of social 
activists.  You can imagine how appalled 
his grandfather, Matthew Little was, who 
has worked for the human and civil rights 
of African Americans and all citizens for 
the last sixty years.  My son�s grandfather 
has been in the forefront in creating the 
NAACP in Minneapolis, he helped organize the 
March on Washington in 1963,  he took the 
leadership in the desegregation of  the 
schools in Minneapolis, worked with city 
officials to assure that there was diversity 
and promotions for people of color in the 
police and fire departments.  Matthew Little 
has received many accolades and honors for 
his work to assure that Minneapolis 
guarantees rights for all of its citizens. 
Yet through all his years of work and 
sacrifice, his grandson is profiled and 
beaten up just because he is an African 
American male.  

Citizens in Minneapolis are bombarded with 
images on the news of African American 
youth, stealing, killing, doing drugs, 
joining gangs and creating havoc.  We are 
given the impression that these youth 
represent most African American teenagers 
in our city.  It is highlighted to the point 
that the police department has declared war 
against our children.  What is even scarier 
is that we as citizens have given them the 
green light to do so.  It is true that some 
of our youth do bad things, but that is true 
of all youth, not just African 
Americans.   
The vast majority of African American 
youth are going to school, looking for 
summer jobs and activities that will keep 
them engaged this summer.  Our children 
need our leadership and direction, not 
whippings from adults.  If I were to beat 
on my son like the police did, I would be 
arrested and probably given prison time.  
A police officer can hurt my son, and it 
is alright because it was a Black boy that 
he beat.

We as citizens need to understand that what 
happens to one of our children, no matter 
what his or her race or culture is, is an 
assault on all of our children. Until the 
police learn how to talk to, treat and relate 
to our children and our community, the kinds 
of negativity that we abhor will continue 
and escalate.  We need officers that come 
from our community�s and have genuine 
relationships with our citizens.  Police 
officers need training on how to work with 
and talk to our people.  We are no longer 
slaves.  African Americans deserve respect 
just as all citizens do.  
 

When the police station was erected on 
Plymouth Avenue, it was sold as a tool to 
better serve the African American community 
and that it would assist in keeping the 
northside safe.  What happened?  The police 
station is locked down, as if the officers 
are afraid of the citizens in the community 
that they are suppose to serve.  When citizen 
are disrespected by the police, how can the 
police expect citizens to be respectful of 
them?  The police on Plymouth Avenue need to 
unlock their doors, get out among the citizens, 
get to know them, and become part of the 
community, not a separate entity that is 
in isolation from and does not work with 
the community.  To make north Minneapolis 
strong and viable the police must work with 
the community to create common solutions 
for the northside.

Citizens of Minneapolis must let the police 
know that beating our children will not 
be tolerated.  An assault on our children 
is an assault on our entire community.  
Force must not be permitted by the police 
unless it is absolutely necessary.  It is 
not the job of the police to determine 
the punishment of any of its citizens; that 
is the job of the courts.  If the police 
break the law, they must be prosecuted and 
treated like any other 
criminal.  

My son�s physical scars will heal.  The 
worst scars that he has are psychological.  
With each punch to my son�s face, the police 
officer on the bike taught my son that the 
police are not his friend.  When the officer 
kicked my son in the stomach he taught my son 
that the police are part of the �thugs� on 
the street.  And with the officer making 
assumptions about my son based on his dress, 
he sent the message that if you are a Black 
male; that the police are against you and 
that they will attack.  This must change.  
It will only change when we as citizens 
demand that it change.  If our tax dollars 
continue to support the police, the police 
must support and protect all of its 
citizens.

Posted by Shawn Lewis, Field Neighborhod





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