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=> What�s New?  Self-Help NEW BOOK RELEASES � December 1-2, 2004
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=> What Are People Reading?  AMAZON.com Top 5 BEST SELLERS for Self Help
=> Book Excerpt:  Beyond the Twelve Steps: Roadmap to a New Life � By Lynn
Grabhorn
=> Book Excerpt:  Spiritual Energy Cycles � By Jackie Woods, Russell Woods
=> Book Review:  Brain Trust: The Hidden Connection Between Mad Cow and
Misdiagnosed Alzheimer's Disease � By Colm A. Kelleher, Ph.D.
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*** BOOK EXCERPT:  Beyond the Twelve Steps: Roadmap to a New Life � By
Lynn Grabhorn ***
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That Precious Reunion 

You have some "time" on the Program. Or, as one might say in more casual
circles, you�ve "been around" a while. You�re at that stage where on one
hand newcomers look up to you as someone who�s �been there,� and on the
other, you feel you can finally hold your own in a conversation with those
blasted, beloved "old timers."

And what�s the Program? Well, it could be any one of the dozens of
Twelve-Step Programs to which millions of us now attribute a better life,
or even being alive. Or both. Alcoholics Anonymous, Cocaine Anonymous,
Al-Anon, Narcotics Anonymous, Adult Children of Alcoholics, Alateen,
Nicotine Anonymous, Debtors Anonymous, or You-Name-It-Anonymous; if you�ve
ever sat through a bunch of meetings in some grungy church basement and
heard, "Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed
these steps . . . ," you�re a Twelve-Stepper.

You feel fairly comfortable on the Program most of the time. Not great,
really, but OK, except for that relentless gnawing. No matter; you have a
moderately good relationship with your Higher Power, you speak at meetings
off and on, and you probably still have one or two "babies" or "pigeons,"
those newcomers who incessantly bug you on the other end of a phone.

Basically, you�ve got it together. You�re sober, or clean, or in a process
of releasing, slimming, whatever. You feel pretty good about your Program
on the whole. You go to an acceptable number of meetings, take a good
Tenth Step now and then, and may even opt for some occasional Twelfth-Step
work when pressed. A model member. But this feeling that there�s something
more just won�t leave you alone. Ninety percent of the time you�re not
even aware of it, but that other ten percent, what is it?

You go about your life pretty much by rote. You wake up in the morning not
flying, but OK, and hit work with the same "hi" to the same boss every
day. You dutifully reach for that scrungy coffee cup with your name on it
and begin your workday after the usual complaints about the coffee�s
quality. You listen to the same, unfunny jokes from the bunch, laugh at
the appropriate spots (God forbid you shouldn�t be one of the troops!),
and make the obligatory comments about Susie�s new dress and how low it�s
cut.

Nothing changes, particularly you. There�s no excitement, no newness.
Maybe you should get more involved with the Program again, maybe get more
newcomers to work with, or put in some hours down at Central Office. Maybe
it�s time for another inventory. Damn! What is it?

Then come the long walks. Are you really looking for something, or is it
just spring fever in January? A new church, or dance group, or study
group, anything new to fill that void. Perhaps you should share the
feeling at a meeting? No, you guess not. How can you talk about a feeling
when you don�t even know what the feeling is you�re feeling?

So what is it? If you really tried, could you put your finger on it?
Empty? Lonely? Or just basically unjazzed? Of course, you don�t want to
look at it too closely because it might be nothing more than midlife
crisis or college doldrums.

Then again, maybe your situation isn�t so subtle. Maybe you�re one of the
"Dear-God-how-did-I-ever-get-myself-into-this-mess-and-if-it-doesn�t-change-soon-I�m-going-to-kill-myself"
group. And you go to meetings, smiling your usual answer to the usual
greetings, "Oh, fine, thanks. I�m just fine."

You keep stuffing the feelings as unrecognizable. After all, you�re sober,
or clean, or releasing, or off cigarettes and card tables, aren�t you?
What else is important? Finally, in shoulder-shrugging resignation, you
conclude it�s probably nothing. After all, your life is a damn sight
better than it was before the Program, and isn�t that what it�s all about?

No! That kind of thinking won�t work any longer. Everything is not fine,
not by a long shot. By capping your feelings, denying what the magnificent
inner voice within you is trying to scream into your sleeping
consciousness, you�re simply stuffing them farther down to fester yet
another day. No, this is definitely not what life is all about.

The Feeling of Aloneness 

Most of us go through life not knowing what we want but being pretty darn
sure this isn�t it. So we walk around with that gnawing feeling of
aloneness. Oh sure, we believe in a Higher Power--out there. We know it�s
always there, ready to interact with us the moment we call to it. But the
problem is we�re forever removing ourselves from that conscious contact
and reverting right back to where we were--empty, separate.

Since we�re certain it would be impossible to stay "plugged in" every
second of every day, the Higher Power gets put on the back burner, ready
for duty when called upon. We go on picking up scraps of joy here and
there in those rare and wonderful moments of carefree living, those
moments of what? Ahh, those moments of not feeling alone!

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*** BOOK EXCERPT:  Spiritual Energy Cycles � By Jackie Woods, Russell
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Chakras, Frequency, Color, Sound!!  Wait!!  Too much to keep track of. 
You�re probably right.  The important concept to grasp is that human
beings are not just static lumps of matter. We are made of energy fields
that affect, and are affected by, the rest of the world.  Our energy
fields have several different levels that interact with each other and our
surroundings.  Our physical bodies, then, are just the hard, innermost
kernel of an onion-like energy field that floats in the sea of energy that
makes up our reality.  Is that better?  At least for now, let�s deal only
with that idea and put names like �auras,� �etheric and astral bodies,�
and any other metaphysical terms you may have heard, aside.
    
So, our bodies are nothing more than energy fields.  Not so hard to
believe.  We all readily admit that matter is energy, and we are matter. 
If we are energy fields, then we exhibit the properties that energy does,
right?  If energy has to flow, then we have to flow.  In fact, a healthy
body is the manifestation of a flowing energy field.  So a blocked or
stagnant energy field would manifest as an injury or disease, right? 
Absolutely.  An affliction of the physical body is caused by a block in
our energy field, held in place by an emotion.  Always.  Sound like a
strong statement?  Why?  If you made lemonade with stagnant water, the
finished product would be rather �diseased� wouldn�t it?
  
But what about dropping a hammer on your foot: how could that be caused by
a block in your energy field?  Well, if you hold your arm near the energy
field of the television screen, the hairs all stand up.  So you know that
energy fields affect their environment.  And we know that energy has this
�magnetic� property.  So what if your field contained the belief (an
energy) that you couldn�t stand up for what was rightfully yours, held in
place by the fear of confronting your boss about a raise?  Couldn�t that
magnetically draw an accident to the part of your body that symbolically
represents standing?
   
OK, here�s the keystone.  If everything is energy, then God or the
Universe or whatever your idea of perfection is, is also energy.  So, as
energy beings, we are all part of that perfection.  We are all made of the
same energy as the rest of the Universe (God included), so we are all
connected.  This is where the idea of Universal Oneness comes from which
we have learned to associate with shaved-headed monks in some monastery in
Tibet.
   
Now, when I say we are all made of the same energy, I am not trying to
imply that we have no differences.  For instance, the Atlantic and Pacific
Oceans are obviously connected and, really, made up of the exact same
water, but they have many different characteristics: direction of
currents, frequency of storms, temperature, etc.  Because they are
different expressions of the same thing, we think of them as separate
entities; as energy beings, we are the same way.  If we
accept this concept of connectedness, it makes it much easier to imagine
that changes in our energy fields would lead to changes in the flow of
energy that is creating the circumstances in our lives.  After all,
raising the water temperature in the Atlantic by even a few degrees would
eventually affect the quantity and quality of marine life in the Pacific.
   
Obviously, in the earlier example about the raise and the hammer, it would
be ludicrous for a being which is part of Perfection to not have the
strength or the right to stand up for what they deserve. So, we see that a
block in energy flow is really an Untruth.  In fact, all the Untruths that
end up as blocks in our energy fields - �I�m not good enough,� �I can�t
get what I need,� �I�ll always be alone,� etc. - are really just
variations of the central Untruth that we are not part of that Perfection
or God-Energy.  Nevertheless we hold these untruths in all four of our
bodies, Physical, Emotional, Mental, and Spiritual, all the time, and the
manifestation of these blocks into our world causes us much pain and
suffering.  In this book we are going to look at how to change this
process.

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* Spiritual Energy Cycles has an on-line book discussion for those seeking
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*** BOOK REVIEW:  Brain Trust: The Hidden Connection Between Mad Cow and
Misdiagnosed Alzheimer's Disease � By Colm A. Kelleher, Ph.D. ***
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When the cattle-borne sickness known as Mad Cow Disease first appeared in
America in 2003, authorities were quick to assure the nation that the
outbreak was isolated, quarantined, and posed absolutely no danger to the
general public.

What we were not told was that the origins of the sickness may already
have been here and suspected for a quarter of a century.

This illuminating expos� of the threat to our nation's health reveals for
the first time how Mad Cow Disease (a.k.a. Bovine Spongiform
Encephalopathy) has jumped species, infecting humans in the form of
Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease (CJD), and may be hidden in the enormous
increase in the number of Alzheimer's cases since 1979.

Detailing the history and biology of Mad Cow Disease, Brain Trust
discloses how an investigation into the mysterious deaths in a group of
cannibals in a remote part of the world evolved into a research program in
the United States that may have had unforeseen and frightening
consequences.

The shocking questions examined include:

- Have millions of Americans already been exposed to the prions known to
cause Mad Cow Disease through years of eating tainted beef?

- Does the epidemic of prion disease spreading like wildfire through the
nation's deer and elk pose a threat to hunters and venison eaters?

- Are the cattle mutilations discovered in the last 30 years part of a
covert, illegal sampling program designed to learn how far the deadly
prions have spread throughout the nation's livestock and beef products?

Exposing the devastating truth about Mad Cow Disease and a new theory of
the possible consequences of a little-known government research program
and the potential national health catastrophe that may be the result,
Brain Trust inoculates Americans with an effective cure: the truth.

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