We
had yesterday, in our run-up to Valentine Day, given crucial tips for
wimmen of our city to look irresistible on their date. But did you,
just in case, spend the evening being choosy and hesitant to go unless
you got the perfect date. Well, all you need is some simple
me-building. Read on, as we bring you tips on to master the dating
game, for the season of love is still on!
Reach Out
If
you're locked up all day within the confines of your office and head
back straight home right after, and watch endless re-reruns of Friends,
then there's no way to remedy your single status. And the law of
probability states that the more people you meet, the more likely
you're going to meet Mr Right. So, get out there! Join the gym, be part
of a reading club, shake a leg at your local dance class or give back
to society by being part of a social service organisation. The options
are many, just step out of your cocoon. And stop saying 'no' to ever
guy who approaches you. Remember, dating even the wrong guy will help
you figure out what you really want. After all, you can only go forward
and learn from the past.
Sexy v/s slutty
After
all you have to love yourself before he falls head over heels in love
with you. So, pamper yourself, get a facial, a blow-dry or a Brazilian
(ouch! no pain without gain, is there?). Feel like a diva, and you'll
soon be sending out the correct vibe. Then again, don't over do it.
Grab his attention by being chic but not slutty. Here's a simple rule
to follow when dressing up for a date – If you mother would wear it
then you shouldn't and if your daughter would wear it, then you
definitely shouldn't!
Confident but not cocky
Think
about it, every guy you've ever been attracted to seemed self-assured.
And that's what most guys dig as well. If you feel good about yourself,
it shows through and is appealing to others too. Then again, you've got
a thin line to walk because nothing puts people off like over
confidence. If you're constantly boasting about how you get asked out
constantly, then you're just being plain cocky. Re-vamp that attitude,
girl!
Be yourself
Drop
the act. Let him see the real you. Often on first dates we make claims
that are far from the truth (remember the time you told that guy you
knew everything about cars? Truth is you don't even know the horsepower
on you own vehicle!) Don't talk yourself up or down – just be yourself.
Be a good listener
Here's
the error most of us make. We talk too much and our favourite topic is
'ourselves'. Try not to dominate every conversation, instead try and
ask him open-ended questions and get him to talk as well. On the flip
side, don't be too quiet, you'll just be branded 'boring'. While asking
questions is a great way of getting to know your date, firing questions
one after another will definitely make him feel uncomfortable. Instead
go with the natural flow of the conversation.
Is the chemistry there?
This
is something you've got to figure out for yourself.. Say, you met a guy
who your parents absolutely love. But he's not your type at all. And
there's no chemistry there and no chance that things will change. Then
don't try to make yourself fall in love. Move on.
Now, let's
say you meet someone and you had a great time together. But, the sparks
don't fly. Not instantly at least. Then hold on for a bit and give
things a shot.
Don’t think too far ahead
How
often have you gone on a first date and come back mentally planning
your wedding dress? Stop right now! Guys can sense when you're planning
too far into the future and that scares the s$%& out of most of
them. Stay in the moment and enjoy it while it lasts. Who knows, you
could find Mr Perfect tomorrow and your dating days could be over.
The options are many, just step out of your cocoon... remember, dating the
wrong guy will help you know what you really want
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