Choosing the stick - when I first put the stick in the centre of the circle and invite people to pick it up if there is something they'd like to say, there's always that pregnant pause. I've never had anyone jump on the stick (yet!) like they sometimes jump on the markers at the beginning of day one.
Some people pick it up reverently and carefully, and replace it just the same. Others pick it up like a loose football and toss it back when they're done. Some groups will only pick up the stick once, and it's a fairly solemn experience. With my group last week, there were some playoff-hockey jests made back and forth, several individuals holding the stick three and four times - yet they used the stick each time, no one speaking out of turn. Some hold it like a torch or a baton, tightly gripped in one hand. Others seem almost to caress it, noticing the texture and brailling it as they speak. Is the difference between a "talking stick" and a "listening stick" philosophical or semantic, Doug? Would I notice a difference were I refer to it as the latter? Would I and the attendees perhaps react with it differently if it were named differently? Phil Culhane -----Original Message----- From: OSLIST [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Douglas D. Germann, Sr. Sent: April 26, 2004 11:23 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Summary of a recent single-day event Phil-- Sure, I'd love to talk about the listening stick! Tell us, please, what you mean by "choosing the stick?" :-Doug. Germann * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected]: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected]: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist
