I'm glad, we came to agreement... is seems, just kidding, and still thank
you for your thoughts!
Michael,
I've heard from Peggy Holman a couple of years ago, that you were ready to
come to Siberia... aren't you now?
welcome.... and I love your text book for training for OS though Joelle did
not allow me to make a copy of it without your permission even when I told
her that I can not use it in Russia without translation and for using I will
ask your permission. What do you think of coming, of preparing your
textbook in Russian...
and thank you again for your great work and support.
best wishes
elena
----- Original Message -----
From: "Michael Herman" <[email protected]>
To: <[email protected]>
Sent: Sunday, May 30, 2004 11:42 PM
Subject: Re: speaking with Lena Marchuk and more
yes, exactly, elena! this is the clarity and the punchline that i did
not quite get to in my long posting... thank you! we just do what we
can. it's all space. and as we open ourselves, we open more of it, for
everyone. little bit, little bit, little bit... merrily merrily
merrily... <grin> michaelh
Elena A. Marchuk wrote:
Hi Raffi,
just do it... OS is the great technology and I use it with my great
love...
you can not solve the problems of people untill they start to solve them
themselves...
just do what you can and how you can help, and the 'holding the space' is
what sometimes people need though... they don't feel you are making the
great deal...
don't worry, be happy
best wishes
elena
----- Original Message -----
From: Raffi Aftandelian
To: [email protected]
Sent: Sunday, May 30, 2004 6:44 PM
Subject: Re: speaking with Lena Marchuk and more
Dear Harrison, Lena, and anyone else who has survived (like me!)
scrolling through lots of html (aargh!) in their OSlist message,
Thank you for your replies. For me, there are several ways to reach the
unspeakable, as Tova Averbuch put it. What we as a
group/community/organization want to achieve. It is hard for me to fathom
that OS is THE way.
On a gut level, I know that offering OS to organizations is part of my
path, not the whole path. And my questions, doubts about OS help bring me to
a more nuanced and careful yet passionate and interested place (in my
attitude towards the technology).
I think it is hard to say at this point if OS "works" or doesn't work
here in Russia. While a lot of different people use OS, there isn't yet a
virtual community of Russian-speaking OS'ers. We had a listserv; and Elena
liked my nickname for us: "the silent community". That was because no one
posted. I attribute the non-posting and non-existence of a Russian-speaking
OS community -- real or virtual-- mostly to a lack of trust overall in the
former Soviet Union. It is hard for me not to have judgement about this,
because I have essentially chosen to make Russia my home. Maybe at some
point I'll want to go back to what I call Bushastan (hence its citizens are
Bushastanis, pardon the phrase). So, I think the verdict is out. One of the
values of OS and FS here, I think, is that these approaches build up that
key ingredient between people: trust.
In terms of OS working (while all the pre-work conditions you describe
happen), that's an important point. Risking making a generalization, I think
that level of thoroughness does not happen. In other words, I work really
hard with clients so that these conditions (doing the preparation work
fully) are observed and it is rare that I feel it has been done adequately.
But I do think there may be something to OS being "oversold" as a
mentor and colleague put it. I am not sure I can develop the thought. As an
analogy, I think of NLP. Now, I have never been trained in NLP, but I have
read a number of books by its "founders" and have a friend and colleague who
consciously uses NLP as an English teacher and interpreter. Initially, the
NLP crowd poo-poo'd other therapeutic approaches, specifically humanistic
ones. That therapists kept clients for years dealing with problems that
could be solved in a single session. Now that may have true, but NLP in
psychotherapy is not the answer to everything.
And I am not sure OS is the answer to everything even when the basic
conditions- presence of passion, space "open", etc.- are met. But I am
loving the exploration for now and I do it with heart!
On a side note, is there any way of setting up receiving the OSlist
digest so that I just get text and no html code?
Best,
Raffi
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