Thank you Carmela for your beautiful poem

What a nice way to start the week end lightly !

Warmest thoughts, béatrice

 

 

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[mailto:oslist-boun...@lists.openspacetech.org] De la part de Carmela Ariza
Envoyé : samedi 10 août 2013 03:33
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Objet : Re: [OSList] Certification?

 

Dear HO and the rest of OS loving colleagues,

 

While reading again fully and partly the sharing/discussion on certification 
and now this - point of Harrison on "I will be the first to cheer the departure 
of OST...." 

 

Somehow my poem that I wrote this morning resonates with the ongoing 
discussion. Allow me to share this....

 

Holding Things Lightly
by: Carmela Ariza
5:55AM, 10 August 2013

Allow me 
To hold things lightly
For when I cling to them 
I loose sight 
Of the more beautiful
Of the more important
And the more fulfilling 
Things in life

When I have an idea
Give me the wisdom
To hold it lightly
That I may give room
For this idea to grow
Along with other ideas
Acknowledging 
Collective wisdom

When I have an opinion
Whether about an issue
Or about a person
Or even an event
Allow me to hold this opinion
Lightly
So that I could lend an ear
To other opinions I hear

When I have something
I call my favorite thing
Allow me to hold it lightly
So that I will not hold it 
Too tightly
Grasping for more
Never letting go
Hurting myself or others

When I hold someone dearly
Allow me to relax my grip
On the one I love
So that she may grow
Through and with others
Affirming my part
As well as the role of others
In forming and shaping my beloved

When I am so attached to my life
Allow me to see beyond this life
And when the end is near
I shall gracefully exit
Not fearing 
Nor doubting
That this road ahead
Is where I am meant to be

Help me to hold things lightly
Suspending my thoughts 
Making space for something new 
Stepping back 
Taking a different view
Confirming, disconfirming
Breathing in, breathing out

Simply letting go 

 

All the best to all! Have a good weekend!

 

Carms

 

 

If there is to be any peace it will come through being, not having. -- Henry 
Miller

  _____  

From: Harrison Owen < <mailto:hho...@verizon.net> hho...@verizon.net>
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Subject: Re: [OSList] Certification?

 

Paul – it ain’t Dogma – just experience. If the experience changes, change the 
story. And that is what we are – Story Tellers. And the Tale has yet to be 
fully told. One thing I am absolutely clear about. We didn’t invent it. And 
certainly I didn’t invent it. Been going on for 14.7 billion years, and we are 
just catching up – just barely. Wherever it happens is the right place. We just 
have to keep out eyes open. And Be prepared to be surprised. I will be the 
first to cheer the departure of Open Space Technology. It is, and always has 
been in my mind a “half-way technology.” Something we do until we can easily 
and openly do the real thing. Which paradoxically is nothing new and nothing 
strange. Just what we do, and what we are. So relax Paul... the story is just 
getting started....

 

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mailto:oslist-boun...@lists.openspacetech.org] On Behalf Of paul levy
Sent: Friday, August 09, 2013 7:23 PM
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Subject: Re: [OSList] Certification?

 

The problem, dear colleagues, is that if you fix this as dogma...

 

For me it all comes down to this:

·         5 Conditions of Use

·         A few logistics

·         Circle

·         5 Principles

·         Law of 2 feet

·         Be Prepared to be Surprised

·         Trust the People

... Then you have killed the space for change. What Harrison calls (also 
dogmatically) "the genuine article" sets up a tragic polarity between genuine 
or NOT genuine.

 

George W Bush did the same in the Iraq war: "Either you are with us or you are 
against us"

 

Harrison will take this "genuine article" dogma to his grave. Shame. 

 

Certification even arises at all because of this false dogma. It has drawn it 
in by becoming a blueprint. Oh dear.

 

There is no genuine article other than what we create in the moment of need and 
service. If we rediscover Open Space in the same format 25,000 times then it 
still isn't a rule or a dogma of genuineness. It simply the beauty if what it 
is. 

 

It's an act of beautiful magic, renewed and new in the emerging now.

 

Stop with the minimum lists already!

 

Burn the user guide. Just for the hell of it. Forget it all. Then go to work. 
Watch the circle form. Watch open space technology escape again, breathing 
better and fresher - possibly in the same form, possible it might surprise you.

 

Paul 

On Friday, 9 August 2013, Suzanne Daigle wrote:

Certification, it keeps coming up and most likely it will keep coming up as 
more and more people experience Open Space. 

My story is that perhaps if there had been certification in 2009, I might not 
have jumped in as I did, recklessly and blissfully. In that first 12 to 16 
months, I committed to one Open Space a month.  And oh my, it was the best 
training ground ever. I know I botched it up many times, forgetting to say 
something, not being as clear in my instructions or worse, feeling so darn 
nervous with that dark shadow of control and desire for a predictable outcome 
still in my being.  Funny thing is; I can confidently assert that it didn’t 
make a darn bit of difference. The space opened and people found each other and 
soon forgot the facilitator was ever there, except at the close and then only 
for a brief minute or two.  It was again their turn to speak.

In the weeks and months preceding WOSonOS 2013, a big gang of Millennials got 
to experience Open Space.  It rocked their world as it had rocked mine and they 
are now running with it.  Early on, one USFSP student couldn’t wait to 
integrate it into one of his study groups.  What happened is probably nothing 
like Open Space. As he tells it, he arrived late, explained it in a rush and 
somehow students got it, whatever version of Open Space that might have been.  
Today that same guy is eating and sleeping Open Space; he invented stuff for 
the newsroom at WOSonOS and keeps making plans on how he and others will be 
bringing Open Space to student government and community.  He is not alone; 
others are just as ignited.

For me it all comes down to this: 

·         5 Conditions of Use

·         A few logistics 

·         Circle

·         5 Principles

·         Law of 2 feet

·         Be Prepared to be Surprised

·         Trust the People

The simplicity of it all still astounds!

An invitation to see life and be in life, with all its beauty, awe and wonder! 
Infinite and indescribable!

Timeless in the awareness it has created in me, how it has enriched my life 
with others, in the doing and not doing. 

>From clarity to confusion, from knowing to not knowing, from joy to sadness, 
>hope and despair…it’s all there like breathing in and breathing out. 

Oh the twist of fate, the serendipity that led me to Open Space or Open Space 
to me!  It was not even a real Open Space, just enough to spark something that 
made me long to know more.  

How grateful I am to have met OS. How appreciative to have stood on the 
shoulders of giants who came before me and who are here in this community.  And 
how much I want others and everyone to “experience” it too; however they 
experience it, wherever it leads them!

In the spirit of “one less thing to do” that is embodied in Open Space, it is 
where I believe we find that 1% sweet spot that ignites it all: the individual 
and collective “passion” and “responsibility” that leads to the life cycles of 
high performance that is in nature everywhere around us.  By opening space and 
doing less, we are clearing the space for what matters most.

How can we certify that? It does not even really exist.  It’s just life. 

This is what the “certification conversation” inspired in me as I felt the 
knots in my stomach, the old confusions surfacing, and the feeling of so much 
to do that I’m not doing, so much more to know that I don’t know.  The “not 
good enough story” that struggles to re-emerge poked its ugly head out. 

So I had to reground myself once again, to the sheer simplicity of Open Space.

Am I “being” this way yet? Heck no! But maybe by reminding myself a bit more 
every day and speaking it out loud,  I will do less and say less (on that I 
have a long way to go).  When there is pain in the world, it is awfully 
difficult to believe that doing less is for the best.  

I’ll take a glass of Pinot Noir now if there’s any left. 

Suzanne

 

 

On Fri, Aug 9, 2013 at 1:37 PM, Chris Corrigan <chris.corri...@gmail.com> wrote:

Hiya ,Chris!

 

I have no trouble with givens as a practice. I learned that from Birgitt too 
although these days i talk about it as working in context. For me it is all 
part of setting the container for the work. In the Art of Hosting workshops 
many of us do we spend a lot of time on design, reasoning that the methods are 
simple actually but understanding the pre and post meeting work, working with 
the context and setting and holding a container for cocreation are essential to 
good work getting done. 

 

I have no problem with people receiving certificates for attending workshops 
but one simply can't guarantee performance with certification in this field. 

 

Pass the wine. 

 

C

-- 

CHRIS CORRIGAN

Harvest Moon Consultants

www.chriscorrigan.com <http://www.chriscorrigan.com/> 

 

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and Social Collaboration, Bowen Island, BC November 11-14,2013


On 2013-08-09, at 12:48 AM, "ei...@gatewayc.com" <ei...@gatewayc.com> wrote:

Dear Chris I agree about all you said, especially about the givens. I would 
even dare to say that the prework and the discussion there is what opens the 
space. What I do at the beginning of an OST meeting is ritual, also important 
but still ritual. 
Thanks for your story.
Eiwor

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Greetings All,

 

Ah, I can't resist jumping in to stir the pot.  It is an honor to join a thread 
peopled by so many folks whom I respect (and appreciate and love) so much.  I 
invite you to settle in for rather a long story, which may, at some point, have 
something to do with "certification."

 

After learning of Open Space in Anne Stadler's kitchen, I walked around as a 
newbie at the OSonOS in Monterrey (the one fifteen years ago, from which 
Harrison was unexpectedly absent, due to a nasty flu, I believe), with my jaw 
hanging open to meet so many bold and brilliant facilitators (I remember 
especially Michael P, Alan Stewart, Brian Bainbridge, Roxy, and Birgitt Bolton) 
sharing stories that I sweetly strove to wrap my head at least half-way around.

 

For a few years I engaged actively on the OSLIST as I began to facilitate some 
OST meetings (without even "finishing the book," as I recall) in the Seattle 
school where I worked as a teacher.  In 1999 I landed here in North Carolina, 
where I attended my first OST workshop as part of the Genuine Contact Program 
with Birgitt (Bolton) Williams who had recently landed a few hours away.

 

Now I will say that I have an assumption only that at around that time there 
was something of a "falling out" between Birgitt and her work and the work of 
some other OS facilitators.  I do not know, nor need to know, the details.  But 
I do know that there are some points of practice that have generated some 
heated passion in the community and that I think are worthy of putting on the 
storytelling table.  (I know that there is not supposed to be a table, but I 
suddenly imagine myself with Jeff, Chris, Peggy, Harrison, Michael in a pub 
somewhere with a rough wooden table, on which I am happily uncorking a bottle 
of pinot noir.)

 

When I completed the Genuine Contact "Working with OST" workshop, I received a 
certificate, but not a certification.  (The distinction is important because 
there was no intention on the workshop leader's part to evaluate my 
"competence" in any way.)  Based on my participation in the four-day 
experience, I could, if I cho

Suzanne Daigle
NuFocus Strategic Group
7159 Victoria Circle
University Park, FL 34201
FL 941-359-8877;  
CT 203-722-2009
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