Helen she could also try Birthrites - http://birthrites.edsite.com.au/
There are subgroups in all the major cities where women can talk about their experiences and get info off others who have been through it too.
Birthrites helped me to deal with my traumatic csec and to plan for my 1st VBAC. By the 2nd VBAC I was helping others.
Debby
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