Hi
Sonia,
Those
flashbacks are quite normal given the trauma you experienced. Sounds as if you
have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (although it is quite a normal reaction
given the injury your baby received and what you went
through).
I had
flashbacks of Liam's birth and still do but they aren't as bad now because I've
had plenty of opportunities to debrief.
I felt
sad upon Liam's birthdays but I usually just took a little time out for myself
to think about it and then got back in the swing of things. It is hard.
Supressing the negative just makes the injury worse in my books. You need to
acknowledge that you were hurt and your baby was hurt but also acknowledge that
you still have each other.
If you
want to chat some more just email me off list.
Cheers,
Cas.
Cas McCullough
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RE: [ozmidwifery] Birth trauma anniversary
Wayne and Caroline McCullough Mon, 24 Nov 2003 03:25:25 -0800
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- [ozmidwifery] Birth trauma anniversary *G and S*
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