> Incidentally, when gays speak among themselves, do they speak of "anal > sex" or "asshole sex"? Or do they use other expressions altogether? >
I believe the term is "getting fucked" or just "fucking." One expression I like is "getting plowed," though I rarely hear someone who's a top say "plowing." They are more likely to say fucking or "getting a piece of ass." There are many other permutations, depending on situation, audience, etc. Christian.