> You can tell people why they shouldn't feel a certain way, but
> preventing them from expressing their feelings is usually a bad thing,
> unless their expression is hurting other people. (Hurting my feelings
> is OK.)
>
> I usually sit back until everyone's cards/feelings are on the table, and
> then decide if my saying anything will help or hurt.
Oh, one more thing. I jump right into discussions if I can find a joke
in the situation. :-)
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