I think its telling that varying the fetch size doubled the performance, even on localhost. If you were to repeat this test across a network, the performance difference would be far more drastic.
I understand the desire to keep the fetch size small by default, but I think your results demonstrate how important the value is. At the very least, it is worth reconsidering this "arbitrary" value. However, I think the real solution is to make this configurable. It probably should be a new option on the foreign server or table, but an argument could be made for it to be global across the server just like work_mem. Obviously, this shouldn't block your current patch but its worth revisiting. - Matt Kelly
