On Mon, 2011-05-02 at 12:06 -0600, Ryan Simpkins wrote:
> If you'd like to discuss these things with non-FOSSy type geeks, non-nerds,
> non-misfits (fits?), and social extroverts - wrong place. Oddly enough, many
> of us managed to get married... so I'm not sure how socially introverted geeks
> really are. Even Linus, the flame-fest geek king, managed to get married after
> spending 3 years in a drunken, non-stop, bathrobe laden, coding fest. Of
> course, Tove did have to e-mail him to ask him out. ;-)

I don't buy into the whole intro-/extrovert thing anymore. I used to
think I was an introvert, but eventually discovered that under the right
circumstances I'm an extrovert. I have a harder time relating to
"normal" people, but that's just because they're not my people. Linux is
my native culture, but I'm also comfortable with many other groups that
were treated as outcasts in High School.

I recognize that some people are more capable of entertaining themselves
than other, and therefore some people are more inclined to need regular
human contact. I also recognize that Asperges and such makes it harder
for some to interact socially. But I reject the idea that "extroverts
enjoy being around people" and "introverts don't enjoy being around
other people". Instead, I would argue that "if you think you're an
introvert, you haven't found your people yet".


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