Mail in queue - qmail won't quit

[Thomas Foerster]

HI !

I have a mail in my queue to [EMAIL PROTECTED]
qmail trys to deliver it since 10 minutes without an error..
if i try to connect to the mailer of intracen.org (do a nslookup on the
MX),
i can connect but there is no response.

qmail can't quit, he waits until the mail is delivered.

How can i set a timeout?
How can i delete this ("/§"= message?!? (i tried qmHandle ..)

Thomas