Could someone please tell me...
Could you maybe post from an email address that can accept replies? I tried to answer you, but you use some system that bounces everyone's email unless they "sign up" with some system of yours. No, I won't play that game just to explain why your accusations are off base.
Get a real email address, please, and use it. While this system you're using may save you time in terms of junk mail, it really just shifts the time burden to folks you seem to want to have correspond with you. No thanks.
Dan
