Re: [QUAD-L] sexual Frustration

[B. Kimberlin]

Houston,

You have brought up an interesting point which I was meaning to ask everyone. I understand the prostate gland produces the sperm and when there is too much sperm it exits somebody in the form of what many people call a "wet dream." I am wondering if I am having "wet dreams" when I have dreams about sex. I have noticed an increased amount of sediment after these dreams and in fact it typically causes a decrease in my catheters ability to successfully during urine from my bladder and eventually clogs up.

Billy

Houston809 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

I'm still horny and enjoying sex even though I'm not coming but than again I
am:) I see it in my urine bag the next day. I don't need any more kids and I
now know that me coming which was my climax isn't what making love was
about ... It is what sex was about ... Nahhhh I'd have 2 say give me bladder
and especially bowel control ... There's nothing like being on a bus going
downtown and having a major blowup. Stinking the whole bus up :) well that's
aight:) I enjoy seeing the faces on the people tryin 2 figure out where the
smells coming from. I look around also like I'm tryin 2 figure it out. :)
the downside having 2 wait an hr 2 catch the bus back from downtown, having
2 call the agency 2 find someone 2 come clean me up. So now I'm sitting in
this mess stinking 2 high heavens for several hrs or more & I've gone thru 2
flap surgeries so t! he mental stress is the worse part of it. Every time I
breath I'm thinking that this is going 2 open an area that will tunnel & put
me on bed rest again. I can't stand staying in bed I get up even when I'm
not feeling well :)

On 12/27/04 4:37 PM, "Brian Stocker" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:

> I have a woman for 20 years, I am 42, but I no
> longer enjoy sex. I can take viagra, she can sit
> on me and stuff, but because I am unable to come,
> the whole thing is not very special. I have
> always been VERY, auto erotic and have had sex
> with myself 90% of the time, always ending with a
> big BANG. In the absence of this and the complete
> disconnect, of not ever feeling horny, it's not
> very pleasurable.
>
> I would rather have full sexual function than
> bowel/bladder control,
>
> What do you guys think?
>
> Liz wrote:
>> My man is extremely satisfied.
! >>
>> a quad woman
>>
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: Stacy Harim
>> To: andrea murray
>> Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:57 PM
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
>>
>> It is true that quad men are know for their abilities in the
>> bedroom. They are said to know how to really please a woman. Never
>> heard it the other way around before.
>>
>> Stacy
>>
>> ----- Original MessIage -----
>> From: andrea murray
>> To: Stacy Harim
>> Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:52 PM
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
>>
&! gt;> Thanks Stacy, You have shared your feeling about us women. I
>> know that the men on the quid list is not superficial, but they
>> do not thank about the quad women. How we feel! I just want to
>> be held and love by a man I love. But, every time I think me
>> soul mate is found he disappeared. How do us girl get good
>> feeling about ourselfs? What do you guys want from us? We don't
>> have the thumb. Wheelchair Warrior Andrea
>>
>> Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
>>
>> I'm sorry. I know that. I should have said most. I know
>> also that you guys here on the list aren't. I apologize for
>> saying it because I knew when I said it that ALL men AREN'T
>> superficial.
>>
>> can you find in your heart to forgive me?Embarrassed smiley
>> emoticon,
>> Stacy
>>
>> ----- Original Message ----->> From: Martin T. Brown
>> To: Stacy Harim ;
>> Steve Oldaker ; andrea
>> murray
>> Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 3:52 AM
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
>>
>> [quote] Men are superficial. They just think we can't
>> have sex, therefore they can't get off. [/quote]
>>
>> Stacy don't swing this term above imposing that all men
>> are superficial, we are not.
>>
>> QuadMedic
>>
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: Stacy Harim
>> To: Steve Oldaker ;
>> andrea murray
>> Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 10:05 AM
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
>>
>> What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the
>> prime of my life at 30. I'm not a beauty queen, but
>> I think that I am an attractive person. I used to
>> get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk
>> about how you have had girlfriends, partners,
>> wives. A lot of women like men in chairs because
>> they feel less threatened. Men are superficial.
>> They just think we can't have sex, therefore they
>> can't get off. I go out on occasion. Before I got
>> sick I used to get hit on all the time and get
>> drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I haven't
>> had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got
>> sick. Socializing and talking to new people is not
>> a problem and I am a very approac! hable person. I
>> have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out.
>> We never sit at a table. We are always at the bar
>> or in the general area. Never have our backs to
>> people. I know the chances of meeting my soul mate
>> in a ! bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even
>> look twice.
>>
>> It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party
>> at a rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and
>> I were up there dancing and some woman came up and
>> started dancing with me, holding my hands and
>> treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling
>> my friend who is also a girl how pretty I was. It
>> was so funny. I was cracking up. Trying to pull my
>> hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was pretty strange.
>>
>> Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you,
>> Stacy
>>
>> ----- Original Mes! sage -----
>> From: andrea murray
>>
>> To: Steve Oldaker
>> Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
>>
>> Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09 PM
>> Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration
>>
>> Billy,
>> Sexual frustration is the big problem for me
>> too. First of all be being a women with a
>> disability is really hard to get a man to just
>> to see you as being sexual. Even men with a
>> disability want a non-disability women. Like
>> Steve if you gave the slution PLEASE let me know.
>> Wheelchair Warrior
>>
>> Steve Oldaker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> > wrote:
>>
>> Billy...
>>
>> Do I suffer sexual frustration? Only daily,
>> many times...
>>
>> If you find the solution, share it with the
>> group!
>>
>> Steve
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: B. Kimberlin
>> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 8:39 PM
>> To: Quad
>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Frustration
>>
>> This is a serious question, not to
>> insinuate that other questions are not,
>> but I recall one individual who was so
>> preoccupied with sex that I felt
>> compelled to leave the site for a short
>> amount of time just to get away from
>> him. Anyway, does anyone else on here
>> suffer from bouts of extreme sexual
>> frustration? I frequently attribute this
>> frustration to a lack of female
>> companionship, but it is often very
>> difficult to concentrate on other things
>> when I become fixated on! this particular
>> subject. Any suggestions?
>>
>> Billy
>>
>>
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