I like the fact people have different feelings and express them on here about being a quad It depresses me when all I read is people saying that life is better since they have been paralyzed and everything is wonderful. I get energized when I hear the real stories of people making is through the struggles and making some good out of it. Bobbie is alright, shes rolling along getting her chair ordered and dealing with everyday life.........she just expresses her frustration along the way......and thats ok with me. As long as your moving forward as best you can a few cuss words are in order.
ron c7 ________________________________ From: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> To: [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected] Sent: Sun, August 26, 2012 2:13:57 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Re: [quad] list. Being a quad you didn't. it's just that a very small number here have rotten attidudes! Well said Larry I was just frustrated when I wrote that's are so right tho and I know theirs is some one worse off then me alls I'm able to do is shrug my shoulders but Larry hit the nail right on the head !!!!!!!sorry to cause such a fuse !!!! > -----Original Message----- From: Toby Ausbun <[email protected]> To: Larry Willis <[email protected]> Cc: quad-list <[email protected]> Sent: Sat, Aug 25, 2012 1:28 pm Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Re: [quad] list. Being a quad Well said Larry I was just frustrated when I wrote that's are so right tho and I know theirs is some one worse off then me alls I'm able to do is shrug my shoulders but Larry hit the nail right on the head !!!!!!!sorry to cause such a fuse !!!! Sent from my iPad On Aug 25, 2012, at 9:54 AM, Larry Willis <[email protected]> wrote: The old adage that "It could be worse" is so very true. However, that doesn't mean we shouldn't grieve our loss or vent our frustrations. All of us on the list drew the short straw and I imagine all of us get mad as hell over the unfairness of it all. I appreciate the little movement I have but I don't feel blessed because some other poor soul is in worse shape. Quadom is a bit of hell that simply varies in degree. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy (if I had one). Thanks, my friends, for letting me rant. Have a great day. > >Sent from my iPad > >Begin forwarded message: > > >Resent-From: [email protected] >>From: "Joan Anglin" <[email protected]> >>Date: August 25, 2012 12:10:30 AM EDT >>To: "'Toby Ausbun'" <[email protected]>, <[email protected]> >>Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Re: [quad] list. Being a quad >> >> Hi Toby >I didn’t take it as complaining but more as a statement of fact and wishing >for >more. We have been talking about our limitations and frustrations for many >years for some of us on this list. >I only have shoulder shrugs as a C4 complete, but do know of other C4 >completes >that have more. So we use what we can and learn to make do and have shared >many >unusual fixes and adaptions over the years which have helped each other. This >is one place we can whine and know that somebody out there has been in the >same >spot and can have some empathy for what we have and what we have lost. >I have always wished for one arm and a somewhat working hand, and to heck with >ever walking again because I never need to look for a chair to sit in. JEach >of >us wants different things, and each of us mourns about different things but >we’re all united by our handicaps in some way. Thank goodness for each of our >uniqueness. >Good to see you on the list. >Joan C4 1990 in smoky Reno Nevada due to the California fires

