Hi All,
I have a neighbor, Jill, who lives across the hall and is 57. She has a
debilitating progressive illness and is in quite a bit of pain. Yesterday I
went to visit her and met and aid that she has now who is a bundle of sunshine
and genuinely kind and considerate. Jill has complained about every single aid
she has ever had and now she is complaining to me about the aid I just met.
I'm trying to tell her how to be positive to get the positive back to make
a bad situation better, but she does not see this. Does anybody know of an
example or a story I can tell her that will wake her up and see that what she
has is great And not to take it for granted? Jill is constantly looking for the
greener side of the grass and not seeing how greenIs right now. I tried to tell
her that it could be so very much more worse.
Jill is so very very close to be entering a nursing home for the rest of her
life. This afternoon she had a bad bowel accident in her bathroom and is just
devastated and degradingly embarrassed as we all know.
I'm thinking that tomorrow would be a better time to talk to her. But I'm
asking you all if you can tell me any kind of magic story for her?
Bobbie
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