In Louisiana there is a FAcebook group called Louisiana Scrubs where CNA’s, 
LPN’s and RN’s discuss job opportunities and sometimes potential employers 
post. 

I just checked and there is also an Arizona Scrubs also. 

Best wishes on your search! 

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>> On Feb 19, 2020, at 1:55 PM, Eric Olson <whee...@wi.rr.com> wrote:
> 
> Sorry you're having trouble finding someone.  I had this site bookmarked.  
> http://assistantpages.com/  Not sure it will help.  How local is this paper?  
> I think you should think about expanding your search area. I get where you're 
> coming from about using the word quadriplegic.  It can make you a target but 
> it's not really something you want to spring on a potential caregiver either. 
>  Wish you luck 
> 
>> On Tue, Feb 18, 2020 at 3:18 PM Lori Michaelson <lorilivin...@gmail.com> 
>> wrote:
>> Okay, only one member on here knows of my situation (Dana) but I really need 
>> to ask a question.
>> 
>> I have been on my own for the last 40 years as a high-level quad. I have 
>> always lived with family except over the last 4 years whereby I found a 
>> live-in caregiver that I could afford.  Now the live-in caregiver I have had 
>> over the last 4 years users moving on and out-of-state. In our original 
>> contract if either of us were moving on we had to give the other person a 90 
>> day written notice. She gave me a good 6 months notice so I've started 
>> advertising in January.
>> 
>> I found her via craigslist when I was in Pennsylvania living with family who 
>> wanted me to move on when they knew I had nowhere to go. Absolutely nowhere 
>> and I was not going to move into a nursing home. I had a beautiful support 
>> dog and I would NOT survive in a nursing home anyway. All of my caregivers 
>> over the years know that I would not survive  in a nursing home 2 months and 
>> I know that as well with my needs.
>> 
>> Unfortunately or fortunately, I am not eligible for state help and that is 
>> because I received my Social Security from working, my husband's Social 
>> Security, a big savings account for so many reasons (I need a lot of dental 
>> work, I need to be able to have a co-pay for a new caregiver and so many 
>> other reasons) as well as my husband investing before he passed away. 
>> "Spending down" is like committing financial suicide because I don't think 
>> versions of Medicaid is going to last long and I have no way of controlling 
>> what I get from Social Security every month as well as a small annuity from 
>> the accident (which is peanuts when you live alone and my lawyer at the time 
>> screwed that up by not factoring in inflation and "What if Lori needs 
>> around-the-clock care at some point?").
>> 
>> * I put an ad on craigslist for 30 days which will be up on February 20th - 
>> soon. I got absolutely no response from anyone from that route. It used to 
>> be free to advertise 4 years ago but now it is $25.
>> 
>> * I have signed up with care.com but have not found anyone yet. 
>> 
>> * I put an ad on the Facebook closed group for caregivers in my area but no 
>> responses.
>> 
>> * For those familiar with Next-Door ... I put feelers out there with no 
>> response.
>> 
>> * I have thought about putting an ad in our town newspaper and I have spoken 
>> with the head of classifieds for this. Their highest circulation output is 
>> Sundays and Wednesdays and if I want it and therefore a month it will be 
>> $273. I have used as little words as possible but my question to you guys is:
>> 
>> When advertising in a newspaper and you live alone... should you use the 
>> word Quadriplegic? I have to have a way for people to reach me so I put my 
>> phone number and e-mail and asking for a "live-in" caregiver.
>> 
>> I need to start training people ASAP since my current live-in is leaving the 
>> first week in August which sounds like a while from now but by the time you 
>> train someone and you make sure they are going to stay for a good amount of 
>> time for it to be worthwhile... time goes by quickly.
>> 
>> My wheelchair batteries had some dead cells and they needed to be replaced 
>> which just happened this past Tuesday. My co-pay for those is $244.
>> 
>> My live-in caregiver has not had a break in a year because of certain 
>> situations so she has really burned out and the one caregiver in my area who 
>> knows my care (but has a family and a full-time job) is going to take care 
>> of me 3 days next week and that is $600 but I have no other option.
>> 
>> I have contacted so many places including my local Center for Independent 
>> Living and, being a quad as long as I have and working for an independent 
>> living center for 7+ years and having lived with family or my spouse over 
>> the last 40 years and to be fortunate to have found a fabulous live-in 
>> caregiver for the last 4 years... I am now desperate.
>> 
>> My health deteriorated after being hurt soon after moving back here along 
>> with a domino effect that caused to this very day but I still have a great 
>> power wheelchair, Roho cushions, a fully adjustable hospital bed which I 
>> have always needed, a rotating air mattress that I have found my body can't 
>> go without (terrible autonomic dysreflexia if it's not working), my big 
>> Desktop Computer that I keep so very active with with many programs on it, 
>> my nice wheelchair conversion minivan, my German Shepherd support dog that I 
>> want to train more, and a host of different things that I definitely need 
>> for daily care.
>> 
>> So, I guess I will advertise in my local newspaper but maybe just for two 
>> weeks to start but I need to know your opinion on me using the word 
>> Quadriplegic or not. Factoring in that I have pain medications. Finding 
>> trustworthy people in general is hard enough but to find someone new will be 
>> dependent upon for your whole care...  :-(
>> 
>> Thank you!
>> ~Lori
>> 
>> -- 
>> “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind 
>> and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― 
>> Dean Koontz

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