*We (RIV) have a charity fund every year, doled out whether we’re doing OK
or not. *

It's admirable that they give when they can, not only when it's easy.

The question whether to give directly or through a "qualified" intermediary
is being debated here in Albuquerque about panhandlers who beg at traffic
intersections. I am happy to give a bit of cash to these people, preferring
to be a sucker instead of a cynic. The city though has started a law to ban
such panhandling (either still being debated or, if on the books, ignored)
and a program to accept such donations in a fund for the beggars. But one
wants to give to a person, not a bureaucracy.

But I understand the dilemma. Years ago I gave $20 to such a person with a
sign saying "Stranded, looking for work," and asked my boss to give the man
work. Boss tracked him down to a motel, offered him work, but the man was
too comfortable with the results of his panhandling and closed the door on
boss.

My own worry is less the crazy and unstable as such, as it is the alcoholic
or drug addict: $10 or a $100 sweater might just go to something that will
make their situation worse, not better. If I could be sure that the
recipient would use the gift for food or warmth, I'd give much more readily.

But, beyond all the practical questions (which obviously determine the
particulars of giving), there is compassion, the principal Buddhist virtue
and one wonderfully illustrated in the Islamic *hadith* of the prostitute
whom God forgave because she took pity on a thirsty dog and gave it a
drink; or the wonderful lines (paraphrased) from the story of the
excommunicated Manfred in the *Purgatorio*: "The Divine Mercy has arms so
wide/It takes to Itself everything that turns to it." In this respect,
giving benefits the giver as much as the recipient.

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