But we do know-- the best interests of the child is based on a totality of the 
circumstances.  A one-time sip of beer does not harm a child   A full beer 
would.  Most of these cases are just common sense.  Your example is a straw man

Marci

On Jul 5, 2012, at 10:44 PM, Eric Rassbach <erassb...@becketfund.org> wrote:

> 
> My Dad gave me a sip of "Dome foam" at an Astros game when I was fairly 
> young, which had the (almost certainly intended) effect of putting me off of 
> beer until later than many of my peers. The sad part is that we will never 
> know whether that act was in the best interests of the child or whether Dad 
> should've been locked up.
> 
> ________________________________________
> From: religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu [religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu] 
> On Behalf Of Ira Lupu [icl...@law.gwu.edu]
> Sent: Thursday, July 05, 2012 9:26 PM
> To: Law & Religion issues for Law Academics
> Subject: Re: Parental rights and physical conduct
> 
> I am wondering if Marci thinks Troxel v. Granville (unconstitutional for 
> legislature to provide for grandparent visitation rights over objection of 
> custodial parent) is correctly decided, or consistent with her views. Her 
> assertion that "Children are increasingly being treated as independent 
> persons whose interests must be examined separately" is awfully vague -- 16 
> year olds involved in custody fights?  What's the context to which you are 
> referring?
> 
> Now I have to go watch the Nationals and drink some beer with my younger son 
> -- he'll be 22 in a few weeks.  I have a 13 year old grandson coming to visit 
> tomorrow, and I'll have to think twice about offering him a bottle.
> 
> On Thu, Jul 5, 2012 at 8:19 PM, Marci Hamilton 
> <hamilto...@aol.com<mailto:hamilto...@aol.com>> wrote:
> I would disagree with Chip that the concept of best interest of the child 
> continues to afford a presumption that parents act in the best interest of 
> the child.  Children are increasingly being treated as independent persons 
> whose interests must be examined separately.
> 
> I do agree w Chip, though, that religious reasons should never be adequate as 
> reasons to water down the best interest inquiry or create a defense in a case 
> involving harm to a child.
> 
> Marci
> 
> On Jul 5, 2012, at 3:34 PM, Ira Lupu 
> <icl...@law.gwu.edu<mailto:icl...@law.gwu.edu>> wrote:
> 
> Our ordinary, wide-spread, and long-standing presumption is that 
> parents/guardians act in the best interests of their minor children.  The 
> state may intervene -- overcome that presumption -- when parents/guardians 
> inflict significant harm on their children.  Of course, we can all argue 
> about what constitutes such harm (e.g., Eric' s example of Amish families 
> "keeping their children on the farm," or Alan's example of a parent providing 
> a child with small amounts of alcohol).  I am not trying to settle what 
> constitutes harm sufficient to justify intervention.  I am trying to reject 
> the idea that religion will EVER appropriately affect that judgment by the 
> state.  There is no room for "play in the joints" on these questions, because 
> the interests of third parties are involved.  If the state singles out 
> religiously motivated conduct for an exemption from a prohibition on what is 
> otherwise abusive or neglectful, that violates the Establishment Clause.  And 
> if If the state singles out religiously motivated conduct for punishment in 
> cases where the same conduct with secular motivation is not considered 
> abusive or neglectful, that violates the Free Exercise Clause.   So, Alan, 
> the answer is yes, both parents who provide alcohol to their children should 
> have to operate under the same rules -- if a Jewish parent's Seder practices 
> are OK (and I'm sure that the vast majority of such parents don't abusively 
> or neglectfully ply their minor children with alcohol), then likewise for the 
> parent who provides the same amount of alcohol, over the same number of 
> hours, with the same frequency on the calendar (once a year).   Doing this at 
> every Sabbath, or every Sunday during NFL season, might be abuse or neglect, 
> but the standard for state intervention would be the same for both parents.
> 
> On Thu, Jul 5, 2012 at 2:59 PM, Marci Hamilton 
> <hamilto...@aol.com<mailto:hamilto...@aol.com>> wrote:
> I would like some clarification from those relying on purported "parental 
> rights." The use of the term "parental right"  is freighted w social and 
> cultural value but very little legal value.
> 
> Pierce v Society of Sisters is balanced by Prince.  So the use of "right" in 
> this context is a dead end in my view.
> 
> The best interest of the child is not in the context of parental rights as 
> much as it is intended to treat the child as a separate person who deserves 
> protection and respect even in opposition to a parent's demands or needs.
> 
> Marci
> 
> On Jul 5, 2012, at 12:42 PM, Eric Rassbach 
> <erassb...@becketfund.org<mailto:erassb...@becketfund.org>> wrote:
> 
>> 
>> Eugene --
>> 
>> I don't think this makes sense because it posits an impossible universe of 
>> zero-risk parenting. It is far riskier to drive your child on the freeway 
>> (not to mention take him/her skiing, or letting him/her play soccer, or play 
>> football (esp. in Texas)) than it is to baptize him/her. All those risks are 
>> well within the set of risks that parents take in the normal course of 
>> parenting. Indeed, for the state to interfere with the ability of parents to 
>> expose children to those risks would be a gross interference with parental 
>> rights. And I imagine that the danger to infants from either circumcision or 
>> full immersion baptism is far lower than driving them around town, though I 
>> claim no actuarial expertise on the matter.
>> 
>> Eric
>> 
>> ________________________________________
>> From: 
>> religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>
>>  
>> [religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>]
>>  On Behalf Of Volokh, Eugene 
>> [vol...@law.ucla.edu<mailto:vol...@law.ucla.edu>]
>> Sent: Thursday, July 05, 2012 12:31 PM
>> To: Law & Religion issues for Law Academics
>> Subject: RE: Parental rights and physical conduct
>> 
>>               I appreciate Howard’s point, but the question is:  Why should 
>> some children who by definition do not share a religious belief drown – or 
>> otherwise be injured – for the sake of the beliefs of the adults who do have 
>> that belief (and even for the sake of those children who, later in life, 
>> will wish that they had been so baptized)?  I have great sympathy for 
>> people’s rights to risk their own lives (in the baptism example) or alter 
>> their own bodies (in the circumcision example) for the sake of their 
>> religious beliefs, or for that matter for the sake of their secular beliefs. 
>>  But why does it follow that they should have the right to impose such risks 
>> on others, even others to whom they are genetically linked?
>> 
>>               Eugene
>> 
>> From: 
>> religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>
>>  
>> [mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>]
>>  On Behalf Of Friedman, Howard M.
>> Sent: Thursday, July 05, 2012 8:52 AM
>> To: Law & Religion issues for Law Academics
>> Subject: RE: Parental rights and physical conduct
>> 
>> 
>> What has been absent from all of the discussion on this issue is the 
>> importance to Jewish belief of circumcision while the son is an infant. This 
>> ceremony at 8-days of age (except where health precludes it that early) is 
>> the son's initiation into Jewish peoplehood. Waiting until adulthood is not 
>> the functional equivalent. Because the case in Germany involved a Muslim 
>> circumcision at a later age, the issue is muddled.  As I understand it, 
>> Islam has varying views on the proper age for circumcision, and even on how 
>> important it is. While centrality of religious belief has been a factor of 
>> declining importance in free exercise cases in recent years, here it perhaps 
>> should be revived. I think a better analogy for trying to come up with a 
>> rule is this:
>> 
>> Suppose there were a handful of cases in which infants drowned (or almost 
>> drowned) during full immersion baptism, and a court then ruled that because 
>> of the danger parents cannot baptize infants. They must wait until the child 
>> is an adult and then let him or her decide.  How would everyone come out on 
>> that case?
>> 
>> Howard Friedman
>> 
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: 
>> religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu><mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>>
>>  on behalf of Volokh, Eugene
>> Sent: Thu 7/5/2012 10:57 AM
>> To: Law & Religion issues for Law Academics
>> Subject: Parental rights and physical conduct
>> 
>>               This raises a fascinating and practically very important 
>> question (because there are more than 10 times as many American parents who 
>> authorize circumcision for nonreligious reasons than for religious reasons): 
>>  Do Meyer/Pierce rights extend to the right to raise one's child in the 
>> sense of selecting an education for the child, setting behavior rules for 
>> the child, choosing a place to live with the child, and so on, or do they 
>> also have the constitutional right (not just a common-law right) to 
>> physically alter the child's body, including for nonmedical reasons?  When I 
>> last checked the caselaw on the subject, the Supreme Court cases weren't 
>> clear on that.  Are there cases I'm missing on that?
>> 
>>               To be sure, I agree that parents are generally allowed to let 
>> their children put themselves at risk in various ways, such as by playing 
>> tackle football and not wearing enough sunscreen.  But that doesn't tell us 
>> much about whether that's a constitutional right.  And indeed I don't think 
>> that laws banning child labor, for instance, have been judged as interfering 
>> with parental rights (imagine Prince without the religious motivation), even 
>> though many such laws (again, imagine Prince) are pretty clearly overbroad.  
>> Likewise, I would think that a ban on ear piercing, tattooing, etc. of 
>> minors, even when the parents order such actions, would be constitutional, 
>> though of course that's part of the dispute between us.
>> 
>>               Is there dispositive caselaw I'm missing here?
>> 
>>               Eugene
>> 
>> From: 
>> religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu><mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>>
>>  
>> [mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu<mailto:religionlaw-boun...@lists.ucla.edu>]
>>  On Behalf Of Ira Lupu
>> Sent: Thursday, July 05, 2012 7:38 AM
>> To: Law & Religion issues for Law Academics
>> Subject: Re: German circumcision decision
>> 
>> We are making this so much more complicated than it has to be.  I cannot 
>> speak to the particulars of the case in Germany, so I won't try.  But in the 
>> U.S, we have a longstanding tradition, initially at common law and 
>> ultimately in constitutional law (Pierce, Meyer, etc.) of parental control 
>> over the upbringing of their children.  The state can interfere with that 
>> control only for very good reason, and the state bears the burden of 
>> persuasion that it has such a reason.  Compulsory education, compulsory 
>> vaccination, and limiting child labor are the most obvious, specific 
>> policies that interfere with those rights of parental control.  (Perhaps I'm 
>> missing something on that list -- happy to learn of other such specific 
>> policies.)  Outside of such specific policies, parents (or other lawful 
>> guardians) presumptively control decisions about child well-being, unless 
>> the parents violate general norms about abuse or neglect.
>> 
>> Parents do all sorts of things that put their children's bodies at risk for 
>> permanent harm --  letting them play tackle football, go out in the sun all 
>> day without enough sunscreen, etc. Whether a particular practice of (more or 
>> less permanent) body-altering -- ear-piercing, nose-straightening, 
>> orthodonture -- is abusive depends on a social and medical judgment on the 
>> actuality of present harm, and in some cases the likelihood of future harm.
>> 
>> But two propositions control our approach to this -- 1) all 
>> parents/guardians have the same rights and face the same limits (religious 
>> motivation adds or subtracts nothing to parental rights); 2) the state has 
>> the burden of proof that a practice is abusive.  So, when reasonable people 
>> can and do differ about the social, medical, or hygienic benefits of a 
>> practice --as is obviously the case with infant male circumcision -- the 
>> state cannot meet its burden of showing the practice is abusive.  The 
>> presence or absence of religious motivation for the practice may explain 
>> parents' behavior, or a faith community's concerns, but -- when the rights 
>> of children are at stake - the state should be constitutionally indifferent 
>> to that motivation.  If the practice is abusive, the state should make its 
>> best efforts to put an end to it; if it cannot be shown to be abusive, 
>> everyone is free to engage in it.   And liberty -- not religious liberty, 
>> but liberty generally -- resides in the initial allocation of power to 
>> parents/guardians, and the assignment of the burden of proof of abusiveness 
>> to the authorities.
>> 
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