On 3 March 2012 22:12, alice Dcruz <barnet...@yahoo.com> wrote: > As the debate on the infamous mobile phone tower progresses, it becomes > clearer with every mail I read, that: > > > > this is a struggle between truth and falsehood….. >
Alice, I would resist the temptation to see things in such black-and-white terms. From what I can understand, both sides are *convinced* that they are right, and that they are doing things in the best interest of the village. For their part, the protesting villagers can't understand how our local young men can opt for a cell tower in a fairly thickly populated residential area of their own village. On the other hand, those setting it up can't comprehend why quite a few of their neighbours are raising an issue so strongly over it. Both are seeing the issue from very differing perspectives. One from how-could-you-risk-our-collective-health perspective, and the other probably from a how-can-you-block-us-when-we're-not-doing-anything-illegal point of view. At the end of the day, while both seem to be unwilling to budge from their respective positions, all need to understand that this is hardly a battle to prove the other side wrong, to find some legal loophole that allows us to score our point (whichever side), or to attempt to overwhelm each other by stealth or a skilful use of the legal position or whatever... I wouldn't be comfortable if half my neighbourhood was up in arms over what I did. FN PS: In the discussion, someone asked whether we take the panchayat's word as the last word on any subject. Yes, it is indeed true that many of us have been critical of its functioning. This left me in a dilemma... so I had to search (online) in my quest for something that could provide guidelines for people like us, co-villagers, to deal with one another. I ran into this Native American Code of Ethics [ http://www.nativevillage.org/Inspiration-/native_american_code_of_ethics__.htm] Needless to say, preaching is easier than practise, but I did find it inspiring in its attitude... *1. Rise with the sun to pray. Pray alone. Pray often. The Great Spirit will listen, if you only speak. 2. Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path. Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy and greed stem from a lost soul. Pray that they will find guidance. 3. Search for yourself, by yourself. Do not allow others to make your path for you. It is your road, and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you. 4. Treat the guests in your home with much consideration. Serve them the best food, give them the best bed and treat them with respect and honor. 5. Do not take what is not yours whether from a person, a community, the wilderness or from a culture. It was not earned nor given. It is not yours. 6. Respect all things that are placed upon this earth - whether it be people or plant. 7. Honor other people's thoughts, wishes and words. Never interrupt another or mock or rudely mimic them. Allow each person the right to personal expression. 8. Never speak of others in a bad way. The negative energy that you put out into the universe will multiply when it returns to you. 9. All persons make mistakes. And all mistakes can be forgiven. 10. Bad thoughts cause illness of the mind, body and spirit. Practice optimism. 11. Nature is not FOR us, it is a PART of us. They are part of your worldly family. 12. Children are the seeds of our future. Plant love in their hearts and water them with wisdom and life's lessons. When they are grown, give them space to grow. 13. Avoid hurting the hearts of others. The poison of your pain will return to you. 14. Be truthful at all times. Honesty is the test of ones will within this universe. 15. Keep yourself balanced. Your Mental self, Spiritual self, Emotional self, and Physical self - all need to be strong, pure and healthy. Work out the body to strengthen the mind. Grow rich in spirit to cure emotional ails. 16. Make conscious decisions as to who you will be and how you will react. Be responsible for your own actions. 17. Respect the privacy and personal space of others. Do not touch the personal property of others - especially sacred and religious objects. This is forbidden. 18. Be true to yourself first. You cannot nurture and help others if you cannot nurture and help yourself first. 19. Respect others religious beliefs. Do not force your belief on others. 20. Share your good fortune with others. Participate in charity.* *This originally appeared in the "Inter-Tribal Times," October, 1994* -- Saligao-Net is at http://groups.google.com/group/saligao-net To post to this group, send email to saligao-net@googlegroups.com To unsubscribe email saligao-net-unsubscr...@googlegroups.com