Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-20 Thread Tollef Fog Heen
]] Matthias Urlichs 

> Hi,
> 
> Tollef Fog Heen:
> > Matthias Urlichs 
> > > Too true. This GR does not have winners. We all lost.
> > 
> > No, we all won.  We won because we said that «we have processes for
> > this».
> 
> We do have processes for this, but the interaction of reasonable people and 
> working processes with not-so-reasonable people (note that I'm not blaming
> a specific "side" here) definitely resulted in misguided (ab?)use of our
> processes (in the opinion of a large majority of developers) -- altogether
> an experience I wouldn't want to repeat any time soon. If ever. :-/

Yes, in this case it was one of those cases where one group wanted to
(and my apologies for the war-like metaphor here) call in the heavy
artillery.  The project said «no, we have better mechanisms for
this». That's certainly a course correction, but that's fine.

> So, yes we «won» in the sense that the mandate to get over our mutual
> pigheadedness and start to bloody *talk* to each other was sent loud and
> clear (let's hope it'll be received), but along the way we lost a heap of
> trust in each other which will have to be regained.

It's not only a mandate, it's a directive.  It's the metaphorical parent
going «why are you running to me to solve this problem? You know how to
fix this already!».

> > I sure hope we are.  It won't be easy, but I think we are.  If I didn't,
> > I'd not have been here still.
>
> Same here.
> 
> Well. Enough of that. Back to getting actual work done! ;-)

Yupyup.

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Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-20 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi,

Tollef Fog Heen:
> Matthias Urlichs 
> > Too true. This GR does not have winners. We all lost.
> 
> No, we all won.  We won because we said that «we have processes for
> this».

We do have processes for this, but the interaction of reasonable people and 
working processes with not-so-reasonable people (note that I'm not blaming
a specific "side" here) definitely resulted in misguided (ab?)use of our
processes (in the opinion of a large majority of developers) -- altogether
an experience I wouldn't want to repeat any time soon. If ever. :-/

So, yes we «won» in the sense that the mandate to get over our mutual
pigheadedness and start to bloody *talk* to each other was sent loud and
clear (let's hope it'll be received), but along the way we lost a heap of
trust in each other which will have to be regained.

> I sure hope we are.  It won't be easy, but I think we are.  If I didn't,
> I'd not have been here still.
> 
Same here.

Well. Enough of that. Back to getting actual work done! ;-)

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Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-20 Thread Tollef Fog Heen
]] Matthias Urlichs 

> Russ Allbery:
> > A lot of that analysis concludes that the pro-systemd "side" in Debian
> > won some sort of conclusive victory.
> > I have a different perspective.
>
> Too true. This GR does not have winners. We all lost. Not as a result of
> this vote, bus because of the incessant arguing, trolling, and mixing up
> of personal preferences and angsts with technical merits and bugs which
> preceded and accompanied it.
> (It also caused a couple of people to quit who shouldn't have had to.)

No, we all won.  We won because we said that «we have processes for
this».  We won because we as a project said «we are responsible and
trust each other to be excellent and work together for the best
solutions for everybody».  We won because we rejected making technical
policy through political processes.

There were sacrifices along the way.  This isn't an easy won victory,
and we'll all be sore and tender for a while while we regain our balance
and find out how to best move forward together.

> > Are we up to the challenge?
> > 
> Personally I doubt we are, and I'm not necessarily excepting myself from
> that judgement.
> 
> But we should strive to be.

I sure hope we are.  It won't be easy, but I think we are.  If I didn't,
I'd not have been here still.

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Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-20 Thread Sam Hartman
> "Russ" == Russ Allbery  writes:

Russ> I have a different perspective.

Russ> I think we just had a GR in which the Debian developer
Russ> community said that we, as a community, would like to work
Russ> through all of the issues around init systems together, as a
Russ> community, rather than having any one side of the argument win
Russ> unambiguously and impose its views on those who disagree.



I agree strongly when I read your message.
I feel a thrill of excitement when I think about the challenge we've
placed before ourselves, because I imagine a world in which we
eventually turn this into a victory for working together and for
respecting diverse views.

I hope those of us who voted for option 4 rise to this challenge.
Having asked to work together using our normal processes, I request that
we work to make sure that the way we communicate and work together is up
to that task.


In another message,
Matthias Urlichs  wrote:
>Too true. This GR does not have winners. We all lost. Not as a result of
>this vote, bus because of the incessant arguing, trolling, and mixing up
>of personal preferences and angsts with technical merits and bugs which
>preceded and accompanied it.

We choose whether we win or lose.  There's been a huge sacrifice in
terms of pain and energy spent.
We today can choose whether that's a loss, or whether that provides
energy to work together with respect and understanding.  We can choose
whether to turn all that pain into an nuanced solution to the technical
issues better than anything that could fit on a ballot combined with a
community that has greater confidence in its ability to work together.

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Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-20 Thread Olivier Berger
Hi.

Holger Levsen  writes:

> On Mittwoch, 19. November 2014, Russ Allbery wrote:
>> I originally posted this in a thread on debian-private, but on further
>> reflection it seems appropriate for a broader audience.
>
> my reply there: "lovely words, thanks a wow".
>

+1 FWIW

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Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-19 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi,

Russ Allbery:
> A lot of that analysis concludes that the pro-systemd "side" in Debian
> won some sort of conclusive victory.
> I have a different perspective.
> 
Too true. This GR does not have winners. We all lost. Not as a result of
this vote, bus because of the incessant arguing, trolling, and mixing up
of personal preferences and angsts with technical merits and bugs which
preceded and accompanied it.
(It also caused a couple of people to quit who shouldn't have had to.)

The GR just stated that the majority (of those who voted, but I seriously
doubt that the other half feel any different) is sick and tired of all
that.

I didn't expect #4 to win, esp. given that the reason it was even on the
ballot felt sortof whimsical at the time (at least to me) … but I think
I'm glad it did.

> In other words, the way I choose to look at this GR is that the project as
> a whole just voted to take away the sticks that we were using to beat each
> other with.
> 
I wouldn't go as far as say "take away", but the message to use a talking
stick instead is clear enough.

For those to whom talking sticks are out of cultural scope: a group sits
in a circle and one person holds the talking stick. That person talks.
Everybody else *listens*. Not superficially, and not just to the literal
words.

Then the stick gets passed on to the next person who wants to speak.
Repeat until consensus is reached.

> Are we up to the challenge?
> 
Personally I doubt we are, and I'm not necessarily excepting myself from
that judgement.

But we should strive to be.

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Re: Interpreting the init system GR results

2014-11-19 Thread Holger Levsen
On Mittwoch, 19. November 2014, Russ Allbery wrote:
> I originally posted this in a thread on debian-private, but on further
> reflection it seems appropriate for a broader audience.

my reply there: "lovely words, thanks a wow".


really, thanks for expressing this this way. My thoughts exactly, but totally 
lacking these words...


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