Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
I'm so terribly sorry, Kim. One of the hardest things with this disease is how fast they can go. Some positive cats live long healthy lives. Others just seem to get sick and then go so suddenly it's unimaginable. I've been there for both. I know what a shock it is to lose one so quickly. I'm sorry. tonya Kim Thomas <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole. Kim ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
Oh Kim, My heart goes out to you... You sound so sad. I feel in my heart after reading your post that you did the right thing for Cole. How blessed you were to have one another. Prayers going out for your heart to heal and for peace and comfort for you in the meantime. Wendy "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world - indeed it is the only thing that ever has!" ~~~ Margaret Meade ~~~ - Original Message From: Kim Thomas <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "felvtalk@felineleukemia.org" Sent: Monday, August 25, 2008 11:59:52 PM Subject: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole. Kim ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
On the topic of opening your heart to another: Invite Cole to send you someone. Dixie send me not one but two small kittens over a two week period. Dixie waited 30 days from the day she left and sent me a copper kitten. She sent a solid slate grey one two weeks later. Both came from the pine thicket she came from. That thicket is full of hawks, coyotes, dogs, fox and other critters that love to have little kittens for snacks. And both were in need of immediate vet attention and were prime for the smallest hawk. All of this is to say, trust Cole to help you find just the right cat to help you thru this. Dixie's timing was perfect. I was (and am) still grieving for her but I was ready to give againand two healthy kittens can keep you very busy. By the way, they are both FeLV- (a miracle under the circumstances) and little boys. Cole is a heart mate of yours. Give him a chance to prove it and let him provide help for you. Dixie will definitely help me raise these two. On Aug 26, 2008, at 8:22 AM, Rosenfeldt, Diane wrote: > I'm so sorry, Kim. I know it's not a lot of consolation that you had > him with you for 6-1/2 years when a healthy cat can live 3 times that > long, but it *is* an extraordinary age for a FeLV+ kitty and both of > you > fought the good fight and loved each other fiercely for all that time. > Don't try to second-guess yourself about whether it was the exact time > to help him end it -- I think one of the other members of this list > would say "better a day too early than a second too late." > > When you are talking to him, as Marylyn has suggested, invite him to > visit you. So many people have experienced what they feel is a visit > from their departed pets -- maybe you're in bed and it feels like > somekitty is walking on the bed, but when you look nobody's there, > that > kind of thing. And if you ever move, specifically invite Cole to the > new place too. > > And finally, once it stops hurting quite so badly, be open to the idea > of finding another kitty, not to "take his place" but to fill the > void. > He won't want you to be lonely, and so many times people have said > they > felt that their departed kitty has led them right to a new one to > love. > > > Hugs to you and to Cole in his new home, where he is undoubtedly > swapping "great mommy" stories with our kitties there. > > Diane R. > > -Original Message- > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kim Thomas > Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2008 12:00 AM > To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > Subject: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight > > > It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his > fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a > week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his > anemia. > He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 > weeks > ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not > eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting > him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last > couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even > attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught > this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been > living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, > so > at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest > thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I > am > praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on > putting > him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was > prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a > special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that > having > Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he > was > my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn > to > be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of > advice, it > helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you > Cole. > Kim > ___ > Felvtalk mailing list > Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org > This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are > confidential and may be privileged. > They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If > you have received this > transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and > delete the transmission f
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
I'm so sorry for your loss... and don't second guess yourself. You and Cole knew in your hearts when it was time... and he will always be in your heart... Christiane Biagi [EMAIL PROTECTED] -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kim Thomas Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2008 1:00 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole. Kim ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
Kim, I am so sorry that Cole has lost his final battle. Bless you for your love and care of this special boy! You did a wonderful job.> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org> Date: Mon, 25 Aug 2008 23:59:52 -0500> Subject: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight> > > It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole.> Kim> ___> Felvtalk mailing list> Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org> http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org _ Discover the new Windows Vista http://search.msn.com/results.aspx?q=windows+vista&mkt=en-US&form=QBRE ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
I'm so sorry, Kim. I know it's not a lot of consolation that you had him with you for 6-1/2 years when a healthy cat can live 3 times that long, but it *is* an extraordinary age for a FeLV+ kitty and both of you fought the good fight and loved each other fiercely for all that time. Don't try to second-guess yourself about whether it was the exact time to help him end it -- I think one of the other members of this list would say "better a day too early than a second too late." When you are talking to him, as Marylyn has suggested, invite him to visit you. So many people have experienced what they feel is a visit from their departed pets -- maybe you're in bed and it feels like somekitty is walking on the bed, but when you look nobody's there, that kind of thing. And if you ever move, specifically invite Cole to the new place too. And finally, once it stops hurting quite so badly, be open to the idea of finding another kitty, not to "take his place" but to fill the void. He won't want you to be lonely, and so many times people have said they felt that their departed kitty has led them right to a new one to love. Hugs to you and to Cole in his new home, where he is undoubtedly swapping "great mommy" stories with our kitties there. Diane R. -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kim Thomas Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2008 12:00 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole. Kim ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties. ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
Kim, I am so sorry to hear about your Cole. We fight so many battles with these little ones and I am glad you had him for 6 1/2" years. I know you gave him all the love and care you could in your time together. Rest peacefully sweet Cole. Sue Kim Thomas <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: = It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole. Kim ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
I am so sorry for your loss Kim. Reading your note brought back so many memories of sadness, desperation and heartbreak of losing our Boo. My heart truly aches for what you are going through. You know you did the right thing for the little guy and if he could talk he would have told you that. He had a wonderful life and you both are amazing to have kept him well for over 6 years. When we take on these precious beings we know eventually we are going to lose them, whether to disease or natural causes but we never seem willing to let them go. I've learned a lot lately about letting go and as hard as it is we must always keep their best interests at heart. You did the right thing, Sometimes extraordinary treatments for these little ones is worse than letting them pass humanly. Bless you and Cole. Lynne - Original Message - From: "Kim Thomas" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2008 12:59 AM Subject: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight > > It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his > fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a > week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. > He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks > ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. > It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to > sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, > I ha > d no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other > treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe > treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia > since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with > that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not > have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right > decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could > no > t take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him > cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. > All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the > heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed > him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your > support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest > weeks of my life. I love you Cole. > Kim > ___ > Felvtalk mailing list > Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org > > __ NOD32 3386 (20080825) Information __ > > This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. > http://www.eset.com > > ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
Re: [Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
I know how awful it is to come home to a house without your friend..I had to do it when Dixie left this world. She moved into the house on the farm the minute I did and everything was hers. It gets better as time goes on but you know that. Right now cry and talk and generally do what makes you feel a little better. I am very sure you did exactly what Cole would have wanted you to. After all, everything you did was from your heart. Please remember that he is close by. Talk to him. Tell him your fears and your love. You may find that, like a lot of us, it helps. Blessings to you and Cole and all you loved and cared for him. On Aug 25, 2008, at 11:59 PM, Kim Thomas wrote: > > It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost > his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two > times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved > his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% > from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days > because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to > make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so > lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not > in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this > point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment > would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia > since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed > with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home > and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I > made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to > sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging > his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special > urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole > for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was > my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn > to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of > advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my > life. I love you Cole. > Kim > ___ > Felvtalk mailing list > Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
[Felvtalk] Cole's last fight
It is with great sadness that I have to say that my Cole has lost his fight. The last 2 weeks he has been recieving epogen shots two times a week and we found out today that the shots have not improved his anemia. He in fact got worse and his hemoglobin went down to 9% from 11% 2 weeks ago. He has also lost an addition 1lb in 3 days because he would not eat. It was the hardest thing ever to have to make the call in putting him to sleep or not, but he has been so lethargic and down the last couple days, I had no choice. He was not in good enough shape to even attempt any other treatment at this point. I wish I would have caught this earlier and maybe treatment would have been better. He had been living with Feline Leukemia since birth and he lived to be almost 7, so at least I was blessed with that time with him. Right now the hardest thing is to come home and not have him waiting at the door for me. I am praying that I made the right decision and didnt jump the gun on putting him to sleep, but I just could not take it if I knew that I was prolonging his suffering. I am having him cremated and we are having a special urn made for him with his picture. All I can say is that having Cole for a short 6 1/2 years was worth the heartache I have now, he was my rock and was there for me when I needed him and now it is my turn to be there for him. Thank you all for your support and words of advice, it helped me make it through the 2 toughest weeks of my life. I love you Cole. Kim ___ Felvtalk mailing list Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
