Re: [Felvtalk] Skittles (adding Tippy, Bobbi Tabby Male)

2009-08-19 Thread Heather
I really appreciate it, and you're right I should have posted about her
separately.

I found out Monday...I shouldn't blame, liver issues are so serious it could
be she just wasn't going to make it, but the fact that she was even running
around with my friend's other cats recently, really seemed like she was
through the worst...and it does seem there were things not done as needed.

She beat a positive test...to me was a survivor in that regard, and this
never should have happened.

My bf and I care for many (20+) feral cat colonies, and this past weekend,
someone's kitty was hit and killed at our colony, coming to eatthis
guilt will stay with me forever.  It is a problem/dangerous area, awful
feeding spot, and we'd seen this coming as he just wasn't afraid of cars at
all.  I even spoke with his owner about it several months ago, asking if she
thought I could or should move the feeding to the duplex property, though
she felt the property owners  residents wouldn't go for it, which was what
I also thought, as there just is no good place with cover there to feed.

I was so upset the night I told her that my bf had found him, I never found
out his name but need to.  He was a sweet, skittish medium haired tabby...a
young male.

She did not blame us, I guess having outside cats all her life has lost
others, but I will always feel responsible.

In May we lost a very sweet colony kitty, Tippy, to lymphoma (she was
negative and young, it was terrible, we couldn't even give her any quality
time, she was gasping for air even on oxygen) and I tried to post but the
post was so long I don't believe it made it to the list.

We also had to, at long last, say goodbye to Bobbi, my 15 year old retired
FIV+/toxo/CRF campus kitty.   She was a spunky, valiant golden-auburn Torbie
with a bob/half tail and we treasure the 9 months of her retirement at our
place where  a vet tech helped us care for her.  We hope she knew she was
loved and enjoyed her time.   A urinary issue made it impossible to keep her
comfortable and we had to let her go.

Thank you all for listening to my lossesI feel bad for rarely posting,
keeping up with work  so many colonies  rescuesit is impossible.

Just knowing there are others here who, like me, believe the underdog
(ahem Undercat) always deserves as much of a chance at life and love as the
rest, is a comfort, and I'm always glad to hear of another FELV or FIV kitty
who got to live out their life happily.

Thanks again-

Heather

On Wed, Aug 19, 2009 at 1:13 PM, Diane Rosenfeldt drosenfe...@wi.rr.comwrote:

  Heather, I'm so sorry you lost Skittles.  She sounds like a wonderful
 little girl.  I'm so sorry the people in charge of caring for her let her
 down, that is so sad.  Gentle Bridge vibes to her and hugs to you for
 caring
 so much.

 (I thought she deserved a heading of her own...)

 Diane R.



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Re: [Felvtalk] Skittles (adding Tippy, Bobbi Tabby Male)

2009-08-19 Thread Sharyl
Heather, I am sorry for your recent losses.  Lighting a candle for all of them.
Sharyl

--- On Wed, 8/19/09, Heather furrygi...@gmail.com wrote:

 From: Heather furrygi...@gmail.com
 Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Skittles (adding Tippy, Bobbi  Tabby Male)
 To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
 Date: Wednesday, August 19, 2009, 1:28 PM
 I really appreciate it, and you're
 right I should have posted about her
 separately.
 
 I found out Monday...I shouldn't blame, liver issues are so
 serious it could
 be she just wasn't going to make it, but the fact that she
 was even running
 around with my friend's other cats recently, really seemed
 like she was
 through the worst...and it does seem there were things not
 done as needed.
 
 She beat a positive test...to me was a survivor in that
 regard, and this
 never should have happened.
 
 My bf and I care for many (20+) feral cat colonies, and
 this past weekend,
 someone's kitty was hit and killed at our colony, coming to
 eatthis
 guilt will stay with me forever.  It is a
 problem/dangerous area, awful
 feeding spot, and we'd seen this coming as he just wasn't
 afraid of cars at
 all.  I even spoke with his owner about it several
 months ago, asking if she
 thought I could or should move the feeding to the duplex
 property, though
 she felt the property owners  residents wouldn't go
 for it, which was what
 I also thought, as there just is no good place with cover
 there to feed.
 
 I was so upset the night I told her that my bf had found
 him, I never found
 out his name but need to.  He was a sweet, skittish
 medium haired tabby...a
 young male.
 
 She did not blame us, I guess having outside cats all her
 life has lost
 others, but I will always feel responsible.
 
 In May we lost a very sweet colony kitty, Tippy, to
 lymphoma (she was
 negative and young, it was terrible, we couldn't even give
 her any quality
 time, she was gasping for air even on oxygen) and I tried
 to post but the
 post was so long I don't believe it made it to the list.
 
 We also had to, at long last, say goodbye to Bobbi, my 15
 year old retired
 FIV+/toxo/CRF campus kitty.   She was a
 spunky, valiant golden-auburn Torbie
 with a bob/half tail and we treasure the 9 months of her
 retirement at our
 place where  a vet tech helped us care for her. 
 We hope she knew she was
 loved and enjoyed her time.   A urinary
 issue made it impossible to keep her
 comfortable and we had to let her go.
 
 Thank you all for listening to my lossesI feel bad for
 rarely posting,
 keeping up with work  so many colonies 
 rescuesit is impossible.
 
 Just knowing there are others here who, like me, believe
 the underdog
 (ahem Undercat) always deserves as much of a chance at life
 and love as the
 rest, is a comfort, and I'm always glad to hear of another
 FELV or FIV kitty
 who got to live out their life happily.
 
 Thanks again-
 
 Heather
 
 On Wed, Aug 19, 2009 at 1:13 PM, Diane Rosenfeldt 
 drosenfe...@wi.rr.comwrote:
 
   Heather, I'm so sorry you lost Skittles. 
 She sounds like a wonderful
  little girl.  I'm so sorry the people in charge
 of caring for her let her
  down, that is so sad.  Gentle Bridge vibes to her
 and hugs to you for
  caring
  so much.
 
  (I thought she deserved a heading of her own...)
 
  Diane R.
 
 
 
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Re: [Felvtalk] Skittles (adding Tippy, Bobbi Tabby Male)

2009-08-19 Thread Diane Rosenfeldt
Added condolences for Tippy, Bobbi and the little boy.

Regarding the boy getting hit, I can't see a reason to blame yourself. You
did consult with the owner, and she did choose to let her cats outside. I
don't think any pet cat belongs outside, frankly, but that's just me. My
house is at the corner of two very busy streets and there's a railroad track
less than a block away on another side, and there have been neighbors who
let their cats roam, and I just shudder to think what might happen to them.
Even if the woman is used to losing them to traffic, she SHOULDN'T be used
to that, doesn't she value their little lives enough to keep them safe
somehow?  Anyway, not your fault.

Diane R. 

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[mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Heather
Sent: Wednesday, August 19, 2009 12:29 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Skittles (adding Tippy, Bobbi  Tabby Male)

I really appreciate it, and you're right I should have posted about her
separately.

I found out Monday...I shouldn't blame, liver issues are so serious it could
be she just wasn't going to make it, but the fact that she was even running
around with my friend's other cats recently, really seemed like she was
through the worst...and it does seem there were things not done as needed.

She beat a positive test...to me was a survivor in that regard, and this
never should have happened.

My bf and I care for many (20+) feral cat colonies, and this past weekend,
someone's kitty was hit and killed at our colony, coming to eatthis
guilt will stay with me forever.  It is a problem/dangerous area, awful
feeding spot, and we'd seen this coming as he just wasn't afraid of cars at
all.  I even spoke with his owner about it several months ago, asking if she
thought I could or should move the feeding to the duplex property, though
she felt the property owners  residents wouldn't go for it, which was what
I also thought, as there just is no good place with cover there to feed.

I was so upset the night I told her that my bf had found him, I never found
out his name but need to.  He was a sweet, skittish medium haired tabby...a
young male.

She did not blame us, I guess having outside cats all her life has lost
others, but I will always feel responsible.

In May we lost a very sweet colony kitty, Tippy, to lymphoma (she was
negative and young, it was terrible, we couldn't even give her any quality
time, she was gasping for air even on oxygen) and I tried to post but the
post was so long I don't believe it made it to the list.

We also had to, at long last, say goodbye to Bobbi, my 15 year old retired
FIV+/toxo/CRF campus kitty.   She was a spunky, valiant golden-auburn Torbie
with a bob/half tail and we treasure the 9 months of her retirement at our
place where  a vet tech helped us care for her.  We hope she knew she was
loved and enjoyed her time.   A urinary issue made it impossible to keep her
comfortable and we had to let her go.

Thank you all for listening to my lossesI feel bad for rarely posting,
keeping up with work  so many colonies  rescuesit is impossible.

Just knowing there are others here who, like me, believe the underdog
(ahem Undercat) always deserves as much of a chance at life and love as the
rest, is a comfort, and I'm always glad to hear of another FELV or FIV kitty
who got to live out their life happily.

Thanks again-

Heather

On Wed, Aug 19, 2009 at 1:13 PM, Diane Rosenfeldt
drosenfe...@wi.rr.comwrote:

  Heather, I'm so sorry you lost Skittles.  She sounds like a wonderful 
 little girl.  I'm so sorry the people in charge of caring for her let 
 her down, that is so sad.  Gentle Bridge vibes to her and hugs to you 
 for caring so much.

 (I thought she deserved a heading of her own...)

 Diane R.



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