g_b Saturday Update

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Anti-Gay
White Supremist Runs For Montana School Board
(Bozeman, Montana) A white supremist who calls
gays "sick" and advocates creating a whites-only, non-Jewish
society has qualified to run as a candidate for the nine-member Bozeman
School Board. 
Michigan
Gay Club Fire Arson
(Kalamazoo, Michigan) Fire investigators said on
Friday that a fire that closed a Kalamazoo
gay nightclub was the work of an arsonist. 
South Dakota
Lawmakers Criticized Over Moral Issues
(Mitchell, South Dakota) Some state lawmakers
say the Legislature spent too much time on bills dealing with gay
marriage and abortion this year. 
Maryland
Senate OKs Gay Partner Bill
(Annapolis, Maryland)  Maryland Senators
gave their approval Friday to a bill that would establish a limited
domestic partner registry and give its members the authority to make
medical decisions for each other. 
FBI Enters
Probe Of HIV/AIDS Letters 
(West Palm Beach, Florida) The FBI and the U.S. Postal
Service have joined the criminal investigation into the disclosure of
the names and addresses of some of the 6,500 HIV/AIDS patients in Palm Beach County. 
Gay Rights
Bills Move Forward In Maine, Die in Arkansas
(Washington)
The Judiciary Committee of the Maine
legislature has voted to support an anti-discrimination bill to provide
protections for gays and lesbians. 
Gay Rights
Group Calls For Rejection Of Bush Judge Nominee
(Washington) 
Citing serious concerns about his record of hostility to civil rights
claims, Lambda Legal is calling for the Senate to reject the nomination
of U.S. District Judge Terrence W. Boyle to the U.S. Court of Appeals
for the Fourth Circuit. 
Was San
Diego Bishop's Gay 'Apology' A Smokescreen?
(San Diego,
 California) When is an
apology not an apology? In the case of San Diego bishop Robert Brom's
reported apology for refusing a funeral service for a gay man we may
never know because Brom refuses to address new questions.
Island
Denies It Refused Cruise Ship Because Passengers Were Gay
(Basseterre,
St. Kitts) The St. Kitts and Nevis
government said Friday it barred a gay and nudist cruise from stopping
in Nevis because of concerns of
illegal public nudity on shore, not because the passengers were gay.

2nd Judge:
Ohio Gay Marriage Ban Affects Straight Couples Too
(Cleveland,
 Ohio) A second Ohio judge has
ruled that the state's constitutional ban on same-sex marriage means a
law against domestic violence cannot be enforced unless the perpetrator
and the victim are married. 
Features
Letters To
The Editor
Your Turn
What you had to say about the Catholic Church refusing gay man a
funeral 
Humor 
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Heaven
Heaven has its perks - but only for some
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Can a film rest on camp alone? 
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Our 10 step program to picking up any guy on the street 
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g_b Are You Giving Up?

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Are You Giving Up?
by Steve Rubin

What torment for a woman to give birth to a child afflicted at birth 
with what doctors call "challenges". Uniformly advised by doctors 
that she had to institutionalize the child, she said, "No way". 
Disruptive and self-destructive, he couldn't even be hugged or 
kissed. The only answers her doctors and specialists kept providing 
were choices she wouldn't consider. So, she kept him at home.

He was so disruptive at school that he was thrown out. Permanently. 
Then another school expelled him... and another. His speech defect, 
and the flat feet which excluded him from athletic pursuits, and the 
mocking of the other kids, all added up to a ton of pain. He was 
eventually kicked out of seventeen schools. What hope for a 
productive future can such a child's parent expect?

At a private Swiss school, he discovered a fascination with, and 
love of, art. It calmed him considerably.

Back in the States, with a family of his own to feed, he struggled 
and struggled. He even wrote a screenplay that attracted interest. 
Broke as can be, he actually turned down a whopping $250,000 for the 
script, because the buyers wanted the script outright. He, on the 
other hand, refused to let go of the script unless he could also 
direct the movie!! Wait, it gets better: AND, he wanted to star in 
it, too! Know for sure that you've got to have a dream if you're 
going to make a dream come true. Put a date on it, and it's not a 
dream anymore. It's now called a goal. At 20 million dollars per 
movie, the guy who we know as "Rocky" is doing pretty well for 
himself. Is he smarter than you? Better connected? Nope. He had a 
desired destination, and a map for getting there. Take a desire; put 
a deadline on it. Now it's a goal.

It is the most concise explanation of how computers work; how the 
human brain and system work: with goals. The fancy word 
is 'cybernetics'. A dream with a deadline is a goal. Please remember 
that. Sylvester Stallone gives us every reason to think that he is a 
sensitive, sensible, philanthropic, superwealthy, happy individual. 
He was not born that way, and he did not get that way by accident.

He asked himself a whole series of better questions, and, he got 
better answers. If you look back at the past 24 hours, I'm willing 
to wager that Christopher Reeves, breathing only by grace of God, a 
breathing apparatus, and enormous personal desire, has actually done 
more towards achieving his lifetime goals than you have. Now just 
stop & think about this a moment. Here's a man who has 
every 'reason' or excuse to just stop trying.

Instead, he looks at his life & his family as BEING every reason to 
keep trying. Advancing his physical rehabilitation, doing work for 
spinal injury causes, directing a major motion picture... if Chris 
Reeves can do all this, can you please tell me why you have almost 
certainly embraced little more than mediocrity in the past 24 hours?

Exactly what have you done TODAY towards your long-term dreams? Do 
you even have a dream? If you don't know precisely where you're 
going, I'll bet you end up somewhere else. If you had a genie, and 3 
wishes, what would they be? I'm asking you to put it in writing in 
the next 60 seconds. If you can't be bothered, you're a fool to 
waste your time reading any further. If you're smart enough to do it 
now, you will, I promise, be one step closer to your dream than if 
you don't. This is basic logic. Are you with me so far? Don't talk: 
DO IT!

Sylvester Stallone and Chris Reeves, successful men, describe 
exactly what they want. Whether it's a fun wedding, or a better job, 
or directing a movie, or increasing your income a modest 50% within 
8 weeks: it doesn't matter WHAT it is you want. If you know exactly 
WHY you want it, and can describe in detail what it is you want, you 
have already accomplished at least 1 or 2 percent of the job. Now 
you only have 98 steps left! You can actually change your life in 
the next 5 minutes.

Put up or shut up. Describe, out loud & in writing, precisely what 
you most want in life. Begin creating a plan by writing out who can 
help you, and what 5 smaller steps you'd have to take in order to do 
or obtain it. It's really true: you can change your life in the next 
5 minutes, not by talking about what you know... rather, by USING 
what you know. Talk less; do more: it's the only way we'll ever know 
who you are. The way you spend today's hours is a pretty good video 
preview of how you will be remembered. So, if your challenges and 
obstacles are less daunting than what Sylvester Stallone, 
Christopher Reeves, and so many others have faced, what are you 
waiting for?

This is the most powerful day of your life, a day to put a date on 
your dream, listing who can help you, and breaking into ten, twenty, 
or even fifty or a hundred smaller steps. Why wait?

Should you even momentarily think that this is difficult, please 
remember that you take these precise steps e

g_b Weekly News Update From Leading Mag Advocate

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*
A gay civil rights bill in Washington
 State is one or two
votes shy of a majority in the state senate, and senators say they are
optimistic it will pass.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15508&sd=03/24/05




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* A judge rules that Ohio's new constitutional ban on
same-sex marriage prohibits unmarried people from being able to file
domestic violence charges, a decision that has prompted an immediate appeal
by prosecutors.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=15513&sd=03/25/05

* As a state
senator leading Connecticut
down the aisle toward civil unions for gay couples, Andrew McDonald is
hearing plenty of objections. The bill's harshest opponents claim that
McDonald, one of the few out gay lawmakers in the legislature, will burn in
hell.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=15514&sd=03/25/05








POLITICS & SOCIETY 



* Lesbian tennis star Martina Navratilova is chosen as
the spokeswoman for lesbian travel company Olivia.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=15515&sd=03/25/05


* A cruise ship carrying gay and nudist passengers is temporarily stopped
and prevented from entering the Caribbean country of St. Kitts and Nevis.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15507&sd=03/24/05


* A lawsuit challenging an opinion by Michigan's attorney general that bars
public employers from offering domestic-partner benefits to same-sex
couples in future contracts is filed by the American Civil Liberties Union
of Michigan.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15481&sd=03/22/05






CRIME & LAW
ENFORCEMENT 



* The best friend of convicted murderer Gary Hirte says
he's known Hirte since the seventh grade but doesn't know why he would kill
another man.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15487&sd=03/22/05


* Ever since a 21-year-old man was beaten unconscious in Santa Fe, N.M., by
a group of men allegedly yelling antigay slurs, some people are wondering
whether the city isn't a little naive about its tolerant self-image.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15496&sd=03/23/05


* A 30-year member of a Unitarian Universalist church in New York State
is arrested for vandalizing its property with antigay messages.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15485&sd=03/22/05





RELIGION




* Being a practicing homosexual
is no bar to becoming a priest, the Scottish Episcopal Church says, a
stance that puts it at odds with the Anglican Communion in other parts of
the world.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=15526&sd=03/25/05


* San
Diego's Roman Catholic bishop apologizes for denying funeral rites to the
owner of a gay nightclub and bar and promises to preside over a mass to be
held in his honor.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15497&sd=03/23/05








INTERNATIONAL 



* Singapore rejects an
application for a concert by a local AIDS support group, citing concern over
its gay performers following a spike in HIV cases.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15512&sd=03/24/05

* Authorities in China's
Yunnan
province announce they will require hospitality industry workers to take
annual HIV antibody tests.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15505&sd=03/24/05




HEALTH & SCIENCE 



* Scientists report several U.S.
outbreaks of methicillin-resistant Staphyloccocus
aureus infections among HIV-positive people.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15499&sd=03/23/05 

* The history of the United Kingdom's HIV-1 subtype B epidemic began with
six separate introductions of the virus in the early to mid 1980s, rather
than from one transmission, according to genetic research.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?id=15506&sd=03/24/05

* Although worldwide clinical trials of the anti-HIV drug Viread are
drawing criticism from AIDS activists, the AIDS Vaccine Advocacy Coalition
issues a report that calls for the studies to continue, since the drug is
still a possible way to prevent HIV infections.
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=15517&sd=03/25/05



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* Biotechnology company Digene begins a public advertising campaign for its
Food and Drug Administration-approved test for human papillomavirus, mostly
due to lower-tha

g_b Re: Style Check Mantra With Jimmy...

[jimmy khan]

Style Look

So Guys the winter is over and summer is ahead be ready to change for fashion, 
look, health and fitness. If you have long hair as per new trend start to make 
it short as per Vergas style as its very hard to maintain the long hair during 
summer due to swats and look wise its not good trend for summer. As seasons 
change you have to change accordingly and that how its work’s for men’s 
fashion. You may also try some of short hairstyle such as mushroom cuts, or the 
best and latest one is a straight crops which is very popular now days as you 
have seen some of salmn’s new movie’s he also tried same. Don’t forget to wear 
nice and dark colure sunglass specially when you are out for day job or while 
you riding the sunglass should be fit to u r eyes plus flat look.

 

Style Fitness: -

Fitness’ in summer is most important as this month is became hot and guys 
became lazy to perform their rut in exercise what you have to do only just 
change you schedule for exercise try to perform you work out early in the 
morning or late in the evening .due to the climatically reason it will give you 
more pleasure plus peace in your mind. Chose just light workout in order to 
make your body temperature in habit for summer. Don’t forget as the season 
change every thing needs to take time to change accordingly. Slowly you may 
increase your stamina for exercise.

 

Style Check Out Fits: -Now the days has over for skintight cloth as its summer 
will give you more hassles during travel. Fill your word robe with cotton stuff 
such as latest trend of designed Bengali style kurta, you may chose in light 
color as days became shining it will not effect on you plus will give you more 
impression in public.

 

Style Make up: -No drought that guys do make up now days there is no strength 
in it but guys you have to tune your make up as per weather plus a make up 
which give your skin natural cuteness plus impression.

What to do?

Don’t use cold cream once winter is over its time to use sun screen specially 
if you are going out during day off course most of guys love to move around 
therefore don’t forget to apply sunscreen cream on your face. Specially this 
year as there is high alert from beauty experts that sun ray can damaged skins 
so take precautions.

So friends that all for this time I will update you time to time about style 
check. Feel free to send your query to me thru this form or direct in my 
mailbox.

Jimmy

 





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Re: g_b Indias Most Wanted Spa

[jimmy khan]

Dear Asfan 

I am not a Doctor but I am a well-trained beauty therapist plus a 
physiotherapist who has done higher studies from some professional institutes.  
I am not going to help thru medicine but some beauty tips and consultancy can 
help for some guys. As you know now days the trend is for show biz and every 
one wish to look good but they doesn’t know what to use and how to look good. 
Some times some of us use wrong product and spoil our skin .the reason is very 
simple that all of us has to be well known at least basic of our skin and 
knowledge of right product as per type of skin. That’s why I decided to be here 
and solve the issues. And I assume that this place will be the best place to 
start, as here guys are very much aware to adopt new stuff.

Hope u understand me 

Regards


asfan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
 
How are u qualified to "solve" problems like weight "loses", pimple, sexual 
disease, falling hair? R u a qualified doctor?
Do let us know.
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Re: g_b Indias Most Wanted Spa

[delhi guy]

Your field of activity is varried and vast. Its really
really amazing that u have so many qualifications. We
would really be proud to have you among us in GB. But
first of all I would like to know about yr
qualification, experience and modus operandi in these
various fields. Please let us know.
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g_b Jimmy, total makeover - please!!!!!!!!!!

[MyOnePenny]

Jimmy -
 
Asfan is only interested in the limited material aspects of life like 
health...
 
I want you to turn me into the young Lauren Bacall...married to the great 
Humphrey Bogart..
 
Or at least the spirit of Faye Dunaway...as Bonnie...ruling the world and 
the dreams of the socially enprisonned world from the back of a stolen 
car... spewing bullets from a sub-machine gun at the police...as she and her 
beloved Clyde...the young Warren Beatty...ride off into eternity..
 
Jimmy...I know this will be expensive...do you take American 
Express???
 
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g_b A Thought for Easter Sunday

[asfan]

  
How often, for some trivial wrong,
In anger, we retaliate.
We learn, although it takes us long’
 That life is far too brief for hate.
MARGARET E. BRUNER

g_b New York

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i am from the caribbean. my fascination with things, "India' dtates 
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g_b Sundaes

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Two engineering students were walking across campus when one said, "Where did 
you get such a great bike?" The second engineer replied, "Well, I was walking 
along yesterday minding my own business when a beautiful woman rode up on this 
bike. She threw the bike to the ground, took off all her clothes and said, 
"Take what you want."   The second engineer nodded approvingly, "Good choice. 
The clothes probably wouldn't have fit."


A lady walks into a drug store and tells the pharmacist she needs some cyanide. 
The pharmacist said, "Why in the world do you need cyanide?" The lady then 
explained she needed it to poison her husband. The pharmacist's eyes got big 
and he said, "Lord, have mercy -- I can't give you cyanide to kill your 
husband! That's against the law! I'll lose my license, they'll throw both of us 
in jail and all kinds of bad things will happen! Absolutely not, you can NOT 
have any cyanide!"The lady reached into her purse and pulled out a picture of 
her husband in bed with the pharmacist's wife. The pharmacist looked at the 
picture and replied, "Well, now. You didn't tell me you had a prescription. 

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by: Brian Tracy

There are two questions that you can ask on a regular basis to keep yourself
focused on getting your most important tasks completed on schedule. The
first question is "What are my highest value activities?"

Put another way, what are the most important tasks you have to complete to
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Think It Through Carefully
This is one of the most important questions you can ask and answer. What are
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Keep Yourself Focused
The second question you can ask continually is, "What can I and only I do,
that if done well, will make a real difference?"

This question comes from Peter Drucker, the management guru. It is one of
the best of all questions for achieving personal effectiveness. What can
you, and only you do, that if done well, can make a real difference?

This is something that only you can do. If you don't do it, it won't be done
by someone else. But if you do do it, and you do it well, it can really make
a difference to your life and your career. What is your answer to this
question?

Every hour of every day, you can ask yourself this question and there will
be a specific answer. You job is to be clear about the answer and then to
start and work on this task before anything else.

Action Exercises
First, make a list of everything you do at work and then select your most
valuable tasks from that list.

Second, resolve to start in on your highest value task and stay at it until
it is 100% complete.

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g_b Shahrukh Khan

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Dear Ashok,
 
It is not such a strange thing to have a crush 
on another person. I think that happens to many people (men and women both; 
young and not so young; gay, straight, and otherwise) all the time. Whether it 
is really a problem that warrants your seeking professional help 
depends on the extent to which it is beginning to affect the rest of your 
life.
 
Are your feelings for him beginning to interfere 
with the important relationships in your life? Your relationships with your 
friends, your family? Are they affecting your marriage? Are you having 
trouble with your work? (I am not asking you to tell us these things, just 
suggesting that you ask yourself these questions.) If your answer to any of these questions is 'yes,' it is probably 
worth consulting a therapist. From what you have told us already (you are 
feeling desperate and have come close to leaving everything in your life behind 
so that you can move to Mumbai and be with him), it sounds like the answer 
really is 'yes.'
 
To get the most out of working with a 
psychiatrist or other mental health professional, you will need to be able to 
trust the therapist and be able to discuss with him or her anything that you 
feel may be contributing to your problem, so it would be ideal if you could find 
a gay-friendly therapist. I am sure someone from gaybombay can offer suggestions 
of therapists to consider. But if you simply do not have access to a therapist 
known to be gay-friendly in your area, as an alternative you could tell the 
therapist that you are obsessed with, say, Aishwarya Rai. This 
would not be optimal, but it would at least make it easier for you to get help 
you might not otherwise be able to obtain.
 
Needing help dealing with feelings like this doesn't make 
someone "crazy." And don't be fooled into believing that guys who are decent, 
have good jobs, and are well-educated can't be challenged by issues of 
self-esteem or problems in relationships that might be helped by seeking 
professional help.
 
Out of curiosity, is he the only person for whom you have 
ever had such strong feelings?
 
 
 


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Re: Re: g_b Indias Most Wanted Spa

[tapesh]

Hi All
Vow --Vow --- We now have Jimmy Khan amongst us .
Jimmy How do I approach you -- I need to loose weight ur rather weight 
gained thru lager... have developed a lager belly (not too big though )
losing hair on my scalp - need urgent help to become more hirsute.
Can travel to Mumbai to consult you --- What are your charges ? Hope u aint as 
expensive as that lady oh forget her name the fat lady from Delhi who 
retails her own products in South ex & in London as well ::: kya naam 
hai bhool raha hoon
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[asfan]

  
How do you propose to "solve" sexual diseases???
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Re: g_b Jimmy, total makeover - please!!!!!!!!!!

[asfan]

  
Elizabeth,
I am afraid you've got me wrong.  I am interested in how an unqualified person 
tackles heath problems like sexual diseases.
It would be different if he stuck to beauty aids only.
Best wishes,
Asfan.

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g_b Releasing Your Brakes

[gaybombay]

Releasing
Your Brakes
by: Brian Tracy

Do you have any ideas or attitudes about yourself and your abilities that may
be holding you back from great success and happiness? As it happens, everyone
does.

In this newsletter, you learn how to develop the beliefs that can help you and
get rid of the false ideas that block you from realizing your full potential.

In her wonderful book You Can Heal Your Life,
Louise Hay says that each one of us has feelings of inferiority that are
manifested in the conclusion that we are not good enough. We think that we are
not as good as other people, and we feel that we are not good enough to acquire
and enjoy the things that we want in life. Very often, we feel that we
don’t deserve good things. Even if we do work hard and achieve some
worthwhile objectives, we believe that we are not really entitled to our
successes, and we often engage in behaviors that sabotage our successes.

The fact is that you deserve every good thing that you are capable of acquiring
as the result of the application of your talents. 

Overcoming Obstacles
You need to develop your beliefs about yourself to the point where they serve
you every day in every way. Men and women who accomplish extraordinary things
are just ordinary people who developed themselves mentally to the point where
they were able to overcome the obstacles that stood in their way, and they kept
on keeping on until the goal was attained.

The most harmful beliefs that you can have are what we call
“self-limiting beliefs.” These are beliefs about yourself, most of
which are not true; but they hold you back nonetheless. Sometimes you, or
others, will say that you cannot achieve certain goals because you did not get
enough education.

Questioning Your Excuses
The humorist Josh Billings once said, “It ain’t what a man knows
what hurts him. It’s what a man knows what ain’t true.” It
isn’t the actual truth about yourself and your abilities that hurts you;
it’s the things that you consider to be true and that have no basis in
truth.

The starting point of changing your beliefs is to get up the courage to
question them seriously. Question your basic premises. Check your assumptions.
Ask yourself, “What assumptions am I making about myself or my situation
that might not be true?”

It’s a fact that we fall in love with our excuses and our negative
assumptions. We fall in love with our reasons for not moving ahead. 

The author Richard Bach wrote this beautiful line: “Argue for your
limitations, and sure enough, they’re yours.” Very often, we become
the prosecuting attorney in the case against ourselves. We dispute and argue
and attempt to prove to ourselves and others that our limitations are real. And
the less justification these ideas or beliefs have, the more adamant we become
in attempting to prove them to others.

Whatever they are, resolve to challenge them. Hold them up to the light.
Imagine that you had absolute confidence in yourself in a particular area.
Then, act as if it were impossible to fail, and it shall be!

Action
Exercises
Now, here are three steps you can take immediately to put
these ideas into action.

First, accept that you are as good and as talented in your own way as anyone
else you will ever meet. There is nothing you can’t accomplish if you
really want it.

Second, challenge a belief or idea about yourself that is holding you back.
What if you had extraordinary ability in that area? What difference would that
make in your life?

Third, stop making excuses for lack of success. Instead, start making progress.
Think and talk about what you want and then get busy making it come true.

 

 



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