Re: g_b Coming to India

2005-10-11 Thread allen john

hi ethan,

 warm welcome to india. here no seggregation about
north indians and south indians,.

  all indians have the mind to treat u well. hope ur
journey to india will be a nice memories to
cherish so u r tempted to come again. 

 in north india also good place to stay. south india
also u have beutiful places. no need to worry if u r
coming to india. u r assured every help.

  cheers,,,



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g_b hi...guy serious issue

2005-10-11 Thread chintu
hi friends...
im venkat ...doing my M.S in punerecently i have registerd for
guys4meni clearly mentioned in my profile taht im looking only for
friendship and not intd in sex at all...this guy frm bangalore
messagesme saying that he wants to be friend and when is tart chatting
with him...this is what our conversation goes as...i beg ure pardon
for bad words he used against me...and request moderator not to delete
the mail or reduce it...

glips4u: hi
bangaloredude2004: wereu live
bangaloredude2004: b fst getting late
glips4u: hmm
glips4u: im frm pune...basically frm bangalore
bangaloredude2004: okie
glips4u: looking for friendship only...i added u bcoz u sent me a
message to guys 4men ...my id is passion11
bangaloredude2004: bye
glips4u: god help u guys...
glips4u: u sent me a msg to add me in ure lsit
glips4u: for friendship there
glips4u: and now ure saying bye
glips4u: i really dont understand...y did u at all msg me in guys4men
bangaloredude2004: yes

bangaloredude2004: yes
glips4u: dont have better work or havent read my profile at all tehre?
bangaloredude2004: but u ar in diferent place what u wanna donow
glips4u: y did ua t msg me.
glips4u: and when did i say im looking for sex
glips4u: u liek teh pic and just msg ppl?
glips4u: are u gay.bi?
bangaloredude2004: justlike that
bangaloredude2004: were are u 
bangaloredude2004: i dint say that
glips4u: gay/bi?
bangaloredude2004: bi
glips4u: u rem looking only for sex?
bangaloredude2004: no friendship and good partner
glips4u: and how many guys are u sleeping in a day?...u ever imagine
hwo amny consequences u can get how amny diseases u cna get if u
sleep witha stranger?
glips4u: have any idea?
bangaloredude2004: ask urmother
bangaloredude2004: bastard
bangaloredude2004: getlost 
glips4u: oh ya if she was alive i wud have asked her.


now tell me guysdo gays who want freindship like me deserve this
type of chat...is this what we gays are looking for?
does such type of guys be allowd to sleep with us...or even meet us...
does being gay mean just sleeping with men? nothing other than
taht...give a thought to this guysi dont know wether im correct or
wrong...do i deserve teh above chat and this guy shud be allowed to
sleep arnd with gays who are looking for friendship and decent
relation.how many of us have or among us have faith relation with
a guy is possible...when such type of guys are around us



















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Re: g_b train-ing!

2005-10-11 Thread fk





DEAR Kash:
 
POLITE???
to a molester and a potential 
rapist??/
I think not
Why not ask the women who have been grouped 

to be POLITE to the creeps who can't keep their 
hands to themselves???
Anybody who creates 'public nuisance' ... is 
laiable to meet the long arm of the law
and groping some kid or young person or old person 
male OR female
in a public place and against their 
consent
amounts to sexual molestation
 
The word is APPROPRIATE response
and I advise any young friend
who is subjected to such lecherous 
behaviour
against his /her will
to raise and alarm and to get the pasersby involved 
as well.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  kash ora 
  
  To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Tuesday, October 11, 2005 4:03 
  AM
  Subject: Re: g_b train-ing!
  
  brutal way of refusal/ denying could not be polite?fk 
  <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
  wrote: 
  



kash:
 
when i was about seventeen the same thing 
ahppened to me. It was the one of the   most scary, unnervibg and 
frighteneing and humilaiting experiences. This is nothing but sexual abuse. 
i'll tell you what i did, I ground my cowboy boots hard onto the bastard's 
foot and made him yell, and told him loudly that i'd do the same to his 
balls if he didn't get lost, and the fellow melted away, crowded train or 
no.
 
anybody groping you against your wishes is 
molesting you and deserves the same treatrment meted out to what are known 
as 'eve-teasers'.
 
kris
 

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  kash ora 
  
  To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com 
  
  Sent: Saturday, October 08, 2005 6:13 
  PM
  Subject: Re: g_b train-ing!
  
  hi,
  if anyone gropes /in a crowded train, tell him to handle softly and 
  let him have the pleasure after all he is longing for that and for u no 
  way to move out.//either u enjoy or let him enjoy.// when station comes u 
  move out anyway/ if u wish , when u move out tell him, sorry and not to 
  follow u.//its a way of caring the unknown.
  bye
  Lapin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
  wrote:
  
hey all,recently after work i caught a train, the lights 
were switched off n then the train started moving. the train was packed 
to the fullest and i couldnt move a bit. then suddenly this man 
positions himself facing me and starts groping my crotch. this made me a 
lil uncomfortable. i tried moving, but to no avail. he still was feeling 
my thing and then i did what i had to, i took his hand and gave it back 
to him!!!hehe but he didnt stop, turn my back to him...and he 
started humping. after a while he got it that i was uninterested and 
got off. it was real embarassing and shameful. didnt really like that 
feeling.all that was goin on in my mind were the horror stories 
shared on this forum by ppl. i think i did what i shdve done. 
what do ull think lapin  
  
  
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g_b Re: I Wonder ?

2005-10-11 Thread Vikram
You're mostly finding people on the Net who are only interested in 
sex because the Net is where most people just go for sex. You 
wouldn't look for fish in the vegetable market, so why not try to 
find the guys you're looking for in the right place? And that sure 
isn't online? 

Look, most people go to the Net because it's perfect for anonymous 
encounters, so people who want that will get that. But try coming to 
meetings, parties, film screenings of the kind organised by Gaybombay 
or Humsafar and you will meet people in person and those are more 
likely to result in relationships. 

In the seven years its been in existence Gaybombay has facilitated 
many long term relationships, including my own, which was one of the 
first. But I'm pretty sure all these happened at real life meetings, 
not over the Net. So stop looking for what the Net is unlikely to 
give and try coming to a real world meeting where you might get what 
you want, 

Vikram
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i disagree with vikram. it is not black and white as  vikram is making it out 
to be. there are many decent ppl who use the net to meet ppl for 
friendship/love/realtionship . of course there are those who seek sex. but then 
this happens in gb paries/meeting as well.. there are some who come to enjoy or 
make friends and then there are those who come for finding a buddy for quick 
casual sex. to label either the internet or even the parties/meets one way or 
the other would not be a fair assesment

regards

moderator
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I've been chatting on net for the last 5 month... meet many guys on net. Before 
i started out on internet I use to see this fuzzy dream that I would meet the 
kind of guy I m looking for. Some one to put my head on his sholder when I m 
feeling low and many other things which sound quite soothing for a  shy and 
introward guy like me. I registered myself to the various dating sites.  get 
responses too. But I get only disappointment every time I talk to a new guy. 
Its all start off with the good and nice words and comes to end with SEX. Is 
the sex the only thing for a person to enter into friendship with ? Why can't 
people see the world beyond sex beyond being physical lusty. I m belonging to 
the community which lives under dark. I have many issues to share. But no one 
cares. I guess may be I m expecting too much good from the people. I believed 
in the story of peoples who love each other without any conditions. May be its 
all hype in the stories and nothing more then that. I m fed up with 
the never ending search of this kind




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Re: g_b why

2005-10-11 Thread shishir k
Hi All,

Why we keep talking about our sexuality? 
Its there you cant change it or not any other person. 
So enjoy it 

Love 
Shishir



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i believe we are born gay
i think sexuality is not a choice
i was gay since very young, looked at some men when i
was a kid and got an erection, but at that small age,
i did not know that was an erection, just realised
when i grew older
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g_b autumn is here..how about you...

2005-10-11 Thread Akash
if the weather is wonderful it is now- what with the wafting breeze 
and warm sunshine.it is this weather that makes me desire to have a 
hot cup of coffee- or more- with someone interesting, charming and 
desirable.

its impossible , it seems, to get someone with a dazzling smile, 
smart deportment and sparkling eyes.

hope...!! thats what makes me keep moving...what about you
delhi man in late 30s available for someone over 25 years and smart.

i am 5.10/70kg/34w-based in delhi look forward to decent likeable 
guyslooking for top or versatile, and straight actingits 
asking for alot i know?? per kya karein- i am used to dreaming for 
the impossible

what can i promise you except my exciting company?? can be charming, 
interesting and adventurous- for the right person...

just respond!!!

akash
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Re: g_b Coming to India

2005-10-11 Thread MyOnePenny






In a message dated 10/10/2005 12:35:10 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
EthanI do not know how much of the Third World 
  countriesyou've seen, but if you're new then I suggest youbegin your 
  India visit from the South.  Take a flightto Bangalore, explore 
  Kerala, Karnataka, Tamil Naduand Andhra and work your way up to Goa, 
  Mumbai andthen the (dirty) North Indian parts.  This way 
  theculture shock won't be such a rude one!  SouthernIndia is 
  cleaner, more literate and intellectuallymore advanced than the North (no 
  offense, NorthIndians).  And I include Maharashtra in Southern 
  Indiaas I write this just to make it easier for 
  you.CheersAdrian 

Adrian -
 
I notice continually that Kolkata...the intellectual capital of India...is 
frequently confused by other Indians as being a part of Bangladesh or East 
Pakistan..
 
If Ethan is a forward thinking LBGT from San Francisco...as I...in 1969... 
a child of the vastly successful northeastern region of USA of that 
time...who against all the desires of my friends and family...decided to move to 
the San Francisco bay area...to attend the University of California at 
Berkeley...which at that time was the capital of Free Speech, Equal Rights and 
Counter Culturalism...then I would recommend Kolkata...the Indian capital of 
counter culturalism..
 
you will not find an Oakland Bay and a Golden Gate...but you will find two 
historic Hoogly river bridges...you will not find the Tenderloin but you will 
find the largest purely sexworker dominated districts i have known - see 'Born 
in a Bordello' the US oscar winning documentary produced by Indians and 
Americans that the Indian board of censorship has not permitted screening in 
India( from what Indian actors and producers have told me)..
 
And look at Kolkata as the sick SF or Philadelphia of 1969...and in 35 
years seek out my burial spot and leave the petals of a yellow rose sprinkled on 
it after burying a 2005 quarter at my feet...to thank me for showing you the 
future...not the transient present...in India..
 
Elizabeth
 
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g_b New Play: What the fuck is Metrosexual?

2005-10-11 Thread Himanshu Verma, Red Earth





Theatre 
Event being held as part of Met-Fest: Masculinities in the City
India's 
first ever festival on men and masculinities!
Presented 
by Red Earth
11 
October 
 
Theatre: What the  is 
Metrosexual?
Presented by Working 
Title
A series of monologues, on 
the idea of masculinity and confusion in identity. 
Written by Vijay Krishna 
Acharya
Directed by Jaimini 
Pathak
Performed by Satyajit 
Sharma and Avaan Patel  
11 October, 7:30 pm; The 
Fourth Floor
Invitations available at 
The Fourth Floor. Entry open to all. 
 



Event 
Venue

  
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  Mahal, 192, D.N Road; Fort, Mumbai 40001; Tel: 22074958 / 9119 
  





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