g_b question

[jaydeep kulkarni]

Hi all
 
I dont do anals, so I use my fingers to satisfy my partner. Now he wants 
something else to be inserted in his anus. Any suggestion for a safe and 
hygeinic material ?
 
thanks in advance
 

 


  

Re: g_b FW: Marriage of Convenience

[Sanjay Lulla]

what is this partner, Shrikant? 
All marriages are for mutual convenience. Someone for company to look after 
each other listen to talk to. Be together thru thick and thin sickness and 
health. If you both agree and are convinced to this then whats the necessity to 
gather the whole world and do some tamasha of rituals that have no meaning? 
Meeting of the souls is true marraige. I can know when the one I love is going 
to sneez or cough or is in pain or bliss.

You mail is ambiguous please be clear.
God Bless
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 





From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, March 3, 2010 11:27:37 PM
Subject: Re: g_b FW: Marriage of Convenience

  
Try Prashant ..


On 3 March 2010 16:56, Shrikant Kanchar  
wrote:

  
>he all 
>
>i wana mary with my partneer can someone help m 
>
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Re: g_b FW: Marriage of Convenience

[Aaditya !]

>From one Aditya to another,
If one reads Shrikant's mail carefully (without being in the extremely 
pressurizing RACE of coming up with 'intelligent' comments each time so that 
people applaud and give the brownie points), one will know that the person 
wants help.
If we don't want to help, we should atleast not try to use that to exhibit our 
humour. You are feeding on the person's situation.
A very cheap to thing to do!
Regards,Aditya
  if you can read THIS thank a teacher

--- On Thu, 3/4/10, Aditya Bondyopadhyay  wrote:

From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay 
Subject: Re: g_b FW: Marriage of Convenience
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, March 4, 2010, 12:57 AM















 
 



  



  
  
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On 3 March 2010 16:56, Shrikant Kanchar  
wrote:
















 



  



  
  
  
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g_b Re: Events > Sunday High > The Ultimate Gay Short Film Festival - 7 March 2010

[Nitin Karani]

Just a reminder...

On 2 March 2010 11:22, Nitin Karani  wrote:

>  *You are cordially invited to*
>
>
>
>
> *Sunday High, 7 March 2010*
>
>
>
> *The Ultimate Gay Short Film Festival*
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> Bombay Dost proudly presents THE ULTIMATE GAY SHORT FILM FESTIVAL. After
> our successful festival of lesbian shorts, Sunday High now features the
> ultimate gay short film festival, curated from a worldwide selection of
> critically acclaimed short films that have also been audience favourites in
> lgbt festivals around the world.
>
> Subtitles are present where required...
>
> *O Beautiful* (29 min)
>
> Being gay bashed and left in a corn field in rural America takes an unusual
> turn when one of the bashers returns with remorse and a secret.
>
> *Kali Maa* (15 min)
>
> When an Indian mother finds out her son is the victim of a vicious
> homophobic bully, she delivers her own brand of vigilante justice.
>
> *Weekend in the Countryside* (16 min)
>
> Pierre is invited to go on a weekend trip to an old country house overrun
> by dogs. When Pierre rebuffs Marc’s sexual advances, the canines turn nasty.
>
> *Gay Zombie* (20 min)
>
> A sexually confused zombie meets a boy and eats another in this hilarious
> yet touching tale about how much more the heart bleeds when undead love is
> not reciprocated.
>
> *VGL Hung* (20 min)
>
> Bored and ignored, a magical website gives short and unattractive Terry the
> powers to transform himself into any hunk he desires.
>
> *Dirty Baby Does Fire Island* (8 min)
>
> A very odd short film about a stop-animated baby doll encountering various
> gay things on Fire Island.
>
> *L.T.R.* (16 min)
>
> A young, newly-in-love gay couple allow a documentary filmmaker to film
> their burgeoning long term relationship.
>
> *3 Films against Homophobia:*
>
> *Basket et Maths* (6 min)
>
> *En Colo* (8 min)
>
> *Les Incroyables Aventures De Fusion Man* (8min)
>
> *Bugcrush* (35 min)
>
> A small-town loner's fascination with the new kid in town leads him into
> something much more sinister than he could ever have imagined.
>
> *Lucky Blue* (28 min)
>
> This is the story of a boy who, in spite of his insecurities and fears,
> finally finds the courage to express his love in his own special way.
>
> *Thirteen or So Minutes* (13 min)
>
> Lawrence and Hugh have just met. They both have girlfriends...they're both
> straight. Thirteen or so minutes later, however, something's happened and
> things have changed.
>
> *Just Un Peu De Recomfort* (40 min)
>
> Arnaud and Guillaume think about cigarettes, alcohol and sex. But boys or
> girls? Future looks so blurry when you're a teenager!
>
>
>
>
>
>
> --
>
> *Time:* 4 pm to 8 pm.
>
>
>
> *Venue:* The Humsafar Trust's Drop-in Centre, 4th floor, Municipal Transit
> Building (Vakola Municipal Market Building), Near Raheja Point and Vakola
> Masjid, Santacruz (East), Mumbai.
>
>
>
> *Getting there:* It's approximately minimum fare by auto-rickshaw from
> Santacruz station (East). You could also take routes 311 or 313. The same
> routes also operate from Kurla (West) station..
>
>
>
> *Space courtesy:* The Humsafar Trust.
>
> Note: Programme subject to change without notice in unavoidable
> circumstances.
>
>
>
>

Re: g_b My Husband Is Gay

[Aditya Bondyopadhyay]

Again...Prashant should take on this case and get the guy a honourable
divorce without alimony, and ask the government to pay him compensation for
the horrible suffering that he is going throughfor obviously he is this
way because the government must have treated him like shit etc. etcand
while at it the courts must also declare that homosexuality gives everyone
the right to treat their wives like sex slaves, their kids like chattel, as
well as the freedom to threaten to commit suicide or murder if their crazy
whims and fancies are not met

On 4 March 2010 00:50,  wrote:

>
>
>   Name of Questioner
>
> Suha   - India
>
>
> http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?cid=1265890438061&pagename=IslamOnline-English-Cyber_Counselor%2FCyberCounselingE%2FCyberCounselingE
>
> Title
>
> My Husband Is Gay
>
> Question
>
> *As salamu ‘alaykum*…
>
> I am a Muslim woman from a very respected family in India. I have been
> married for 15 years now. I am very educated, and after my marriage I
> realized that even though my husband was an engineer, he did not seem very
> educated, and I thought it was his upbringing. After a couple of years when
> we had to apply for Canadian immigration, I found out that he was not an
> engineer and had bought his degree. It was very, very sad, but I never
> shared it with my family as he asked me to touch and swear on the Qur’an
> that I would not talk about it ever.
>
> After I got pregnant with my first child, he started talking about his
> desire to see me with other men (physically). I was shocked as he was a
> very, very religious man in front of everyone. This new thing revealed
> itself every time he was intimate. Then he slowly started talking about how
> he had a physical relationship with his male friend all his college life. I
> was devastated, but on and off I used to hear weird stories.
>
> When I was pregnant I did not know what was going on, then he would only
> talk about other men) - how he has always imagined 3-4 men being with me,
> and him watching.
>
> Long story short, after 12 years of fighting with him and telling him how
> crazy he was, it started feeling normal. He used to come and tell me how he
> spoke to some man on the phone, and how men were interested in me. I
> realized that this man was not normal and he did not love me at all. With
> lots of shame I have to say that I had an affair during this as I wanted
> someone to love me only. But I realized no one actually loves you, men only
> want their needs met. So I totally focused on my kids, and tried to keep
> myself busy with my job, kids and home life. My husband is religious, he
> prays 5 times a day, goes to the masjid for *Ijtema'* (collective prayers)
> to propagate Islam.
>
> At some weak moment I confessed about the affair I had, and with that
> started all the problems. He said, you are so lucky, you did all that you
> wanted and you could not satisfy me with my one desire that I want to see
> you with other men, and one day I agreed. What happened between the 3 of us
> was something I cannot put in words. I found out that he is a homosexual.
> Even afterwards he has been begging me to continue on this path. I hate what
> I have done and know what a sin it was. But him, he says, what can we do
> Allah made me like this and literally begs me to live like this. After it
> was done he talks only about namaz, how religious we should be, and how our
> kids should keep saying *du’aa*s before eating, after eating I am
> tired of this madness, this double life...of extreme ends.
>
> He is an active member of the mosque... I have fear for my growing daughter
> and want to separate from him. He threatens me that he will kill himself or
> hurt us all. He cannot live without me. I am so mentally prepared for
> separation and know for sure that my position in *duniya *or *Akhirat*(this 
> world and the Hereafter) is poor. I need some advice!
>
> Date
>
> 03/Mar/2010
>
> Name of Counsellor
>
> *Hwaa 
> Irfan*
>
> Topic
>
> Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Gender Issues , Marital Obstacles, Before
> & After Divorce
>
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g_b can anyone guide me?

[Manish Manish]

hi
I am trying 2 make friends here but not getting any success. am i doing 
anything wrong. can anyone guide me.
manish


  

Re: g_b FW: Marriage of Convenience

[Aditya Bondyopadhyay]

Try Prashant..

On 3 March 2010 16:56, Shrikant Kanchar wrote:

>
>
> he all
>
> i wana mary with my partneer can someone help m
>
> --
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> Homepage.
>
> 
>



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Name of Questioner

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Title

My Husband Is Gay 


Question

As salamu 'alaykum.

I am a Muslim woman from a very respected family in India. I have been
married for 15 years now. I am very educated, and after my marriage I
realized that even though my husband was an engineer, he did not seem very
educated, and I thought it was his upbringing. After a couple of years when
we had to apply for Canadian immigration, I found out that he was not an
engineer and had bought his degree. It was very, very sad, but I never
shared it with my family as he asked me to touch and swear on the Qur'an
that I would not talk about it ever. 

After I got pregnant with my first child, he started talking about his
desire to see me with other men (physically). I was shocked as he was a
very, very religious man in front of everyone. This new thing revealed
itself every time he was intimate. Then he slowly started talking about how
he had a physical relationship with his male friend all his college life. I
was devastated, but on and off I used to hear weird stories. 

When I was pregnant I did not know what was going on, then he would only
talk about other men) - how he has always imagined 3-4 men being with me,
and him watching. 

Long story short, after 12 years of fighting with him and telling him how
crazy he was, it started feeling normal. He used to come and tell me how he
spoke to some man on the phone, and how men were interested in me. I
realized that this man was not normal and he did not love me at all. With
lots of shame I have to say that I had an affair during this as I wanted
someone to love me only. But I realized no one actually loves you, men only
want their needs met. So I totally focused on my kids, and tried to keep
myself busy with my job, kids and home life. My husband is religious, he
prays 5 times a day, goes to the masjid for Ijtema' (collective prayers) to
propagate Islam. 

At some weak moment I confessed about the affair I had, and with that
started all the problems. He said, you are so lucky, you did all that you
wanted and you could not satisfy me with my one desire that I want to see
you with other men, and one day I agreed. What happened between the 3 of us
was something I cannot put in words. I found out that he is a homosexual.
Even afterwards he has been begging me to continue on this path. I hate what
I have done and know what a sin it was. But him, he says, what can we do
Allah made me like this and literally begs me to live like this. After it
was done he talks only about namaz, how religious we should be, and how our
kids should keep saying du'aas before eating, after eating I am tired of
this madness, this double life...of extreme ends. 

He is an active member of the mosque... I have fear for my growing daughter
and want to separate from him. He threatens me that he will kill himself or
hurt us all. He cannot live without me. I am so mentally prepared for
separation and know for sure that my position in duniya or Akhirat (this
world and the Hereafter) is poor. I need some advice! 


Date

03/Mar/2010


Name of Counsellor

 
 Hwaa
Irfan


Topic

Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Gender Issues , Marital Obstacles, Before &
After Divorce

 

 

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g_b FW: Marriage of Convenience

[Shrikant Kanchar]

he all 
 
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Re: g_b TOI Editorial - Gays and Bigots

[Sanjay Lulla]

I was under the impression that it was a supernatural phenomena, near perfect 
balance of the ying and yang :-) SOmeone above the ordinary mortals, angels and 
now these demons.

I wished to dance and play
but still have to transgress a long way
to gather the few that have gone astray
and quite a few demons to slay
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 





From: Deep 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, March 3, 2010 10:31:41 AM
Subject: g_b TOI Editorial - Gays and Bigots

  
SEC O N D O P I N I O N 
Gays and bigots 
It's the `unnatural' that has enhanced the human situation 
Jug Suraiya 


Would you like your child to be gay or lesbian? That was the rhetorical 
question raised by Aligarh Muslim University vice-chancellor Abdul Aziz while 
defending the institution' s decision to suspend professor S R Siras for 
alleged homosexuality. 
The question is particularly relevant in the context of the Supreme Court 
hearing on the Delhi high court's watershed judgement which decriminalised 
consensual homosexuality between adults. Some 16 petitioners have applied to 
the apex court to strike down the high court judgement. These include religious 
and political organisations, NGOs, astrologers and a follower of yoga guru Baba 
Ramdev. The reasons given for their opposition to the legitimisation of 
consensual same-sex relationships are as disparate as the plaintiffs 
themselves, and include the assertion that homosexuality would be a "disaster" 
for India's defence forces and the security of the country. (This, 
incidentally, is contradicted by a global survey conducted by the University of 
California, Santa Barbara, which showed that legitimising homosexuality 
improved, rather than undermined, military morale.) 
But by and large the opposition to homosexuality is that it is `unnatural', 
biologically, emotionally and culturally, hence the pejorative term `queer'. 
According to homophobes, gays are `queer' because what they do and feel is an 
affront to our nature and to so-called `natural law'. 
This argument raises more questions than it answers. The quest of 
civilisation surely has always been to expand the horizon of what previous 
generations have considered to be `unnatural' or taboo. For instance, many 
life-saving medical practices such as vaccination against killer diseases like 
small 
pox were initially deemed to be `unnatural'. 
For upper caste Hindus travel to foreign lands – kala pani – was an 
`unnatural' abomination which incurred social ostracism. If this `unnatural' 
transgression had not been made natural, if this taboo had not been broken, the 
great Indian diaspora – one of the more significant factors in the cultural and 
economic crosscurrents of globalisation – would never have been made possible. 
In sexual matters, the distinction between the `natural' and the 
`unnatural' is particularly problematic. In some major religions – such as 
Roman Catholicism, for instance – even heterosexual relationships are 
permissible only between man and wife, and for the sole purpose of procreation. 
On an already dangerously over-populated planet, such a proposition is not just 
morally but also environmentally dubious. Equally harmful in a world threatened 
by AIDS is the corollary injunction against the use of condoms. 
From vaccination, to migration, to the use of prophylactics, it is often 
the so-called `unnatural' that has expanded and enhanced the human situation. 
There is one malady however that has – over the millennia – proved to be beyond 
the scope of either prevention or cure. It is a bane so deeply rooted in our 
nature that it might be called the original – and perhaps the only – sin: it is 
the bane of bigotry. More than any other single disease or affliction it is 
bigotry that has consistently posed the biggest threat and the biggest 
challenge to the ongoing story of civilisation. Indeed, the cruel paradox is 
that bigotry – which seems so inherently `natural' in so many of us – is 
actually the most unnatural of phenomena in terms of human evolution and 
survival. Bigotry kills. It kills individuals and ideas. And given half a 
chance it will kill what we call civilisation. 
So, how would you answer the question: Would you like your children to be 
gays or lesbians? Perhaps the most `natural' – or should it be unnatural? – 
answer to that would be: Never mind all that – i just hope they don't turn out 
to be bigots.

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