Re: g_b mumbai

[Karna Mehta]

Hi,

If you are in to matured men do reply
I am 50+, 5ft 8, 85 kg and love young guys like you

Re: g_b suggestions for gay friendly hotel in Mumbai

[cuteboy]

hello rita kumar
guys can visit a guy in any hotel rooms, if u desire , no one can stop you 
it all  depends on how you go about it
are u going to declare while registering that you are gay and  purpose of stay  
is to have sex in the room & all the guys visting you are for sex

it can be for business purpose ,so whats the problem

tc

--- On Thu, 10/2/11, rita  wrote:

From: rita 
Subject: g_b suggestions for gay friendly hotel in Mumbai
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, 10 February, 2011, 7:12 PM







 



  



  
  
  Any suggestions about gay friendly hotels anywhere in Mumbai where guys 
can visit me in my room?






 





 



  

g_b Re: Events > Bombay Dost Sunday High > Valentine's Day Special movie: 'Were the World Mine'

[Nitin Karani]

A reminder

On 5 February 2011 12:35, Nitin Karani  wrote:

>
>
> *cordially invites you to the
> *
>
>
>
>
>  * Sunday High Film Screening*
>
>
>
> * 13 February 2011*
>
>
>
> *Valentine's Day Special: 'Were the World Mine'*
>
>
>
>
>
> *
>
> *
>
>
>
>
>
> *Were the World Mine * (2008;
> 95min; English)
>
>
>
> If you had a love-potion, who would you make fall madly in love with you?
> Timothy, prone to escaping his dismal high school reality through dazzling
> musical daydreams, gets to answer that question in a very real way. After
> his eccentric teacher casts him as Puck in A Midsummer Night's Dream, he
> stumbles upon a recipe hidden within the script to create the play's
> magical, purple love-pansy. Armed with the pansy, Timothy's fading spirit
> soars as he puckishly imposes a new reality by turning much of his
> narrow-minded town gay, beginning with the rugby-jock of his dreams.
> Ensnaring family, friends and enemies in this chaos, Timothy forces them to
> walk a mile in his musical shoes. The course of true love never did run
> smooth; it's a bumpy ride.
>
> Along the way, there are lots of shirtless hot rugby players, and amazing
> singing. The film seems to move effortlessly between realistic scenes and
> those that are surreal and fantastic---in all senses of that word. The cast
> is terrific---and the music is transcendent.
>
>
> --
>
> *Time:*  6pm to 8pm.
>
> *Venue:* The Humsafar Trust-Centre for Excellence, Ground floor, Rivera
> Building, 15th Road, Santacruz West, Mumbai - 400 054. (see map:
> www.tinyurl.com/cefemap).
>
> *Space courtesy:* The Humsafar Trust http://www.facebook.com/HumsafarTrust
>
> *Keep in touch with Bombay Dost via:*
>
> The Bombay Dost Wiki (http://bombay-dost.pbworks.com/) OR
>
> The Facebook Fan Page 
> (http://www.facebook.com/Bombay-Dost)
> OR
>
> follow Bombaydost on Twitter (http://twitter.com/bombaydost OR
>
> Google Buzz: http://www.google.com/profiles/bombaydost2009 OR
>
> subscribe to Google SMS Channel (
> http://labs.google.co.in/smschannels/subscribe/BombayDost) OR
>
> e-mail: bombaydost2...@gmail.com OR
>
> find us on Google Wave: bombaydost2...@googlewave.com
>
>
>

Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

[Atharva -]

well ... all gays are not sluts ... but some ...

Rgds,
-Atharva


On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 11:58 AM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay
wrote:

>
>
> Dear Sameer,
> Your disappointment may be valid because you have not found what you
> wnated, namely love and commitment. But that is not reason enough for
> you to take a moral high ground and "feel sorry" for others simply
> because they are looking for sex and not love.
>
> Please understand that if somebody honestly wants just sex and not
> love, then for that person that is a valid quest as long as he is not
> keeping anyone under any misrepresentation or fraud. There is nothing
> wrong in wanting and seeking sex and you have no right to judge them.
>
> If you have to "feel sorry" then please do so only for yourself and
> your inability to find what you really wanted. In any event the
> ethereal and anonymous medium of the internet is probably the last
> place where you should be looking for love and commitment. Love and
> commitment happens with real people in real life. For that you have to
> go out and meet people. You have to do that by getting into places
> where real gay people are, and it is not going to fall on a platter
> before you because you have written 5 long mails that were more
> venting and fantastical than realistic.
>
> So, get off your moral high horse, dirty your sandals and tread the
> real world and get real in the process, and stop being judgemental.
>
> Best,
> Aditya Bondyopadhyay
>
>
> On 03/02/2011, Sameer Raj  wrote:
> > Hi everyone,
> > well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the
> > identity
> > but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our
> > world.i
> > have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking
> for
> > the
> > person that i would be happy to spend my life with.
> > but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and
> so
> > and
> > so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct
> that
> > it
> > becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just
> having
> > one
> > night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this
> > world
> >
> > well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of
> > it, i
> > would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a
> > night
> > stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end
> > this
> > is wat we all have to live with.
> >
> > i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i
> feel
> > for
> > those who think that being gay is just about having a night
> stand..
> >
> >
>
> --
> --
> ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY
> Development Sector Consultant
> Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)
>
> Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/
> 
> Notice to all recipients:
> Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to
> be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of
> such
> communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya
> Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents
> respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or
> criminal nature.
>
> Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his
> agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every
> communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered
> forward of another communication received by this email account, or a
> referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
>  
>

g_b Re: The GayBombay Film Festival of Gay Films on Sunday 13 February 2011

[vgd67]

I've already started getting calls from people wanting to know which films 
we're showing at the GB film fest tomorrow, and like every time I have to start 
with profuse apologies for only finalising the films at the last minute. 

And this time I don't even have the excuse of only getting the films at the 
last minute. These films have been sitting with me for a month, courtesy Jay 
Vithalani, who was kind enough to bring them down from the US, and the docu has 
been with me even longer. I've just not had the time to sit and watch them, so 
for all those who plan to come to the film fest based on the films we are 
showing, I am really really sorry.

On the other hand I note that even with these late finalisations of the 
schedule, the hall is packed each time. Either guys trust us to choose good 
films, or they're just happy to be hanging out with a bunch of gay guys on a 
Sunday afternoon, nor they are coming for those long tea breaks where I think 
some sorts of records are set for the number of phone numbers exchanged in half 
an hour, or maybe they just really like the National College samosas we serve 
in the second break...

If its the last, I have bad news, because the canteen guy just called to say 
that there won't be samosas because the guy who makes them has gone back to UP 
and not come back. He says he will give us vadas instead. So I'm sorry for all 
the samosa lovers, but that apart this should be a good film fest. I don't 
think any of the films are really outstanding, but they are all very watchable 
and attractive in different ways. 

For all those who don't want to read a detailed description, here are the 
timings:
1.45 pm - 3.30 pm - The String (French-Tunisian feature)
4.00 pm - 5.30 pm - Voices Against 377 (documentary)
  - Out in India (documentary)
6.00 pm - 7.45 pm - Bear City (American feature)

For those who want more information, here goes:

1) The String:
There are two and three quarter reasons for showing this film. The first is, it 
just felt appropriate at the moment because its set in Tunisia, the country 
which launched the Arab revolutions that claimed its huge victory with Mubarak 
stepping down yesterday. 

This is not really logical, I know, but it was so amazing hearing the roar from 
Tahrir Square yesterday, and remembering that it was the end of Mubarak's 
government who persecuted the Queen Boat group of gay men in such a public and 
horrible way. I remembered the claustrophobic world of Egyptian gay guys from 
when I was there 14 years ago, at a time when Mubarak seemed set to stay for 
ever... and it felt really good to hear that roar. 

We shouldn't have great hopes that things will improve hugely for gay men in 
Egypt now, but it shows that change is always possible. Even more change might 
be possible in Tunisia which, as this film shows, has a more cosmopolitan and 
accepting culture, and since the revolution started there, this film feels 
really appropriate. 

(There's even a small bit in the film where the lead character goes on about 
the need to become political. This feels a bit stilted, but what doesn't is 
another small film where a guy pretending to be a policeman tries blackmailing 
the two guys - this suddenly has a real power, when you get a sense of how 
quickly things can go wrong in a police state). 

OK, about the story. This film focuses on Malik, the son of a wealthy 
French-Arab family, who has come back home after the death of his father. He 
has to deal with his personal neuroses, the trauma of having watched his father 
die of cancer, his total drama queen of a mother, who of course wants him to 
get married and just to top it all off, his attraction to Bilal, a really 
attractive guy who is his mother's handyman. 

Bilal is also French-Arab, but from a very different background. His is working 
class, and grew up in France and has only just come back to Tunisia for 
complicated reasons. He is actually even more of a stranger here than Malik 
because he doesn't speak Arabic, he doesn't have the automatic entry that money 
brings and, above all, he is unashamedly gay in a country which prefers to 
sweep such things under the carpet. 

All this sets up a fascinating set of tensions, that in many ways feels really 
relevant to a country like India - the intense mother-son bonds, the 
all-embracing, but also suffocating family, the problems of class which get 
doubly complicated when crossed with sexuality, the easy double standards of 
the rich, the ambiguities of patron-servant relationships, the dislocations of 
coming 'home' when you aren't sure what home means, and there's even a sort of 
subtrack about skin colour since Malik is fair, while Bilal is dark. 

Bilal is the second reason for seeing the film. All the actors are decent and 
attractive, but Bilal is played by French actor Salim Kechiouche who is 
something else. I'm sorry, I'm going to be all fangirly and post a link to his 
site so you can see what I'm talk

g_b Re: Lawyer - Anyone

[vgd67]

The Lawyer's Collective, the group lead by Anand Grover who has been fighting 
our 377 case, also tackles issues like this. Mail me directly at 
vg...@yahoo.co.uk and give me some details about the case and I'll put you or 
your friend in touch with a relevant lawyer. 

Also, please consider coming the next time GB organises a legal rights workshop 
because these are exactly the sort of issues that are tackled in it. 


--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Sexy Muscle  wrote:
>
> Hi All,
>  
> One of my friend is harassed from his employer, i want some views on to 
> protect 
> my friend from harrassment, he is in mumbai 
> 
>  
> anyone can help me
>  
> ansh 
> 
> 
>  
> 
> TV dinner still cooling? 
> Check out "Tonight's Picks" on Yahoo! TV.
> http://tv.yahoo.com/
>

Re: g_b Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys

[manu nehru]

I have to agree with Sanjay. There is nothing called "willing" minors. Just 
Minors whose trust in elders are being taken advantage of. Besides, do you 
expect minors to know the difference between what is right and what is wrong at 
that age? They are led to beileve that it is "right" because and older person 
is 
asking them to do it.

Manu





From: Sanjay Lulla 
To: Love Love 
Cc: GB ; G_B 
Sent: Wed, 9 February, 2011 6:26:52 PM
Subject: g_b Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys

  
its not individual opinion, but not only is it  immoral but illegal also. So I 
guess you ought to mind your business more properly and behave like an 
respopnsible member of the society. 

Peopple like you have given the gay community a bad name.

I copy the gay community and beg their opinion as to who should mind his 
buisness.
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 





From: Love Love 
To: Sanjay Lulla 
Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 3:21:15 PM
Subject: Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys


Sanjay, its individual's opinion...n wow u r Angry :P
You better mind your own business, instead of giving me suggestions.
 
--Raj
  


--- On Wed, 9/2/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:


>From: Sanjay Lulla 
>Subject: Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys
>To: hindigaysto...@yahoogroups.com, raj_love20...@yahoo.in
>Cc: "Aditya bandopadhyay" 
>Date: Wednesday, 9 February, 2011, 10:49 AM
>
>
>Mr. Raj Love, and what do you mean by 'willing minors or seducing them without 
>using force" ?
>You need to seek serious medical help, see a counselor/psychologist.
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 
>
>
>
>
>

From: Love Love 
>To: hindigaysto...@yahoogroups.com
>Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 10:49:13 AM
>Subject: Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys
>
>  
>I totally agree with Vikas.
>
>--- On Mon, 7/2/11, Vikas Pandey  wrote:
>
>
>>From: Vikas Pandey 
>>Subject: Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys
>>To: hindigaysto...@yahoogroups.com
>>Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 9:39 PM
>>
>>
>>  
>>I think Several sexual acts are indeed immoral. I think worst immoral 
>>sexual act is incest.
>>
>>And, I think if one is engaged in immoral acts, he should be ready to 
>>get called names.
>>
>>I don't oppose sex with willing minors or by seducing them without 
>>using force, but I would oppose sex with minors being published or 
>>shared publicly. If anyone is doing it, just keep it to yourself. Law 
>>would not understand why you did it and would prosecute you because 
>>minors just don't have any right to consent, so any minor's 
>>"willingness" to have sex is no meaning. It is not just about gay sex, 
>>it is also about straight sex.
>>
>>--
>>Vikas
>>
>>On 2/6/2011 3:01 PM India Time, _Aman Cool_ wrote:
>>
>>> Thats what i meant to say.people like u should be banned who want
>>> others to be banned.
>>> Why cant u stop talking for others and speak for urself
>>> Who r u to ban anyone?
>>> just say that it is wrong in ur opinion, thats it!
>>> U r no one to declare a sexual act as immoral.
>>> Thank god people like u r not controlling the world...stop making
>>> judgments on what u believe is right.!!!.
>>> --
>>> *From:* Alexandro Rodgers 
>>> *To:* hindigaysto...@yahoogroups.com
>>> *Sent:* Fri, February 4, 2011 4:36:47 PM
>>> *Subject:* Re: [hg4] Be Practical Guys
>>>
>>> Actuallyapart from being illegal pedophilia is very wrong
>>> Children are easily taken advantage off in sexual situations and
>>> unable to defend themselves in these situations. It is also very easy
>>> to corrupt their young minds and their warp reality.
>>> Remember that adults are charged with the responsibility for taking
>>> care of children. Enticing them to have sex with you is an abuse of
>>> the power and authority invested in you.
>>> Adults who engage in these activities are to be treated with
>>> suspicion. There can be no doubt that what they are doing is most
>>> definitely immoral.
>>> Members of this group who suggest otherwise should be banned.
>>>
>>> *From:* Aman Cool 
>>> *Sent:* Thursday, February 03, 2011 10:28 PM
>>> *To:* hindigaysto...@yahoogroups.com
>>> 
>>> *Subject:* [hg4] Be Practical Guys
>>>
>>> Most of the people hate gays, just because we r what we r and what we do.
>>> And we know that they r wrongbut they do it as they cannot
>>> understand us!
>>> similarly we cannot understand people who r interested only in young
>>> guys(11-14yrs), or those who r interested in incest sex.
>>>
>>> So, we having faced the same situations in our life should be more
>>> practical in dealing such cases...
>>> we dont have the right to abuse them or declare their acts as immoral.
>>> One should just say that "I do not like such acts, and according to me
>>> such posts should be banned in the group"rather than abusing those
>>> who do it.
>>>
>>>
>>> --

Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

[Prem Nath]

I did not mean to say that you will never be happy, I just wanted to say be 
practical, know what you can and cannot have. You cannot play pool with a rope 
and a lame person cannot win a sprint. And by that I dont mean to say that "we 
are all ugly and we are all dumb, and we will never find anyone" I am no one to 
make such a call. You may find love at 20, 30, 40, 50 at any age. All I meant 
to say was be practical and know who you are and what you can and cannot 
get/have.
When I go shopping I have a budget, there are shirts that sell for 3000 Rs and 
all I can afford is to spend 1000-1500 Rs. I try to find happiness with the 
1000 Rs shirt and I do succeed rather than being sad that I cannot afford 3000 
Rs shirt.

btw I really liked it, I dont who the author is but its good:
kumodini jalhari base
chanda base akashi
jo jahi ke bhavta
so tahi ke pasi

If everyone had strength and unfalling conviction in their passion then 
everyone in this world would be rich and happy. Life is not fair and its not a 
fairytale, we dont get to chose our parents, our looks, our IQ but what we can 
try is to make the best of what we have. Be practical - life would be easy and 
you would be happy.

--- On Thu, 2/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India  wrote:

From: Tintin Mumbai India 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, February 10, 2011, 5:37 AM







 



  



  
  
  कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me,चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand 
chadhe Akaash...जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta,जाये उसी के पास... / 
jaaye usi ke paas...(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)...

;)



On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla  
wrote:

















 



  



  
  
  
kumodini jalhari base
chanda base akashi
jo jahi ke bhavta
so tahi ke pasi
 
is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion?
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: Prem Nath 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner



  





yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a 
billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate 
want considering I have a birth right to be happy.



btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a 
little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness.

--- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:




From: Sanjay Lulla 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner


To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM


  




Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: cuteboy 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

  





Darpan jhoot na bole
lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain





--- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:




From: Sanjay Lulla 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner


To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM


  




oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: Prem Nath 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

  





we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we 
often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 
1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are 
not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, 
but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise 
as charlotte lucas was.



let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer 
before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), 
if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if 
you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for 
mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality



--- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj  wrote:


From: Manoj 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM


  







Love the last line u wrote Sanjay.
 
on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right 
patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list 
by soliciting a life partner?
I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of 
luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher 
probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its 
difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not.


Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here.
Manoj
--- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:


From: Sanj

Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

[abhishek chowdhury]

Hi guys,
I believe just we need to think out of the box, 1st we need to be a normal guy 
..normal in the sense : Psychologically correct , which makes sense in our real 
life..which will help us to be clear from inside what we are looking exactly 
towards a relationship and in your partner.
Thanks,Abhishek

--- On Thu, 10/2/11, Tintin Mumbai India  wrote:

From: Tintin Mumbai India 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, 10 February, 2011, 11:07 AM















 
 



  



  
  
  कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me,चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand 
chadhe Akaash...जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta,जाये उसी के पास... / 
jaaye usi ke paas...(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)...

;)



On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla  
wrote:

















 



  



  
  
  
kumodini jalhari base
chanda base akashi
jo jahi ke bhavta
so tahi ke pasi
 
is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion?
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: Prem Nath 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner



  





yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a 
billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate 
want considering I have a birth right to be happy.



btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a 
little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness.

--- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:




From: Sanjay Lulla 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner


To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM


  




Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: cuteboy 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

  





Darpan jhoot na bole
lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain





--- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:




From: Sanjay Lulla 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner


To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM


  




oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: Prem Nath 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner

  





we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we 
often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 
1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are 
not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, 
but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise 
as charlotte lucas was.



let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer 
before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), 
if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if 
you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for 
mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality



--- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj  wrote:


From: Manoj 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com


Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM


  







Love the last line u wrote Sanjay.
 
on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right 
patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list 
by soliciting a life partner?
I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of 
luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher 
probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its 
difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not.


Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here.
Manoj
--- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:


From: Sanjay Lulla 
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner


To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM


  




no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor 
hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many 
times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards 
and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges 
survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who 
truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b 
or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets 
not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself.


 
last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both 
the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ev

Re: g_b Lawyer - Anyone

[geldmann281]

And what exactly is the definition of harassment here? 

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From: Sexy Muscle 
Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2011 03:46:54 
To: ; 
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Subject: g_b Lawyer - Anyone

Hi All,
 
One of my friend is harassed from his employer, i want some views on to protect 
my friend from harrassment, he is in mumbai 

 
anyone can help me
 
ansh 


 

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