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Re: g_b any cursing places in antophill or wadala
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Re: g_b Any Gym Instructor / Serious Gymer here?
google baba - youtube join bodybuilding.com how to work out for glutes From: Tintin Mumbai India To: B G ; gay_bombay Sent: Thursday, 16 May 2013, 13:35 Subject: g_b Any Gym Instructor / Serious Gymer here? Hello Guys, I dont get enough time to go to gym regularly, but still whatever time I get, I try to utilize that in some exercise. Besides that, I also have a small gym in my apartment, having dumb bells, bar bells etc. and as much I know, these are enough to basic workout. In the meantime, I always think if I get ask about my doubts, or basic queries to some gym instructor or any serious gym going guy (who knows the techniques). Some of my doubts, I really find that I can not ask to straight gym guy / gym instructor, unless I am friendly to him. For Ex, "What should I do to get a firm round bum?". Atleast I cant ask this question to any gym goer guy, even I know him. So? Anyone there, to answer my queries? Abhay --- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing
g_b Cruising place in dubai.
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Re: g_b Suggestion for name of my new NGO.
hello nick manas, what will this NGO do for the community ??? From: nick manas To: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" ; "gaybom...@yahoogroups.com" Sent: Sunday, 14 October 2012, 3:35 Subject: g_b Suggestion for name of my new NGO. Hi All, I am opening an LGBT NGO & I would like to have a name to the organization. Please suggest a good name so that I can have it registered for us. Any designers who can also have a logo designed for me would be great so that I can have that registered too. Once we finalize all the paper works I would also have a website developed myself for public. Please note that I dont need any finances for this as I well capable of taking care of the finances. I am working in US so please dont take me work. Thanks & Regards. Love U All.
Re: g_b Re: seeking satanic groups or a Master all over the world
height of desperation From: Deep To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, 9 April 2012, 21:41 Subject: g_b Re: seeking satanic groups or a Master all over the world Dude you need help. Psychiatric help. You are more than a little nuts. --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "gersil88" wrote: > > Hello > I am a slave, 35 years old, seeking satanic groups or a Master all over the > world that will take care of me and train me to be a good student and slave > of the lord Satan. > I am ready to do all what is required and in all ways be a humble boy for you. > I can participate in all kinds of rituals and understand that I initially > will be used, exploited and to please others. > If you could help me I am ready to be your slave and my body and soul belongs > to you. > You are welcome to write my e-mail > vel@... > M. >
Re: g_b Need Help Please
Deep , i dont encourage any single gay man spoiling life and dreams of innocent women From: Deep To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, 2 March 2012, 19:22 Subject: g_b Need Help Please "Cuteboy andheriguy1" aapko kaise pata ki "Style Me" is gareeb? For all you know he may have married that woman for her (illegal) dowry :-p Yes, I do come across strongly in my reply to "Style Me". I have attempted to convey my contempt for men like him. Let me tell you why. Imagine "Cuteboy andheriguy1" that you were born a sensitive and an intelligent woman. Like many humans on this earth you too harbored hopes and dreams of a happy marital life. Where your husband would be one of your main sources of encouragement, love and support. Now imagine that husband of yours turned out to be a low-life in the guise of "Style Me". This human scum has two faces - one for you and the other for his flings. Your husband makes excuses to stay out at night while he "enjoys". Your husband has another man in his life. Your husband is always afraid of being blackmailed and catching some disease. Every night you are sleeping with the enemy. Except that you don't know it. And one day, "Cuteboy andheriguy1", after maybe two kids your world falls apart: that husband has bandied around town collecting male trophies and one of his conquests comes home - your little home that you built with love, care and sweat in all those years. How would you feel then "Cuteboy andheriguy1"? Won't you feel INFURIATED? DISGUSTED? CHEATED? Thank God that picture I painted for you is just that, a picture. You are, after all, a single gay man! Would you like it if scum like "Style Me" go around advising single gay men to spoil the lives of innocent women? Won't you show your "bharaas" then? Deep http://gaynotes.blogspot.com --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, cuteboy wrote: > > Deep aapne saari bharaas is gareeb per nikal diya > hope u feeling better now > > > > From: Deep gaymanproud31@... > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Friday, 24 February 2012, 1:16 > Subject: Re: g_b Need Help Please > > > >  > > Dear Style Me, > > While we debate "morality" in its various forms, you have truly set the > highest standards of moral values by your acts. Amazing! > > Tumne to kamaal kar dikhaayaa. Ab mard aur aurat dono ke saath aanand karne > lage ho? Vah vah! Aisa karo, jab tumhaaraa beta 18 saal ka ho jaaye use apne > saath gay aur straight sex experience karne ke liye le jaanaa. Beti ko bhi > mat chhorna, jab voh adult ho jaye. Theek hai? > > Aur apnee biwi ko keh dena ki woh jise chaahe usay apnaa le. After all even > your wife would want to "enjoy both sex lives, lesbian and straight". > > Baba Ramdev would be proud of you! > > By the way, Mr. Style Me, have you heard of wife swapping parties? Do throw > such a party at your house every weekend. That way you will truly be called a > paragon of virtue and morality. > > Breathlessly awaiting your reply, > Deep > > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, style me style_me92@ wrote: > > > > Before my marriage, i was in same situation. But marry with lesbian is not > > a solution. You feel some problems in starting, but slowly slowly you feel > > comfertable with your wife. After three years of marriage i am enjoying > > both sex lifes gay and straight > > > > --- On Wed, 2/22/12, San Patil sweetsan_patil@ wrote: > > > > From: San Patil sweetsan_patil@ > > Subject: g_b Need Help Please > > To: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > > Date: Wednesday, February 22, 2012, 6:16 AM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi all, > >  I am an educated gay and my family is pressurizing me for marriage. > > Now I have 1 optionI am searching for a Lesbian who can marry me for > > conveniance. For society to showwe both can understand each others and be > > free individually > >  Anyone can help me in this regards. > > >
Re: g_b Need Help Please
Deep aapne saari bharaas is gareeb per nikal diya hope u feeling better now From: Deep To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, 24 February 2012, 1:16 Subject: Re: g_b Need Help Please Dear Style Me, While we debate "morality" in its various forms, you have truly set the highest standards of moral values by your acts. Amazing! Tumne to kamaal kar dikhaayaa. Ab mard aur aurat dono ke saath aanand karne lage ho? Vah vah! Aisa karo, jab tumhaaraa beta 18 saal ka ho jaaye use apne saath gay aur straight sex experience karne ke liye le jaanaa. Beti ko bhi mat chhorna, jab voh adult ho jaye. Theek hai? Aur apnee biwi ko keh dena ki woh jise chaahe usay apnaa le. After all even your wife would want to "enjoy both sex lives, lesbian and straight". Baba Ramdev would be proud of you! By the way, Mr. Style Me, have you heard of wife swapping parties? Do throw such a party at your house every weekend. That way you will truly be called a paragon of virtue and morality. Breathlessly awaiting your reply, Deep --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, style me wrote: > > Before my marriage, i was in same situation. But marry with lesbian is not a > solution. You feel some problems in starting, but slowly slowly you feel > comfertable with your wife. After three years of marriage i am enjoying both > sex lifes gay and straight > > --- On Wed, 2/22/12, San Patil sweetsan_patil@... wrote: > > From: San Patil sweetsan_patil@... > Subject: g_b Need Help Please > To: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Wednesday, February 22, 2012, 6:16 AM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > > Hi all, > Â I am an educated gay and my family is pressurizing me for marriage. Now I > have 1 optionI am searching for a Lesbian who can marry me for conveniance. > For society to showwe both can understand each others and be free > individually > Â Anyone can help me in this regards. >
Re: g_b A Question
why depend on group, some good samaritan can counsel them From: Sanjay Lulla To: GB ; G_B Sent: Wednesday, 1 February 2012, 12:43 Subject: g_b A Question HI Last week a facebook contact was very upset and afraid, he was terribly depressed. One of his friends in MP had comeout to his family and was severely trashed by his brother as a result of which that guy tried to end his life. My contact was also contemplating the same steps. I didn't know what to do I gave him the contact number of Humsafar and asked him to contact the counselor there and also advise his friend form MP. I have no clue how they are now as the contact is now inaccessible. Is there or are there any groups helplines with a wide network in India? I had heard about some UMANG group and had requested info form some one on these elite groups but he die to his inhibitions and idyocrancies did not bothered to reply. Well it may save a life; is there anyone who has such information and is not biased or stuck-up to share it? Thanks little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
g_b Honest Relationship
Aditya If you didnt find one that does not mean all are unlucky and frustrated like you From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, 8 December 2011, 5:34 Subject: Re: g_b Honest Relationship Your Criteria includes 'Mentally Stable' and 'Must not be confused' Pls start looking in the gay listserves of Burkina Fasothese don't exist here on GB Happy hunting.. :-)) Aditya B On 12/7/11, attract wrote: > Hello guys > > ABOUT ME:age 23, wheatish, moderately built, average looking with MANLY > appearance. > -DOWN TO EARTH, Caring, understanding, matured, mentally stable. > -Well spoken, decent, soft and gemtle at heart > - at the same time respects others feelings, relations living in delhi, > india > > LOOKING FOR: A person > -Who is seriously looking for long term based relationship- with above > characters as me. > -who is kind hearted, decent, soft spoken and matured mentally. > -Loves his family and career first. > -Who knows what he wants in life and is true to himself. > > Basically looking for a long term (MAY BE LIFE TIME) relationship > with my MAN, who is MANLY, well behaved and gentle in approach. He > must not be confused . > > He should give me all the mental, emotional and spiritual support in > every day of my life as I would be offering to him. He should give me > same degree of loyalty, fidelity, committment and love that I show to > him. > > Let us start off as friends and let us see what destiny has for us. > If we click, may be we would add our names in the list of lovers on > this planet. > > I AM NOT A BORING PERSON AS BORING AS THIS PROFILE. SO DNT GET > DISTURBED AFTER READING IT. > > If you are still interested in me, please message me to this inbox > and may be we could start off. > > Keep smiling and stay happy. ALL THE BEST TO EVERY1 OUT THERE TO > ALSO, PLEASE DONT repy if you are: > > 1.Looking for one night stands, casual sex or hook ups. > 2. Feminine or sissie type of guy > 3.N IF U BELEIVE THAT GAY RELATION IS ONLY FOR SEX. > > -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Observing Ashura is Ibadat for Muslims but celebration of any New Year(Arabic, Bengali or English) is completely Haraam
shame on you Mr. Moderator From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, 23 November 2011, 10:47 Subject: Re: g_b Observing Ashura is Ibadat for Muslims but celebration of any New Year(Arabic, Bengali or English) is completely Haraam Dear Moderator, When you write "allowed this email as an opinion. wanted someone to challenge this statement. regards. moderator", I wish to say that moderation is also about you using your own discretion on issues that can be abusive or hurtful. This mail to begin with had nothing whatsoever to do with an LGBT issue. More importantly it is certainly abusive of other religions. (A clarification, I tend to disparage god and religion myself, but I do that as in Individual belief of mine, and never saying that such-and-such religion is bad/wrong/idiotic. It is one thing to hold your own beliefs and stand by it, quiet another to try and establish the superiority of your own religion by NAMING othrs as wrong). I am sorry to say, posting this mail was an instance of appaling lapse of judgement on your part. Best regards, Aditya B On 22 November 2011 07:57, asfan wrote: > >Moderator, what is this email doing on the GB site? > >=== > >allowed this email as an opinion. wanted someone to challenge this statement. >regards >moderator > -- -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Re: ASL? means asl of asli asking asli hai ya naqli
ASL mean asl of asli like naql in naqli From: sugi shastri To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 8, 2011 12:49 PM Subject: Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place? ASL means ADULT SEX LEGAUE SUGI On Tue, Nov 8, 2011 at 1:14 PM, neel kanth wrote: >Sam > >I wish we had "LIKE" button on yahoo groups! :D > > >From: Sam Pate >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Sent: Wednesday, 2 November 2011 1:15 PM > >Subject: Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place? > > > >it means A Sexy Lesbian > > >On Sat, Oct 29, 2011 at 11:14 PM, Sujit Bhandary wrote: > > >>What does "ASL" mean? Could somebody "decode" that for me :) ? > > >
Re: g_b UID Adhaar Cards for HRG: The Humsafar Trust (Mumbai )
Gautamji... what good will this UID do ??? From: The Humsafar Trust Advocacy Unit To: lgbt-in...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, September 13, 2011 9:59 AM Subject: g_b UID Adhaar Cards for HRG: The Humsafar Trust (Mumbai ) Dear All The Humsafar Trust has contacted Wipro td. which is one of the enrolment agency for the UID cards (Aadhaar). We are happy to announce that they have set up a camp in The Humsafar Trust Vakola to facilitate the process of issuing UID cards to the TG/Hijra community in the city. We kickstarted the process of TG/Hijra enrolment today in the Vakola DIC. Document requirements are one Proof of identity(POI) and one Proof of Address (POA).(Detailed list provided at the end) Each TG/Hijra group in the city has been asked to mobilize their populations to avail of this facility. In case identity documents are incomplete the organisation can do the following Provide : 1) Letter from the organisation they are working with/accessing services (respective NGO) with their photo for identity proof 2) Address proof of office( electric bill/ telephone bill/ leave license agreement) as their address proof. We have informed Sakhi Char Chowghi , Astitva , Ekta Foundation , Darpan Foundation , Triveni Sangam , Kinnar Kastoori and Kinnar Asmita to mobilise their communities to avail of this facility. We would also like to extend this facility to other TG/Hijra groups in the city to avail the same. We also invite the MSM/FSW/PLHA/IDU communities to avail this facility in Mumbai. Please take prior appointment from Mr. Javed ( 9619058909 ) and Amit Jakhal ( 9222748196 ) so as to efficiently co-ordinate the same. The timings are 12 noon to 6.30 pm. The camp will be in the DIC for at least 1 week. Regards-- Gautam Yadav Advocacy Officer The Humsafar Trust --- 3rd Floor , Manthan Plaza Nehru Road , Vakola Mumbai -400055 PROOF OF ADDRESS (Any One original is required at the time of enrolment) 1. Passport 2. Bank Statement/ Passbook 3. Post Office Account Statement/Passbook 4. Ration Card 5. Voter ID 6. Driving License 7. Government Photo ID cards 8. Electricity Bill (not older than 3 months) 9. Water bill (not older than 3 months) 10. Telephone Landline Bill (not older than 3 months) 11. Property Tax Receipt (not older than 3 months) 12. Credit Card Statement (not older than 3 months) 13. Insurance Policy 14. Signed Letter having Photo from Bank on letterhead 15. Signed Letter having Photo issued by registered Company on letterhead 16. Signed Letter having Photo issued by Recognized Educational Instruction on letterhead 17. NREGS Job Card 18. Arms License 19. Pensioner Card 20. Freedom Fighter Card PROOF OF IDENTITY (Any One original is required at the time of enrolment) 1. Passport 2. PAN (Permanent Account Number) Card 3. Ration/ PDS Photo Card 4. Voter Identity (ID) 5. Driving License 6. Government Photo ID Cards 7. NREGS (National Rural Employment Guarantee Scheme) Job Card 8. Photo ID issued by Recognized Educational Institution 9. Arms License 10. Photo Bank ATM (Automated Teller Machine) Card 11. Photo Credit Card 12. Pensioner Photo Card 13. Freedom Fighter Photo Card 14. Kissan Photo Passbook 15. Central Government Health Scheme (CGHS) / Ex-Servicemen Contributory Health Scheme (ECHS) Photo Card 16. Address Card having Name and Photo issued by Department of Posts 17. Certificate of Identify having photo issued by Group A Gazetted Officer on letterhead
Re: g_b Seeking some advice+
Hi Scott Thanks again for the lovely prayer and encouraging words god bless adil From: Scott To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, September 5, 2011 11:56 AM Subject: Re: g_b Seeking some advice+ Dear Nish, Wow, this is wonderful! So seldom does anyone actually seek advice. I'm serious. Most often, I bite my tongue to keep from giving unsolicited words of wisdom. What an opportunity. Here is some for free. Take whatever you like and leave the rest. Most immediately, please recognize that you are young. As we live longer in this world, this makes you very young. I know, I know, 31 seems so far away from 14 or 18 or 22, but it is still young. In an article in the New York Times today about the designer of the World Trade Center memorial, who won the commission ahead of 2600 other entries, most of the article focused on how "young" he was at 34 AND as a result, he had not been able to handle gracefully the complications and changes to his design. Now, at 42, with the memorial still far from built, he is describing his earlier self as "too young to act reasonably." Also, please know that the world is a most surprising place, especially if you put yourself out into it. Our success rate in predicting the future is very low. In my own life, I have been endlessly surprised, sometimes amazed and delighted, sometimes terrified and desperate. But very seldom has what I predicted come to pass. Maybe now is the time to tell you that I am 66 years old. I am single, not too happy about that and I wonder how I am going to survive...when I am old. But I have two large-scale experiences to give me perspective and an odd kind of reassurance. First, I lived through the beginning of the AIDS years in New York City. For 12 long and exhausting years, I worked professionally as a psychologist with people with AIDS. At the same time almost everyone I knew personally -- friends, lovers, doctors, lawyer, clerks, haircutter, enemies, acquaintances, the doorman, and on and on -- sickened and died. Some went quickly, some lingered. Some died horribly; others just disappeared. At the limit of my capacity for sadness and compassion, I moved to a much smaller city and taught college. Within two years I became ill myself, not with AIDS, however. I am HIV-negative. But, with a serious heart condition. I was told that I had a 1% chance of living 18 months longer. I did what I could, put one foot in front of the other, and lived longer than my considerable savings held out. With somewhat improved health, I took a completely unlikely job in the South Pacific. (Partly this was due to the sheer lunacy of American healthcare.) One wonderful year, well past my expiration date, and nearly penniless, I saw the Great Wall outside Beijing, Borobudur in Java and the Pyramids, basically at my employer's expense. Was I ever surprised. I have had two long term relationships, each about 10 years. Both were very important to me. As I look back on the AIDS years especially I realize, however, that there were other much shorter, powerful relationships which also formed me and, frankly, for which I mourn. Before I say the next thing, I want you to know that I do not think that I made horrible choices or destroyed all hope for happiness or something melodramatic like that. Quite the contrary. I made a lot of good choices and much of the time lived comfortably and happily. Nish, no matter how you feel now, you live in a world of what might be -- tomorrow or in five years or ten. I live in a world of what might have been. I mention this difference in your situation and mine, because these are profoundly different states of being. Simply because you are 31, you live in a world of extraordinary possibilities. Perhaps these are not always the possibilities you want or think you want. But, even if these choices do not fit your prescription, there are possibilities and more possibilities, most of them unknown. One thing that being gay does for us is free us from a lot of preconceived expectations. We do not need to find someone who will be a good provider or please our parents or agree to raise children in a certain religion or, or, or. Yet, as gay men we often turn right around and go for expectations which are just as conventional: he's rich or successful or hot or makes me feel rich, successful or hot. Being gay and freed from expectations of procreation we can meet and mate at any point in life. We have no biological time-clock. Finally, it is a lovely notion (or is it?) that we can find and commit ourselves to someone for life and this person will be there when we need him. It seldom works out that way. Over and again I have seen unappealing mutations of that bargain: the "nurse" gets sick and the helpless one is left to cope for both of them. Or a couple will invest 25 good years or 25 miserable years and then di
Re: g_b Seeking some advice+
Thanks Scott for lovely prayer which i will stick it on my desk in office God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. From: Scott To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, September 5, 2011 11:56 AM Subject: Re: g_b Seeking some advice+ Dear Nish, Wow, this is wonderful! So seldom does anyone actually seek advice. I'm serious. Most often, I bite my tongue to keep from giving unsolicited words of wisdom. What an opportunity. Here is some for free. Take whatever you like and leave the rest. Most immediately, please recognize that you are young. As we live longer in this world, this makes you very young. I know, I know, 31 seems so far away from 14 or 18 or 22, but it is still young. In an article in the New York Times today about the designer of the World Trade Center memorial, who won the commission ahead of 2600 other entries, most of the article focused on how "young" he was at 34 AND as a result, he had not been able to handle gracefully the complications and changes to his design. Now, at 42, with the memorial still far from built, he is describing his earlier self as "too young to act reasonably." Also, please know that the world is a most surprising place, especially if you put yourself out into it. Our success rate in predicting the future is very low. In my own life, I have been endlessly surprised, sometimes amazed and delighted, sometimes terrified and desperate. But very seldom has what I predicted come to pass. Maybe now is the time to tell you that I am 66 years old. I am single, not too happy about that and I wonder how I am going to survive...when I am old. But I have two large-scale experiences to give me perspective and an odd kind of reassurance. First, I lived through the beginning of the AIDS years in New York City. For 12 long and exhausting years, I worked professionally as a psychologist with people with AIDS. At the same time almost everyone I knew personally -- friends, lovers, doctors, lawyer, clerks, haircutter, enemies, acquaintances, the doorman, and on and on -- sickened and died. Some went quickly, some lingered. Some died horribly; others just disappeared. At the limit of my capacity for sadness and compassion, I moved to a much smaller city and taught college. Within two years I became ill myself, not with AIDS, however. I am HIV-negative. But, with a serious heart condition. I was told that I had a 1% chance of living 18 months longer. I did what I could, put one foot in front of the other, and lived longer than my considerable savings held out. With somewhat improved health, I took a completely unlikely job in the South Pacific. (Partly this was due to the sheer lunacy of American healthcare.) One wonderful year, well past my expiration date, and nearly penniless, I saw the Great Wall outside Beijing, Borobudur in Java and the Pyramids, basically at my employer's expense. Was I ever surprised. I have had two long term relationships, each about 10 years. Both were very important to me. As I look back on the AIDS years especially I realize, however, that there were other much shorter, powerful relationships which also formed me and, frankly, for which I mourn. Before I say the next thing, I want you to know that I do not think that I made horrible choices or destroyed all hope for happiness or something melodramatic like that. Quite the contrary. I made a lot of good choices and much of the time lived comfortably and happily. Nish, no matter how you feel now, you live in a world of what might be -- tomorrow or in five years or ten. I live in a world of what might have been. I mention this difference in your situation and mine, because these are profoundly different states of being. Simply because you are 31, you live in a world of extraordinary possibilities. Perhaps these are not always the possibilities you want or think you want. But, even if these choices do not fit your prescription, there are possibilities and more possibilities, most of them unknown. One thing that being gay does for us is free us from a lot of preconceived expectations. We do not need to find someone who will be a good provider or please our parents or agree to raise children in a certain religion or, or, or. Yet, as gay men we often turn right around and go for expectations which are just as conventional: he's rich or successful or hot or makes me feel rich, successful or hot. Being gay and freed from expectations of procreation we can meet and mate at any point in life. We have no biological time-clock. Finally, it is a lovely notion (or is it?) that we can find and commit ourselves to someone for life and this person will be there when we need him. It seldom works out that way. Over and again I have seen unappealing mutations of that bargain: the "nurse" gets s
Re: g_b looking for marriage of convenience
Sanjay - little prince ... kab sudhroge yaar --- On Mon, 11/7/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b looking for marriage of convenience To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 11 July, 2011, 12:22 PM am I allowed to ask for an alliance/partnership of convenience? It can be a moderately financially and emotionally independent and stable guy [yes yes no women] must be in early or mid forties. Caste creed religion no bar. Must be out of the closet but not standing on a roof top. Why I mention Financially independent is because I don't want him to live off me. Is there anyone? little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Manoj To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, July 11, 2011 7:28:41 AM Subject: Re: g_b looking for marriage of convenience no a poor fool wont.she cant sue and get alimony from a poor guy u see! --- On Mon, 11/7/11, nirb...@aol.com wrote: From: nirb...@aol.com Subject: Re: g_b looking for marriage of convenience To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 11 July, 2011, 12:03 AM Why does this marriageable fool have to be "rich ???" Won't a poor fool suffice ??? Gordon In a message dated 7/10/2011 12:28:09 P.M. Mountain Daylight Time, girl_looking_for_...@yahoo.in writes: hey m looking of marriage of convinience with a rich gay guy after marriage i will give him full freedom and expect d same if anyone int plz contact me
Re: g_b looking for marriage of convenience
Priya if u are girl or boy or a transexual ? or a creature living in fools paradise --- On Sun, 10/7/11, priya wrote: From: priya Subject: g_b looking for marriage of convenience To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 10 July, 2011, 8:48 PM hey m looking of marriage of convinience with a rich gay guy after marriage i will give him full freedom and expect d same if anyone int plz contact me
Re: g_b strictly secret win win relationship
Rajan, what do u mean by "win win situation" in secret relationship, you mean satisfying each others lust ? Do you mean all gay friends or relations are for satisfying physical lust ? awaiting your comments ? luv adil --- On Thu, 7/7/11, rajan wrote: From: rajan Subject: g_b strictly secret win win relationship To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 7 July, 2011, 1:12 AM Hi dear, I am 32 Top male from mumbai looking out for a Bottom gay.But strictly secret relationship which will be a win win situation for both of uscan we meet
Re: g_b Re: problem
he is phutela nal wala matka, --- On Wed, 6/7/11, Sam Pate wrote: From: Sam Pate Subject: Re: g_b Re: problem To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 6 July, 2011, 9:45 PM what are you? a tap??? -sam On Mon, Jul 4, 2011 at 10:10 AM, Deep wrote: Nick, what exactly do you mean by leaking in public. I assume you wear an article of clothing called JEANS/PANTS/SHORTS with another quaint little invention called UNDERWEAR. Do you mean to say your gush of desire washes all those articles of clothing away from your body? Or that those things become sopping wet? In the later case please start wearing HUGGIES/ADULT DIAPERS henceforth. Unless of course you are in the habit of letting your offending organ hang loose in public. Then it's time for you to put your mouse back in the house, buddy! :-P --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Nick Dsouza wrote: > > i watch a lot of gay porn and whenever i see a cute sexy bottom my cock > starts leaking and it becomes very embarassing in public pls help me >
Re: g_b Pls bann aditya from this site guys
He is sick ... just ignore him --- On Fri, 24/6/11, menmen69 sheikh wrote: From: menmen69 sheikh Subject: Re: g_b Pls bann aditya from this site guys To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 24 June, 2011, 4:00 PM Yes I too agree with u --- On Wed, 6/22/11, boy_alone00 wrote: From: boy_alone00 Subject: g_b Pls bann aditya from this site guys To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, June 22, 2011, 2:52 PM This guy really feels no end of him self, proves to be a sick unemployed oversmart wakil of india. No work just comment on everyone negatively. We gays r here to share ups n downs n this jerk feels he can poke his nose everywhere.. Bann him guys he is..::
Re: g_b Awful neighbours:)
Dear Poetryandy, why do you feel sad when the queen is insulted, please could you request that her to return all the valuables stolen from India by her family she will for sure go to hell tc adil --- On Wed, 15/6/11, A C wrote: From: A C Subject: Re: g_b Awful neighbours:) To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 15 June, 2011, 10:56 PM This one is definitely NOT funny. Why? It is trying to make fun at the expense of other people, even if they are well known. Asserting that someone is 'racist', when such is far from being the case, even in the case of a well-known individual, is unwarranted, even for would-be comic purposes. Stop and think for a minute: would you like that sort of a thing to be written about you? Think of the 'golden rule' principle found in many religions... Andy Dada On 15 June 2011 13:11, lgbtindiagroup wrote: There is a huge house in our street. The extended family is run by a grumpy old woman with a pack of irritable dogs allowed to run without leads. Her car isn't taxed or insured and doesn't even have a number plate, but the police still do nothing. To the best of my knowledge, she has never worked in her life. Her bad-tempered old man is notorious for his racist comments. A shopkeeper blamed him for arranging the murder of his son and his son's girl-friend, but nothing has ever been proved. All their kids have broken marriages except the youngest, who everyone thought was gay. Two grandsons are meant to be in the Army but are always out partying in nightclubs. It is not known if they have the same father. They are both out of control. God I hate living near Buckingham Palace !
Re: g_b What is the perfect way Guys?
For the first time i read something nice coming from this aditya may god bless u with sanity --- On Thu, 16/6/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay wrote: From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay Subject: Re: g_b What is the perfect way Guys? To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 16 June, 2011, 12:31 AM Gaypal, No Comments.!! May you find the true reason why you are here on earth.!! I only hope for two things for you. First, I hope that after you have spent a lifetime researching the researches of others as to the true reason for your sexual orientation, because you want to know the true reason why you are here on earth, you do not wake up one morning to realise that you spent so much time reasoning out life that it has in the meanwhile passed you by, and that you have never lived it. Second, I hope that you realise before it is too late, that you should be glad of the fact that you do not have to be 'revolving around' dominance, competition or greetings while having anal sex with orgasm, simply because you are not non-human...and that being non-animal allows you to do it because of love, caring, affection, tenderness, and suchlike things that you come across while living life and not researching it. Best, Aditya B On 15 June 2011 18:15, bestpal...@ymail.com wrote: So far, we have seen plenty of issues regarding gays and its discussion.Why we are here or more importantly? Do we actually find the true reason we are on earth. Is life just about finding a job, building a family, buying a house and car?.Why do birds sing every morning?.Why does a rainbow appear after it rains?. Life is a mystery, one that is not easily understood,Incapable of being seen by mortal man-Finished in a moment, and a twinkling of the eye-Easily taken for granted.Life has a beginning and an end. Futile when driven by selfish desires for fame and money, possessions and power.So, what do you think perfect way to lead gay life?. Does it have rules and regulations or someone make it happen?. There are 'swingers',confused and marginalized 'bisexuals' with varying agenda in life or 'gays' who wants to settle down with men or women and continue the 'wilder' aspect of life,'gays until graduation' or 'bisexuals until graduation', 'bi curious' who wants to have relationship out of curiosity, or for 'fluid sexuality'(changing preferences with no clear labels) or 'pansexual/omnisexuals'(regardless of gender identity has potential for aesthetic attraction) Does marrying guy or girl of same sex orientation improves the scenario?. Does people need to carry gay gene to next generation or lead life without progeny?. There is also surrogacy, test tube babies...hush hush many more! In animals(non human)-Every male that sniffed a female was reported as sex, while anal intercourse with orgasm between males was only "revolving around" dominance, competition or greetings.some people believe that sexual orientation is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across a person's lifetime.For some people, sexual orientation is continuous and fixed throughout their lives. For others, sexual orientation may be fluid and change over time. Gay men face options which include: "foster care, variations of domestic and international adoption, diverse forms of surrogacy (whether "traditional" or gestational), and kinship arrangements, wherein they might coparent with a woman or women with whom they are intimately but not sexually involved. In contemporary Adlerian thought, homosexuals are not considered within the problematic discourse of the "failures of life". Christopher Shelley (1998), an Adlerian psychotherapist, published a volume of essays in the 1990s that feature Freudian, (post)Jungian and Adlerian contributions that demonstrate affirmative shifts in the depth psychologies. Research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, but no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Research suggests it is biological in nature, determined by a complex interplay of genetic factors and the early uterine environment. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles There is klein grid which describes about -Sexual Attraction,Sexual Behaviour,Sexual Fantasies,Emotional preference,Social preference, Lifestyle preference, and Self-identification! Variety is the spice of life and reason for conflict, arguement and discussions. So, with all these discussions, What do you think guys - the perfect way to lead a life and how do you feel the issue of necessity of contributing LGBT Community?. Are we overreacting?...panicking?...striving hard for rights?doing normal? At the end LET US CHILL OUT WITH FREE FLOW OF BLACK LABEL WHISKEY!!! -- -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 o
Fw: g_b anybody in dubai
Hi Siva Yes I am in dubai ( indian from mumbai ) working in dubai how can i help you tc adil --- On Wed, 8/6/11, siva prakash wrote: From: siva prakash Subject: g_b anybody in dubai To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 8 June, 2011, 1:46 PM hello, i am currently in dubai, in deira. anybody interested in friendship pl contact.
Re: Re: g_b Need Mr.Right for Matrimony & stable Long term relationship
nothing new, about this aditya may he find devil for LTR --- On Tue, 24/5/11, Karna Mehta wrote: From: Karna Mehta Subject: Re: Re: g_b Need Mr.Right for Matrimony & stable Long term relationship To: "Aditya Bondyopadhyay" Date: Tuesday, 24 May, 2011, 11:58 PM You behave like a smart Alec with your snoot high in the air! Just because you have been lucky in having a good long term ongoing relationsh you seem to make wisecracks at those not so lucky and trying desperately to get a good partner. I wish your sarcasm gets to you very badly some day. Your remarks are uncalled for in this instance... This does not concern you. Yet you make your remarks. Learn to be generous and sensetive to others feelings. You are plain insensitive.. Get your own "800" number Voicemail, fax, email, and a lot more http://www.ureach.com/reg/tag On Sun, 22 May 2011, Aditya Bondyopadhyay (adit.b...@gmail.com) wrote: Wish you all the best. You must have had lots of personal experience with many LTRs to know so many things about it. :-)) Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 21 May 2011 20:41, bestpal...@ymail.com wrote: > > > About Myself - 32/6.2ft/Wheatish/easy going from decent family background. > I am looking for LTR from presentable-good looking guys, from good family > with decent Education.A beautiful life does not just happen.It is built > daily in achievement, humility, sacrifice & love. Love and friendship are > two wonderful feelings.Nothing comes easy in life easily, especially the > best parts. Beauty and colors may attract the eye, but that's not all. > Relationship & friendship doesn't work merely on our physical looks, but on > real things that we have inside. > > I really don't believe in Virtual relationship. I am sensible enough to > support you through mails & personal calls, till we meet up. You should be > interested in living together and form family with children > > This ad is for guys who believe in quality of life, guys who may be however > dedicated or successful at work, who needs emotional anchoring; for whom > being rooted in the family is very important. Guys who need security, trust, > faith, dignity, love and self respect.You wouldn't have to bucket your > feelings and actions because a relationship happens when their are no > pretense or facade from the beginning and just enjoy being with the other > being who you are! > > If you are interested, please get in touch with me! > > > -- -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b In Search of A Relationship.................
no matter how good relations you try,, gay friends is always better , once u enter into relationship and you lose that friend --- On Sun, 22/5/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay wrote: From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay Subject: Re: g_b In Search of A Relationship. To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 22 May, 2011, 10:50 AM All the best...hope you meet the guy you deserve. But may be you also need to go out a bit and actually meet guys (not in parties if you are not into it, but in the other social dos that GB organises..that picnic at that old fort for example)...this meeting real guys in areal world, where you are not getting together after reading an internet ad for relationship, but getting together to have fun together, from which a relationship may (or may not) emergewould help your prospects more...online match-ups are usually good for the next fuck, rarely for long term relationships... :-)) Aditya B On 20 May 2011 17:04, Jay Doshi wrote: Hi everybody my name is Jay and m 26 years old. i live in western suburbs of mumbai. I am looking for a longterm relationship with someone special.. well to begin with i am an introvert nature and thus do not open up easily. i am searching for one who is loving, caring and understanding. i am searching someone with whom i can express myself and even he can express himself without any hesitation.i am looking for someone with whom i can feel secure and even he can feel the same.i am not much in to partying. If you are looking out for sex or one night stand then please excuse... If someone who feels the same can reply to me. would be waiting Regards Jay -- -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Informing about my marriage
something like this from adiyta... the crusader is unbelievable --- On Fri, 1/4/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay wrote: From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay Subject: g_b Informing about my marriage To: gaybom...@yahoogroupa.com, gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 1 April, 2011, 8:53 AM Dear All, I have been on this list for years and have been active for LGBT rights issues. I have forged friendships here and I feel a responsibility to there fore inform this group. I have been in Kolkata recently with my mom, who is getting old now and has been very lonely since my dad's death recently. My mom has convinced me that I should get married and has also settled for the girl. This will be good for her as she needs company. I am willing to make this sacrifice for her. So I have consented. The date is fixed for 5th of May. After considering all facts I have decided that it is best to not tell the girl that I have been homo in the past, because I have decided that after marriage I will become totally family man and will not be homo any more. I will also let Hillol (my present partner) live in my present house and we will only be friends like brothers, while I live seperately in another house with my wife. I request you all to wish me best in my new life. Best regards, Aditya Bondyopadhyay -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Re: creativity
Deep, and there as some miss call guys as well --- On Sat, 26/3/11, Deep wrote: From: Deep Subject: g_b Re: creativity To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 26 March, 2011, 2:46 PM Dear Un-named (Anaamik), You missed out AMIT :-) It's worse when they refuse to tell you which part of town they are pretending to live in. So I have another system of nomenclature for these beasts of the gay kingdom (or should it be queendom?): Amit1 - cute psycho - Feb 15, 2011 Amit2 - married bisexual - March 2, 2011 Amit3 - horny bisexual - March 2, 2011 (late night) Amit4 - prostitute - March 5, 2011 Amit5 - OMG! Husband material - Feb 14, 2011 Then you have the blank call guys. You could label them as X1, X2, ... The best are those who fall in love with you withing 15 minutes of meeting you and insist on telling you their sob story. I name them as: MK1 - BF dumped him - Jan 23, 2011 Where MK stands for Meena Kumari Whenever possible, get their pics in your mobile. If the guy is an MK or a Psycho all your friends would be fore-warned. :-) Regards, Deep http://gaynotes.blogspot.com --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Bombay Gay wrote: > > hi all > > just wondering > > in the olden days ( not so long actually) > why was it that when we meet our fellow brethren , every second gay was called > 1)raj > 2)rahul > 3)karan > 4)sanjay > 5)sumeet > 6)Kunal > and oh yes.. sameer, imran, salman, junaid ,... god knows how many of them > > i thought things were changing when every second gay started calling himself > 1) ansh > 2)ayush > 3)aryan > 4)aryaman > 4)parth > 7)ranbir/ranvir/vir > > get the drift? > > seriously when i got tried of saving raj (1,2,3,4 etc) numbers. so i decided > to become creative.. started > saving > > 1)rajmalad or rajchembur > > but then started getting more raj from same areas > > so started saving rajcurly hair, raj medium dick, raj queen > ditto other names > > to be fair, did meet one guy who said he was naitik... i guess he is a fan of > rishta kya kehlta hai serial > > Your thoughts? > > regards > what the heck should i call myself:) >
Re: g_b Monday's Midnight Melody
Deep i admire u --- On Tue, 1/3/11, Bloot Fontaine wrote: From: Bloot Fontaine Subject: Re: g_b Monday's Midnight Melody To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 1 March, 2011, 5:23 PM Lovely! Thanks to both of you (1) Asfan and (2) Deep!
Re: g_b (unknown)
My sympathies are with the guys who are exposed and the trauma they must be going through, may god give them courage to peacefully come out of this problem but if you want to have fun one has to be prepared to face this kind of things --- On Wed, 23/2/11, Vikram D wrote: From: Vikram D Subject: g_b (unknown) To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Cc: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, lgbt-in...@yahoogroups.com, khush-l...@yahoogroups.com, movenp...@yahoogroups.com, gayde...@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 23 February, 2011, 5:23 PM Just putting down some thoughts and possible points of action following the vile episode broadcast by TV9 Telugu on how gay culture was booming in Hyderabad. This has been taken down from YouTube - congratulations to everyone who went online to make sure YouTube yanked it - but a transcript is available, which I'll post in a separate mail, shows how awful it was, but without giving the photos, with no attempt at concealment, of the guys whose profiles they picked from GayRomeo and entrapped into conversations with them which they recorded. They also seem to have shot some spycam footage from inside a club that had a gay party. Quite apart from the horror of entrapping guys this way, the episode was sick for the tone it took, which went on about how software employees and students were "falling prey" to this lifestyle, and how unnatural it was. At the end, there was a bit of a shift where they also spoke about the potential for blackmail that having sites on GayRomeo had - a very small part of the episode, but one that might have some implications for what we can do: 1) The absolute priority has to be trying to find out what has happened to the guys who were set up by the channel and had their lives exposed. These guys must be in total shock and trauma and are very probably in a suicidal state. Can anybody can find some way to get in touch with them and check they are OK, or if they need support? Did anyone in Hyderabad recognise them or might they know people who would know them? 2) People have been asking about legal action against the channel, and I know Aditya has already taken steps here. The problem is I don't think it will be easy to have something really stick against TV9. It is a channel that specialises in this sort of sensational expose as a way to chase TRPs, so they are used to dealing with negative reactions and, if anything, they might even welcome some reactions and publicity which they would use to continue the moralistic line they have taken. One could, and perhaps should anyway, file a complaint with the national broadcasting authority, but let no one have any illusions this will accomplish much. Most of these professional regulatory bodies are both slow and toothless and TV9 will also claim media freedom as a defence. I have spoken to Vijay Hiremath at Lawyer's Collective and he is trying to see if there is something in the IPC or the new Telecom act that might help us, but he agreed with me that on the face of it legal action will be tough. Privacy is not much of an argument since its not really clear that sites like GayRomeo really are private in any enforceable way (more on that later). If the guys who were profiled are willing to sue the channel they might get somewhere but (a) they are likely to be too traumatised to do anything like that and (b) if they claim they were being defamed, the channel will reply that what they showed was truthful and they have the recordings to back it. I don't think we can claim that these parties or hooking up through GayRomeo doesn't exist, and that is really all that TV9 was claiming. The rather depressing thought did occur to me that if any of the guys did attempt suicide, then the channel might be liable for harassment and abetment, but this is obviously not a situation one wants to be in. 3) Should we protest directly protest to TV9? This might be worth doing, even if the channel just laughs at us, just as a way of showing to them - but even more to ourselves - that we cannot be cowed and bullied in this way. But please please please note - this would have to be a protest with some actual physical action in Hyderabad. I am sorry to be blunt, but purely online protests are worth precisely nothing. If someone sends me one more petitionline link to sign I will really scream because this has to be one of the most useless activities possible - it not only does nothing, but by giving you the sense that you are doing something, it robs any initiative of momentum. A protest has to have some physical component, even if its just in the form of the pink chaddis that were sent to Pramod Mutalik. Behind the scenes actions can work sometimes, if one has the right contacts. Within the English media we have certainly often used a bad piece to dialogue with the writers and editors and hope for some improvement in the future. If an
Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
thats nice discussion kahan se kahan pahuch gaya beshaq mandir masjid thodo, par pyaar bhara dil kabhi na thodo --- On Sun, 13/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 13 February, 2011, 10:36 AM could be Tulsi or Rahim. Rahim usually wrote dohas on prem/love-Rahimna dhaga prem ka or aisi preet na kijiye jaise Khiro keen etc etc. The best I liked was about milk and water and this is the best of them all जो रहीम उत्तम प्रकृति, का कर सकत कुसंग | चन्दन विष व्यापत नहीं, लपटे रहत भुजंग || So chill Who is rich? One who is content in what he/she has. Happiness is a subjective term. At a point in life the absence of agony and misery is euf. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Fri, February 11, 2011 11:18:37 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner I did not mean to say that you will never be happy, I just wanted to say be practical, know what you can and cannot have. You cannot play pool with a rope and a lame person cannot win a sprint. And by that I dont mean to say that "we are all ugly and we are all dumb, and we will never find anyone" I am no one to make such a call. You may find love at 20, 30, 40, 50 at any age. All I meant to say was be practical and know who you are and what you can and cannot get/have. When I go shopping I have a budget, there are shirts that sell for 3000 Rs and all I can afford is to spend 1000-1500 Rs. I try to find happiness with the 1000 Rs shirt and I do succeed rather than being sad that I cannot afford 3000 Rs shirt. btw I really liked it, I dont who the author is but its good: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi If everyone had strength and unfalling conviction in their passion then everyone in this world would be rich and happy. Life is not fair and its not a fairytale, we dont get to chose our parents, our looks, our IQ but what we can try is to make the best of what we have. Be practical - life would be easy and you would be happy. --- On Thu, 2/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India wrote: From: Tintin Mumbai India Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, February 10, 2011, 5:37 AM कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me, चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash... जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta, जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas... (Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)... ;) On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla wrote: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. --- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all yo
Re: g_b suggestions for gay friendly hotel in Mumbai
hello rita kumar guys can visit a guy in any hotel rooms, if u desire , no one can stop you it all depends on how you go about it are u going to declare while registering that you are gay and purpose of stay is to have sex in the room & all the guys visting you are for sex it can be for business purpose ,so whats the problem tc --- On Thu, 10/2/11, rita wrote: From: rita Subject: g_b suggestions for gay friendly hotel in Mumbai To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 10 February, 2011, 7:12 PM Any suggestions about gay friendly hotels anywhere in Mumbai where guys can visit me in my room?
Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
Re: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate
one bombay duck stuffed with red mirchi shud be showed in arse's of all the sick guys who make fun when anyone ask such questions on the group site, these guys behave as if they own the group --- On Sat, 22/1/11, asfan wrote: From: asfan Subject: Re: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 22 January, 2011, 8:02 AM Dear Not-so-Smart boy, Well, I was talking of Bombay Ducks and he was talking of cockroaches, which are deemed to be Chinese delicacies. Ergo, the tongue-in-cheek query to which there was a definitely witty reply. Which also puts a stop to the correspondence. Yes, I am getting older day by day but definitely not dumber! Chin chin, asfan --- On Wed, 19/1/11, Smarter Boy wrote: From: Smarter Boy Subject: Re: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 19 January, 2011, 5:07 PM Asfan, I am appalled..U cud never be so dumb! Is age catching up with u ;-) Just kidding! He had mentioned, if I remember correctly, that he is from Delhi! Plus, the name is anything but Chinese :-) Cheers! Smartie On Wed, 19 Jan 2011 12:22:52 +0530 wrote > R u Chinese? >asfan > >--- On Tue, 18/1/11, Deep wrote: > >From: Deep >Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Date: Tuesday, 18 January, 2011, 12:57 PM > I believe Bombay Ducks are giant hissing cockroaches. :-D (do they qualify for non-veg?)
Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate
correct bapunath, there are some arrogant agony aunts in this group , they shud learn to keep their mouths and butts shut sometimes --- On Wed, 19/1/11, bapu nath wrote: From: bapu nath Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 19 January, 2011, 5:42 PM You are right Mr. Roy I have noticed that if someone search a life partner through this group Aditya Banerjee and his team makes fun of it and the moderator is also silently observing everything Aditya, Asfan, Sanjay and Deep should be kicked out from this group... these guys are diverting our youth in a wrong way... they dont have the right to take leadership of Indian gay community... From: Tuhin Roy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, 18 January, 2011 8:17:44 PM Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate You gays suck...this is how typically Indian gay behavesthough I was feeling bad for being away from my Country, now I am really...really glad that I have left that hopeless and pathetic gay culture... someone is trying to find a love seriously and you guys are making such a fun of it... ...Aditya and Asfan...you are those guys I used to respect, I have always liked your views and straight-forwardness...but you also proved to be no different than others... ...this guy is young (22) and looking seriously...if you cannot help...at least don't make fun of his emotions ...it hardly matters whether or not finally Supreme Court allows gay marriage...the Indian mentality is never gonna change...so I would say Sado wahan par... --- On Tue, 18/1/11, Sunny dreams wrote: From: Sunny dreams Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 18 January, 2011, 10:23 AM cook?? I love cooking some south indian dishes , AND NON VEG- hehe --- On Mon, 1/17/11, deepakpatel...@yahoo.com wrote: From: deepakpatel...@yahoo.com Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, January 17, 2011, 11:38 PM What can u cook Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphoneFrom: asfan Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Mon, 17 Jan 2011 14:02:58 +0530 (IST)To: ReplyTo: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate If you can make good fried Bombay Ducks, I am your man. asfan From: attract To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 11:48:27 PM Subject: g_b Looking for Soul Mate Passions- To Make My Partner Eat The Food Cooked By Me.
Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate
Roy, I appreciate your comments, the guy has so innocently and cutely written , kya karen our indian thinking/ mentality is like that, grapes are sour --- On Tue, 18/1/11, Tuhin Roy wrote: From: Tuhin Roy Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 18 January, 2011, 8:17 PM You gays suck...this is how typically Indian gay behavesthough I was feeling bad for being away from my Country, now I am really...really glad that I have left that hopeless and pathetic gay culture... someone is trying to find a love seriously and you guys are making such a fun of it... ...Aditya and Asfan...you are those guys I used to respect, I have always liked your views and straight-forwardness...but you also proved to be no different than others... ...this guy is young (22) and looking seriously...if you cannot help...at least don't make fun of his emotions ...it hardly matters whether or not finally Supreme Court allows gay marriage...the Indian mentality is never gonna change...so I would say Sado wahan par... --- On Tue, 18/1/11, Sunny dreams wrote: From: Sunny dreams Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 18 January, 2011, 10:23 AM cook?? I love cooking some south indian dishes , AND NON VEG- hehe --- On Mon, 1/17/11, deepakpatel...@yahoo.com wrote: From: deepakpatel...@yahoo.com Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, January 17, 2011, 11:38 PM What can u cook Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphoneFrom: asfan Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Mon, 17 Jan 2011 14:02:58 +0530 (IST)To: ReplyTo: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate If you can make good fried Bombay Ducks, I am your man. asfan From: attract To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 11:48:27 PM Subject: g_b Looking for Soul Mate Passions- To Make My Partner Eat The Food Cooked By Me.
Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate (reply)
shame on you for such a reply --- On Tue, 18/1/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay wrote: From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay Subject: Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate (reply) To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 18 January, 2011, 1:06 PM You take a duck whose birth certificate says 'born in bombay', then heat oil in a kadai and dunk the duck in, fry till crisp, and serve hot. Only the duck has to have been born in the waters of Bom-bay that is off the coast of Mumbai, and it cannot be a bird.. ;-))) On 1/17/11, nirb...@aol.com wrote: > What is a fried Bombay Duck ?? > > Gordon (from New York City) > > > In a message dated 1/17/2011 1:06:54 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, > asfa...@yahoo.com writes: > > > > > If you can make good fried Bombay Ducks, I am your man. > > asfan > > > > > > > > > From: attract > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 11:48:27 PM > Subject: g_b Looking for Soul Mate > > Passions- To Make My Partner Eat The Food Cooked By Me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Looking for Soul Mate
how cutely written god bless u and may u find your soulmate soon --- On Fri, 14/1/11, attract wrote: From: attract Subject: g_b Looking for Soul Mate To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 14 January, 2011, 11:48 PM Hello guys i am a 22 yrs old guy from delhi, india ..studying and staying with family .. here m for making good friends as well as searching for my life partner. I don't have a long list of expectations from my partner, but he must have no ego, attitude, show off, no drinking, smoking. He should be a good human being. And where it comes the question of physical relation, I believe first in commitment, love and respect for each other, then comes the physical needs. I want a person, on whose hands I may sleep, can talk a lot with him and live my life in the beautiful way. for me the making of a relationship or meeting of two distinct souls, is a divine and beautiful natural process, whether b it homo relation or hetro relation. It happens naturally. First the two persons keep on searching for each other, through whatever the way of search it may b. then comes the time for knowing each other a little extra whether by chatting or exchanging the numbers. Then the train starts the journey and both feel a little thirst too meet and know about each other some more. Then comes the time and venue of meeting or so called lovingly dating. They both remain nervous and this nervousness draw both towards each other. And as the train starts to gain the speed, this thirst for knowing each other, starts to become respect for each other, and slowly and slowly love. And then comes the stage when the train reaches finally the destination and the love between them becomes the commitment. the search, the thirst, the love, the understanding for each other and the commitment, bring both the souls at a single stage. And then with the blessings of the divine, the two become one and start to spread the aroma of their love in this beautiful universe. Ask those who have gone through this process and they will tell u hw beautiful and romantic this whole process is. That's y I say whether be gay or straight love, its never wrong, if something is wrong, then it's the way we look at it. Love knows no boundary.Passions- To Make My Partner Eat The Food Cooked By Me.Sports- Badminton, Chess (Though I Never Win). Activities- Related With The Nature.Books- from Soul of the Science Research center ,RSSB,s and with good subjects.Music- I Love sufiana ), Indian Classical Music , Sufi Music by abida parveen and wadali bandhus (my all time favorite is dama dama mast kalandar by shahbaj kalandar and meri bukkal de wich chorni by bab bulle shah) , And Some Videshi Items By Jeniffer Lopej (waiting for tonight). TV shows- i love cartoon (my all time favorite r jungle days and tom and jerry), news, discovery, ngc, and comedyCuisines- I Love Indian Cuisines Along With Few Continental Menus. Love Any Item Of Cauliflower. Try To Maintain A Balance Between The Taste And The Health. but shoud be pure vegetarian .First thing u will notice about me- my cute face and sweet smileTurn offs- show off, attitude and ego.Five things I cnt live without- my spritual master ..to be being vegetarian ..to going Havean on the earth once in month, cant reavel its name on here .. my face with the sweet smile, my cell and off corce mera hone wala jeevansathi.Ideal match- simple, sweet, without ego and attitude, with always a cute smile on his sweet face, one who nt loves me only, bt takes care of all who r around him. so those who very much comfortable with my all these things and looking for same please reply or for quick Respond You may message me on my EMAIL ID attractsaf...@gmail.com ..else thanks for reading this.
Re: g_b Bollywood gay list
you want to make a list and do what ? --- On Fri, 7/1/11, Sanju Austin wrote: From: Sanju Austin Subject: g_b Bollywood gay list To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 7 January, 2011, 10:46 PM ANY ONE KNOW GAYS/BI SEXUAL LIST IN BOLLYWOOD? From: Pallav To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; gaybom...@yahoogroups.com; lgbt-in...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thu, January 6, 2011 5:24:35 AM Subject: g_b Invitation for Performance reading of Chetan Datar’s “Ek Madhavbaug” Invitation for Performance reading of Chetan Datar’s “Ek Madhavbaug” The Humsafar Trust proudly announces the launch of its advocacy campaign ’SANDESH-2011’ ‘SANDESH-2011’ brings to you celebrated playwright Late Chetan Datar’s ‘Ek Madhav Baug’ on 7th January 2011 at 4.00 pm. Venue : A. R. Wadia Hall, Tata Institute of Social Sciences (TISS) Opp Deonar Bus Depot, Sion Trombay Road, Govandi, Mumbai. ( An Auto can be taken from Chembur Station to reach TISS ) Ek Madhavbaug is one of the pioneering Marathi language plays written on homosexuality and acceptance of the Gay community. The poignant play tells the story of a 21 year old youth coming to terms with his sexuality. The play is seen from the view point of his mother. The Mother discovers that her son is Gay and through his diary, relives his journey of discovery of his own sexuality. The play strikingly brings out the emotions of a mother and son and will leave no soul untouched through its intensity and heartfelt content. The play is a simple effort to bring Gay issues in the Indian Society into the mainstream. Chetan Datar had performed the original Marathi Play at the Humsafar Trust in 1998 and since then it was a dream that we shared with Chetan to translate the play into the hindi language and provide it a platform where it can be performed at various forums like educational institutions, corporate houses, theatres, conferences, workshops and festivals. It is a 50 minute long Soliloquy translated into Hindi by Vivek Anand and Mona Ambegaonkar. The performance reading is done by actress Mona Ambegaonkar. She has given award winning performances and is still remembered for her work in television serials like KADAM and CID and AMBER-DHARA. Her films include MANGAL PANDEY, WHITE NOISE, etc. Amongst her plays are KASTURI, RADHA-NIVAS, SITA-SURPANAKHA & SANDRA AND WHATEVER YOU SAY. Ek Madhavbaug was first performed at Kashish Mumbai International Queer Film Festival 2010 at PVR Juhu in April 2010 to jam packed audiences and received standing ovation from the audiences PLEASE NOTE: 1) The auditorium has a capacity of 150 people. 2) Entry will be on first come first served basis 3) No Late admission 4) Entry Free ( This is not a ticketed event) 5) As this is the first performance of the year some press members will be present. However the press will be interacting essentially with the organizers and the actress. This initiative is supported by Swedish International Development Agency (SIDA) and RFSU-Sweden.
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Re: g_b Gay ki kia pahchan hy? how does one recognise a gay?
Not necessary that this guy is gay, he could be having other sexual problems ? erection nahin hota hoga ? doctor ke paas le jao --- On Thu, 26/8/10, gaybombay wrote: From: gaybombay Subject: g_b Gay ki kia pahchan hy? how does one recognise a gay? To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 26 August, 2010, 11:52 AM Gay ki kia pahchan hy? Me aik sawal karna chahti hoon ki gay ki kia pahchan ho sakti hi. meri sister married hy per us ka husband us per koi care nahi karta i means he is not Posted - Wed Aug 25, 2010 2:01 pm === gays ke koi lakshan nahi hote ki yeh gay hai,. nahi uske mastiksh pe chappa laga hota hai ki yeh gay ya samlaingik hai muje appki behen se sahanubhuti hai ki uske patidev unse sharirk sambandh nahi rakhte ya phir sambhog nahi rakhte. iski kai wajah ho sakti hai.. woh gay ho bhi sakte nahi bhi... agar aaap mumbai main ho to counselling session pe unko bula sakte hai.. humsafar centre pe ya phir kafi dusre counsellor hai mumbai main regards moderator (there is no identification stamp on an individual that he is a gay. i sympathize with your sister that her husband does not keep any physical contact with her and avoids sexual intercourse there may be many reasons for that. your bro-in-law might be gay or might be not. you can bring him for counseling at Humsafar centre or for that matter there are many counselors in Mumbai regards moderator
Re: g_b Mai married hu 2 bacche hai, maine
very true, one always feels the grass on green on the other side but check with gays ? are they happy and dont they fear oldage and loneliness so in both cases one wont be happy? this is life , aap isme bhi kush reh sakte hain --- On Thu, 26/8/10, gaybombay wrote: From: gaybombay Subject: g_b Mai married hu 2 bacche hai, maine To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 26 August, 2010, 11:59 AM aapke shadi shuda hai. bacche hai... yeh ek ehem baat hai. muje aapse sahanubhuti hai ki aap andar hi andar ghut rahe hai. kaash main keh sakta ki zindgi ka yahi naam hai.. jo hame milta hai ussse hum khush nahi hote, jo nahi milta uske peeche daud lagate hai main nahi keh sakta ki yehi aapka jeevan hai, par ek baat keh sakta hun ki aap koi ache counselor se apni vyatha dohriaye.. shayd koi hal./sujav aapke jehen main ubhre jeese koi raasta naikal aaye ( that ayou are married and have two kids is an important fact. i wish i could say that this is life where we don't value what we have and run after what we don't. in your case i can't... i sympathise that you each day is a torture for you and you are unable to keep sexual relations with your wife. please seek a counselor and who knows may be you would get an answer) response to Mai married hu 2 bacche hai, maine 12 sal ho gaye mere bachpan ke dost ke sath sex kiya tha, hamne ek duje ko kiya tha, muze abhi pata nahi bahut yad aata hai, uskejaisa kohi dikhta hai ya mhu to muze ratbhar nind nahi aati, muze wife ke sath soneme bilkul maza nahi aata, lekin maine use kabhi nahi samzne diya ki mere undar gay chupa hai, meri himmat nahi hoti isliye mai abhi tak kohi sathi nahi dhund paya, pls muze batao kya karna padta hai  urs gayfriend
Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick
ek bimar hi dusre bimar ka haal samajh sakta hai Jhoom bara bar Jhoom ( chum bara bar chum ) --- On Mon, 23/8/10, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 23 August, 2010, 1:26 PM jism ki hararat mein rishton ki nazakat ko jhulsa ke dosti bhaichare ko rakh banake ab hume kehte ho ke hum bimar hain little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thu, August 19, 2010 11:53:07 AM Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick I am not being judgemental. all gays are sick even i am sick, the only cure is LUND --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Pratap wrote: From: Pratap Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 2:23 PM Cuteboy Where do you get off saying "don't listen to these sick guys"?! Would you like it if any of "these sick guys" passed a judgement on the way you are living your life?! Or on your nickname?! Please note that unlike you neither Indian nor Aditya were judgemental. They were objective and offered an opinion. You are also welcome to offer your opinion - which you have - but without being judgemental. Bottom line - its between him, his spouse and his God. I wish him luck and the strength to live with whatever decision he makes and the consequences of that decision. Pratap --- On Wed, 8/18/10, cuteboy wrote: From: cuteboy Subject: g_b Asking for Solution To: bombaylov...@yahoo.co.in Cc: "G_B" Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010, 1:45 AM Dear Friend I am also in the same situation as yours for last 11 years i have 2 kids, i havent done sex with my wife for 2 1/2 yrs now i go out and sleep with guys once in a while when i get chance sometimes of months i dont go out and i feel very guilty when i leave my family and go out to spend time with guys. one question i will ask you, family comes first or having gay sex ? Please dont ruin your family , your wife and daughter will be shattered & you will lose self respect dont listen to these sick guys and ruin your family, agar ek jhoot kehne se kisi ka Ghar tutne se bach sakta hai to woh jhoot sau baar nahin hazaar baar kaho cheers your friend --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Indian wrote: From: Indian Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 8:30 AM I agree with Aditya. Just one more point to add though.. The initial reaction of hers may be quite different from what she would think and may decide in due course. Be prepared for any eventuality. Stop cursing yourself. Life is not fair always.. but face it.. Good luck Kam Kamy From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, 17 August, 2010 13:03:27 Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution Hi, Whatever has been told to you so far and whatever you have thought of as a solution will only increase your suffering and you will never be free. You can choose that or you can choose to liberate yourself of this situation. If you choose the later, I would suggest that you go to your wife, tell her the truth, the whole truth, not hiding anything, not supressing anything...and then ask her to forgive you. Ultimately it does not matter whether she actually forgives you or not, what matters is that you seek that forgiveness in a true spirit of repentance. And whether she forgives you or not, give her the absolute right to decide the future, of you both as a couple, of you as a family, and of you as a person. Accept that decision fully, and respect every part and aspect of it. I wish you have the humanity and the strength to do it. Best, Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 4 August 2010 15:11, kam kamy wrote: Dear Friends I am married to a women and also have a daughter. I am having sex with guys since age of 13. I always wanted to tell my parents but could never do it. Now its getting more and more difficult for me to survive with this burden on me. there is no sexual problem , i and my wife are happy but i don't want to be in such a relation where in I sleep with guys also whenever i get a opportunity and i cannot stop sleeping with guys. Now i cant leave my wife and child...because they are dependant on me. Financially also i am not so rich that i can give her one flat and few hundred thousand and tell her to leave alone. the only option i see is to earn lot of money and make my wife and daughter financially stable and go away from there life. Now to earn money can any one suggest some way..or some other way to solve my problem. i don't want to wait for next 20 years when i will have sufficient money.
Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick
I am not being judgemental. all gays are sick even i am sick, the only cure is cock --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Pratap wrote: From: Pratap Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 2:23 PM Cuteboy Where do you get off saying "don't listen to these sick guys"?! Would you like it if any of "these sick guys" passed a judgement on the way you are living your life?! Or on your nickname?! Please note that unlike you neither Indian nor Aditya were judgemental. They were objective and offered an opinion. You are also welcome to offer your opinion - which you have - but without being judgemental. Bottom line - its between him, his spouse and his God. I wish him luck and the strength to live with whatever decision he makes and the consequences of that decision. Pratap --- On Wed, 8/18/10, cuteboy wrote: From: cuteboy Subject: g_b Asking for Solution To: bombaylov...@yahoo.co.in Cc: "G_B" Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010, 1:45 AM Dear Friend I am also in the same situation as yours for last 11 years i have 2 kids, i havent done sex with my wife for 2 1/2 yrs now i go out and sleep with guys once in a while when i get chance sometimes of months i dont go out and i feel very guilty when i leave my family and go out to spend time with guys. one question i will ask you, family comes first or having gay sex ? Please dont ruin your family , your wife and daughter will be shattered & you will lose self respect dont listen to these sick guys and ruin your family, agar ek jhoot kehne se kisi ka Ghar tutne se bach sakta hai to woh jhoot sau baar nahin hazaar baar kaho cheers your friend --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Indian wrote: From: Indian Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 8:30 AM I agree with Aditya. Just one more point to add though.. The initial reaction of hers may be quite different from what she would think and may decide in due course. Be prepared for any eventuality. Stop cursing yourself. Life is not fair always.. but face it.. Good luck Kam Kamy From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, 17 August, 2010 13:03:27 Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution Hi, Whatever has been told to you so far and whatever you have thought of as a solution will only increase your suffering and you will never be free. You can choose that or you can choose to liberate yourself of this situation. If you choose the later, I would suggest that you go to your wife, tell her the truth, the whole truth, not hiding anything, not supressing anything...and then ask her to forgive you. Ultimately it does not matter whether she actually forgives you or not, what matters is that you seek that forgiveness in a true spirit of repentance. And whether she forgives you or not, give her the absolute right to decide the future, of you both as a couple, of you as a family, and of you as a person. Accept that decision fully, and respect every part and aspect of it. I wish you have the humanity and the strength to do it. Best, Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 4 August 2010 15:11, kam kamy wrote: Dear Friends I am married to a women and also have a daughter. I am having sex with guys since age of 13. I always wanted to tell my parents but could never do it. Now its getting more and more difficult for me to survive with this burden on me. there is no sexual problem , i and my wife are happy but i don't want to be in such a relation where in I sleep with guys also whenever i get a opportunity and i cannot stop sleeping with guys. Now i cant leave my wife and child...because they are dependant on me. Financially also i am not so rich that i can give her one flat and few hundred thousand and tell her to leave alone. the only option i see is to earn lot of money and make my wife and daughter financially stable and go away from there life. Now to earn money can any one suggest some way..or some other way to solve my problem. i don't want to wait for next 20 years when i will have sufficient money.
g_b Asking for Solution
Dear Friend I am also in the same situation as yours for last 11 years i have 2 kids, i havent done sex with my wife for 2 1/2 yrs now i go out and sleep with guys once in a while when i get chance sometimes of months i dont go out and i feel very guilty when i leave my family and go out to spend time with guys. one question i will ask you, family comes first or having gay sex ? Please dont ruin your family , your wife and daughter will be shattered & you will lose self respect dont listen to these sick guys and ruin your family, agar ek jhoot kehne se kisi ka Ghar tutne se bach sakta hai to woh jhoot sau baar nahin hazaar baar kaho cheers your friend --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Indian wrote: From: Indian Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 8:30 AM I agree with Aditya. Just one more point to add though.. The initial reaction of hers may be quite different from what she would think and may decide in due course. Be prepared for any eventuality. Stop cursing yourself. Life is not fair always.. but face it.. Good luck Kam Kamy From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, 17 August, 2010 13:03:27 Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution Hi, Whatever has been told to you so far and whatever you have thought of as a solution will only increase your suffering and you will never be free. You can choose that or you can choose to liberate yourself of this situation. If you choose the later, I would suggest that you go to your wife, tell her the truth, the whole truth, not hiding anything, not supressing anything...and then ask her to forgive you. Ultimately it does not matter whether she actually forgives you or not, what matters is that you seek that forgiveness in a true spirit of repentance. And whether she forgives you or not, give her the absolute right to decide the future, of you both as a couple, of you as a family, and of you as a person. Accept that decision fully, and respect every part and aspect of it. I wish you have the humanity and the strength to do it. Best, Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 4 August 2010 15:11, kam kamy wrote: Dear Friends I am married to a women and also have a daughter. I am having sex with guys since age of 13. I always wanted to tell my parents but could never do it. Now its getting more and more difficult for me to survive with this burden on me. there is no sexual problem , i and my wife are happy but i don't want to be in such a relation where in I sleep with guys also whenever i get a opportunity and i cannot stop sleeping with guys. Now i cant leave my wife and child...because they are dependant on me. Financially also i am not so rich that i can give her one flat and few hundred thousand and tell her to leave alone. the only option i see is to earn lot of money and make my wife and daughter financially stable and go away from there life. Now to earn money can any one suggest some way..or some other way to solve my problem. i don't want to wait for next 20 years when i will have sufficient money.
g_b Dubai - any friends [3 Attachments]
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g_b How to Pick Up a Guy That's ALONE at the Club or Bar
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--- On Sat, 30/1/10, Deep wrote: From: Deep Subject: g_b Mumbai Mirror Article - Thane thief would blackmail his homosexual partners To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, 30 January, 2010, 10:36 AM This article, which appeared in today's Mumbai Mirror, informs without condemning gay men who have sex in toilets. Regards, Deep http://gaynotes. blogspot. com/ `Thane thief would blackmail his homosexual partners' Police say Shankar Tukaram Kamble would get into relationships with gay men and then extort money from them, threatening to expose them to their families if they didn't comply. Police say he confessed after being arrested for house-breaking MUMBAI MIRROR BUREAU The Thane Crime Branch have arrested a married man who allegedly seduced several homosexual men into having a relationship with him and then extorted cash and valuables from them by threatening to reveal their sexuality to their families. Police said they had nabbed Shankar Tukaram Kamble for breaking into several homes, and recovered Rs 12 lakh worth of gold ornaments from him. "However, when we interrogated him, this new facet of his life of crime was revealed," said Additional CP (Crime) Prashant Burde. The 27-year-old father-of-two revealed how he would pick up his partners from public toilets at the Kalyan State Transport bus stand and at Dombivli Station. After getting involved with them, he would threaten to tell their families about their relationship. Most of his victims would then part with their valuables or money to silence him. Expectedly, not a single victim has come forward to lodge a complaint. Police believe this is why Kamble volunteered the information – he knew his victims wouldn't want to be identified, and therefore no action could be taken against him. Kamble – who has 21 offences of housebreaking registered against him – has also maintained that the gold recovered from him was stolen from 18 homes he broke into, and does not belong to any of his homosexual victims. Police are still investigating this. "We are trying to trace them to see if they want to lodge complaints," added Burde. Meanwhile, he has been arrested under Section 380 (theft). KAMBLE'S HISTORY OF CRIME "He has been arrested in the past, and is known to use tricks such as biting cops, banging his head on the wall, not eating food, excreting in police lock-ups to evade interrogation, " said a Thane Crime Branch officer. This time, too, when he was nabbed from a flat in Dombivli, he tried to flee by biting a constable. The Thane Crime Branch team that caught him included Head Constable Ramesh Chougule, and Police Naiks Rajan More and Rajkumar Tarde Kamble. Shankar Kamble Source: http://epaper. timesofindia. com/Default/ Scripting/ ArticleWin. asp?From= Archive&Source=Page&Skin=MIRRORNEW&BaseHref=MMIR/ 2010/01/30&PageLabel=13&EntityId=Ar01300&ViewMode=HTML&GZ=T Get your new Email address! Grab the Email name you've always wanted before someone else does! http://mail.promotions.yahoo.com/newdomains/aa/
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Re: g_b friend
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. Should we be worried about this swine flu outbreak? Updated Tue. Apr. 28 2009 12:26 PM ET Angela Mulholland, CTV.ca News What is this swine flu outbreak? Technically, what we're calling swine flu in this outbreak is no longer a swine flu. It's an influenza virus that does not appear to be infecting pigs; it's infecting humans. The virus is a brand new strain, a subtype of Influenza A/H1N1 that has never been detected before in swine or humans. It appears to be a combination of human, swine and bird flu viruses. It contains the DNA of: North American swine influenza; a swine influenza virus typically found in Asia and Europe; human influenza A; and a North American avian influenza. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control's Dr. Anne Schuchat calls it "an unusually mongrelized mix of genetic sequences." Why are we calling it 'swine flu'? The CDC was the first to use the term "swine flu" to describe this virus after initial analysis showed the virus had many of the characteristics of a swine flu. Further tests revealed it also contained genetic material from a human flu virus and avian flu virus. After undergoing genetic changes (called "antigenic shift"), what likely started as a swine flu has now become a human swine flu virus. But now that the name is being used by media outlets and governments everywhere, it is likely the "swine flu" name is going to stick. How did this new strain develop? No one yet knows. It is likely that pigs were the "reservoir" where the virus developed, since pigs are notorious "mixing bowls" for viruses. But even though this new strain of flu contains some elements of swine influenza virus, it may not have started in pigs. It could as well have been bred in birds or even another mammal. The investigation could take a while and it's possible the answer will never be found. How far has this virus spread? What makes this new virus disturbing is how easily it appears to be able to pass from person to person. With cases popping up across the globe every day, it might be around the globe already. How far this virus has spread will become clearer in coming days. Why is a new strain worrisome? If an influenza virus changes and becomes a new strain against which people have little or no immunity -- and if this new strain can easily spread from person to person and cause severe illness in a high percentage of people that it infects -- the seeds would be sown for a pandemic that could sicken and kill many people around the world. Epidemiologists have been warning for years that it's just a matter of time before a new strain of the flu emerges that has the potential to kill millions. Flu pandemics have historically occurred about three times per century and the world hasn't seen one in more than 40 years. What is a pandemic? A pandemic is an epidemic of infectious disease that has spread across a large region, such as across continents or worldwide. But a pandemic can be mild or severe, depending on how many deaths the disease causes. When most of us think of flu pandemics, we think of the 1918 Spanish Flu. But remember that the 1968 Hong Kong flu epidemic killed only about 700,000 worldwide. That's less than many yearly outbreaks of garden-variety seasonal flu. If the current human swine flu outbreak is declared a pandemic, it is more likely to be of the 1968 variety because we have been exposed to several parts of this virus before. We also have good public health systems that are ready for a pandemic with antiviral medications and infection control measures. Do we have a pandemic strain of influenza virus here? We're not yet sure. It's clear we have a new infectious disease. In Mexico , it also appears to be causing severe illness in people who should be in the prime of health - young and middle-aged people. But its ability to spread easily from person-to-person is still being debated. The good news is that so far, the number of deaths from this virus is relatively low. In countries where the virus is just being found, such as Canada , it's causing such mild illness, it's running its course in two to three days, in some cases without treatment. Is there a vaccine? There is no vaccine, as the genetic makeup of this virus is still being analyzed. But CDC officials have prepared a "seed stock" of the virus that could be used in the manufacture of a vaccine, though it is still premature to send it to pharmaceutical companies. Preparing a new vaccine would likely take several months. For swine influenzas that affect pigs, there is a vaccine available that can be given to pigs; there is no vaccine to protect humans from swine flu. I got the flu shot this year. Am I protected? Not likely. This is a virus that has never been seen before; therefore, vaccines for human flu would not provide adequate protection from the swine flu material contained in this virus. It may offer some protection though against
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Re: g_b Cruising places in Mumbai
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