[gay_bombay] Bombay Dost Sunday High, Sept. 12: 'Queering Bollywood', film screening

2004-09-11 Thread Nitin Karani






Sunday High: 
September 12, 
2004

Film screening: Queering 
Bollywood

‘Queering Bollywood’ is a 
series of ‘seriously funny’ interpretations of Hindi cinema. Rather than 
critique, this exercise is meant to be creative. It’s serious about subversive, 
queer readings of popular Hindi cinema which many consider frivolous. It’s 
frivolous about the deadly serious nature of ownership of cinema, freely copying 
and copying from various sources.

Duration about 30 
minutes.

We hope to make another 
interesting presentation about ‘Queer Bollywood’ after this 
screening.

Date: Sunday, September 12, 
2004

Time: 5 
p.m.

Venue: The Humsafar Trust's Drop-in 
Centre, 1st floor, Vakola Municipal Market Building, Near Raheja Point and 
Vakola Masjid, Santacruz (East), Mumbai.

Getting there: It’s approximately 
minimum fare by autorickshaw from Santacruz East (Western Railways). You could 
also take routes 311 or 313.

The same routes also operate from 
Kurla West (Central Railways).

All are welcome! Confidentiality 
assured.

Tea will be served. Contributions 
are appreciated. 

Space courtesy: The Humsafar 
Trust.

Nitin Karani  Ernest 
Noronha
Bombay Dost
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[gay_bombay] Bombay Dost - Sunday High- August 22nd, 2004.

2004-08-21 Thread Nitin

LIFE EVENTS 

Gay = Happy? Well, not always, of course. Daily life is full of 
problems for heteros and queer people alike. However, who can 
dispute the fact that we have a big set of unique problems to deal 
with?

Boyfriends/ girlfriends problems that are more complex than what a 
marriage counselor can deal with perhaps; the daily scare of being 
outed; dealing with ignorance, idiotic friends and their phobic 
jokes; the whole, damn marriage issue and the family pressure to 
have children... if leading ones life on this planet is not enough 
to handle, being forces to lead two lives—public and very private—
ALL THE TIME!

Here's a session dedicated to ventilating all your angst, all the 
frustration you cannot express to any one except your queer friends.

It's not just a steam letting session though. We hope to let the 
common problems so as to aid professional counsellors in better 
serving LGBT people. 

So, please be there on Sunday, August 22nd, 2004 at 5.00pm. 

Venue: The Humsafar Trust Drop in center,

10 minutes by auto rickshaw from Santacruz station; BEST buses every 
10-15 from the station. Also BEST buses and rickshaw operate from 
Kurla station west towards Santacruz east.

For further assistance,

Please call 26673800/ 26650547

All are welcome.

Space courtesy the Humsafar Trust. 

Ernest/ Nitin

Bombay Dost.





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[gay_bombay] Bombay Dost - GayBombay meeting on entrapment

2004-07-10 Thread vgd1967
Reminding everyone about this event. Please do try and be there, and send this mail 
around and get people to come. We are particularly looking for people who have 
suffered from these attacks, or have friends who have suffered them and whose stories 
they know.

Vikram


Bombay Dost - GayBombay meeting on entrapment

Date: Sunday, July 11, 2004

Time: 5 p.m.

Venue: The Humsafar Trust's Drop-in Centre, 1st floor, Vakola Municipal
Market Building, Near Vakola Masjid, Santacruz (East), Mumbai.

Closest stations: Santacruz (Western Railways) and Kurla (Central Railways).
All are welcome! Confidentiality assured. Tea will be served. Contributions
are welcome but not demanded. Space courtesy The Humsafar Trust.

This event is by Bombay Dost in assciation with GayBombay

Nitin Karani



What the meet is about (and what its not)? : To discuss the plague of blackmailers and 
hustlers who are preying on the queer community. Its specifically looking at people 
who try to use people's sexuality as a means of extortion. This meeting is NOT about 
the rights and wrongs of sex for pay. We're only if the hustler uses the transaction 
or just cruising in general as a means of picking up targets for mugging or blackmail. 


What are the cases we're talking about? : The gang that hangs around Churchgate 
station trying to pick up guys they can mug in the dark alleys of C  D roads. The 
gang that hangs around the walls, looking for foreign gay men who they can dupe into 
taking them back to their rooms where they will pretend to be policemen and try and 
extort as much as they can from the foreigners. The guy who both mugged a gay man, and 
then followed him home and blackmailed him for three years ultimately taking more than 
one lakh rupees. The gang who beat up young gay men at Charni Road, Andheri, Bandra, 
Khar and so many other places, stealing their posessions and traumatising them for 
life. The gang that's now moved onto the Net, coming up with an efficient way of 
trapping more young and closeted gay guys. The gang who... but you can probably fill 
your own stories when you come. 


Why now? : This problem has existed for years and, its been pointed out, there are 
periodic outbursts of indignation from the community, and then we all subside into 
apathy again. And I don't think we should underestimate the problem - its not easy 
seeing what we can do in such circumstances, so we may very well end up nowhere again. 
But I don't think we've ever had an open meeting where we try to involve as many 
people as possible, both from within the community and people outside it, but who 
might be able to help, and its worth trying.


Also, the problem seems to be on an upswing, perhaps as more blackmailers realise the 
potential it offers. As homosexuality becomes more visible, and more queer people 
start interacting with each other, there will also be people who want to take 
advantage of this. From the stories we are hearing, its evidently very good business, 
so we can expect to see more people getting in on it. There also seems increasing 
evidence that members of the police might play a part.


Most recently its become clear that blackmailers have started using the Internet. In 
the last week alone we have heard of two cases with the same modus operandi - contacts 
made on chat, meetings fixed up to exchange porn VCDs, then when the exchange is 
happening (near the Dadar station) a so-called plain clothes policeman comes and grabs 
both guys and proceeds to extract as much as possible from the victim (nothing happens 
to the other guy who is obviously the decoy). 


Some information is available about the people involved in this and hopefully some of 
the guys affected by this scam will come to the meetings, so we will have an immediate 
opportunity to decide if anything can be done. At the very least, we can figure out 
how to publicise cases like this to prevent other people being trapped. 


Why bother? : Some people argue that these attacks mostly target closetted gay men, 
and that they succeed simply because these men are too closetted to fight back. So the 
solution is to come out, and anyone who doesn't deserves what they get. 


The solution is probably the right one, but it would be callous to write off everyone 
who can't take it. Many of the people being targetted are young and taking their first 
steps into the gay world. When this happens to them, it scares them so badly that they 
may never come out, even if they might have wanted to. The psychological damage can be 
severe. These attacks are perhaps the most direct form of homophobia we encounter and 
in that alone they are worth taking up. 


There's also one other point. We are often asked by well-meaning people, why we need 
to protest for gay rights. They ask, why not just be quiet and lead your lives in 
private? These blackmailing attacks seem to me the best response why. The people these 
attacks have happened to are often the very ones really 

[gay_bombay] Bombay police launch HIV scheme

2004-07-02 Thread coffebeans2002
Bombay police launch HIV scheme
 
 
Campaigning for the use of condoms in Bombay - the 'Aids capital' of 
India 
Police in India's western city of Bombay (Mumbai) have announced a 
no discrimination policy against employees who have tested HIV-
positive. 
The initiative is the first by a government agency in the country. 

It comes in the wake of an increase in incidents of discrimination 
against HIV-positive policemen in the 40,000 strong police force. 

Discrimination against Aids patients is common in India, with the 
World Bank accusing it of ignoring the problem. 

'High risk group' 

The BBC's Zubair Ahmed in Bombay says that the number of HIV-
positive case within the 40,000-strong police force is quite high. 

 
It is thought that just under one percent of the adult Indian 
population is HIV-positive  

Ten percent of 150 policemen tested recently were HIV- positive. In 
other tests earlier this year, more than 450 men in the force were 
tested positive. 

The fact that the police force is now considered to be a high risk 
group has given rise to discrimination against HIV-positive 
policemen by their own colleagues and by the force authorities. 

But now, a senior Bombay police official, Prem Kishan Jain, says the 
force has decided to rehabilitate those who have tested positive. 

He said there would be no discrimination against HIV-positive people 
who wanted to apply for jobs in the force. 

'Aids capital' 

Correspondents say the initiative has been launched partly to ease 
the fears and rehabilitate those affected, and partly to encourage 
other officers who may be infected to come forward and be tested. 

Mr Jain said he had sanctioned an Aids awareness programme in all 
police stations in Bombay, with a view to eliminating discrimination 
and misinformation about HIV-positive cases. 

Discrimination against people who are HIV is high in the city, which 
has the reputation of being the Aids capital of India. 

Meanwhile, the World Bank has accused India and some other South 
Asian countries of neglecting Aids-related problems. It said these 
countries were not serious enough in tacking the disease. 

The latest initiative follows a move in January by legal experts who 
recommended outlawing discrimination against HIV-positive private 
sector workers. 

In the same month, Aids activists hailed a court ruling which means 
government jobs cannot be denied to HIV-positive people because of 
their disease alone. 

The recent moves are being seen as vital towards the rehabilitation 
and social acceptance of India's HIV-positive population. 

India's Health Ministry estimates that 4.58 million people - or 
roughly 0.8% of the adult population - are HIV-positive. 

Health Minister Sushma Swaraj recently told the BBC India will avoid 
an Aids epidemic by educating people about the disease, improving 
medical care and encouraging sexual abstinence. 

 





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