Re: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

2007-05-13 Thread excalibur explorer
 
   
  Hey Joy,
   
  I checked your profile on Gaydar...you have great attributes and a lot going 
for you. I'm single and I face the same questions about marriage but I simply 
fend them off rather than saying yes or no. If you don't want to get married 
don't. But never let that dilemma get you depressed to the point of wanting to 
take your own life...life IS beautiful...Find the things you'd like to do and 
let those occupy your time. You have a lot of time ahead of you and I'm sure 
you'll meet the right person!
   
  Regards,
  Andy
  

Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  Joy,
  Not all gays are unreliable, you have to meet someone and put everything on 
the table I know of men who have been together for more than 30 years. You have 
to be open with your partnd tell them what you want and how you wnat the 
relationship to go get to know that person in that way have things in your life 
to share with them and they should share with yo. life is an adventure and that 
is what you wnat to bass your relationship on have ing and sharing life with 
the other personm not just sex that anyone can do but bass your relationshsip 
on life it self.
  Mark


  - Original Message 
From: joy bs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, May 11, 2007 10:48:00 PM
Subject: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

  Dear Mark,
  Your ideas are so nice, i am 34 yo, and fighting against marriege. I am 
working in DXB and came back to India for a short veccation. But i feel i 
didn't want this veccation and feel to go back to work. 
  I have no parents, i am still alone, all my sisters got married and living 
separate. Now my relatieves and friends are trying for my marriege.  Its make 
my life so misarable. I dont want to marry, but everyone telling me , how you 
will live alone, who will take care of you. How can you live alone here? I Know 
out culture is so difficult.  And i am tired of telling no...
  I was trying for a life partner ( gay) for the last 10 years. I couldnt find 
any gays.  And i always feel that the gays are not trustable,and dependable.  
They will go when they meet another atractive one.
  Really i am so confused about my life. I dont know what to do? I am always 
thinking about suicide .  Otherwise what to do?
  You can see my profile in gaydar page...
  www.gaydar.co. uk/joybs
  Thank you
  Joy

Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED] com> wrote:
  NOT AN INTERESTING IDEA IT IS STUPID, THIS IS YOUR LIFE NOT YOUR 
FRIENDS, PARENTS, OR ANYONE ELSE IT IS YOURS, I HAD TO TELL MY PARENTS NO AND 
OH WHAT S SHOCK BUT I STOOD MY GROUND AND TODAY THE LOVE ME FOR WHO AND WHAT I 
AM. I HAD A FRIEND THAT GOT MARRIED AND DIED AT THE AGE OF 31 YEARS BECAUSE HE 
WAS NOT HAPPY HE JUST DROPPED DEAD HE WAS SO MISURABLE HE HAD A JOB THAT TOOK 
HIM OUT OF THE STATE A LOT SO HE DID NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HIS WIFE WHO HE REALLY 
DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ANYWAY BUT WHY GO THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS YOU ONLY 
HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU SHOULD NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU! 
! ! ! ! ! MARRAGE IS FOR THOSE WHO FEEL IN THERE HEART THEY WANT THIS AND 
NOTHING ELSE BUT FOR PARENTS ! ! ! ! ! ! ! TO SAY YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED YOU 
MUST STAND UP AND SAY NO !! ! ! ! !IF NOT HELL NO ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !YOU 
WILL FEEL BETTER IN THE LONG RUN AND REMEMBER YOU WHERE CREATED THE WAY GOD 
WANTED TO CREATE YOU AND IT IS NOT FOR PARENTS OR ANYONE
 ELSE TO CHANGE OR FORCE YOU TO BE ANYTHING ELSE.
  GOD BLESS YOU I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR RELIGION IS 
BUT WE THERE IS ONLY ONE GOD AND I WILL PRAY FOR STRIGHT AND GUIDENCE FOR YOU 
IN THIS MATTER.
  GOD BLESS YOU,
  REV. DR. MARK WILLIAM GORY


  - Original Message 
From: amit dhaundiyal <[EMAIL PROTECTED] co.in>
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com
Sent: Saturday, April 7, 2007 2:57:51 AM
Subject: Re: g_b I want 2 marry a lesbian

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Re: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

2007-05-13 Thread Mark Gory
Joy,
Not all gays are unreliable, you have to meet someone and put everything on the 
table I know of men who have been together for more than 30 years. You have to 
be open with your partnd tell them what you want and how you wnat the 
relationship to go get to know that person in that way have things in your life 
to share with them and they should share with yo. life is an adventure and that 
is what you wnat to bass your relationship on have ing and sharing life with 
the other personm not just sex that anyone can do but bass your relationshsip 
on life it self.
Mark


- Original Message 
From: joy bs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, May 11, 2007 10:48:00 PM
Subject: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

Dear Mark,
Your ideas are so nice, i am 34 yo, and fighting against marriege. I am working 
in DXB and came back to India for a short veccation. But i feel i didn't want 
this veccation and feel to go back to work. 
I have no parents, i am still alone, all my sisters got married and living 
separate. Now my relatieves and friends are trying for my marriege.  Its make 
my life so misarable. I dont want to marry, but everyone telling me , how you 
will live alone, who will take care of you. How can you live alone here? I Know 
out culture is so difficult.  And i am tired of telling no...
I was trying for a life partner ( gay) for the last 10 years. I couldnt find 
any gays.  And i always feel that the gays are not trustable,and dependable.  
They will go when they meet another atractive one.
Really i am so confused about my life. I dont know what to do? I am always 
thinking about suicide .  Otherwise what to do?
You can see my profile in gaydar page...
www.gaydar.co. uk/joybs
Thank you
Joy

Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED] com> wrote:
NOT AN INTERESTING IDEA IT IS STUPID, THIS IS YOUR LIFE NOT YOUR FRIENDS, 
PARENTS, OR ANYONE ELSE IT IS YOURS, I HAD TO TELL MY PARENTS NO AND OH WHAT S 
SHOCK BUT I STOOD MY GROUND AND TODAY THE LOVE ME FOR WHO AND WHAT I AM. I HAD 
A FRIEND THAT GOT MARRIED AND DIED AT THE AGE OF 31 YEARS BECAUSE HE WAS NOT 
HAPPY HE JUST DROPPED DEAD HE WAS SO MISURABLE HE HAD A JOB THAT TOOK HIM OUT 
OF THE STATE A LOT SO HE DID NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HIS WIFE WHO HE REALLY DID NOT 
WANT TO BE WITH ANYWAY BUT WHY GO THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS YOU ONLY HAVE ONE 
LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU SHOULD NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU! ! ! ! ! ! 
MARRAGE IS FOR THOSE WHO FEEL IN THERE HEART THEY WANT THIS AND NOTHING ELSE 
BUT FOR PARENTS ! ! ! ! ! ! ! TO SAY YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED YOU MUST STAND UP 
AND SAY NO !! ! ! ! !IF NOT HELL NO ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !YOU WILL FEEL BETTER 
IN THE LONG RUN AND REMEMBER YOU WHERE CREATED THE WAY GOD WANTED TO CREATE YOU 
AND IT IS NOT FOR PARENTS OR ANYONE ELSE TO
 CHANGE OR FORCE YOU TO BE ANYTHING ELSE.
GOD BLESS YOU I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR RELIGION IS 
BUT WE THERE IS ONLY ONE GOD AND I WILL PRAY FOR STRIGHT AND GUIDENCE FOR YOU 
IN THIS MATTER.
GOD BLESS YOU,
REV. DR. MARK WILLIAM GORY


- Original Message 
From: amit dhaundiyal <[EMAIL PROTECTED] co.in>
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com
Sent: Saturday, April 7, 2007 2:57:51 AM
Subject: Re: g_b I want 2 marry a lesbian


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Re: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

2007-05-13 Thread Peter Joseph Swanson
That made we weep a bit.  THANK YOU for posting it.  It didn't have 
any answers ... but it had hope!, and that's all you usually get in 
life. HOPE.  Bless you.

Peter  

--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Carmen Baez <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> Hello to  all:
>
>   I am a straight female from a puerto rican family.  Mark, I am 
going to tell you about my brother who is gay.  As you may or may not 
know the latino culture is full of machismo, and very very catholic.  
My brother is one of 7 sons my father has, and six daughters.  My 
father expected his all of his children to grow up and have families, 
hard working , honest , family men, what he deemed to be the natural 
order of things.  Everyone thought there was something wrong with my 
brother mentally, they never ever suspected or contemplated that he 
was homosexual.  They thought he was and treated him as though he was 
mentally impaired .  My brother did not act feminine or anything like 
that I dont even think he knew he was gay for a long time.  It was 
just unheard of in our culture. Well to get to the point , I think 
you under estimate your family, because as my brother became a man 
and became aware of who he was he met a gentlemen and began a secret 
relationship and it was as if a
>  flower where flourishing, my brother was no longer acting like the 
person who was mentally impaired, he became the kind of man my father 
wanted him to be.  My brother started a home with this man, (they 
have no children )  but they are happy.  And although my brother 
never actually came out to our family everyone is just happy that he 
is happy, and I personally heard my father say in a private moment to 
my mother, "i dont agree with my sons lifestyle but i am glad he is 
happy, he is a good son, a good brother and a good man"  my father 
only wished he would have children.  My father was proud of my 
brother till the day he died.  My brother and his companion of 16 
years where at my dads funeral together.  So dont under estimate 
those who love you. and never ever think you have the right to take 
the life that god and your parents gave to you.
> 
> asfan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Hi Joy,
>   It may be difficult, but not impossible, to say no to marriage.
>   There are hundreds of us who are still in the closet yet still 
unmarried.
>   I am 67  yo and still unmarried. When my mother was insisting I 
get 
>   married (my father had died while I was still studying) I would 
just  say
>   I didn't want to get married and give no reason for saying so. Of 
course,
>   she died disappointed but I think it was all for the better.
>   
> You have only relatives to contend with.  Which would make things 
easier.
>   Also, your staying abroad makes it easier.
>
>   I am sure that if you have patience and wait you may meet someone 
of 
>   your liking.
>
>   As for contemplating suicide, FORGET IT.  Immerse yourself in 
your work.
>   Go out and meet friends.  Or  take the help of a counselor. 
Suicide is not the 
>   answer.  Be brave and face the world.  You won't be the first and 
you won't be the last!!
>
>   Wishing you all the best,
>
>   Asfan.
> 
> joy bs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Dear Mark,
>   Your ideas are so nice, i am 34 yo, and fighting against 
marriege. I am working in DXB and came back to India for a short 
veccation. But i feel i didn't want this veccation and feel to go 
back to work. 
>   I have no parents, i am still alone, all my sisters got married 
and living separate. Now my relatieves and friends are trying for my 
marriege.  Its make my life so misarable. I dont want to marry, but 
everyone telling me , how you will live alone, who will take care of 
you. How can you live alone here? I Know out culture is so 
difficult.  And i am tired of telling no...
>   I was trying for a life partner ( gay) for the last 10 years. I 
couldnt find any gays.  And i always feel that the gays are not 
trustable,and dependable.  They will go when they meet another 
atractive one.
>   Really i am so confused about my life. I dont know what to do? I 
am always thinking about suicide .  Otherwise what to do?
>   You can see my profile in gaydar page...
>   www.gaydar.co.uk/joybs
>   Thank you
>   Joy
> 
> Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>   NOT AN INTERESTING IDEA IT IS STUPID, THIS IS YOUR LIFE 
NOT YOUR FRIENDS, PARENTS, OR ANYONE ELSE IT IS YOURS, I HAD TO TELL 
MY PARENTS NO AND OH WHAT S SHOCK BUT I STOOD MY GROUND AND TODAY THE 
LOVE ME FOR WHO AND WHAT I AM. I HAD A FRIEND THAT GOT MARRIED AND 
DIED AT THE AGE OF 31 YEARS BECAUSE HE WAS NOT HAPPY HE JUST DROPPED 
DEAD HE WAS SO MISURABLE HE HAD A JOB THAT TOOK HIM OUT OF THE STATE 
A LOT SO HE DID NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HIS WIFE WHO HE REALLY DID NOT 
WANT TO BE WITH ANYWAY BUT WHY GO THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS YOU 
ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU SHOULD NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE 
BEST FOR YOU! ! ! ! ! ! MARRAGE IS FOR THOSE WHO F

Re: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

2007-05-12 Thread Carmen Baez
Hello to  all:
   
  I am a straight female from a puerto rican family.  Mark, I am going to tell 
you about my brother who is gay.  As you may or may not know the latino culture 
is full of machismo, and very very catholic.  My brother is one of 7 sons my 
father has, and six daughters.  My father expected his all of his children to 
grow up and have families, hard working , honest , family men, what he deemed 
to be the natural order of things.  Everyone thought there was something wrong 
with my brother mentally, they never ever suspected or contemplated that he was 
homosexual.  They thought he was and treated him as though he was mentally 
impaired .  My brother did not act feminine or anything like that I dont even 
think he knew he was gay for a long time.  It was just unheard of in our 
culture. Well to get to the point , I think you under estimate your family, 
because as my brother became a man and became aware of who he was he met a 
gentlemen and began a secret relationship and it was as if a
 flower where flourishing, my brother was no longer acting like the person who 
was mentally impaired, he became the kind of man my father wanted him to be.  
My brother started a home with this man, (they have no children )  but they are 
happy.  And although my brother never actually came out to our family everyone 
is just happy that he is happy, and I personally heard my father say in a 
private moment to my mother, "i dont agree with my sons lifestyle but i am glad 
he is happy, he is a good son, a good brother and a good man"  my father only 
wished he would have children.  My father was proud of my brother till the day 
he died.  My brother and his companion of 16 years where at my dads funeral 
together.  So dont under estimate those who love you. and never ever think you 
have the right to take the life that god and your parents gave to you.

asfan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Hi Joy,
  It may be difficult, but not impossible, to say no to marriage.
  There are hundreds of us who are still in the closet yet still unmarried.
  I am 67  yo and still unmarried. When my mother was insisting I get 
  married (my father had died while I was still studying) I would just  say
  I didn't want to get married and give no reason for saying so. Of course,
  she died disappointed but I think it was all for the better.
  
You have only relatives to contend with.  Which would make things easier.
  Also, your staying abroad makes it easier.
   
  I am sure that if you have patience and wait you may meet someone of 
  your liking.
   
  As for contemplating suicide, FORGET IT.  Immerse yourself in your work.
  Go out and meet friends.  Or  take the help of a counselor. Suicide is not 
the 
  answer.  Be brave and face the world.  You won't be the first and you won't 
be the last!!
   
  Wishing you all the best,
   
  Asfan.

joy bs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Dear Mark,
  Your ideas are so nice, i am 34 yo, and fighting against marriege. I am 
working in DXB and came back to India for a short veccation. But i feel i 
didn't want this veccation and feel to go back to work. 
  I have no parents, i am still alone, all my sisters got married and living 
separate. Now my relatieves and friends are trying for my marriege.  Its make 
my life so misarable. I dont want to marry, but everyone telling me , how you 
will live alone, who will take care of you. How can you live alone here? I Know 
out culture is so difficult.  And i am tired of telling no...
  I was trying for a life partner ( gay) for the last 10 years. I couldnt find 
any gays.  And i always feel that the gays are not trustable,and dependable.  
They will go when they meet another atractive one.
  Really i am so confused about my life. I dont know what to do? I am always 
thinking about suicide .  Otherwise what to do?
  You can see my profile in gaydar page...
  www.gaydar.co.uk/joybs
  Thank you
  Joy

Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  NOT AN INTERESTING IDEA IT IS STUPID, THIS IS YOUR LIFE NOT YOUR 
FRIENDS, PARENTS, OR ANYONE ELSE IT IS YOURS, I HAD TO TELL MY PARENTS NO AND 
OH WHAT S SHOCK BUT I STOOD MY GROUND AND TODAY THE LOVE ME FOR WHO AND WHAT I 
AM. I HAD A FRIEND THAT GOT MARRIED AND DIED AT THE AGE OF 31 YEARS BECAUSE HE 
WAS NOT HAPPY HE JUST DROPPED DEAD HE WAS SO MISURABLE HE HAD A JOB THAT TOOK 
HIM OUT OF THE STATE A LOT SO HE DID NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HIS WIFE WHO HE REALLY 
DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ANYWAY BUT WHY GO THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS YOU ONLY 
HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU SHOULD NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU! 
! ! ! ! ! MARRAGE IS FOR THOSE WHO FEEL IN THERE HEART THEY WANT THIS AND 
NOTHING ELSE BUT FOR PARENTS ! ! ! ! ! ! ! TO SAY YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED YOU 
MUST STAND UP AND SAY NO !! ! ! ! !IF NOT HELL NO ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !YOU 
WILL FEEL BETTER IN THE LONG RUN AND REMEMBER YOU WHERE CREATED THE WAY GOD 
WANTED TO CREATE YOU AND IT IS NOT FOR PARENTS OR ANYONE
 ELSE TO CHANGE 

Re: g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

2007-05-12 Thread asfan
Hi Joy,
  It may be difficult, but not impossible, to say no to marriage.
  There are hundreds of us who are still in the closet yet still unmarried.
  I am 67  yo and still unmarried. When my mother was insisting I get 
  married (my father had died while I was still studying) I would just  say
  I didn't want to get married and give no reason for saying so. Of course,
  she died disappointed but I think it was all for the better.
  
You have only relatives to contend with.  Which would make things easier.
  Also, your staying abroad makes it easier.
   
  I am sure that if you have patience and wait you may meet someone of 
  your liking.
   
  As for contemplating suicide, FORGET IT.  Immerse yourself in your work.
  Go out and meet friends.  Or  take the help of a counselor. Suicide is not 
the 
  answer.  Be brave and face the world.  You won't be the first and you won't 
be the last!!
   
  Wishing you all the best,
   
  Asfan.

joy bs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Dear Mark,
  Your ideas are so nice, i am 34 yo, and fighting against marriege. I am 
working in DXB and came back to India for a short veccation. But i feel i 
didn't want this veccation and feel to go back to work. 
  I have no parents, i am still alone, all my sisters got married and living 
separate. Now my relatieves and friends are trying for my marriege.  Its make 
my life so misarable. I dont want to marry, but everyone telling me , how you 
will live alone, who will take care of you. How can you live alone here? I Know 
out culture is so difficult.  And i am tired of telling no...
  I was trying for a life partner ( gay) for the last 10 years. I couldnt find 
any gays.  And i always feel that the gays are not trustable,and dependable.  
They will go when they meet another atractive one.
  Really i am so confused about my life. I dont know what to do? I am always 
thinking about suicide .  Otherwise what to do?
  You can see my profile in gaydar page...
  www.gaydar.co.uk/joybs
  Thank you
  Joy

Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  NOT AN INTERESTING IDEA IT IS STUPID, THIS IS YOUR LIFE NOT YOUR 
FRIENDS, PARENTS, OR ANYONE ELSE IT IS YOURS, I HAD TO TELL MY PARENTS NO AND 
OH WHAT S SHOCK BUT I STOOD MY GROUND AND TODAY THE LOVE ME FOR WHO AND WHAT I 
AM. I HAD A FRIEND THAT GOT MARRIED AND DIED AT THE AGE OF 31 YEARS BECAUSE HE 
WAS NOT HAPPY HE JUST DROPPED DEAD HE WAS SO MISURABLE HE HAD A JOB THAT TOOK 
HIM OUT OF THE STATE A LOT SO HE DID NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HIS WIFE WHO HE REALLY 
DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ANYWAY BUT WHY GO THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS YOU ONLY 
HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU SHOULD NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU! 
! ! ! ! ! MARRAGE IS FOR THOSE WHO FEEL IN THERE HEART THEY WANT THIS AND 
NOTHING ELSE BUT FOR PARENTS ! ! ! ! ! ! ! TO SAY YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED YOU 
MUST STAND UP AND SAY NO !! ! ! ! !IF NOT HELL NO ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !YOU 
WILL FEEL BETTER IN THE LONG RUN AND REMEMBER YOU WHERE CREATED THE WAY GOD 
WANTED TO CREATE YOU AND IT IS NOT FOR PARENTS OR ANYONE
 ELSE TO CHANGE OR FORCE YOU TO BE ANYTHING ELSE.
  GOD BLESS YOU I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR RELIGION IS 
BUT WE THERE IS ONLY ONE GOD AND I WILL PRAY FOR STRIGHT AND GUIDENCE FOR YOU 
IN THIS MATTER.
  GOD BLESS YOU,
  REV. DR. MARK WILLIAM GORY


  - Original Message 
From: amit dhaundiyal <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Saturday, April 7, 2007 2:57:51 AM
Subject: Re: g_b I want 2 marry a lesbian

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g_b Hi Mark !! am always thinking of suicide

2007-05-12 Thread joy bs
Dear Mark,
  Your ideas are so nice, i am 34 yo, and fighting against marriege. I am 
working in DXB and came back to India for a short veccation. But i feel i 
didn't want this veccation and feel to go back to work. 
  I have no parents, i am still alone, all my sisters got married and living 
separate. Now my relatieves and friends are trying for my marriege.  Its make 
my life so misarable. I dont want to marry, but everyone telling me , how you 
will live alone, who will take care of you. How can you live alone here? I Know 
out culture is so difficult.  And i am tired of telling no...
  I was trying for a life partner ( gay) for the last 10 years. I couldnt find 
any gays.  And i always feel that the gays are not trustable,and dependable.  
They will go when they meet another atractive one.
  Really i am so confused about my life. I dont know what to do? I am always 
thinking about suicide .  Otherwise what to do?
  You can see my profile in gaydar page...
  www.gaydar.co.uk/joybs
  Thank you
  Joy

Mark Gory <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  NOT AN INTERESTING IDEA IT IS STUPID, THIS IS YOUR LIFE NOT YOUR 
FRIENDS, PARENTS, OR ANYONE ELSE IT IS YOURS, I HAD TO TELL MY PARENTS NO AND 
OH WHAT S SHOCK BUT I STOOD MY GROUND AND TODAY THE LOVE ME FOR WHO AND WHAT I 
AM. I HAD A FRIEND THAT GOT MARRIED AND DIED AT THE AGE OF 31 YEARS BECAUSE HE 
WAS NOT HAPPY HE JUST DROPPED DEAD HE WAS SO MISURABLE HE HAD A JOB THAT TOOK 
HIM OUT OF THE STATE A LOT SO HE DID NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HIS WIFE WHO HE REALLY 
DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ANYWAY BUT WHY GO THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS YOU ONLY 
HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND YOU SHOULD NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU! 
! ! ! ! ! MARRAGE IS FOR THOSE WHO FEEL IN THERE HEART THEY WANT THIS AND 
NOTHING ELSE BUT FOR PARENTS ! ! ! ! ! ! ! TO SAY YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED YOU 
MUST STAND UP AND SAY NO !! ! ! ! !IF NOT HELL NO ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !YOU 
WILL FEEL BETTER IN THE LONG RUN AND REMEMBER YOU WHERE CREATED THE WAY GOD 
WANTED TO CREATE YOU AND IT IS NOT FOR PARENTS OR
 ANYONE ELSE TO CHANGE OR FORCE YOU TO BE ANYTHING ELSE.
  GOD BLESS YOU I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR RELIGION IS 
BUT WE THERE IS ONLY ONE GOD AND I WILL PRAY FOR STRIGHT AND GUIDENCE FOR YOU 
IN THIS MATTER.
  GOD BLESS YOU,
  REV. DR. MARK WILLIAM GORY


  - Original Message 
From: amit dhaundiyal <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Saturday, April 7, 2007 2:57:51 AM
Subject: Re: g_b I want 2 marry a lesbian

interesting idea, let me know if u have any leads 
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