g_b Gays just want good looking guys (mostly)
Ramesh I do appreciate brevity in formal emails and posts. However, in this case Rajeev was attempting to give some online words of prudence to Tarun. Tarun, in my opinion, does need help to come out of his negative musings. Everything in life cannot be described in Twitter sized statements, Ramesh. :-) Let us say, Ramesh, that someone is attempting to console you over the phone. Would you rather that the conversation went thus: Caller: Dude get off your blues!Ramesh: But I am so sad about XYZ going wrongCaller: Dude, shut up and get on with your life! Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Ramesh wrote: > > Has anyone in these forums heard of something > called "economy of words"?   Please letâs learn to remain brief and to the > point, instead of going on and on â" blah, blah, blah, blahâ¦Â Who has the time, for crying out loud! > >  > > Tarun has a point, but allow me to quote a > character from the film âChasing Amyâ who says, âgay or straight, ugly is still > uglyâ. End of story. > >  > > Letâs not be hard on ourselves. The world is already doing that. > >  > > Ramesh > --- On Thu, 11/10/11, R dreamlover4mi@... wrote: > > From: R dreamlover4mi@... > Subject: g_b Re: gays just want good looking guys (mostly) > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Thursday, November 10, 2011, 11:24 AM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > > My dear young(Tarun)buddy, > > > > Are you 23 or 32 year or 320 years to get so fed up that decisively this is your last communication on any gay forum? > > > > Dear your doomed if you fall in the trap of calling or concentrating on you average looks criteria with average features. Stop defying your looks and features with immediate effect. You should just be saying I am 23 years old with 5/6 height with 55 kgs weight, I am an IT profession student. That's enough for others to know. Why you wanna come out in a very reputed spiritual based organization. (Is you being gay, their business?) I heard student, Right? If so, how the hell is a life time partner got into your headâ¦You still very young for such complex wants and needsâ¦concentrate in building you life on concrete feet and everything else on a back burner for few yearsâ¦to be precise till you 30's. > > What the hell, that average word twice in one single mail? All the people are attracted to good-looking people, your absolutely right but only initiallyâ¦..how about big packages-small material (in every sense), I neither wish to be a big package with small material or be super intelligent like Steve Hopkins. You're different from the regular rat raceâ¦LOL, bet you are. Good looking people, if they make you feel like concentrate on your looks in their companyâ¦believe me are useless. > > > > So maybe in not so normal heterosexual relationshipsâ¦looks are very important. I have done friendship with average people and left them or trying leaving, not for their average looks but for their average love, understanding and goodness. I have met drop dead good-looking guys also and not felt a bit attracted towards them for their insane hunger for good looks and indiscriminate sex with tear ass tools...lolâ¦with whatsoever no spiritual sideâ¦but you claim to be interested in spiritualismâ¦guess whatâ¦long way to go before being enlightened. > > Take my adviseâ¦I am sure you must be having a listing in social networking sights like PR and Manjamâ¦upload your profile with you true latest pictures in every angel possible with you true need and aspiration and if you get connected with a like minded, your lucky but if you don't-man luckiest bitch you, to avoid all the crap out there. A strict no no to describing your looks henceforth and to go on blind dates and a warning to concentrate on your studies, building your life and making best friends-you will bless me in future, otherwise a man has to live with its mistakes for life. > > > > And finally, I would like to say...Look at the king of bollywood and the ever so mystic madamâ¦.ones looks are really falling like a bird without wings from sky and if other chooses to show her real faceâ¦people would be giving a damn about their look par se but got all the achievements of the past to defy their character. Achieve character by your way of living. > > > > Rajeev. > > > > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, attractsafari@ wrote: > > > > > > Hi AllI do want to discuss an issue with all of you being members of this group though i think it is not appropriate to discuss personal issues in groups but as i think we all have a common agenda it may be appropriate to discuss it and may be get some suggestions from some of you. And may be decisively this may be my last communication on any gay forum. > > > > > > I am 23 years old  guy i am an average looking guy with 5/6 height with 55kgs weight and very average features. I am  an IT profession Student , also belong to very reputed spiritual based  o
Re: g_b gays just want good looking guys (mostly)
Sorry that I did not read the mail, but the title itself was enough to respond... Have you seen a str8 girl, stating that she want to settle down with an ugly looking guy, or if the guy is just so so looking, she would be OK with? Have you seen a str8 guy, if given a choice, going for an average looking girl? So man, if looks are talked about, its common tendency to go for the beauty... (that is a separate issue that what is beauty for an individual) And yes, very few people are there, who settle down based on intellectuality, understanding, compatibility etc. On the first go, almost everyone go for looks, richness, fashion quotient, etc etc. Now a days, if you throw attitude, you are hot... Sad yet true... --- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing On Tue, Nov 8, 2011 at 3:00 PM, wrote: > Hi AllI do want to discuss an issue with all of you being members of this > group though i think it is not appropriate to discuss personal issues in > groups but as i think we all have a common agenda it may be appropriate to > discuss it and may be get some suggestions from some of you. And may be > decisively this may be my last communication on any gay forum. > > I am 23 years old guy i am an average looking guy with 5/6 height with > 55kgs weight and very average features. I am an IT profession Student , > also belong to very reputed spiritual based organization where once cannot > afford to come out openly as a gay. Otherwise i am gentle very loving > however a little different from the mainstream rat race and career occupy a > reasonable place in my life but they are not the be all and end all of > everything.I generally have interest in > > Spiritual related activities but it does not mean i have no interest in > other things ..i am very cool in everythingMy problem or what i have faced > is with all my sensitivity sincerity and loving nature i have not able to > find a life partner forget a life time partner not even someone who is > ready to stay back for at least some years. And the reason that i could > find out was that it was my looks. > > I am not saying that people should not go by looks everybody is attracted > to good looking people, but then how much ever people may say in the gay > world i think there is no hope for people like me to find a life partner. I > am not ugly i am just plane average looking guy(what i consider myself to > be) and i am not expecting a 20 years guy to look my way but even the > people of my age seem so obsessed with looks. > > In normal heterosexual relationship we so often find very good looking > guys having love marriage with very average looking girls or vice versa but > in the gay world i think it never happens . Some of you may say that the > problem lies with me i have not looked for people who looked beyond looks > but my dear friends i want to tell you that i have ultimately found that in > a gay relationship looks are the most important thing. > > With all my efforts now i am tired and i have only two options one to > become active sexually like so many gays and make my self empty emotionally > or to just forget everything in this life about having a gay life partner > and live a lonely life which i seem destined to live. I do not know what to > do because i think it is high time i decide one or the other way.I think > this is my last ever letter on any gay forum but then i do feel that if > ever God makes someone gay he should not give him average looks looks > Tarun > Sent from BlackBerry® on Airtel > > > > > Email: modera...@gaybombay.in > > E Groups: > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay > > http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay > > http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia > > Public archives at > http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html > > Rss feed: > http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml > > GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio > > Web Sites: > > www.gaybombay.in > > www.gayindia.org > > Orkut: > > http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 > > Blogs: > > http://gaybombay.blogspot.com > > http://gaybombay.wordpress.com > > Twitter: > > http://twitter.com/gaybombay > > http://twitter.com/gayindia > > Facebook: > > http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay > > http://www.facebook.com/gayindia > Yahoo! Groups Links > > > >
g_b gays just want good looking guys (mostly)
Hi AllI do want to discuss an issue with all of you being members of this group though i think it is not appropriate to discuss personal issues in groups but as i think we all have a common agenda it may be appropriate to discuss it and may be get some suggestions from some of you. And may be decisively this may be my last communication on any gay forum. I am 23 years old guy i am an average looking guy with 5/6 height with 55kgs weight and very average features. I am an IT profession Student , also belong to very reputed spiritual based organization where once cannot afford to come out openly as a gay. Otherwise i am gentle very loving however a little different from the mainstream rat race and career occupy a reasonable place in my life but they are not the be all and end all of everything.I generally have interest in Spiritual related activities but it does not mean i have no interest in other things ..i am very cool in everythingMy problem or what i have faced is with all my sensitivity sincerity and loving nature i have not able to find a life partner forget a life time partner not even someone who is ready to stay back for at least some years. And the reason that i could find out was that it was my looks. I am not saying that people should not go by looks everybody is attracted to good looking people, but then how much ever people may say in the gay world i think there is no hope for people like me to find a life partner. I am not ugly i am just plane average looking guy(what i consider myself to be) and i am not expecting a 20 years guy to look my way but even the people of my age seem so obsessed with looks. In normal heterosexual relationship we so often find very good looking guys having love marriage with very average looking girls or vice versa but in the gay world i think it never happens . Some of you may say that the problem lies with me i have not looked for people who looked beyond looks but my dear friends i want to tell you that i have ultimately found that in a gay relationship looks are the most important thing. With all my efforts now i am tired and i have only two options one to become active sexually like so many gays and make my self empty emotionally or to just forget everything in this life about having a gay life partner and live a lonely life which i seem destined to live. I do not know what to do because i think it is high time i decide one or the other way.I think this is my last ever letter on any gay forum but then i do feel that if ever God makes someone gay he should not give him average looks looks Tarun Sent from BlackBerry® on Airtel Email: modera...@gaybombay.in E Groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia Public archives at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio Web Sites: www.gaybombay.in www.gayindia.org Orkut: http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 Blogs: http://gaybombay.blogspot.com http://gaybombay.wordpress.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/gaybombay http://twitter.com/gayindia Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay http://www.facebook.com/gayindia Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: gay_bombay-dig...@yahoogroups.com gay_bombay-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: gay_bombay-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
