Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)

2013-10-05 Thread Frederick FN Noronha * फ्रेड्रिक नोरोन्या * فريدريك نورونيا
On 4 October 2013 16:04, augusto pinto pinto...@gmail.com wrote:

 As regards how much credit I give to Goans who have achieved something I
 would like to say - I'll praise all Goans who claim they are Goans. If they
 aren't then why should we gain credit for what is not ours?


Which brings us to the point, Gusto.

* Whom do *you* define as Goan?
* Goans who claim they are Goans -- who decides who qualifies for the
first?
* Who decides what is not ours?
* In a migrant oriented society, what is the implications of this logic?
* Are we out to disown, declare enemy property and grab property?

FN

Of course, this is an academic exercise for me, because I believe I'm a
Goan merely by accident of birth. If my family had links a hundred
kilometres due north, maybe I would have been posting on Sawantwadi-Net :-)

FN


Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa)

2013-10-05 Thread Ubaldo D'Souza
Bravo Tino. There are people who babble because they cannot think of 
anything worthwhile to do and want to be noticed. Let it not be forgotten 
that Goans had to leave Goa for want of opportunity in Goa and wherever they 
pegged their tents, they contributed and left a noticeable mark. It is 
undoubted and undeniable that those who remained in Goa, many secured here 
by their ancestral provenances, have also created an indelible presence and 
mark that they passed this way too in this world. But those who had to go to 
other places in search of bread, if not butter, did well for themselves and 
left blazing trails. And many are coming back, like frogs to their pond or 
salmon to their spot of birth, when their out-of-Goa odyssey is successfully 
done. I am one of those. There is also a reason why I do not and cannot live 
in my ancestral house but then, that is no one else's concern but mine.



U C D'Souza
ucdmld at gmail.com 



Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)

2013-10-04 Thread Valmiki Faleiro

Dear Prof. Augusto,

Please don't blame Frederick Noronha for this.
The blame actually credits to my stupid habit of
checking email just once a day, and taking each
email in the order it came in: first in, first out.

In fact, much after I posted my rejoinder to your
silly view on expatriate Goans, I did see that you
had corrected your stance, but only as regards
Anthony de Sa, the new Chief Secretary of MP.
Hope you consider Goan a person like Maria
Aurora de Couto -- to cite just one example --
who is now in Goa, but most of her life, with her
husband, also a highly respected IAS officer,
outside Goa. (If the Ma'am gets to reads this,
my advance apologies to her!)

It appears that your general view on how *Goan*
expatriate Goans are, and how much credit we
resident Goans can take for their achievements
outside Goa, remains unchanged.

Sir, please realise you are insulting the memory
of not dozens, or scores, but THOUSANDS of Goans
who on account of circumstances then prevailing in
their homeland, migrated out of Goa, made it big
outside Goa, and India -- and still continue to inspire
lesser mortals like me, a resident Goan. Yes, they
tweaked their surnames to grab economic (not immoral)
opportunity then existing in British India. Yes, they bent
to enter a smaller door, but with their backbones intact!
And see what, with much academic effort and hard work,
they went on to achieve! Professore, v. humbly, I ask you
to please re-read any book by late Dr. Olivinho Gomes
(also central civil services Offr, IRS), late Dr. Clement Vaz,
or my own humble *Patriotism in Action* which dwell on
Goans -- all who do not fit into your definition of a *Goan*.

(Incidentally, my book was on Goans -- both Hindu and Catholic --
in the armed forces of India. I am surprised you expected me
to discuss their upwardly social mobility. Tell you what. Take
a Kalashnikov and make yourself
UPWARDLY SOCIALLY MOBILE in Moira.)

And just BTW, to clear your ignorance, when Goans went
out of Goa -- say to Belgaum, Dharwar, Bangalore, Poona,
Bombay, Madras, Calcutta, Rangoon, Delhi or Karachi --
there was NO CHANGE of citizenship status. Goans only
carried an identification (a much sought after doc today!)

I don't know how the idea of insult or insulting came into your
head after reading my email. Read it again and tell me what
insults your sensibilities. If you still feel insulted, I can't help, but
if you wish to settle imagined scores (I don't forget insults like
this easily.) with me, say it loud and clear. I am more than willing
to debate ... and preferably on a larger public forum, so that you
finally earn your just deserts -- including from Saudi Arabia, if you
prefer (and, hopefully, dispel your long-held skewed views on ...
your Goanity.)

What you say about the *400-odd Commissioned Offrs listed in
the book -- including my father*, may I just say you will never fail to
surprise, and quickly close by quoting what one of those 400-odd
told me in a private email (and may I forecaution you that the author
was a pioneer Indian Navy guy -- and a Goan ... lest you shoot off
without your facts and later apologise (as in the case of Mr. Anthony
de Sa). Anthony lives in distant Madhya Pradesh, this Navy Officer who
I quote below lives in Goa, in a position to hold you by you-know-what!
So digest with care:

QUOTE: Please inform this idiot that we had to study hard and prepare for
the open competitive Civil Services or NDA entrance exams before joining the
IAS or Armed Forces as officers. The selection process was by no means easy.
Nothing to do with Anglo-Indians whatsoever. The guy should at least do his
homework before spewing out nonsense on goanet UNQUOTE.

I think you should take the advice, Augusto dearest. Best, v

- Original Message - 
From: augusto pinto

To: goanet
Cc: Frederick FN Noronha ; Valmiki Faleiro
Sent: Friday, October 04, 2013 12:20 AM
Subject: Re: Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere 
geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)


Dear Valmiki


I think if you look at Message 10 of Goanet Digest, Vol 8, Issue 700 you will realize that I had apologized for presuming that Tino 
was not a Goan but my apology was not put on the Digest mode thanks to possibly to a malicious Goanet moderator who I will take the 
liberty of naming: Frederick Noronha.



Because my post was delayed being posted to the Digest mode, it appears that mud is all over my face. Be that as it may. I will get 
my just deserts in due time. I don't forget insults like this easily.



As for your second point that None of the 400-odd Commissioned Offrs
listed in the book -- including my father -- would fit into Augusto's idea
of a Goan! I don't think you quite understand my point.

A very great number of Goan Catholics in pre-Independence times decided to change their status from Portuguese citizen of Goa to 
Anglo-Indian citizen of British India.



Thus Barretto became Barrett; De Sa became D'Sa; Fernandes

Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)

2013-10-04 Thread augusto pinto
 to please re-read any book by late Dr. Olivinho Gomes
 (also central civil services Offr, IRS), late Dr. Clement Vaz,
 or my own humble *Patriotism in Action* which dwell on
 Goans -- all who do not fit into your definition of a *Goan*.

 (Incidentally, my book was on Goans -- both Hindu and Catholic --
 in the armed forces of India. I am surprised you expected me
 to discuss their upwardly social mobility. Tell you what. Take
 a Kalashnikov and make yourself
 UPWARDLY SOCIALLY MOBILE in Moira.)

 And just BTW, to clear your ignorance, when Goans went
 out of Goa -- say to Belgaum, Dharwar, Bangalore, Poona,
 Bombay, Madras, Calcutta, Rangoon, Delhi or Karachi --
 there was NO CHANGE of citizenship status. Goans only
 carried an identification (a much sought after doc today!)

 I don't know how the idea of insult or insulting came into your
 head after reading my email. Read it again and tell me what
 insults your sensibilities. If you still feel insulted, I can't help, but
 if you wish to settle imagined scores (I don't forget insults like
 this easily.) with me, say it loud and clear. I am more than willing
 to debate ... and preferably on a larger public forum, so that you
 finally earn your just deserts -- including from Saudi Arabia, if you
 prefer (and, hopefully, dispel your long-held skewed views on ...
 your Goanity.)

 What you say about the *400-odd Commissioned Offrs listed in
 the book -- including my father*, may I just say you will never fail to
 surprise, and quickly close by quoting what one of those 400-odd
 told me in a private email (and may I forecaution you that the author
 was a pioneer Indian Navy guy -- and a Goan ... lest you shoot off
 without your facts and later apologise (as in the case of Mr. Anthony
 de Sa). Anthony lives in distant Madhya Pradesh, this Navy Officer who
 I quote below lives in Goa, in a position to hold you by you-know-what!
 So digest with care:

 QUOTE: Please inform this idiot that we had to study hard and prepare for
 the open competitive Civil Services or NDA entrance exams before joining
 the
 IAS or Armed Forces as officers. The selection process was by no means
 easy.
 Nothing to do with Anglo-Indians whatsoever. The guy should at least do his
 homework before spewing out nonsense on goanet UNQUOTE.

 I think you should take the advice, Augusto dearest. Best, v

 - Original Message - From: augusto pinto
 To: goanet
 Cc: Frederick FN Noronha ; Valmiki Faleiro
 Sent: Friday, October 04, 2013 12:20 AM
 Subject: Re: Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a
 mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)



 Dear Valmiki


 I think if you look at Message 10 of Goanet Digest, Vol 8, Issue 700 you
 will realize that I had apologized for presuming that Tino was not a Goan
 but my apology was not put on the Digest mode thanks to possibly to a
 malicious Goanet moderator who I will take the liberty of naming: Frederick
 Noronha.


 Because my post was delayed being posted to the Digest mode, it appears
 that mud is all over my face. Be that as it may. I will get my just deserts
 in due time. I don't forget insults like this easily.


 As for your second point that None of the 400-odd Commissioned Offrs
 listed in the book -- including my father -- would fit into Augusto's idea
 of a Goan! I don't think you quite understand my point.

 A very great number of Goan Catholics in pre-Independence times decided to
 change their status from Portuguese citizen of Goa to Anglo-Indian citizen
 of British India.


 Thus Barretto became Barrett; De Sa became D'Sa; Fernandes became Ferns;
 De Souza became D'Souza or even Delaney and so on and so forth. In this way
 they were able to claim Anglo-Indian status and further got an opportunity
 to get into the IAS and British Indian Army and so forth.

 I don't think your book Patriotism in Action: Goans in India's Defence
 Services*, Valmiki, sufficiently dwells upon the aspect of the how Goans
 managed to become upwardly socially mobile (which incidentally, I am not
 against per se; although what I am against is the humbug of Goans who have
 availed of such routes to upper-class-hood, today trying to deny their
 little chicaneries in a holier than thou manner).


 BTW Valmiki when are you going to come out with that magnum opus on Goan
 proverbs and idioms? If you need any help from me - let me say that I'd
 jump on the bandwagon faster than a bass guitarist let alone a drummer and
 forget a ghumottkar..

 Regards
 Augusto








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 Our friend, Prof. Augusto Pinto, received an eminently

Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)

2013-10-04 Thread Frederick FN Noronha * फ्रेड्रिक नोरोन्या * فريدريك نورونيا
On 4 October 2013 16:04, augusto pinto pinto...@gmail.com wrote:

 For all I knew he could be a Mangalorean or an East Indian. Remember
 similar claims were made about the Goanness of the actress Freida Pinto for
 instance when she became famous, although subsequently it was discovered
 that she was a Mangalorean who lived in Bombay with little connection to
 Goa.


Arrey, uncle! Mangaloreans are Goans too. Maybe 400 years removed.

As for East Indians, I agree. They're only our colonial cousins. FN


Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)

2013-10-04 Thread Valmiki Faleiro
Dear Augusto,

I sincerely regret you found my mail venomous, drivel, verbose, etc.
No point talking any further. Though I want you to know -- and I will say
this here publicly -- that I actually like you for thinking out of the box. 
I disagree when you foolishly shoot from the hip, without having your
facts right, which unfortunately you so often do. Please be at peace and at
liberty to think whatever you want ... like what you say about the *Campos*
part you yourself first added to the Madhya Pradesh CS's name -- and then
said it (the *Campos* part) apparently disappeared. And things like that,
like the Indian Naval officer I quoted. May I assure you, Professore August,
that they are gentlemen of a different genre who I personally know. They won't
waste a bullet through your head. Take your time in getting to know them, (I can
assure you guys like Tino and India's pioneer submariner are the kind of
people you are yet to know), BUT don't be an upstart. From my humble side,
count on my unreserved support. And shed your skewed mental baggage 
about Goa and Goans -- whether born or living in Goa or not, or those who 
tweaked their surnames without committing a sin that the Bible, Gita, Koran,
Zend Avesta, or whatever, ordained as sin, outside Goa.

Best to you, pyare, v
  - Original Message - 
  From: augusto pinto 
  To: Valmiki Faleiro 
  Cc: goanet ; Aurora Couto 
  Sent: Friday, October 04, 2013 4:04 PM
  Subject: Re: Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere 
geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)


  Dear Valmiki


  I really enjoyed reading your venomous mail. But before I start answering it, 
I want you and all concerned to read my original mail a little more carefully:

  So when Frederick Noronha trumpeted the fact that 'a Goan' had become Chief 
Secretary of Madhya Pradesh, I wanted to know whether Anthony de Sa or more 
properly Anthony Campos de Sa himself claimed to be a Goan. 

  For all I knew he could be a Mangalorean or an East Indian. Remember similar 
claims were made about the Goanness of the actress Freida Pinto for instance 
when she became famous, although subsequently it was discovered that she was a 
Mangalorean who lived in Bombay with little connection to Goa. This was why I 
had asked my questions regarding whether he himself claimed to be a Goan.


  My second paragraph points to a habit we Goan Catholics have: if anyone has a 
surname which remotely resembles ours then we want to immediately grab credit 
for the Goan Catholic community. 

  Should not have Frederick Noronha substantiated his claim that Anthony de Sa 
(incidentally the Campos in the family surname has apparently disappeared) was 
a Goan, which would have not necessitated me asking questions.


  Now coming to your own mail, I find most of it drivel. 

  What is the connection between 'Maria Aurora de Couto' (sic) whose name to 
the best of my knowledge is Dr Maria Aurora Couto, and the subject of this 
letter? I don't understand why you dragged her name in and she will get to know 
about your letter as I'm going to cc it to her.


  As regards how much credit I give to Goans who have achieved something I 
would like to say - I'll praise all Goans who claim they are Goans. If they 
aren't then why should we gain credit for what is not ours?


  In your verbose reply you state: Yes, they bent to enter a smaller door, but 
with their backbones intact! 

  I presume you mean to say it was OK to claim Anglo status and enter into 
service with the British. I too have no problem with this. Many of them have 
taken up foreign citizenship (would you like to challenge this?) on this basis. 
No problem again. 

  But do we now have the right to claim them as our own?


  In your final paragraph you quote some mysterious Navy Officer who ...   
lives in Goa (and who is) in a position to hold you by you-know-what! Valmiki 
I wish your courageous Navy Officer at least has the gumption to say what he 
has to say publicly and then we shall see.


  Best

  Augusto

















  On Fri, Oct 4, 2013 at 1:52 PM, Valmiki Faleiro valmi...@gmail.com wrote:

Dear Prof. Augusto,

Please don't blame Frederick Noronha for this.
The blame actually credits to my stupid habit of
checking email just once a day, and taking each
email in the order it came in: first in, first out.

In fact, much after I posted my rejoinder to your
silly view on expatriate Goans, I did see that you
had corrected your stance, but only as regards
Anthony de Sa, the new Chief Secretary of MP.
Hope you consider Goan a person like Maria
Aurora de Couto -- to cite just one example --
who is now in Goa, but most of her life, with her
husband, also a highly respected IAS officer,
outside Goa. (If the Ma'am gets to reads this,
my advance apologies to her!)

It appears that your general view on how *Goan*
expatriate Goans are, and how much credit we

Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa)

2013-10-03 Thread Valmiki Faleiro
Our friend, Prof. Augusto Pinto, received an eminently merited rap
for -- as he is apt to -- shooting his gun before getting his facts right.
A person of Goan origin is a *khaas Goemkar* if he cares for his
native soil. Augusto obviously forgets the reasons why Goans by the
drove chose to out-migrate, particularly from the 19th Century.

On a personal note, however, I am grateful to Augusto that he did not
raise this issue when reviewing my book, *Patriotism in Action: Goans
in India's Defence Services*. None of the 400-odd Commissioned Offrs
listed in the book -- including my father -- would fit into Augusto's idea
of a Goan! Goans in Goa could not join the British Indian armed forces
until 1947 and India's forces until 1961.

I particularly liked the part in Tino's reply retained below. Well said!

Best, v

 -- Original message --
 From: Goanet Reader goanetrea...@gmail.com
 Date: Thu, Oct 3, 2013 at 4:25 AM
 Subject: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than
 a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa)
 To: Goa's premiere mailing list, estb. 1994! goanet@lists.goanet.org


 Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident

 Tino de Sa

   When Goanet carried a report saying Goan becomes
   Chief Secretary of Madhya Pradesh, there was a
   counter-view questioning the use of the label
   Goan for an expat Goan.  The poster said: Why
   should we as Goans leap to grab credit for the
   achievements of people who may have some Goan
   ancestry but for all we know have little or no
   desire to be identified with Goa, which again for
   all we know may be a dampener to their career
   prospects. See http://bit.ly/GoanityDebate
   Here, Anthony (Tino) de Sa responds, to a debate
   that is relevant to Goa's large expat community.



 But I think it is as presumptuous to assume that just because
 a person is born and brought up outside of Goa, there would
 be a lack of pride in his or her roots, as it is erroneous to
 assume that every person born and brought up in Goa is
 passionate about it. Being Goan is a state of mind more than
 a mere geographical accident.

 ###




Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa) (Valmiki Faleiro)

2013-10-03 Thread augusto pinto
Dear Valmiki

I think if you look at Message 10 of Goanet Digest, Vol 8, Issue 700 you
will realize that I had apologized for presuming that Tino was not a Goan
but my apology was not put on the Digest mode thanks to possibly to a
malicious Goanet moderator who I will take the liberty of naming: Frederick
Noronha.

Because my post was delayed being posted to the Digest mode, it appears
that mud is all over my face. Be that as it may. I will get my just deserts
in due time. I don't forget insults like this easily.

As for your second point that None of the 400-odd Commissioned Offrs
listed in the book -- including my father -- would fit into Augusto's idea
of a Goan! I don't think you quite understand my point.

A very great number of Goan Catholics in pre-Independence times decided to
change their status from Portuguese citizen of Goa to Anglo-Indian citizen
of British India.

Thus Barretto became Barrett; De Sa became D'Sa; Fernandes became Ferns; De
Souza became D'Souza or even Delaney and so on and so forth. In this way
they were able to claim Anglo-Indian status and further got an opportunity
to get into the IAS and British Indian Army and so forth.

I don't think your book Patriotism in Action: Goans in India's Defence
Services*, Valmiki, sufficiently dwells upon the aspect of the how Goans
managed to become upwardly socially mobile (which incidentally, I am not
against per se; although what I am against is the humbug of Goans who have
availed of such routes to upper-class-hood, today trying to deny their
little chicaneries in a holier than thou manner).

BTW Valmiki when are you going to come out with that magnum opus on Goan
proverbs and idioms? If you need any help from me - let me say that I'd
jump on the bandwagon faster than a bass guitarist let alone a drummer and
forget a ghumottkar..
Regards
Augusto





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Our friend, Prof. Augusto Pinto, received an eminently merited rap
for -- as he is apt to -- shooting his gun before getting his facts right.
A person of Goan origin is a *khaas Goemkar* if he cares for his
native soil. Augusto obviously forgets the reasons why Goans by the
drove chose to out-migrate, particularly from the 19th Century.

On a personal note, however, I am grateful to Augusto that he did not
raise this issue when reviewing my book, *Patriotism in Action: Goans
in India's Defence Services*. None of the 400-odd Commissioned Offrs
listed in the book -- including my father -- would fit into Augusto's idea
of a Goan! Goans in Goa could not join the British Indian armed forces
until 1947 and India's forces until 1961.

I particularly liked the part in Tino's reply retained below. Well said!

Best, v

 -- Original message --
 From: Goanet Reader goanetrea...@gmail.com
 Date: Thu, Oct 3, 2013 at 4:25 AM
 Subject: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than
 a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa)
 To: Goa's premiere mailing list, estb. 1994! goanet@lists.goanet.org


 Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident

 Tino de Sa

   When Goanet carried a report saying Goan becomes
   Chief Secretary of Madhya Pradesh, there was a
   counter-view questioning the use of the label
   Goan for an expat Goan.  The poster said: Why
   should we as Goans leap to grab credit for the
   achievements of people who may have some Goan
   ancestry but for all we know have little or no
   desire to be identified with Goa, which again for
   all we know may be a dampener to their career
   prospects. See http://bit.ly/GoanityDebate
   Here, Anthony (Tino) de Sa responds, to a debate
   that is relevant to Goa's large expat community.



 But I think it is as presumptuous to assume that just because
 a person is born and brought up outside of Goa, there would
 be a lack of pride in his or her roots, as it is erroneous to
 assume that every person born and brought up in Goa is
 passionate about it. Being Goan is a state of mind more than
 a mere geographical accident.

 ###





Augusto Pinto
40, Novo Portugal
Moira, Bardez
Goa, India
E pinto...@gmail.com
P 0832-2470336
M 9881126350


[Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa)

2013-10-02 Thread Goanet Reader
Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident

Tino de Sa

  When Goanet carried a report saying Goan becomes
  Chief Secretary of Madhya Pradesh, there was a
  counter-view questioning the use of the label
  Goan for an expat Goan.  The poster said: Why
  should we as Goans leap to grab credit for the
  achievements of people who may have some Goan
  ancestry but for all we know have little or no
  desire to be identified with Goa, which again for
  all we know may be a dampener to their career
  prospects. See http://bit.ly/GoanityDebate
  Here, Anthony (Tino) de Sa responds, to a debate
  that is relevant to Goa's large expat community.

An unfortunate presumption, Augusto. The fact is that my
grandfather, Dr Antonio de Sa, was born in and did his
medicine in Goa.

  From the year he left Goa (1899) to the year he
  died (1946), he and his family (my father included)
  came back to the ancestral house in Piedade, every
  year, and the first thing, I am told, my Avo did
  while stepping on to the soil of Divar each year
  was to pick up the mud and anoint his forehead with
  it saying Minha terra.  It is a tradition which
  my father (until his death in 1981) and myself
  (and, I am happy to note, my son Rohit) maintain to
  this day, (and we do it with pride, I assure you).

Right through my youth my father made it a point to bring us
every May to Goa (whether by ship or by bus or by rail -- and
fifty years ago it was an arduous journey of a thousand
kilometres from Bhusaval to Piedade).  He further made it a
point that we live in our ancestral village house (though it
was a difficult time my mother had to open up a house that
had been shut for a year; but she did it willingly, because,
after all, it was -- Goa!), notwithstanding the fact that it
did not have electricity and only sported a 'pig-toilet'.

I hasten to add that those annual holidays in Goa, include
bathing at the well and fishing in the Mandovi estuary, are
among my best childhood memories.  My ancestral house in
Piedade is one of the oldest structures in Goa, the ground
floor dating back to the time when my family name was Kamat,
and this house of my ancestors is something that I would
never part with for anything in the world.

It represents for me my roots.

In spite of my father himself being born and brought up
outside of Goa, both he, and I (as soon as I completed 14
years) were registered in Goltim (Divar) for our 'zonn'. As
were my mother's brothers (in Saligao/Anjuna) even though
they all lived abroad. Both my parents have bequeathed to me
and my sisters an abiding love for and pride in our heritage.
The waters of the Mandovi and the Chapora are mingled with
the blood in my veins.

Soon after my post-graduation from St Xavier's in Mumbai, I
was a research fellow in the Heras Institute.  While
preparing for my IAS entrance exams also researched --
surprise: the history of Goa!  -- under the supervision of my
cousin, Fr John Correia-Afonso, SJ, a scholar of
international repute and an authority on Goan history and
culture (again -- he too was born and brought up outside Goa)!

Practically every wedding in the family, including that of my
daughter, has been celebrated in Goa.

A whole section of the poems I have composed are dedicated to
Goa, and a book of short stories that is soon to be published
are entirely located in Goa.

If you were to check the Govt. of India records you would see
that my 'home state' as stated in the IAS is recorded as Goa
and that my mother tongue is recorded as Konkani, in spite of
the fact that I am not very fluent in it (my wife, Malusha,
though, is fluent in both Salcete as well as Bardez Konkani -
again, even though she too has been born and brought up
outside Goa, in Mumbai), and we have consciously tried to
familiarise our children with the language of their heritage,
even though, understandably they are more fluent in Hindi.

  I further assure you that it is no dampener to any
  one's career in the IAS to be equally proud of your
  native state as well as express your devotion to
  the state cadre one is allotted to (Madhya Pradesh,
  in my case).  That is the very essence of an
  all-India Service, such as the one I belong to.  I
  am equally proud of my 'karmbhoomi' Madhya Pradesh,
  and its people, whom I have had the honour to serve
  these 33 years, hold a very special place in my heart.

But I think it is as presumptuous to assume that just because
a person is born and brought up outside of Goa, there would
be a lack of pride in his or her roots, as it is erroneous to
assume that every person born and brought up in Goa is
passionate about it. Being Goan is a state of mind more than
a mere geographical accident.

I do not 

Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Being Goan is a state of mind, more than a mere geographical accident (Tino de Sa)

2013-10-02 Thread Mervyn Lobo
Tino de Sa wrote:
But I think it is as presumptuous to assume that just because
a person is born and brought up outside of Goa, there would
be a lack of pride in his or her roots, as it is erroneous to
assume that every person born and brought up in Goa is
passionate about it. Being Goan is a state of mind more than
a mere geographical accident.

I do not need to 'prove' my Goan-ness to anyone; but off-hand
assumptions about people without an iota of proof can be offensive.
---

Well said, Tino,
I am in the situation where half my Goan friends have not been to Goa. Noticed 
that I did not put Goan in quotation marks? These friends insist that they are 
Goans because they were raised by Goans. Ten years ago, 75% of my Goan friends 
had not seen Goa. As the world becomes smaller, people find it easier to 
research on and visit their ancestral lands. 

Secondly, it is also becoming as just as easy for those in Goa to discard some 
of the customs and traditions as Goans outside Goa have done. I am amazed at 
how fast Goa is changing today. 

Lastly, when I first arrived in Canada 20 years ago, I stumbled on the 
Canadian Highland Games while driving thru a small town in Ontario. To 
participate in any of the competitions, all one had to do was claim to be 
Scottish or part thereof. This I feel is the difference between the old world 
and the new. The new is vibrant because of its inclusiveness and willingness to 
change.   

Mervyn