[Goanet] Kazar Sorgar Ghoddta
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[Goanet] KAZAR
R.C. Goan parents seek alliance for their daughter 27 yrs graduate, working in Dubai, from R.C. bachelor upto 35 years of age, with good family background. Kindly email details to joypeac...@gmail.com == Looking for a proposal religious,homely and understanding groom between (29 to 40yrs) for my friend who is 28 yrs 5.3 in height fair, good looking with a pleasing personality. Completed her Doctrate in management and works for a reputed company in Dubai from last 6 yrs.Hails from very good family background. Her status is previous marriage annulled. Christian genuine groom proposals welcome. Please contact stalon2...@rediffmail.com = Seeking alliance for 32 years old RC Goan boy residing in UAE with a good job, Height 5`5 , Marriage annulled. Invite proposals from RC Goan spinsters working in UAE. Kindly reply to alcapr...@yahoo.co.in = Mangalorean Roman catholic, qualified Divorcee (non-consummated marriage–), 27 years, height 5.3”, living and working in UAE, Looking for a Roman Catholic Mangalorean bachelor/Divorcee with good family background upto 34 years, preferably working in UAE or anywhere abroad , if interested, kindly send your details on: dxbmarriag...@gmail.com === RC Goan spinster, qualified, age 28 years currently working in Dubai seeks alliance from RC Goan bachelor, age 29 to 32 years. Kindly email details vferns2...@gmail.com == I am a guy in my mid 30′s ,a computer web developer,doing extremely well in my career with sober habits ,non smoker and love seafood and coastal food , a roman catholic who speaks English Konkani Marathi and Hindi and i am looking for a Goan, East Indian, Mangalorean or Anglo Indian girl below 30years educated, working or having a career,from a decent background and willing to relocate to Mumbai ,pl send your pic and details to appolina21ar...@gmail.com === A roman catholic konkani speaking family from the suburbs of Thane is looking for an alliance for their only son,born 1976,tall,financially settled n a media head with a good personality and sober habits (goan in origins but with an ancestral native of sindhudurg district ,close to goa)and he is looking for alliance with a catholic girl below 32,educated decent,from a good background from mumbai,or and origins from konkan regions maharastra,karnataka and goa. email to appolina21ar...@gmail.com == 35 years young Male, who happened to beat all odds and grow into fine individual, Graduated, then Post Graduated and now employed in a MNC in the UAE. Is Independent, Just him who prefer to be who he is, a teetotaler etc. Religious? Yeah, not so religious. Who has been waiting and waiting, for years to say, I DO, I DO, I DO… Well there is definite room for improvement in my life, so reachperci...@gmail.com = RC Goan spinster, qualified, age 27 years currently working in Dubai seeks alliance from RC Goan bachelor, age 29 to 32 years working in U.A.E. Kindly email details dxbgo...@gmail.com == RC Goan well settled spinster 27 years ” 5’7″, currently working for a reputed company in Dubai, seeks alliance from RC Goan Bachelors “5.8″ and above,aged between 28-30 years with good family background, Non-smoking , Non-Drinking and preferably from Salcete – Goa. If interested please email with recent photograph to goan0...@gmail.com Baptized Catholic girl, Born Hindu, B Tech, 36/167cm, fair beautiful, HR Consultant at Bangalore, hails from Kerala. Seeks qualified boy in Catholic faith, Hindu background baptized/seeking baptism. sangi...@yahoo.com/9447235913. = Goan Roman Catholic spinster, age 31/” 5.2″ fair, born and bought up in Mumbai and working in Dubai looking for a suitable Goan Roman Catholic life partner (Age 32-37) who is humble ,fun loving, god fearing, have Good Family Values, Down to Earth person and who is well settled in dubai.. Reply with details and photographs to Send in an email to flova...@gmail.com == Alliance invited for RC Spinster from UAE, 30/5’4”, slim, good looking, postgraduate, working at a senior level in the finance industry, from professionally qualified bachelors upto 35 years, 5’9” to 5’11 with sober habits and good moral values. E-mail – fatimahs.anne0...@ymail.com. Details with photos only considered. Girl willing to re-locate. === Alliance invited for a Graduate (B.A) RC Goan Spinster working in Bombay, fair complexion, Age 41, height 5′,from a RC Goan boy bet 42-44 yrs. , who is god fearing, have Good Family Values, and is Down to Earth. Email Id – fernsl...@rediffmail.com = 32 year old male based in mumbai working in the operations team of an international BPO looking for a bride. If interested pls contact shafer1...@gmail.com / 9833964635 === Goan Roman Catholic , age 37/” 5.3″ fair
[Goanet] Kazar (Response to Roland Francis from Rose Fernandes)
Dear Roland Not only did I have to spend precious time advising you on Indian Passports, PIOs, OCIs and Portuguese Passports, I now realise your geography is such that it necessitates me shopping early for your Christmas present, an easy to understand World Map. This will have to wait 9 days as I am off on holiday to Rimini (clue: Italy NOT Canada). Still, I do give credit where its due and thank you for thinking of fossils, I have renamed my E-database from Stray Thoughts to Fossilites to file your goanet postings cross referenced with two other files Jokes from Bombay Wallah and Ideas for the Undir Papa Board Game. As your aspirations in life are to be a worldwide expert on fossils, one 2012 for your collection, more to follow on my return: http://en.ntd.tv/reference/chinablog/2012/09/17/billionaires-look-for-partners-first-audition-in-changsha/ Rose Fernandes Thornton Heath, Surrey, United Kingdom 1 October 2012
[Goanet] Kazar
And another phenomenon: young adults in the West are race blind. My kitty's favourite lap is that of a black kid who visits with the mob. More seriously, they refuse to deal with non-native speakers of the language: and that includes me. And Australian or the Kaltic Kalidunian brogue out of Dundee-Caledonia can charm. But not my Dandi inflection. Rolly - sorry, Dundee is marmalade, Loch Ness for scotch, perhaps. eric. On 29 September 2012 17:21, Roland Francis wrote thus to Rose: 1: Fossil, Fossil, Fossil 2: Rose you and Gabe are good examples of fossilized Diaspora Goans 3: [ Rose Fernandes says: The majority of young women in our community, residing in the UNITED KINGDOM, have become highly educated and during their college days, at work or in the real social and networking places like the English pub meet and marry English men or foreign men, not Goans..] Roland's Comment: Wasn't it you who not long ago said you knew of no Goan in CANADA who married a non-Goan.]
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On 29 September 2012 22:21, Roland Francis roland.fran...@gmail.com wrote: Rose you and Gabe are good examples of fossilized Diaspora Goans whose thinking is about two generations behind. While I would expect that of you, Gabe having been in the RAF and in a Wall Street firm and all, pretty much surprises. I would have rested my case merely on what you write but with your line of thinking, let me spell it out. Cheers. Roland. Toronto. RESPONSE: Both sons want to get married, choose their own. Why I wrote in the first place, is because most of the advertised were seeking eligible man with sober habits, whatever that means. Both my sons drink as do most young Goan Girls and boys in the U.K. I was trying to point out that it would be pretty much narrow to seek sober habits, God fearing and so on and so forth. In fact in the past there were Castes mentioned and Goanet, decided to prohibit mention of this in proposals advertised on this site. On the other hand I see nothing wrong and don't think it is ancient to age matchmaking, to the Nineteenth Century. It is still very much alive, in fact a prominent Goanetter intimated to me that he introduced the now head of Morgan Stanley India, to her spouse - they hit it off and the rest is history. It is when people like you think that you know better than most that problems arise. I met my wife when we were in school in Nairobi. We were fortunate that we had a lot of Goans around us. Unfortunately the choices left to our youngsters in the U.K. are diminished. Marrying outside one's own comfortable zone brings with it a lot of headaches and sometimes heartfelt problems - more likely to end in separation and divorce. There are cultures to bridge and a host of other problems. I say better the Devil you know. My sons are already lamenting that they will not get tasty Goan food should they marry outsiders. Younger boy comes over at least 3 times a week and at Weekends for his Mum's cooking. Like we made our own choice, we would not impose on who they should marry but we would advise on the unsuitability of their choice, should it arise - then it's their own problem. Marry in haste repent at your leisure. I think that the majority of Gulf working youngsters have their marriages arranged in the sense - introductions. Then they take it from there - take it of leave it. What was that you had written not so long ago about reprobate Canadian Goan men marrying a girls from Goa Were you writing about events that took place in the Nineteenth Century? Please next time you write, come out with something sensible. -- DEV BOREM KORUM Gabe Menezes.
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On 29 September 2012 17:21, Roland Francis wrote thus to Rose: 1: Fossil, Fossil, Fossil 2: Rose you and Gabe are good examples of fossilized Diaspora Goans 3: [ Rose Fernandes says: The majority of young women in our community, residing in the UNITED KINGDOM, have become highly educated and during their college days, at work or in the real social and networking places like the English pub meet and marry English men or foreign men, not Goans..] Roland's Comment: Wasn't it you who not long ago said you knew of no Goan in CANADA who married a non-Goan.] jc's questions 1: Is my cup of chai ready? 2: I heard that there is a London in Canada. Has the UNITED KINGDOM also moved there? ps: In general, I agree with Rose's point (excerpted above) jc
[Goanet] Kazar (Response to Roland Francis from Rose Fernandes)
Dear Roland Pooh, bah, sitting on a high throne in Toronto, I have to excuse you being totally unaware of what has been going on in the United Kingdom and countries outside Goa with respect to Kazars within our community. The majority of young women in our community, residing in the United Kingdom, have become highly educated and during their college days, at work or in the real social and networking places like the English pub meet and marry English men or foreign men, not Goans. This trend has been going on for many years now and is definitely on the increase, most of my close friends are married to English men and my two young nieces are married to English men. In addition, a number of young women, highly educated or not, prefer not to marry at all, further diminishing the number of women in our community available for marriage to our young men here. In the past, men in our community residing in the United Kingdom also tended to marry outside the community but I have noticed this trend has started to diminish. The consequence of all this is that quite a large proportion of men in our community, including professionals, go to Goa to seek a bride, perhaps something quite extraordinary to you in the present world, but true all the same. These are not arranged marriages in the true sense of the word, but introductions to some suitable women. Within days they are engaged and then either marry in Goa and bring their brides to the United Kingdom or marry here in the United Kingdom. Would you say these men are incapable of finding a bride or needing a helping hand? During my last two trips to Goa, I have been advised that in Goa the age limit there is for most men and women to marry before they are 30, after that, jokingly I am told they are finished, not sure what this means, can only assume that this means finished for marriage. You have nothing to mock or chide Gabe about what he wrote, he is echoing what a lot of responsible and loving parents are hoping for their children, the desire to see them settle down. As a father, he has the best interests of his sons at heart, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. His sons are both professionals, holding good jobs but maybe for him that is not everything in life, he wants to see his sons settle down with a wife, a family and a home. It is love that makes the world go round, not a good job, expensive car or a big house! Internet dating and marriage agencies are flourishing all over the place and cashing in on this niche market. Our young professionals are working such long hours, they do not find time to meet the women of their dreams! Cynthia Fernandes is at least helping to address this situation in the Gulf area and using the valuable service goanet has to offer. In London, United Kingdom, the Goan village organisations and the Goan Chaplaincy play an important role for our people to meet and greet with possible introductions. Rose Fernandes Thornton Heath, Surrey, United Kingdom 29 September 2012
Re: [Goanet] Kazar (Response to Roland Francis from Rose Fernandes)
On 29 September 2012 10:51, Melvyn Fernandes mel...@orange.net wrote: Dear Roland Pooh, bah, sitting on a high throne in Toronto, I have to excuse you being totally unaware of what has been going on in the United Kingdom and countries outside Goa with respect to Kazars within our community... Rose Fernandes Thornton Heath, Surrey, United Kingdom 29 September 2012 RESPONSE: Thank you Rose for your input; I couldn't have put it better. I'll be damned, seriously, is the service provided by Kazar superfluous? Tell that to E-Harmony and others raking in the moolah! Anyway mine was tongue in cheek but as Parents we have to give our blessings, after all they won't just be marrying the girls, we shall be in union with their families too, I hope! It is not only the Parents who have a say, if the boy is in the Middle East and has a Muslim Girlfriend, he will have to convert or leave for another destination, this is a simplicity which I am sure anyone who has lived in the Middle East knows. I am so glad and fortunate that East African Goans by and large did not experience the the Caste issues that was practised in Bombay. We freely mixed with sons and daughters of Tailors, Carpenters and by golly Bamons! I visited the Goan Gymkhana Nairobi many times and danced with all the damsels there! It is a sad upbringing when your parents tell you, they will have to wash the house if so and so visits with you! I would have runawaybut then East Africa was not Goa and definitely not Bombay! In that respect I think our parents were an enlightened lot and consequently we have no stigmas to carry. -- DEV BOREM KORUM Gabe Menezes.
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Rose you and Gabe are good examples of fossilized Diaspora Goans whose thinking is about two generations behind. While I would expect that of you, Gabe having been in the RAF and in a Wall Street firm and all, pretty much surprises. I would have rested my case merely on what you write but with your line of thinking, let me spell it out. Rose Fernandes says: The majority of young women in our community, residing in the United Kingdom, have become highly educated and during their college days, at work or in the real social and networking places like the English pub meet and marry English men or foreign men, not Goans. This trend has been going on for many years now and is definitely on the increase, most of my close friends are married to English men and my two young nieces are married to English men. In addition, a number of young women, highly educated or not, prefer not to marry at all, further diminishing the number of women in our community available for marriage to our young men here. Comment: Wasn't it you who not long ago said you knew of no Goan in Canada who married a non-Goan. Nieces married to English men and they are who? Indian ladies? Why must everybody marry? Don't some want to remain single as a choice? Why must Goan boys marry Goan girls only and vice versa? Rose says: The consequence of all this is that quite a large proportion of men in our community, including professionals, go to Goa to seek a bride, perhaps something quite extraordinary to you in the present world, but true all the same. These are not arranged marriages in the true sense of the word, but introductions to some suitable women. Within days they are engaged and then either marry in Goa and bring their brides to the United Kingdom or marry here in the United Kingdom. Would you say these men are incapable of finding a bride or needing a helping hand? Comment: Slam bam thank you maam with a twist - I'll marry you after. OK if you were overseas in the 1890s to the 1950s. Not OK for this age. About incapable, I hope the helping hand' does not extend further, if you know what I mean Rose says: During my last two trips to Goa, I have been advised that in Goa the age limit there is for most men and women to marry before they are 30, after that, jokingly I am told they are finished, not sure what this means, can only assume that this means finished for marriage. Comment: One fossilized Goan meets another. Not too many of them in Goa remain, while those from elsewhere stubbornly abound. Rose says: You have nothing to mock or chide Gabe about what he wrote, he is echoing what a lot of responsible and loving parents are hoping for their children, the desire to see them settle down. As a father, he has the best interests of his sons at heart, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. His sons are both professionals, holding good jobs but maybe for him that is not everything in life, he wants to see his sons settle down with a wife, a family and a home. It is love that makes the world go round, not a good job, expensive car or a big house! Comment: Again, it's not what the parents want, it's what the adult children want. This mentality sees the parents next asking (hopefully after the marriage) when am I going to be a grandfather/grandmother? Too many assumptions here. That children are not gay, that they are not infertile, that they want children and they must have them on the parents schedule to oblige them. Also that to the married couple babies should be everything in life, their own plans a mere second. Fossils again. Rose says: Internet dating and marriage agencies are flourishing all over the place and cashing in on this niche market. Our young professionals are working such long hours, they do not find time to meet the women of their dreams! Comment: If young professionals cannot strike a life/work balance, then would you wish on your daughter or son that such a one marries them. Asking for trouble according to me. If you cannot meet the girl of your dreams on your own, good luck dreaming while speed dating, or meeting them through marriage agencies of various kinds. Rose says: Cynthia Fernandes is at least helping to address this situation in the Gulf area and using the valuable service goanet has to offer. In London, United Kingdom, the Goan village organisations and the Goan Chaplaincy play an important role for our people to meet and greet with possible introductions. Comment: You missed the whole point. Let the marriageable children find their spouses any which way they want. They have to live with the consequences. As long as Gabe and you don't lend them a helping hand in the matter so there can be all-round bitterness later. Cheers. Roland. Toronto.
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On 27 September 2012 16:03, Cynthia Fernandes cynthia.fernan...@gmail.comwrote: Alliance invited for Roman Catholic Goan Spinster who is 26 years old, 5.7 in Height, currently working for a reputed company in Dubai.He should be aged between 28-30,with good family background,well settled in Dubai and also Non-smoking n Non-Drinking. If interested please email with recent photograph to goan...@gmail.com COMMENT: Kitem korum, have two sons, drink sociably - non smokers though. No chance with what is being put out even though they are both professionals. They will probably tell me to butt off, out of their life! Sigh...looking for grandchildren. -- DEV BOREM KORUM Gabe Menezes.
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Are you telling us that you would otherwise (but for them telling you to butt out) consider matchmaking for your sons and that too from cyberspace. Does the wistfulness of your message indicate that you think they are incapable of getting their own, professionals or not! Pooh, bah. Roland. -Original Message- From: goanet-boun...@lists.goanet.org [mailto:goanet-boun...@lists.goanet.org] On Behalf Of Gabe Menezes Sent: Friday, September 28, 2012 10:29 AM To: Goa's premiere mailing list, estb. 1994! Subject: Re: [Goanet] Kazar On 27 September 2012 16:03, Cynthia Fernandes cynthia.fernan...@gmail.comwrote: Alliance invited for Roman Catholic Goan Spinster who is 26 years old, 5.7 in Height, currently working for a reputed company in Dubai.He should be aged between 28-30,with good family background,well settled in Dubai and also Non-smoking n Non-Drinking. If interested please email with recent photograph to goan...@gmail.com COMMENT: Kitem korum, have two sons, drink sociably - non smokers though. No chance with what is being put out even though they are both professionals. They will probably tell me to butt off, out of their life! Sigh...looking for grandchildren. -- Gabe Menezes.
