Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-27 Thread Vikram Goyal
set $Linux=Gnu/Liunx# I don't want another flame war on trivialities;)

Hello Guys $ Gals,

Well, I normally do not participate in such discussions, maybe I am a
bit shy or maybe I don't care.

But seriously instead of banging your heads with each other and making
a really good atmosphere vitiated, why don't you guys find a very simple
but effective method of making women aware of as well as interested in $Linux

First use a bit of psychology. Normally, I repeat normally women are shy
of trying new things like tech and more so a geeky OS like linux which
is not simply clicketyclack. So instead of standing on the roadside with
pink placards Join Linux and banners like we are pro-women group and
treat them like queens or equals or whatever... Start at home.

Bring your girlfriend, your sister, your wife, if possible your mother (
if she is interested in computers, which aged people are not ), your
niece etc to the meetings. Presence of women will automatically make
them women friendly, since boys are boys if/when they are alone ( means
in an only boys group ). The women will slowly and gradually understand
the LUG's issues and may become interested in $Linux. Ask them to bring
their friends to the meetings and so on and maybe one day there is an
all-women LUG in delhi.
( since gals are gals in an only gals group ;)

snicker.

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread hassath
On Wed, 2005-08-24 at 10:58, Raj Mathur wrote:

 
 Hassath Also, how about adding a link to the HOW TO ENCOURAGE
 Hassath WOMEN IN LINUX which I sent in my earlier posting? At
 Hassath least that might indicate to members that the list has at
 Hassath least thought about making things woman-friendly.
 
 Can do.

Thanks, much appreciated.
 

 There isn't much there that applies to a group as a whole -- it's
 mostly what individuals can do to encourage women to feel comfortable
 and participate.  Apart from the ``Keep meeting is an accessible
 location'', there's nothing there that the LUG as a whole can do.

The attitude of the individual members of the group will make a
difference. Anyway, whether as individuals, or as a group- if those
suggestions were followed- they would go a long way. And to begin with,
if more people would read the HOW TO, it would help.

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread Saurabh Nanda
 1. If you reall want a woman in here f**king stop treating them like woman
 and treat them like other human beings.

 2. If Women really think this is helping please look back, it only makes
 us think you want special treatment

THE most sensible post on the thread!

Stop asking for 'special treatment' and start behaving normally. Nnow,
please, don't go off on a tangent with the argument that 'normal'
behaviour is too manly and woman unfriendly, etc. etc. Men  women
have differences which should be resepected. Move on.

Start turning up for meetings. Things will change automagically. 

Btw - I attended only one ILUG-d meet @ Sarai. That was about 4-5
years back. Have not been able to attend any meeting since then... is
this group Saurabh Nanda unfriendly? Probably I should write a HOWTO
on how to make Linux Users Group Saurabh Nanda friendly!

Did you find that joke offensive? (PS: On second thoughts it's a bad
joke... real bad :-p)

There's only one 'feminist' I've met in my entire life who's agreed to
the fact that women ask for wy too much special treatment. She's
fed up of it herself. That's exactly what's happening here. (PS:
http://jayajha.blogspot.com)

I've been on this list for some time now... and I just can't fathom
what exactly it is that stops females from joining and participating
in discussion on the *mailing list*! sheesh.. it's just a mailing
list!!

I haven't been to recent meets... so I can't comment on the women
unfriendly atmosphere there.

Rant stops here... go back to work and be more productive.

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread Raj Mathur
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Manpreet Would You guys just drop this f**king thread.
Manpreet [snip]

Hey, if you don't like it don't read it!  all people can't be
interested in all things, and it's pretty simple to make out which
posts belong to this thread and which don't.

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread hassath
On Wed, 2005-08-24 at 11:33, Saurabh Nanda wrote:

 snip
 Rant stops here... go back to work and be more productive.
 
 Nandz.

Just proves people aren't actually reading the HOW TO. This mail, and
the one it is responding to (Manpreet's) would be enough to keep women
off the list- now I fully understand why no woman has responded to this
thread. Evolution, education, civilisation- have got us nowhere...
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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]


Saurabh Nanda wrote:

1. If you reall want a woman in here f**king stop treating them like woman
and treat them like other human beings.



  

2. If Women really think this is helping please look back, it only makes
us think you want special treatment



THE most sensible post on the thread!
  

Sure - shows what attitudes you hold

Stop asking for 'special treatment' and start behaving normally. Nnow,
please, don't go off on a tangent with the argument that 'normal'
behaviour is too manly and woman unfriendly, etc. etc. Men  women
have differences which should be resepected. Move on.

Start turning up for meetings. Things will change automagically. 

Btw - I attended only one ILUG-d meet @ Sarai. That was about 4-5
years back. Have not been able to attend any meeting since then... is
this group Saurabh Nanda unfriendly? Probably I should write a HOWTO
on how to make Linux Users Group Saurabh Nanda friendly!
  

Guess you do have a big ego ? Should not be too much of trouble for you

Did you find that joke offensive? (PS: On second thoughts it's a bad
joke... real bad :-p)

  

There's only one 'feminist' I've met in my entire life who's agreed to
the fact that women ask for wy too much special treatment. She's
fed up of it herself. That's exactly what's happening here. (PS:
http://jayajha.blogspot.com)

  

One does not have to be a feminist to want to not be oppressed.

I've been on this list for some time now... and I just can't fathom
what exactly it is that stops females from joining and participating
in discussion on the *mailing list*! sheesh.. it's just a mailing
list!!

  

If you have been reading the mails of this discussion then there is a 
how to meant specifically for people who can fathom, may be it will help 
you fathom whats happening

again for you kind information kindly go to
http://www.tldp.org/HOWTO/Encourage-Women-Linux-HOWTO/

I haven't been to recent meets... so I can't comment on the women
unfriendly atmosphere there.

  

So don't comment

Rant stops here... go back to work and be more productive.

Nandz.
  

Sure - wonder if women around you in the wrok place feel comfortable ???

I am not a woman but I am not sure if I would be comfortable working 
with people with such insensitive and limited attitudes

ram

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2005-08-24 11:33:08 +0530, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Men  women have differences which should be resepected. Move on.

Move on is exactly what women are doing, and they don't seem any worse
for it. Remember that we're having this discussion because someone asked
specifically why women don't participate in LUG activities.

 Start turning up for meetings. Things will change automagically. 

Who cares? It's easier to just not turn up for the meetings at all. I've
been doing that for years, and it's worked perfectly for me.

(Oh, and please disabuse yourself of the notion that only women are put
off by crass behaviour. There do exist men who don't think respectful
behaviour is special treatment.)

 Did you find that joke offensive?

What joke? I see only yet another attempt to trivialise a document you
haven't read by invoking a contrived analogy.

It's much more pathetic than offensive.

 I've been on this list for some time now... and I just can't fathom
 what exactly it is that stops females from joining and participating
 in discussion on the *mailing list*!

You've been given multiple, highly-specific answers about what exactly
it is that discourages women from participating in discussion. So far,
apart from your attempt to make fun of them, there is no evidence that
you have tried very hard to fathom anything.

Might I suggest a remedial reading comprehension course?

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread Saurabh Nanda
 again for you kind information kindly go to
 http://www.tldp.org/HOWTO/Encourage-Women-Linux-HOWTO/

Been there... read that. Not at all informative. The regular
run-of-the-mill stuff!

 I haven't been to recent meets... so I can't comment on the women
 unfriendly atmosphere there.
 
 So don't comment

Dude - you're worse that me in nitpicking and starting flame wars. I
suddenly feel better!

 Sure - wonder if women around you in the wrok place feel comfortable ???
 
 I am not a woman but I am not sure if I would be comfortable working
 with people with such insensitive and limited attitudes

Way too much extrapolation here.

Just so that I don't get labelled an 'insensitive clod' - here goes:

At my institude (college, university, whatever) - I tried initiating a
LUG. Though the whole thing died within a couple of meets (the group
was man *and* woman unfriendly, I guess, he he :-) I noticed something
in the first meet.

There were some men and women who had come to the first meet just for
the heck of it... they wanted to see what's going on, etc.

There was one girl, whom I knew, was interested in Linux, and was very
enthusiastic in participating in the LUG. She didn't speak up in the
first meet, nor in the second - even after being prompted/prodded to
raise her opinion/voice. Then she stopped coming.

What more does one need to do? Fall on our knees and beg to the
females all around the world - PLEASE! Bless us with your benign
presence and opinions... why can't they just behave normally rather
than having special interest groups and movements, etc. etc.

A LUG meet is not a godforsaken place where they're opressed, beaten
up, harassed, sexually assaulted, etc. etc. Why the special treatment
there? Just organize meets at earthly hours and places, so that
females can make it (Delhi is not a nice place to go back late in the
night!)

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread Saurabh Nanda
 (Oh, and please disabuse yourself of the notion that only women are put
 off by crass behaviour. There do exist men who don't think respectful
 behaviour is special treatment.)

Okay... brings me back to the point - other than making fun of them
when they specifically ask for special treatment... what other kinds
of disrespectful behaviour takes place on the mailing list?

Instead of taking potshots at me, could you actually list out such
disrespectful behaviour on the mailing list which causes such a less
number of women to participate online?

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-24 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2005-08-24 12:29:51 +0530, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Instead of taking potshots at me, could you actually list out such
 disrespectful behaviour on the mailing list which causes such a
 less number of women to participate online?

Certainly. There have been several instances of such behaviour on this
thread, and multiple people have objected to them each time. If you'd
bothered to read them instead of trying to handwave them all away, it
might have helped you to understand why the woman at your LUG stopped
attending.

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-23 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2005-08-22 10:30:29 -0700, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Suggestions about what to do next:
 
 a) The talk idea was good - In fact, it needn't be one person coming
 down to talk on Gender issues on public mailing lists and/or take in
 perspective of the greater socio/political aspect.

After some thought, I'm not at all enthusiastic about another talk or
debate or whatever about gender issues and their greater context.
What would it accomplish? I can't think of anything useful.

No, I think it's imperative that people stop associating the idea of
encouraging women to participate with yet-another-talk about how to
encourage women to participate.

I think we should try instead to figure out whom we can invite to talk
about something that doesn't just become a freak sideshow attraction.
(I have at least one idea, but I don't want to talk about it until I
can ask the person involved.)

What are women using Linux for? What interests them? If we talk about
those things, then they might be encouraged to participate.

 c) Changing, or rather adding to the guidelines of the LUG posting
 methods/rules.

Heh. I just noticed that the guidelines say:

Be polite [...] No one minds a little sense of humour though.

:-)

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-23 Thread hassath
On Wed, 2005-08-24 at 09:47, Abhijit Menon-Sen wrote:

  Suggestions about what to do next:


 No, I think it's imperative that people stop associating the idea of
 encouraging women to participate with yet-another-talk about how to
 encourage women to participate.
 
 I think we should try instead to figure out whom we can invite to talk
 about something that doesn't just become a freak sideshow attraction.

 What are women using Linux for? What interests them? If we talk about
 those things, then they might be encouraged to participate.

Indeed, if I felt that I would be treated as just another human being
with an interest in FLOSS, I would feel encouraged- I (or any other
woman) would dislike being looked at as the 'freak' who decided to be
there...

 
  c) Changing, or rather adding to the guidelines of the LUG posting
  methods/rules.
 
 Heh. I just noticed that the guidelines say:
 
 Be polite [...] No one minds a little sense of humour though.

Also, how about adding a link to the HOW TO ENCOURAGE WOMEN IN LINUX
which I sent in my earlier posting? At least that might indicate to
members that the list has at least thought about making things
woman-friendly.

I find it very interesting and telling that when the thread was being
general, there were many posts to and fro- defensive and offensive. But
after I have requested people to go through the HOW TO- nobody, nobody
has responded to that (is it useful? Can they think of applying any of
those to the delhi LUG?.)
 Does it say something about the seriousness of those who said that they
want feedback from a woman? That HOW TO is written by a whole lot of
women. 

Hassath


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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-23 Thread Manpreet Singh Nehra
Would You guys just drop this f**king thread.

If you guys really think this discussion is doing anything useful then you
should check the time spent on reading this s**t. Get some life ppl.
1. If you reall want a woman in here f**king stop treating them like woman
and treat them like other human beings.
2. If Women really think this is helping please look back, it only makes
us think you want special treatment, which you can get this way. once you
stop treating yourself as special please look at things at the linux users
angle and stop this WASTEAGE OF TIME. There are loads of better things to
do then discussing this.



 On Wed, 2005-08-24 at 09:47, Abhijit Menon-Sen wrote:

  Suggestions about what to do next:


 No, I think it's imperative that people stop associating the idea of
 encouraging women to participate with yet-another-talk about how to
 encourage women to participate.

 I think we should try instead to figure out whom we can invite to talk
 about something that doesn't just become a freak sideshow attraction.

 What are women using Linux for? What interests them? If we talk about
 those things, then they might be encouraged to participate.

 Indeed, if I felt that I would be treated as just another human being
 with an interest in FLOSS, I would feel encouraged- I (or any other
 woman) would dislike being looked at as the 'freak' who decided to be
 there...


  c) Changing, or rather adding to the guidelines of the LUG posting
  methods/rules.

 Heh. I just noticed that the guidelines say:

 Be polite [...] No one minds a little sense of humour though.

 Also, how about adding a link to the HOW TO ENCOURAGE WOMEN IN LINUX
 which I sent in my earlier posting? At least that might indicate to
 members that the list has at least thought about making things
 woman-friendly.

 I find it very interesting and telling that when the thread was being
 general, there were many posts to and fro- defensive and offensive. But
 after I have requested people to go through the HOW TO- nobody, nobody
 has responded to that (is it useful? Can they think of applying any of
 those to the delhi LUG?.)
  Does it say something about the seriousness of those who said that they
 want feedback from a woman? That HOW TO is written by a whole lot of
 women.

 Hassath


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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-23 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Manpreet Singh Nehra wrote:

Would You guys just drop this f**king thread.

  

I guess we should drop you and your nonsense from this thread. I am not 
sure what the guidelines are but my guess and vote is that you are 
beyond limits

If you guys really think this discussion is doing anything useful then you
should check the time spent on reading this s**t. Get some life ppl.
  

Maybe you need a course on language , public writing and of course 
sensitisation to issues

1. If you reall want a woman in here f**king stop treating them like woman
and treat them like other human beings.
  

2. If Women really think this is helping please look back, it only makes
us think you want special treatment, which you can get this way. once you
stop treating yourself as special please look at things at the linux users
angle and stop this WASTEAGE OF TIME. There are loads of better things to
do then discussing this.


  


  On this list there are guys and gals

  Your starred language is offensive

Third maybe women are special thats why delhi has one of the lowest man 
women ratio.

And stop wasting your time on this list it does not need commets and 
opinions like yours.

ram

  

On Wed, 2005-08-24 at 09:47, Abhijit Menon-Sen wrote:



Suggestions about what to do next:




No, I think it's imperative that people stop associating the idea of
encouraging women to participate with yet-another-talk about how to
encourage women to participate.

I think we should try instead to figure out whom we can invite to talk
about something that doesn't just become a freak sideshow attraction.
  

What are women using Linux for? What interests them? If we talk about
those things, then they might be encouraged to participate.
  

Indeed, if I felt that I would be treated as just another human being
with an interest in FLOSS, I would feel encouraged- I (or any other
woman) would dislike being looked at as the 'freak' who decided to be
there...



c) Changing, or rather adding to the guidelines of the LUG posting
methods/rules.


Heh. I just noticed that the guidelines say:

Be polite [...] No one minds a little sense of humour though.
  

Also, how about adding a link to the HOW TO ENCOURAGE WOMEN IN LINUX
which I sent in my earlier posting? At least that might indicate to
members that the list has at least thought about making things
woman-friendly.

I find it very interesting and telling that when the thread was being
general, there were many posts to and fro- defensive and offensive. But
after I have requested people to go through the HOW TO- nobody, nobody
has responded to that (is it useful? Can they think of applying any of
those to the delhi LUG?.)
 Does it say something about the seriousness of those who said that they
want feedback from a woman? That HOW TO is written by a whole lot of
women.

Hassath


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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-23 Thread Raj Mathur
 Hassath == hassath  [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

Hassath [snip]

Hassath Indeed, if I felt that I would be treated as just another
Hassath human being with an interest in FLOSS, I would feel
Hassath encouraged- I (or any other woman) would dislike being
Hassath looked at as the 'freak' who decided to be there...

  c) Changing, or rather adding to the guidelines of the LUG
 posting  methods/rules.
 
 Heh. I just noticed that the guidelines say:
 
 Be polite [...] No one minds a little sense of humour though.

Hassath Also, how about adding a link to the HOW TO ENCOURAGE
Hassath WOMEN IN LINUX which I sent in my earlier posting? At
Hassath least that might indicate to members that the list has at
Hassath least thought about making things woman-friendly.

Can do.

Hassath I find it very interesting and telling that when the
Hassath thread was being general, there were many posts to and
Hassath fro- defensive and offensive. But after I have requested
Hassath people to go through the HOW TO- nobody, nobody has
Hassath responded to that (is it useful? Can they think of
Hassath applying any of those to the delhi LUG?.)  Does it say
Hassath something about the seriousness of those who said that
Hassath they want feedback from a woman? That HOW TO is written
Hassath by a whole lot of women.

There isn't much there that applies to a group as a whole -- it's
mostly what individuals can do to encourage women to feel comfortable
and participate.  Apart from the ``Keep meeting is an accessible
location'', there's nothing there that the LUG as a whole can do.

``This document is intended mainly for the male Linux enthusiast who
would like to see more women involved in Linux.''

Regards,

-- Raju

Hassath Hassath

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Re: [ilugd] D00d3tt3z on ILUG-d - Solution suggestions

2005-08-22 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2005-08-22 10:30:29 -0700, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 One thing which we can very clearly disregard is the possibility
 that the list is not interested.

Right.

Enough people are interested in solving the problem that rehashing the
argument will just give the disinclined more rope to waste everyone's
time with.

 Suggestions about what to do next: [...]

But first...

To any women on the list who have felt uncomfortable to post or attend
meetings: please try again. We can't promise that offensive behaviour
will never occur on the list, but it will not be tolerated in silence.

Your participation will go a long way towards making the list a better
place for everyone.

 Maybe a small section on avoiding certain phrases/jokes etc which
 may be offensive to a specific group on the list

I don't think it's a good idea to try and prescribe acceptable forms of
speech. The intention is to discourage disrespect and hostility, rather
than to encourage new ways for its expression. I think the guidelines
are OK (at most, they could use some clarification, perhaps). We just
need to be careful to avoid complicity-by-apathy.

-- ams

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