[lace-chat] S.P.Thanks

2005-02-07 Thread Maxine D
Dear Secret Pal,
It was so exciting to get home after work today and discover a package!!

The mice have yet to be sampled, but I am sure my grandson, who is staying
with us at the moment, will assist me in taste testing them!  The toys are
just so cute, and I am looking forward to assembling them. Love the needlecase
and thread... I am sure the thread would be just the right thing for the wings
in the pattern you sent I have never seen a pattern like that before...
the only needle lace patterns I have seen have been in books, so to have a
sheet one like that is fascinating to me.

I really laughed over the coaster, as some years ago now I gave a round tuit
to my husband!!  The bobbin is a delight, and I loved the wee card you wrote
your note in... I have two cats, or should I say, two cats own me, and the
picture on the card was lovely.

Thnk you soo much, I am already looking forward to next month, and I have been
so busy the time goes really quickly... I am sure this round will finish too
soon.

Happy lacing

Maxine,
from a hot and humid New Zealand, where we are having warm but damp days...
but I must admit to not missing having to water the gardens.
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance.

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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Whither US?

2005-02-07 Thread Weronika Patena
On Fri, Feb 04, 2005 at 11:30:13PM -0500, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 On Feb 3, 2005, at 1:01, Weronika Patena wrote:
 
 This is the first thing I've ever heard that I could seriously apply 
 the
 adjective mind-boggling to...
 
 Really scary, too.
 http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4225013.stm
 
 Yes, but only up to a point... It *is* scary, because those kids mouth 
 off what they'd heard at home, which gives you an insight into what US 
 (supposedly s much for liberty... All the while hating liberals 
 g) *really is* - as bigoted as any other country. But you also need 
 to adjust it for age group
 
 These are highschool teens. They've not been taught freedom of speech 
 at home... Quite the opposite, they've been taught to keep their mouths 
 closed and follow the party line. How many parents on this list, 
 however liberal/progressive, have, never-ever, used the phrase: don't 
 you dare speak to me like this! to a sulky child? The -accepted by 
 necessity and excused by necessity -  parental disregard for 
 individuality is easily transfered to *other* authority, be it a priest 
 or a president.

???
Since when do teenagers actually think this sort of parental behavior *is a good
thing* and want more of it from the government in their adult lives??  You'd
think it'd just make them even more against any authoritarian tendencies...  

 And, of course, those kids may never get the chance to grow up into 
 thinking individuals; the current administration does not encourage 
 individual thinking any more than the Polish/USSR communist governments 
 did... 

Fortunately, even under the communist government we ended up with a decent
fraction of thinking people...  Perhaps even more decent than usual, since it
was so obvious that there was something wrong with the way the administration
was doing things. 

Weronika

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Weronika Patena
Caltech, Pasadena, CA, USA
http://vole.stanford.edu/weronika

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[lace-chat] Blonde joke

2005-02-07 Thread Noelene Lafferty
A blonde was terribly overweight, so her doctor put her on a diet.

 I want you to eat regularly for 2 days, then skip a day, and repeat this
procedure for 2 weeks. The next time I see you, you'll have lost at least 5
pounds.

When the blonde returned, she shocked the doctor - she had lost nearly 20
pounds.

 Why, that's amazing! the doctor said, Did you follow my instructions?

The blonde nodded. I'll tell you though, I thought I was going to drop dead
that 3rd day.

 From hunger, you mean?

 No!... from skipping.

Noelene in Cooma
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[lace-chat] Sailing record

2005-02-07 Thread Scotlace
Ellen MacArthur has just broken the round the world solo sailing record by, 
according to the BBC newsman, one day and eight hours.  There's a crowd at 
Falmouth Harbour who, the BBC thinks, will remain there until she reaches 
Falmouth.  The finishing line is in French waters.

I admire her and can't even begin to imagine contemplating doing such a 
thing.

Patricia in Wales
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[lace-chat] Sailing record

2005-02-07 Thread Margot Walker
On Monday, February 7, 2005, at 06:35  PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
world solo sailing record by, according to the BBC newsman, one day and 
eight hours.
I can't imagine doing this so quickly.  Are you  sure that she did it in 
under 2 days?

Margot Walker in Halifax on the east coast of Canada
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[lace-chat] :) Fwd: Another perspective

2005-02-07 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
As so often happens, less is more; this is one of the best howls I've 
heard in a long time, for all it's short... :)

From: T.W.
Transported to a surreal landscape, a young girl kills the first woman 
she meets and then teams up with three complete strangers to kill 
again.
--A TV listing in a newspaper in California's Marin County, describing 
The Wizard of Oz

--
Tamara P Duvallhttp://t-n-lace.net/
Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
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[lace-chat] Re: Whither US?

2005-02-07 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
On Feb 7, 2005, at 12:44, Weronika Patena wrote (in response to my 
message):

???
Since when do teenagers actually think this sort of parental behavior 
*is a good
thing* and want more of it from the government in their adult lives??  
You'd
think it'd just make them even more against any authoritarian 
tendencies...
You'd *think*... :) But, my experience has been otherwise.  First, I'm 
talking about teenagers between 11-12 at one end and 16-18 at the other 
(in Polish, -teen starts after 10) - still within the run of the mill 
system, not the University (or Polytechnic, or any 
above-the-highschool-level schools, which are special in many ways).

What I have observed - myself, my friends, my son, my friends' children 
- is this: the parents and the kids can fight - tooth and nail - on 
every issue under the sun. But ask them a question of *judgement* that 
is outside their direct interest/knowledge - something I tend to term 
philosophy/politics (are men or women better drivers? Are Whites, 
Asians, Latinos, or Blacks the smartest segment of the population? 
Abortion? Gay marriage? Gun control? Freedom of speech? Etc, etc)...

Any and all of those issues they have never really given any thought 
to, because the immediate reality (is Amy gonna invite me to her b-day 
party, and will Bobby be there? If so, what sould I wear other than 
makeup?) is more important... Short term is where it's at when you're a 
very young human being, just beginning to think :) So, faced with big 
issues, they're likely to spout back whatever they'd heard - either 
the latest or the most often repeated. And home is where they hear it 
:) If home, school, church and government (TV) all agree, that's 
splendid, since it requires no thinking at all, just regurgitation, 
adjusted for hopefully, this is what you want to hear. If the're a 
discrepancy, they chose the view they've heard from the least 
objectionable parent...

I was thrown into adulthood prematurely, but even I was unable to - 
totally - escape this paradigm; until I was 16, I was still fine-tuning 
my Mother's point of view (discarded my father's at 12, the 
government's at 6 - at my Mother's instigation - and never thought the 
church knew what it was talking about, having gown up as an atheist)

So, I'm worried, but not unduly :) I think many of those kids - likely, 
as big a proportion as in the communist Poland - will end up thinking 
for themselves, albeit a tad later than we did :) At which point, some 
of them *may* refute what they'd learnt at their authority's knee. 
Bush's restrictive system may, actually, have the same backlash 
result in the long run that the communist goverment's did; it's so 
obviously *wrong*, people will start objecting on principle, even if 
they don't *quite* know what they're objecting to... :) I sure as sure 
was unsure what I was demonstrating against on March 8, 1968, until the 
reeling-drunk special forces invaded the University territory, and 
beat the s... out of us all... The *only time* it'd happened before in 
the U's 500yr history was when the Nazis did it, during WWII, which 
energised our opposition no end... g

Of course, we did know our history (and its bizarre turns), while 
Americans don't seem to care about past lessons... :(

PS Weronika...
Nie mam jeszcze zarezerwowanego biletu wiec nie mam dokladnych dat, ale 
moj weekend w Kaliforni jest planowany na 16-17 kwietnia. Postaraj sie 
odwiedzic meza w tym czasie, zebysmy sie mogly - nareszcie - spotkac. 
Najlepiej we dwojke, na koronkarskie pogawedki, ale jesli nie, to w 
czworke (Ty z mezem i ja z synem) tez mozna...  T

--
Tamara P Duvallhttp://t-n-lace.net/
Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
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Re: [lace-chat] Re: Whither US?

2005-02-07 Thread Weronika Patena
On Mon, Feb 07, 2005 at 11:49:42PM -0500, Tamara P. Duvall wrote:
 
 What I have observed - myself, my friends, my son, my friends' children 
 - is this: the parents and the kids can fight - tooth and nail - on 
 every issue under the sun. But ask them a question of *judgement* that 
 is outside their direct interest/knowledge - something I tend to term 
 philosophy/politics (are men or women better drivers? Are Whites, 
 Asians, Latinos, or Blacks the smartest segment of the population? 
 Abortion? Gay marriage? Gun control? Freedom of speech? Etc, etc)...
 
 Any and all of those issues they have never really given any thought 
 to, because the immediate reality (is Amy gonna invite me to her b-day 
 party, and will Bobby be there? If so, what sould I wear other than 
 makeup?) is more important... Short term is where it's at when you're a 
 very young human being, just beginning to think :) So, faced with big 
 issues, they're likely to spout back whatever they'd heard - either 
 the latest or the most often repeated. And home is where they hear it 
 :) If home, school, church and government (TV) all agree, that's 
 splendid, since it requires no thinking at all, just regurgitation, 
 adjusted for hopefully, this is what you want to hear. If the're a 
 discrepancy, they chose the view they've heard from the least 
 objectionable parent...

I still find that unintuitive - my default response to most questions, if I
didn't think about it, was to spout the *exact opposite* of whatever was most
often repeated at home or in school...  I still haven't managed to get rid of
this attitude - I find myself having problems with completely harmless things
(like a white wedding dress) just because that's how it's traditionally
done.  Reverse regurgitation doesn't require much thinking either...
But I can believe that most teenagers choose the opposite route, if they
don't have any basic world-view conflicts with their parents...

 I was thrown into adulthood prematurely, but even I was unable to - 
 totally - escape this paradigm; until I was 16, I was still fine-tuning 
 my Mother's point of view (discarded my father's at 12, the 
 government's at 6 - at my Mother's instigation - and never thought the 
 church knew what it was talking about, having gown up as an atheist)

I was raised Catholic, but decided it makes no sense in early high school,
which would indicate some thinking...  Still had to go to religion classes
until I turned 18, since my parents refused to sign the papers to let me not
to.  And my problems with the religion were mostly of the abortion, gay
marriage, etc. sort, not of the church is boring and I don't see a point
sort.  

 Bush's restrictive system may, actually, have the same backlash 
 result in the long run that the communist goverment's did; it's so 
 obviously *wrong*, people will start objecting on principle, even if 
 they don't *quite* know what they're objecting to... 

That seems very possible right now...

 Of course, we did know our history (and its bizarre turns), while 
 Americans don't seem to care about past lessons... :(

Their history doesn't seem to be nearly as painful, so it's probably harder 
to remember.

Weronika

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Caltech, Pasadena, CA, USA
http://vole.stanford.edu/weronika

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Re: [lace-chat] Sailing record

2005-02-07 Thread Scotlace
Sorry if I misled people last night.  My defence is that I ought to have been 
back in bed as I'm suffering from a full blown attack of sinusitis (thumping 
head, earache, sore eyes), the worst for years and the infection has descended 
 so I'm coughing well, too.

Jenny quickly clarified the situation.  On the news this morning I heard 
she's only been able to sleep for about 20 minutes at a time for 70 days.  I 
don't 
know how she does it.

Patricia, sneezing and coughing, in Wales
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