Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Carl Peterson carlopeter...@gmail.com writes:

 On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 1:20 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:

 Tim Roberts t...@probo.com writes:

  David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:
  How does it make it harder?  As I said, replying to a digest makes no
  sense with regard to message threading anyway.
 
  Of course it makes sense.  I just did it, and your mailer is almost
  certainly showing you the proper threading, isn't it?

 No, it isn't.  Wrong References: header apparently (most definitely not
 pointing to the Message-Id: header of the article you are replying to).
 It's not possible to go to the parent article, and it is not possible to
 recall the entire thread from the server.  Both are possible with proper
 replies.

 Maybe you think that the Subject header is all that is needed for proper
 threading, but of course it would not allow for the topical sort a
 proper thread display needs to do.


 Funny thing...it showed up in my email system properly threaded.

No idea what email system you are using, but the headers on your mail
are

References: mailman.34835.1378923505.10747.lilypond-u...@gnu.org
5231f387.6080...@probo.com 87wqmmgdnq@fencepost.gnu.org

and when following that, one gets to my reply, Tim's posting, and then
an inaccessible message since my mail system never got to see the
digest.  The In-Reply-To: header chain does just the same thing.  So I
have no idea how your email system would figure out just what mail Tim
had been replying to.  The information is just not there in the headers.

-- 
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Kieren MacMillan
Hi all,

 I have no idea how your email system would figure out just what mail Tim
 had been replying to.  The information is just not there in the headers.

Apple Mail uses the Subject (as text), and I imagine there are other 
applications that do the same.
This of course leads to any number of frustrations, including re: re: test 
not being threaded with re: test, and mail from completely different 
conversations (with the same subject line) being threaded together.

Cheers,
Kieren.
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Carl Peterson
On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 1:46 PM, Kieren MacMillan 
kieren_macmil...@sympatico.ca wrote:

 Hi all,

  I have no idea how your email system would figure out just what mail Tim
  had been replying to.  The information is just not there in the headers.

 Apple Mail uses the Subject (as text), and I imagine there are other
 applications that do the same.
 This of course leads to any number of frustrations, including re: re:
 test not being threaded with re: test, and mail from completely
 different conversations (with the same subject line) being threaded
 together.

 Cheers,
 Kieren.


David,
Gmail is just that smart. It primarily uses the subject line, though I
think it pays attention to some other things, as I can't recall having the
problem Kieren describes. I think Gmail also looks for similarities in the
body of the message. It has some awareness of how the body of a message is
structured, as it commonly hides signature blocks (including the
lilypond-user mailing list block)

Regarding the actual subject matter, my previously-voiced frustration is
that the individual messages are *not* set up to reply to the list by
default. As a matter of consistency, I think both the individual messages
and the digest should reply to the list, or neither. My preference is for
both to do so. This is perhaps the only mailing list I've been on where
that is not the case. The rest of you may have different experiences, but
that is mine.

Cheers,
Carl
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Tim Roberts
David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:
 How does it make it harder?  As I said, replying to a digest makes no
 sense with regard to message threading anyway.

Of course it makes sense.  I just did it, and your mailer is almost
certainly showing you the proper threading, isn't it?

-- 
Tim Roberts, t...@probo.com
Providenza  Boekelheide, Inc.


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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Carl Peterson
On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 1:20 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:

 Tim Roberts t...@probo.com writes:

  David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:
  How does it make it harder?  As I said, replying to a digest makes no
  sense with regard to message threading anyway.
 
  Of course it makes sense.  I just did it, and your mailer is almost
  certainly showing you the proper threading, isn't it?

 No, it isn't.  Wrong References: header apparently (most definitely not
 pointing to the Message-Id: header of the article you are replying to).
 It's not possible to go to the parent article, and it is not possible to
 recall the entire thread from the server.  Both are possible with proper
 replies.

 Maybe you think that the Subject header is all that is needed for proper
 threading, but of course it would not allow for the topical sort a
 proper thread display needs to do.


Funny thing...it showed up in my email system properly threaded.
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Tim Roberts t...@probo.com writes:

 David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:
 How does it make it harder?  As I said, replying to a digest makes no
 sense with regard to message threading anyway.

 Of course it makes sense.  I just did it, and your mailer is almost
 certainly showing you the proper threading, isn't it?

No, it isn't.  Wrong References: header apparently (most definitely not
pointing to the Message-Id: header of the article you are replying to).
It's not possible to go to the parent article, and it is not possible to
recall the entire thread from the server.  Both are possible with proper
replies.

Maybe you think that the Subject header is all that is needed for proper
threading, but of course it would not allow for the topical sort a
proper thread display needs to do.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Kieren MacMillan kieren_macmil...@sympatico.ca writes:

 Hi all,

 I have no idea how your email system would figure out just what mail Tim
 had been replying to.  The information is just not there in the headers.

 Apple Mail uses the Subject (as text), and I imagine there are other
 applications that do the same.

Oh, short of other information, my mailing system groups together
articles with a common subject line in chronological order.  Sure.  But
it has no clue who replied to whom, and it can't fetch related mails
from the server without reading a whole bunch of messages with various
subjects based on their chronological order alone and then trying to
sort based on subject and chronology afterwards.

 This of course leads to any number of frustrations, including re: re:
 test not being threaded with re: test, and mail from completely
 different conversations (with the same subject line) being threaded
 together.

Well yes, a thread is logically a _tree_.  A chronological sort only
renders a list, and that's just not useful for tracking a particular
conversation to its start.

There may be mailing systems that actually can't do better than that
anyway, but most of them should preserve more from the threading.

-- 
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Carl Peterson
On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 2:04 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:


 I'm certain Gmail will also be able to figure out the mail you are
 replying to without referring to any header at all as long as any Gmail
 user has not yet deleted it (and probably even afterwards).  But for a
 normal mail server/client setup not relying on a universal freely
 associating data kraken on the server end, one needs to have information
 as specific as a Message Id in order to do reliable queries.


My understanding is that Gmail does not cross reference messages from
multiple accounts to figure out threading. I'll also issue a mea culpa of
my own. When you mentioned threading, I was not thinking in the sense of a
tree. I was only considering the idea of a conversation, understanding
which messages belong together. To my knowledge, Gmail does not attempt to
figure out who is replying to whom, but uses a chronological sequencing.


  Regarding the actual subject matter, my previously-voiced frustration
  is that the individual messages are *not* set up to reply to the list
  by default.

 Don't use Reply to sender if you don't want to reply to the sender.


(1) 99% of the time, if I'm replying to a message, I'm intending to reply
to the list. Defaults are usually selected to in some way minimize effort,
which brings me to (2), I'm lazy. Reply all requires extra mouse-clicks.


  As a matter of consistency, I think both the individual
  messages and the digest should reply to the list, or neither.

 Do you mean to imply that the digest _does_ add an explicit Reply-To:
 header and it goes to the list?  That would indeed be on the less than
 sane side.


I have no idea what the digest does or doesn't do. I am replying to your
prior statement, Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should not even
point to the list? As Tim pointed out, the non-digest messages do not and
your proposal would be logically consistent with that. I am simply stating
a preference for the reply-to of both to do so. I don't see how this is on
the less-than-sane side.
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Carl Peterson carlopeter...@gmail.com writes:

 On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 1:46 PM, Kieren MacMillan 
 kieren_macmil...@sympatico.ca wrote:

  I have no idea how your email system would figure out just what
  mail Tim had been replying to.  The information is just not there
  in the headers.

 Apple Mail uses the Subject (as text), and I imagine there are other
 applications that do the same.  This of course leads to any number of
 frustrations, including re: re: test not being threaded with re:
 test, and mail from completely different conversations (with the
 same subject line) being threaded together.

 Gmail is just that smart. It primarily uses the subject line, though I
 think it pays attention to some other things, as I can't recall having
 the problem Kieren describes. I think Gmail also looks for
 similarities in the body of the message. It has some awareness of how
 the body of a message is structured, as it commonly hides signature
 blocks (including the lilypond-user mailing list block)

I'm certain Gmail will also be able to figure out the mail you are
replying to without referring to any header at all as long as any Gmail
user has not yet deleted it (and probably even afterwards).  But for a
normal mail server/client setup not relying on a universal freely
associating data kraken on the server end, one needs to have information
as specific as a Message Id in order to do reliable queries.

 Regarding the actual subject matter, my previously-voiced frustration
 is that the individual messages are *not* set up to reply to the list
 by default.

Don't use Reply to sender if you don't want to reply to the sender.

 As a matter of consistency, I think both the individual
 messages and the digest should reply to the list, or neither.

Do you mean to imply that the digest _does_ add an explicit Reply-To:
header and it goes to the list?  That would indeed be on the less than
sane side.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Carl Peterson
On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 2:48 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:

 Not sure about that.  The information usually is available in the
 headers, and as far as I can tell, Gmail does preserve and maintain it
 as well.  So unless someone breaks the chain, it would seem like a
 poor choice not to actually use it.


It may pass on the headers just fine, but as far as how the information is
used for what I see, probably not as much.

 Don't use Reply to sender if you don't want to reply to the sender.
 
 
  (1) 99% of the time, if I'm replying to a message, I'm intending to
  reply to the list. Defaults are usually selected to in some way
  minimize effort, which brings me to (2), I'm lazy. Reply all requires
  extra mouse-clicks.

 Poor choice of user interface then.


Perhaps poor for me personally, but it is likely based on having a
minimalist user interface and realizing that most people only reply to
messages. It also discourages the delightful idiots who insist on replying
all to a mass mailing (when the original sender didn't have the decency or
know-how to stick the recipient names in the bcc).



   As a matter of consistency, I think both the individual messages
   and the digest should reply to the list, or neither.
 
  Do you mean to imply that the digest _does_ add an explicit Reply-To:
  header and it goes to the list?  That would indeed be on the less
  than sane side.
 
  I have no idea what the digest does or doesn't do. I am replying to
  your prior statement, Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should
  not even point to the list? As Tim pointed out, the non-digest
  messages do not and your proposal would be logically consistent with
  that.

 Not really.  I was suggesting _adding_ a Reply-To header, but one that
 does not go back to the list.

  I am simply stating a preference for the reply-to of both to do so.

 As I said, replies from a digest rarely make sense because of breaking
 the message threading.


This is a question of whether it makes sense from the human side or the
computer side. From the computer side, certainly. However, adding a
reply-to target doesn't fix that. If someone's going to reply from the
digest, they're going to reply from the digest. It's a question of whether
we force them to add the list address to the to box.

From the human side, I have no problem understanding the message threading
if someone has properly removed the parts of the digest they aren't
responding to and have replaced the digest subject line with the one from
the actual conversation.
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Carl Peterson carlopeter...@gmail.com writes:

 This is a question of whether it makes sense from the human side or
 the computer side. From the computer side, certainly. However, adding
 a reply-to target doesn't fix that. If someone's going to reply from
 the digest, they're going to reply from the digest.

You would likely be surprised.  In the presence of a Reply-To header,
both the standard Reply and Reply-to-all _have_ to go to the given
address and nowhere else.  Which is why adding a Reply-To header is a
strong and often annoying measure.

My mail reader Gnus offers an extra obscure Reply to mail with broken
Reply-To header command for bypassing this, but in a web interface,
this should not be an obvious choice.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Carl Peterson carlopeter...@gmail.com writes:

 On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 2:04 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:


 I'm certain Gmail will also be able to figure out the mail you are
 replying to without referring to any header at all as long as any Gmail
 user has not yet deleted it (and probably even afterwards).  But for a
 normal mail server/client setup not relying on a universal freely
 associating data kraken on the server end, one needs to have information
 as specific as a Message Id in order to do reliable queries.


 My understanding is that Gmail does not cross reference messages from
 multiple accounts to figure out threading.

I was being facetious here.  I'm certain they don't want to point out
the full amount of referencing/indexing/correlation they are doing.  But
they are not getting billions of advertising dollars for nothing.

 I'll also issue a mea culpa of my own. When you mentioned threading, I
 was not thinking in the sense of a tree. I was only considering the
 idea of a conversation, understanding which messages belong
 together. To my knowledge, Gmail does not attempt to figure out who is
 replying to whom, but uses a chronological sequencing.

Not sure about that.  The information usually is available in the
headers, and as far as I can tell, Gmail does preserve and maintain it
as well.  So unless someone breaks the chain, it would seem like a
poor choice not to actually use it.

 Don't use Reply to sender if you don't want to reply to the sender.


 (1) 99% of the time, if I'm replying to a message, I'm intending to
 reply to the list. Defaults are usually selected to in some way
 minimize effort, which brings me to (2), I'm lazy. Reply all requires
 extra mouse-clicks.

Poor choice of user interface then.

  As a matter of consistency, I think both the individual messages
  and the digest should reply to the list, or neither.

 Do you mean to imply that the digest _does_ add an explicit Reply-To:
 header and it goes to the list?  That would indeed be on the less
 than sane side.

 I have no idea what the digest does or doesn't do. I am replying to
 your prior statement, Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should
 not even point to the list? As Tim pointed out, the non-digest
 messages do not and your proposal would be logically consistent with
 that.

Not really.  I was suggesting _adding_ a Reply-To header, but one that
does not go back to the list.

 I am simply stating a preference for the reply-to of both to do so.

As I said, replies from a digest rarely make sense because of breaking
the message threading.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Brian Barker

At 14:50 12/09/2013 -0500, Evan Driscoll wrote:
Now, that being said and because I'm sure no one cares, IMO the way 
the Lilypond list is set up (reply goes to the sender) is 
*absolutely* the correct way to run a mailing list, and the 
alternative is completely maddening.


It's not just your opinion: mailing list processors have no business 
inserting a Reply-To: header, which is instead the sole domain of the 
message's author.  RFC 2822 appears to require this: When the 
'Reply-To:' field is present, it indicates the mailbox(es) to which 
the *author* of the message suggests that replies be sent (my 
emphasis).  The author of a message, of course, is not the list.


What action is *common* is only one of the two things that should be 
considered when assigning a default. Also should be considered is 
how damaging the other choice is. Replying to the list when you want 
to respond just to the sender has the potential to be a much more 
damaging action than replying to just the sender when you want to 
send to the list.


Exactly: the right way fails safe.  A message intended to be public 
may get sent privately by mistake - a minor inconvenience that can 
easily be remedied by sending the message again correctly.  The use 
of a Reply-To: header directed to a list risks messages intended to 
be private being sent publicly - a unfortunate consequence that 
simply cannot be undone.


This mailing list is configured unusually but properly.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Rogers
David Kastrup d...@gnu.org writes:

 As I said, replies from a digest rarely make sense because of breaking
 the message threading.

This is true, or at least I'm willing to take it as true - but if a
digest exists, then it would be very strange and frustrating to try to
disallow replying to it. Otherwise, if a digest subscriber wanted to
reply to something, he'd have to travel backwards in time and subscribe
himself to the individual messages instead, in time to catch the one he
was interested in. :)

So - cancel the digest? Or accept that replies will continue to come
from it. I can't see any possible choice other than those two.

People should remember to do the right thing every time, and people
should be required to use mail client software that not only does the
right thing but also steadfastly refuses to do the wrong thing. But
people are not going to change like that unless Mr Kastrup makes a
personal visit to each of their homes - and maybe not even then. :)

-- 
David R

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Evan Driscoll
The main reason I'm responding to this is to point out that if you use
digests, it's possible to configure it so that it sends each message as
an attachment instead of just dumping them all into the message body.

If you see something you want to respond to, you can just open up the
corresponding attachment and hit reply to that.

To set this up, go to the mailmain page
(https://lists.gnu.org/mailman/options/lilypond-user), find the Get
MIME or Plain Text Digests? question (currently the third), and set it
to to MIME.


A caveat: It's not the greatest interface, for third reasons. First,
depending on your email client you *may* have to open each attachment to
read the contents. However, this isn't a problem with Thunderbird and
probably others that display text attachments inline with the email
text, and what you see if you open the email in Thunderbird (or look at
it in the preview pane) is basically identical to the plain-text digest
mode. Second, if you're using something like Thunderbird that does so,
finding the attachment that corresponds to a message sometimes takes a
couple of tries, especially because each message actually comes through
twice and (at least in Thunderbird) you can only reply to one of them.
Not sure what's up with that. Third, it seems to lead to Re: Re:
headings for some reason. Not sure what's up with that either. As a
result it's not the best choice for everyone, but if you're like me and
want to cut down on the number of emails, but still skim over them for
ones of interest, but almost never reply, but want to be careful to
provide the correct in-reply-to etc. headers, I think it works well.


Evan



[I have reservations about sending the rest of this because I don't want
to carry the topic to far afield, but what the hell.]

Now, that being said and because I'm sure no one cares, IMO the way the
Lilypond list is set up (reply goes to the sender) is *absolutely* the
correct way to run a mailing list, and the alternative is completely
maddening.


On 9/12/2013 1:21 PM, Carl Peterson wrote:
 (1) 99% of the time, if I'm replying to a message, I'm intending to
 reply to the list. Defaults are usually selected to in some way minimize
 effort, which brings me to (2), I'm lazy. Reply all requires extra
 mouse-clicks.

Here's the flip side of that argument.

What action is *common* is only one of the two things that should be
considered when assigning a default. Also should be considered is how
damaging the other choice is. Replying to the list when you want to
respond just to the sender has the potential to be a much more
damaging action than replying to just the sender when you want to send
to the list.


On 9/12/2013 2:03 PM, Carl Peterson wrote:
 It also discourages the delightful idiots who insist on replying all
 to a mass mailing (when the original sender didn't have the decency or
 know-how to stick the recipient names in the bcc).

Personally I never really got that argument. I almost always reply all
to discussions like that. Why? The following two assumptions:

1) If the original sender CC'd someone, it's because they thought that
   person would be interested in the contents.

2) If someone is interested in an email, there's a good chance they'll
   be interested in follow-up emails.

I definitely pay attention to who I keep on the CC list and will remove
people if I have reason to believe the followup is a lot less relevant
for them, but that's my general rule of thumb. Maybe it's just because I
don't get enough emails, but I get *way* more annoyed when it seems like
I've been dropped from a mail thread that was relevant to me then I do
when I get extra emails that are *not* relevant.

Personally, I don't see the reason for BCC besides a CYA move.

Evan


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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
Evan Driscoll edrisc...@wisc.edu writes:

 I definitely pay attention to who I keep on the CC list and will
 remove people if I have reason to believe the followup is a lot less
 relevant for them, but that's my general rule of thumb. Maybe it's
 just because I don't get enough emails, but I get *way* more annoyed
 when it seems like I've been dropped from a mail thread that was
 relevant to me then I do when I get extra emails that are *not*
 relevant.

 Personally, I don't see the reason for BCC besides a CYA move.

I use Bcc for my monthly (more or less) reports to people sponsoring my
work on LilyPond.  The nominal recipient is myself then.  Most people
don't _want_ their mail address to be distributed to a lot of people
when they are not member of an actual discussion group.

This is similar for mailing lists mostly used for announcements: not
everybody subscribing to announcements wants to have his address
advertised to other recipients.

-- 
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Carl Peterson
On Thu, Sep 12, 2013 at 3:50 PM, Evan Driscoll edrisc...@wisc.edu wrote:

 On 9/12/2013 2:03 PM, Carl Peterson wrote:
  It also discourages the delightful idiots who insist on replying all
  to a mass mailing (when the original sender didn't have the decency or
  know-how to stick the recipient names in the bcc).

 Personally I never really got that argument. I almost always reply all
 to discussions like that. Why? The following two assumptions:

 1) If the original sender CC'd someone, it's because they thought that
person would be interested in the contents.

 2) If someone is interested in an email, there's a good chance they'll
be interested in follow-up emails.

 I definitely pay attention to who I keep on the CC list and will remove
 people if I have reason to believe the followup is a lot less relevant
 for them, but that's my general rule of thumb. Maybe it's just because I
 don't get enough emails, but I get *way* more annoyed when it seems like
 I've been dropped from a mail thread that was relevant to me then I do
 when I get extra emails that are *not* relevant.

 Personally, I don't see the reason for BCC besides a CYA move.


There are multiple reasons for using BCC.

1) If the email is a report of some kind, but is not intended for
discussion, then the BCC allows the people who are interested in the report
to receive the report, and makes it so that queries go back to the sender,
who can choose what to do with that query.

2) If a person is one of those who sends stuff to everyone in their
mailing list  (shudders), then it means that if the person didn't want to
receive it in the first place, they don't have to deal with the responses
that result.

3) It respects the privacy of individuals. It is, unfortunately, not
uncommon for people who are on one mailing list to use the recipient
addresses to seed the recipient list of their own mailing list.

4) As a follow-up to #3 (and tangentially related to your use case), there
may be times when a person needs to know but their identity cannot, for
various reasons, be revealed to others. This is similar to what David
posted (I just saw his reply come through) about donor reports. Donors
can't be anonymous if everyone sees that they're donating.

Many who send out frequent (legitimate) mass emails are having to utilize
third-party list services, as more and more mail servers and clients are
filtering the bulk recipient lists out as spam. Thus, the need for BCC is
lessening (to being principally a preventative measure), but the need still
exists.
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread David Kastrup
David Rogers davidandrewrog...@gmail.com writes:

 David Kastrup d...@gnu.org writes:

 As I said, replies from a digest rarely make sense because of breaking
 the message threading.

 This is true, or at least I'm willing to take it as true - but if a
 digest exists, then it would be very strange and frustrating to try to
 disallow replying to it. Otherwise, if a digest subscriber wanted to
 reply to something, he'd have to travel backwards in time and subscribe
 himself to the individual messages instead, in time to catch the one he
 was interested in. :)

Look it up on Gmane and reply to it individually.  I've actually done
that more than once.  Yes, it's inconvenient.

It's easier to read the whole traffic on a Gmane interface (I use Gmane
via nntp).

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread Phil Holmes
- Original Message - 
From: David Rogers davidandrewrog...@gmail.com

To: David Kastrup d...@gnu.org
Cc: lilypond-user@gnu.org
Sent: Thursday, September 12, 2013 9:02 PM
Subject: Re: mea máxima culpa



David Kastrup d...@gnu.org writes:


As I said, replies from a digest rarely make sense because of breaking
the message threading.


This is true, or at least I'm willing to take it as true - but if a
digest exists, then it would be very strange and frustrating to try to
disallow replying to it. Otherwise, if a digest subscriber wanted to
reply to something, he'd have to travel backwards in time and subscribe
himself to the individual messages instead, in time to catch the one he
was interested in. :)

So - cancel the digest? Or accept that replies will continue to come
from it. I can't see any possible choice other than those two.

People should remember to do the right thing every time, and people
should be required to use mail client software that not only does the
right thing but also steadfastly refuses to do the wrong thing. But
people are not going to change like that unless Mr Kastrup makes a
personal visit to each of their homes - and maybe not even then. :)

--
David R



Folks.  Chill.

This overlong thread was in request to a very polite request not to quote a 
digest when replying to a single message.  The quoter _slightly_ 
over-responded to that, but that's all.  As an issue, it rarely surfaces on 
this list.  Let's get back to developing LilyPond rather than sorting 
mailing list etiquette.


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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-12 Thread James Harkins
David Kastrup dak at gnu.org writes:

 Well yes, a thread is logically a _tree_.  A chronological sort only
 renders a list, and that's just not useful for tracking a particular
 conversation to its start.

FWIW, I receive the digest and when I want to reply to a message, I use gmane. 
It's slightly less convenient, but I consider it to be at least polite. As far 
as I know, it does handle the headers properly.

http://dir.gmane.org/gmane.comp.gnu.lilypond.general

Incidentally, if you look at recent posts via gmane, you'll see that the 
broken threads are totally obvious.

hjh


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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-11 Thread David Kastrup
Tim McNamara tim...@bitstream.net writes:

 On Sep 10, 2013, at 11:14 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:

 Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com writes:
 
 From: Thomas Morley thomasmorle...@gmail.com
 To: Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com
 
 [deleting billions of lines]
 
 From: James Harkins  jamshar...@gmail.com
 Patrick or Cynthia Karl pckarl at mac.com writes:
 
 Well, I don't have an answer to the question, but... a reminder... it is 
 VERY 
 uncool to quote an *entire digest* when you're replying to only one 
 message.
 
 I am so sorry and will try to do much better.
 
 Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should not even point to the
 list?  Replying to a digest makes no sense with regard to message
 threading 

 It would be logically consistent since the reply-to header is not set
 to the list for non-digest subscribers, but what would be the
 alternative?  no-reply-lilyp...@gnu.org?

The normal way would be to put it on moderation, with a human deciding
whether to silently discard it (appropriate when the address is used for
scattering unwanted mail to unsuspecting victims forged into the From
header) or reply with a canned message.

Whether it gets into moderation by being sent to a special address, or
by detecting a subject title typical for an unedited reply to a digest
(any useful reply would edit the subject title to refer to the actual
post rather than the whole digest) is a different question.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-11 Thread Tim Roberts
David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:
 Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should not even point to the
 list?  Replying to a digest makes no sense with regard to message
 threading anyway.

I have strong opinions about this, in part because I participate in
another mailing list that uses the no-reply trick for the digest.

In my opinion, you are proposing a government approach here:  you are
proposing legislative action to solve a problem that only occurs rarely,
and when it does occur is easily solved through education.  I don't
think you need to make it harder for those of us who have learned the
lesson, just because someone does something inappropriate once every few
months.

-- 
Tim Roberts, t...@probo.com
Providenza  Boekelheide, Inc.

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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-11 Thread David Kastrup
Tim Roberts t...@probo.com writes:

 David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:
 Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should not even point to the
 list?  Replying to a digest makes no sense with regard to message
 threading anyway.

 I have strong opinions about this, in part because I participate in
 another mailing list that uses the no-reply trick for the digest.

 In my opinion, you are proposing a government approach here:  you are
 proposing legislative action to solve a problem that only occurs rarely,
 and when it does occur is easily solved through education.  I don't
 think you need to make it harder for those of us who have learned the
 lesson, just because someone does something inappropriate once every few
 months.

How does it make it harder?  As I said, replying to a digest makes no
sense with regard to message threading anyway.

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mea máxima culpa

2013-09-10 Thread Patrick or Cynthia Karl

 From: Thomas Morley thomasmorle...@gmail.com
 To: Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com

 [deleting billions of lines]

 From: James Harkins  jamshar...@gmail.com
 Patrick or Cynthia Karl pckarl at mac.com writes:

 Well, I don't have an answer to the question, but... a reminder... it is VERY 
 uncool to quote an *entire digest* when you're replying to only one message.

I am so sorry and will try to do much better.
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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-10 Thread David Kastrup
Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com writes:

 From: Thomas Morley thomasmorle...@gmail.com
 To: Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com

 [deleting billions of lines]

 From: James Harkins  jamshar...@gmail.com
 Patrick or Cynthia Karl pckarl at mac.com writes:

 Well, I don't have an answer to the question, but... a reminder... it is 
 VERY 
 uncool to quote an *entire digest* when you're replying to only one message.

 I am so sorry and will try to do much better.

Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should not even point to the
list?  Replying to a digest makes no sense with regard to message
threading anyway.

-- 
David Kastrup


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Re: mea máxima culpa

2013-09-10 Thread Tim McNamara
On Sep 10, 2013, at 11:14 PM, David Kastrup d...@gnu.org wrote:

 Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com writes:
 
 From: Thomas Morley thomasmorle...@gmail.com
 To: Patrick or Cynthia Karl pck...@mac.com
 
 [deleting billions of lines]
 
 From: James Harkins  jamshar...@gmail.com
 Patrick or Cynthia Karl pckarl at mac.com writes:
 
 Well, I don't have an answer to the question, but... a reminder... it is 
 VERY 
 uncool to quote an *entire digest* when you're replying to only one message.
 
 I am so sorry and will try to do much better.
 
 Maybe the reply-to header of the digest should not even point to the
 list?  Replying to a digest makes no sense with regard to message
 threading 

It would be logically consistent since the reply-to header is not set to the 
list for non-digest subscribers, but what would be the alternative?  
no-reply-lilyp...@gnu.org?
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