Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-27 Thread David Terrell
On Mon, Mar 27, 2006 at 09:13:58PM +0200, chefren wrote:
> On 03/26/06 17:35, frantisek holop wrote:
> 
> Talking about arrogance:
> 
> >everybody seems to be happy about Theo's style
> 
> ..
> 
> >the problem mr de Raadt fails to see is, 
> 
> What's his name, Theo or "mr de Raadt"?

Mr. de Raadt if you're nasty.  Definately not Baby...



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-27 Thread chefren

On 03/26/06 17:35, frantisek holop wrote:

Talking about arrogance:


everybody seems to be happy about Theo's style


..

the problem mr de Raadt fails to see is, 


What's his name, Theo or "mr de Raadt"?

+++chefren



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-27 Thread chefren

On 03/26/06 07:45, Travers Buda wrote:

They have no time for anything but excelence. 


Clueless, money is needed because it =isn't= excellent at all.

Lots of people are too religious here, OpenBSD is neither a religion 
nor even a cult and shouldn't be one too.


The truth is just that OpenBSD developers are seriously doing their 
best to make software secure and reliable. Nothing more and nothing less.



And even some of the developers are somewhat religious, there is no 
difference between paying for CD or FTP distribution. The project 
needs a new motor, CD is out, FTP obviously in.


KISS, Keep It Simple Stupid!

+++chefren



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-26 Thread frantisek holop
hmm, on Sat, Mar 25, 2006 at 02:33:46PM -0800, Aaron Glenn said that
> Have you ever read [EMAIL PROTECTED] I mean actually read it? The only people
> that get slammed are those that deserve it. You're supposed to do your

so who decides who deserves it and who doesn't?


everybody seems to be happy about Theo's style
until they actually get burnt by it.

the problem mr de Raadt fails to see is, that he is not just
a developer working on these projects in the background who
can afford bad mouthing anyone he wants to.  he is the _front_ man.
we, the community actually get judged also by the leader of
the project.


> These days common sense and directness passes as arrogance. The *real*

common sense and directness?  you obviously have never got
a private mail from mr de Raadt.


the thread i started was about nothing else than directness.
that one cannot look down on people and then ask for their
money without a blink of an eye.  does not work like that
in the real world.

it was not about handholding, misc@ harshness, whining for
features.  the only feature i have asked for on this mailing
list for the last couple of years was t-shirts with the
stuff in the front, not the back.


flaming one's loayal user base just because they don't like
his filthy mouth is a great way to thank for the donations.


i will donate some soap to wash his mouth.

-f
-- 
history doesn't repeat itself.  historians do.



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-26 Thread steve szmidt
No Theo, I've never asked anyone here to write something for me. I tend to do 
my own coding. When I saw you were in trouble back then I simply offered to 
see if I could help because I like your product. I know, it was ignorant of 
me. I should have known better. 

And you're quite right these threads have really not done anything for anyone, 
except maybe give some a bit more insight into human follyness.

>"Altruism is a sham. Selflessness does not exist. The reason you offered to
> help is beacause you felt good practicing your society's morals--you are
> egotistical. This is not a bad thing, but such a dissection would deviate
> too far from the scope of misc."   

Yes Travers, I can tell you're experienced in life. I'm glad you took the 
opportunity to share your insights with me and my silly society's morals.

> "So, you asked what you could do, right?  

No Jacob not really, actually not at all, but it's water under the bridge. 

> "See, that's the problem.  Just go raise the money _on your own_.  There are
> plenty of "good ideas" in the misc@ archives. 

Yes, I've since realized how futile and stupid it was of me to have such an 
idea. I promise it won't happen again. It's probably a good bet that these 
threads have made a few people realize some of their futilities too. So it's 
sort of like a blessing in disguise. I'm sure you will not hear anything on 
the subject for a good while now after getting it all out in the open.


-- 

Steve Szmidt

"For evil to triumph all that is needed is for good men to do nothing.
Edmund Burke



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread Wijnand Wiersma
On 3/26/06, Theo de Raadt <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > Hmm. The last time money was short I unselfishly offered my time to help 
> > raise
> > money, because I wanted to help.
>
> I have been the recipient of hundreds of these "I want to help"
> letters.

The problem is: lots of people really love OpenBSD and they really
want to help however they can. In lots of cases it is difficult for
them to really help or they just don't know how. But one thing is
sure, it is all because of their love for OpenBSD.

I count myselve to this group, I try to do the best I can but for a
simple individual it is very difficult to be REALLY helpfull.

I can try to come up with lots of crazy ideas, but I think it is a
waste of time (and I don't mean my time). Therefore I will only donate
what I can miss this month as soon as I receive my paycheck. I wish I
could do better than that, but I can't. But whatever I do, I do it
because of my love for OpenBSD.


Wijnand
--
OpenBSD needs your help improving the softwareworld, please donate:
http://openbsd.org/donations.html

Yes big code using companies, that includes you!



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread Travers Buda
On Saturday 25 March 2006 20:14, steve szmidt wrote:

> Hmm. The last time money was short I unselfishly offered my time to
> help raise money, because I wanted to help. Help those who had helped
> me. I figured it would be a nice thing for me to do.

Altruism is a sham. Selflessness does not exist. The reason you offered 
to help is beacause you felt good practicing your society's 
morals--helping people with no concern of yourself. Well, since you 
only offered to help raise money, you got to feel good and do nothing 
at the same time. What a deal! That's a lot like prayer. "Dear God: 
Please help my neighbors since their house burned down." Do it 
yourself! Since you're influenced by popular morals, you probably will 
feel good by helping them or feel better by allievating your guilt. But 
don't con yourself into thinking that you're being selfless. You are 
getting something out of it--you are egotistical. This is not a bad 
thing, but such a dissection would deviate too far from the scope of 
misc. 

I help myself. That's why I've actually contributed (rather than spewing 
bunk like the rest of you malarky-brained meat wads sans nutritional 
value.) I know that my money funds tools that I use. It is no donation, 
and it certainly is not selfless. I think that this perception of 
"donation" is a stumbling block to corporate funding. 
Try using that, o' employed ones. 

> There are very few places indeed where people retain customers after
> being verbally abused. It speaks droves of how good your code is.
> Imagine the support if your attitude matched your code!

OpenBSD's code is directionally porportional to the aggregate attitude 
of the developers. They have no time for anything but excelence. 

> You are burning bridges left right and center with those who'd be
> happy to contribute, had it not been for the holier than thou
> attitude. It's absolutely amazing people donate at all. Imagine if
> you had competition that were nice! Anyone who'd spent any time on
> the list would go elsewhere.

Holier than thou? You're the selfless man! 

> It's not like anyone is suggesting you go celebate, or wear weird
> clothes or something. People just like being treated nicely. I'm sure
> you would not mind if someone threw a few nice words your way...

OpenBSD is not fuled by anyone being nice. Insecure people need 
niceties.

Travers Buda



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread Tony
It's a lot like mountain climbing.
People do it, although personally I can't really imagine why.
Because it's there. Because they can. That's why. It is not rational.
Nice words maybe don't hurt, but at that level are certainly irrelevant.
Me, I lurk on this list because of the attitude and the honesty.
If there's something I really need to know. it's likely to show here
and not much of anywhere else. 
Actually, considering, it's a very friendly place.
They do their thing. It is their thing. It is not your thing or my thing.
They will get an instant dislike of anything aimed at trying to make them
do either your thing or my thing. I do not blame them.

> -Original Message-
> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of
> steve szmidt
> Sent: Saturday, March 25, 2006 8:14 PM
> To: misc@openbsd.org
> Subject: Re: It's not about the money
> 
> 
> On Saturday 25 March 2006 17:33, you wrote:
> 
> > Have you ever read [EMAIL PROTECTED] I mean actually read it? The only 
> > people
> > that get slammed are those that deserve it. You're supposed to do your
> > own homework - there is no hand holding because hand holding takes
> > away time from more productive things, like code. The community as a
> > whole spends a great deal of effort clearly documenting everything and
> > those that choose to ignore that effort get the brunt of the flames. I
> > have never seen, in my four years on this list, anyone getting flamed
> > by a developer or well-known community member that didn't absolutely
> > deserve it.
> 
> Hmm. The last time money was short I unselfishly offered my time 
> to help raise 
> money, because I wanted to help. Help those who had helped me. I 
> figured it 
> would be a nice thing for me to do.
> 
> I got ripped so badly in a stream of four letter words I thought 
> I was back in 
> boot camp. My kind was not needed and such. Of course it was entirely in 
> someones mind who I was as it sure as heck was not known. 
> 
> Yeah, it was not done on the list. But never the less by what you 
> call a key 
> member. Several others have shared their experiences with me. 
> Maybe because 
> I've offered a kind word after some public abuse.
> 
> Jim Snyder, and others is dead on, but some people simply don't 
> see it. It's 
> invisible to a whole bunch, which is really sad. Personally I had 
> not heard 
> such fould language since boot camp.
> 
> Your judgement as to what constitutes "deserve" is not on par 
> with most others 
> outside this list. Heck, this list is infamous for toasting people. 
> 
> > Blah blah blah, enough with the tired cliches. The problem is exactly
> > too many selfish whiners. They want more and more, without having to
> 
> Tired cliche?!? 
> 
> He's, like most of us, really grateful for the code, and pay in 
> kind by buying 
> a copy every six months. Often times I get new people to buy it too. 
> 
> > support the project, and then they want everyone to hold their hand
> > through it. "Why doesnt my laptop touchpad work?" "When are you going
> > to support Adaptec cards? FreeBSD supports it!" These people have zero
> > understanding of OpenBSD or open source in general; and the sad part
> > is, they don't even know it. Consider OpenBSD is doing them a favor by
> > giving them a harsh reality check. One can only hope it will do them
> > some good.
> 
> This is not Jim whining...
> 
> > Vendors do care. They have to care exactly because OpenSSH is the
> > world standard. It would cost them far more to develop in house talent
> > to maintain and extend the current codebase than it would to simply
> > drop a $10K check to the project.
> 
> That has never been questioned. And not related to Jim's comment.
> 
> > Blah blah blah, more tired cliches. The culture here is exactly what
> > made the code "beautiful". So kindly, STFU (-:
> 
> There are very few places indeed where people retain customers 
> after being 
> verbally abused. It speaks droves of how good your code is. Imagine the 
> support if your attitude matched your code!
> 
> You are burning bridges left right and center with those who'd be 
> happy to 
> contribute, had it not been for the holier than thou attitude. It's 
> absolutely amazing people donate at all. Imagine if you had 
> competition that 
> were nice! Anyone who'd spent any time on the list would go elsewhere.
> 
> It's not like anyone is suggesting you go celebate, or wear weird 
> clothes or 
> something. People just like being treated nicely. I'm sure you 
> would not mind 
> if someone threw a few nice words your way...
> 
> -- 
> 
> Steve Szmidt
> 
> "For evil to triumph all that is needed is for good men to do nothing.
>   Edmund Burke



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread dick
>The 10 people who are helping get it.  They know that help is about
>action, and that if you stops at just words, it just plain isn't help.

the extent to which this thread has wasted time and not helped to draw any new
conclusions is astonishing. theo makes a good point when he accounts for the
time wasted by such outpourings of "support". i have abstained from posting to
this thread until now since i see it as acutely pointless.

marco's original appeal and the sea of idiotic responses made me think "i should
put up or shut up, not whine like a little kid". i suggest people stop whining
since it doesn't change anything.

if theo were one to make compromises, would openbsd even exist? it takes someone
who is unwilling to compromise to achieve anything truly great. compromise means
bending your will to suit others and a diminished purity of essence. if you're
unable to grok that, you should probably be watching TV.

pronate and donate or stay cross.



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread Jacob Meuser
On Sat, Mar 25, 2006 at 09:14:17PM -0500, steve szmidt wrote:
> On Saturday 25 March 2006 17:33, you wrote:
> 
> > Have you ever read [EMAIL PROTECTED] I mean actually read it? The only 
> > people
> > that get slammed are those that deserve it. You're supposed to do your
> > own homework - there is no hand holding because hand holding takes
> > away time from more productive things, like code. The community as a
> > whole spends a great deal of effort clearly documenting everything and
> > those that choose to ignore that effort get the brunt of the flames. I
> > have never seen, in my four years on this list, anyone getting flamed
> > by a developer or well-known community member that didn't absolutely
> > deserve it.
> 
> Hmm. The last time money was short I unselfishly offered my time to help 
> raise 
> money, because I wanted to help. Help those who had helped me. I figured it 
> would be a nice thing for me to do.

So, you asked what you could do, right?  See, that's the problem.  Just
go raise the money _on your own_.  There are plenty of "good ideas" in the
misc@ archives.

> I got ripped so badly in a stream of four letter words I thought I was back 
> in 
> boot camp. My kind was not needed and such. Of course it was entirely in 
> someones mind who I was as it sure as heck was not known. 

Maybe you were the third of fourth person that day that said they
wanted to help and asked how.  Now, if the person you asked is
coordinating all the helpful people and figuring out what they
should do next, then how is the person going to have time to hack?

This has all been explained before.

> Yeah, it was not done on the list. But never the less by what you call a key 
> member. Several others have shared their experiences with me. Maybe because 
> I've offered a kind word after some public abuse.
> 
> Jim Snyder, and others is dead on, but some people simply don't see it. It's 
> invisible to a whole bunch, which is really sad. Personally I had not heard 
> such fould language since boot camp.

Jim says the problem is the culture.  I kind of agree.  Seems people
who want to be part of the cmmunity but don't try to understand the
culture (do your homework first, read docs, ask concise and clear
questions, etc) end up feeling abused.

> Your judgement as to what constitutes "deserve" is not on par with most 
> others 
> outside this list. Heck, this list is infamous for toasting people. 
> 
> > Blah blah blah, enough with the tired cliches. The problem is exactly
> > too many selfish whiners. They want more and more, without having to
> 
> Tired cliche?!? 
> 
> He's, like most of us, really grateful for the code, and pay in kind by 
> buying 
> a copy every six months. Often times I get new people to buy it too. 
> 
> > support the project, and then they want everyone to hold their hand
> > through it. "Why doesnt my laptop touchpad work?" "When are you going
> > to support Adaptec cards? FreeBSD supports it!" These people have zero
> > understanding of OpenBSD or open source in general; and the sad part
> > is, they don't even know it. Consider OpenBSD is doing them a favor by
> > giving them a harsh reality check. One can only hope it will do them
> > some good.
> 
> This is not Jim whining...
> 
> > Vendors do care. They have to care exactly because OpenSSH is the
> > world standard. It would cost them far more to develop in house talent
> > to maintain and extend the current codebase than it would to simply
> > drop a $10K check to the project.
> 
> That has never been questioned. And not related to Jim's comment.
> 
> > Blah blah blah, more tired cliches. The culture here is exactly what
> > made the code "beautiful". So kindly, STFU (-:
> 
> There are very few places indeed where people retain customers after being 
> verbally abused. It speaks droves of how good your code is. Imagine the 
> support if your attitude matched your code!
> 
> You are burning bridges left right and center with those who'd be happy to 
> contribute, had it not been for the holier than thou attitude. It's 
> absolutely amazing people donate at all. Imagine if you had competition that 
> were nice! Anyone who'd spent any time on the list would go elsewhere.
> 
> It's not like anyone is suggesting you go celebate, or wear weird clothes or 
> something. People just like being treated nicely. I'm sure you would not mind 
> if someone threw a few nice words your way...

Curious who "you" is here.  The person you are replying to is not an
OpenBSD developer.

-- 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]>



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread Theo de Raadt
> Hmm. The last time money was short I unselfishly offered my time to help 
> raise 
> money, because I wanted to help.

I have been the recipient of hundreds of these "I want to help"
letters.

In this last donation drive I have received over 200 letters, and then
had to spend a lot of hours going through them.  In the end, after
about 10 of them will go somewhere, with actual people who can help
OpenBSD and OpenSSH get where they want to.  Those letters contain
actual offers to fund hackathons, or actual offers to force their
employer to do the right thing, or they contain questions about how
much donation would help -- followed by an donation happening.

The other 190 mails have been people telling us to change our process;
and about 180 of them have been people telling us that we would be better
off making our software less free.

Helping us does not include telling us how to make our software less
free for some segment of the market.  It does not include telling us
to treat some software uses less equal than others.  Helping us does
not include telling us to setup a US non-profit when I am not
US-based, and when a US non-profit would have a big problem funding
things that are almost exclusively not in the US.  It does not include
asking me 10 questions about our processes and such when those things
are evident on our mailing list and even in the first sentence of our
web page.  It does not include any sentence like "I want to help you,
but you must help me understand ..."

The 10 people who are helping get it.  They know that help is about
action, and that if you stops at just words, it just plain isn't help.

I don't remember you specifically, but I can make a really good guess
which catagory you are in.

SO go ahead, take this mail as a rebuke, take it as an attack on you
if you must.  Say that this is exactly why misc@ is a problem for you,
and why that justifies you villifying us further.  But in the end,
these are precisely the types of mails and personalities that keep me
from finishing the OpenSSH cleanup I am doing.  That's helpful?

You have started this thread with EXACTLY the kind of mail that you
say you have a problem with.  Pretty smurt, eh.



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread steve szmidt
On Saturday 25 March 2006 17:33, you wrote:

> Have you ever read [EMAIL PROTECTED] I mean actually read it? The only people
> that get slammed are those that deserve it. You're supposed to do your
> own homework - there is no hand holding because hand holding takes
> away time from more productive things, like code. The community as a
> whole spends a great deal of effort clearly documenting everything and
> those that choose to ignore that effort get the brunt of the flames. I
> have never seen, in my four years on this list, anyone getting flamed
> by a developer or well-known community member that didn't absolutely
> deserve it.

Hmm. The last time money was short I unselfishly offered my time to help raise 
money, because I wanted to help. Help those who had helped me. I figured it 
would be a nice thing for me to do.

I got ripped so badly in a stream of four letter words I thought I was back in 
boot camp. My kind was not needed and such. Of course it was entirely in 
someones mind who I was as it sure as heck was not known. 

Yeah, it was not done on the list. But never the less by what you call a key 
member. Several others have shared their experiences with me. Maybe because 
I've offered a kind word after some public abuse.

Jim Snyder, and others is dead on, but some people simply don't see it. It's 
invisible to a whole bunch, which is really sad. Personally I had not heard 
such fould language since boot camp.

Your judgement as to what constitutes "deserve" is not on par with most others 
outside this list. Heck, this list is infamous for toasting people. 

> Blah blah blah, enough with the tired cliches. The problem is exactly
> too many selfish whiners. They want more and more, without having to

Tired cliche?!? 

He's, like most of us, really grateful for the code, and pay in kind by buying 
a copy every six months. Often times I get new people to buy it too. 

> support the project, and then they want everyone to hold their hand
> through it. "Why doesnt my laptop touchpad work?" "When are you going
> to support Adaptec cards? FreeBSD supports it!" These people have zero
> understanding of OpenBSD or open source in general; and the sad part
> is, they don't even know it. Consider OpenBSD is doing them a favor by
> giving them a harsh reality check. One can only hope it will do them
> some good.

This is not Jim whining...

> Vendors do care. They have to care exactly because OpenSSH is the
> world standard. It would cost them far more to develop in house talent
> to maintain and extend the current codebase than it would to simply
> drop a $10K check to the project.

That has never been questioned. And not related to Jim's comment.

> Blah blah blah, more tired cliches. The culture here is exactly what
> made the code "beautiful". So kindly, STFU (-:

There are very few places indeed where people retain customers after being 
verbally abused. It speaks droves of how good your code is. Imagine the 
support if your attitude matched your code!

You are burning bridges left right and center with those who'd be happy to 
contribute, had it not been for the holier than thou attitude. It's 
absolutely amazing people donate at all. Imagine if you had competition that 
were nice! Anyone who'd spent any time on the list would go elsewhere.

It's not like anyone is suggesting you go celebate, or wear weird clothes or 
something. People just like being treated nicely. I'm sure you would not mind 
if someone threw a few nice words your way...

-- 

Steve Szmidt

"For evil to triumph all that is needed is for good men to do nothing.
Edmund Burke



Re: It's not about the money

2006-03-25 Thread Aaron Glenn
On 3/25/06, Jim Snyder <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Hello All,
>
> I've been passively following the "money threads" from the very first
> post.  Considering that this topic has generated over 100 replies,
> perhaps this should serve as a clue to its importance.
>
> Background: I'm a second-generation airline pilot, therefor I've been
> many places and worked with many people in a team environment.  This
> is not to brag.  This is to explain my perspective.  I love
> technology.  I love OpenBSD.  And I want OpenBSD to thrive.
>
> The money, or lack of, is not the problem.  It is the symptom.  The
> problem is the culture of condescension.  It's very simple.  Treat
> people like second-class citizens and they will respond accordingly.
> This is not quantum physics, folks.  This is about people.  The code
> is beautiful.  OpenBSD has no equal.  And yet people are abandoning
> the community in droves.

By what measure? CD sales have dropped while a corresponding increase
in FTP downloads occurs. No one is leaving, they're just not
supporting the project monetarily; they're still using the code.

> I un-subscribed from OpenBSD-misc a long time ago because I realized
> quickly that I would not be posting any questions.  Why slam my inbox
> and be insulted when I can just as easily read the archives.

Have you ever read [EMAIL PROTECTED] I mean actually read it? The only people
that get slammed are those that deserve it. You're supposed to do your
own homework - there is no hand holding because hand holding takes
away time from more productive things, like code. The community as a
whole spends a great deal of effort clearly documenting everything and
those that choose to ignore that effort get the brunt of the flames. I
have never seen, in my four years on this list, anyone getting flamed
by a developer or well-known community member that didn't absolutely
deserve it.

> A message to Mr. de Raadt and the OpenBSD team:  You are exceptionally
> gifted hackers.  OpenBSD is in a class of its own.  You have given the
> world a wonderful gift. (several gifts actually) And the project is
> now at a critical turning point.  Wake up.  You can go on pretending
> that the problem is too many selfish whiners and too many selfish
> vendors.  Or you can take a good hard look in the mirror.  Your
> foundation is cracking.  Your sandbox is getting smaller, and it's
> starting to smell like the cat got in there.

Blah blah blah, enough with the tired cliches. The problem is exactly
too many selfish whiners. They want more and more, without having to
support the project, and then they want everyone to hold their hand
through it. "Why doesnt my laptop touchpad work?" "When are you going
to support Adaptec cards? FreeBSD supports it!" These people have zero
understanding of OpenBSD or open source in general; and the sad part
is, they don't even know it. Consider OpenBSD is doing them a favor by
giving them a harsh reality check. One can only hope it will do them
some good.

> If you are waiting for the support of IBM, Cisco, Sun, or any other
> vendor, get real.  They don't give a damn.  They don't care if OpenSSH
> lives or dies.  They already have the source code.  OpenSSH is already
> the world standard.

Vendors do care. They have to care exactly because OpenSSH is the
world standard. It would cost them far more to develop in house talent
to maintain and extend the current codebase than it would to simply
drop a $10K check to the project.

> Look, I believe in directness more than anybody.  It has saved my life
> on a few occasions.  But there is a big difference between directness
> and arrogance.  It is this arrogance that is stifling OpenBSD.  It is
> the culture.

These days common sense and directness passes as arrogance. The *real*
community cannot, will not, and should not spend cycles holding hands,
filling out grants, and opening up non-profit groups. The goal here is
to develop secure, open code that any and all can use to build a
better computing environment for *everyone*.

> So you can tell me to STFU and quit wasting your precious time that
> could be spent coding.  Fine.  Your code is already beautiful.  You
> can wear it like a crown.  It's the culture that needs improvement.
> Example comes from above.  Leadership starts at the top.

Blah blah blah, more tired cliches. The culture here is exactly what
made the code "beautiful". So kindly, STFU (-: