Re: [Origami] COC: Rules of conduct (RoC) and Centerfold.

2021-05-20 Thread Carol Martinson
Lest someone be frightened off from writing reports, the reason sworn 
statements were required in the incidents that I mentioned earlier was that we 
were considered witnesses.  Mine was a defamation of character case between two 
non city employees and the other one was a person seeking damages for a fall 
down the stairs where there were no eye witnesses but the employee heard the 
fall take place.  In both situations the only support we got from the city was 
tell the truth.

It is unlikely that there will be a lot of reports in a convention setting.  
It’s just that they will be documented in case any further questions arise.  

Anyway, the types of incidents which may create problems are likely the type 
where there are consequences from both not writing reports and from writing 
reports.  Having a code and taking it seriously offers greater protection for 
the organizers, victims, and the accused individuals in the rare situations 
someone is lying.  And, as Anne said, if the report writer is untrustworthy and 
lies, eventually that usually is also revealed through the reports they write 
(or ignore writing).   Also, as Anne speculated, eventually the library 
designated people who could write the reports although any staff member could 
and was expected to take information if a designated writer was not immediately 
available.

Again, I am not a lawyer but am writing from the unique perspective of having 
lots of years of practical experience.

I am more afraid of the consequences of not writing reports, even without the 
support of lawyers and an HR department.

Carol Martinson 



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> On May 20, 2021, at 7:04 AM, Anne LaVin  wrote:
> 
> 
>> On Wed, May 19, 2021 at 3:24 PM Anne LaVin  wrote:
> 
>> 
>> I will be an ally.  
> 
> I was reminded, off-list, that even general community efforts towards CoCs 
> and related behavior can be somewhat fraught: in this example, I am only 
> potentially useful as an ally for someone in trouble *if I can be trusted*. I 
> like to think that I could be, but a complete stranger has no way of knowing 
> this, of course. And a Bad Actor could do exactly as I have done in order to 
> get close to someone vulnerable. People do suck, sometimes.
> 
> Just goes to show that this stuff is Not Easy. And that in a convention/event 
> context, it's probable that the Con organizers would have to designate 
> "official" folks to be available to help, if only for their own liability.
> 
> Still, it's the community as a whole that can work towards creating an 
> appropriate and welcoming culture, and that's still on all of *us*.
> 
> Anne


Re: [Origami] Rules of conduct (RoC) and Centerfold.

2021-05-19 Thread Carol Martinson via Origami
Thank you, Anne, for all your offers and help in this discussion.

My expertise is greatest in making actual reports of incidents, over 35 years 
worth.  The library system I worked in served a resident population of 150,000, 
but anyone in the metropolitan area of 2.5-3 million could freely walk in and 
get a library card, including any out-of-state students residing at any of the 
campuses in the metropolitan area.  I have legally testified about a report I 
wrote and I am aware of one other instance of someone having to give testimony 
about a report.  I am very aware of the legal ramifications of writing a report.

John has accepted my offer to help create a report form that should meet 
immediate requirements for this summer’s convention.  I have offered to give 
training on using neutral language, focusing on actual events and behaviors 
rather than personal opinion of the people involved or the situation being 
described.  I guarantee no one taking a report will like the form.  I expect 
that it will be tweaked before the convention starts, and revised afterwards 
and may not look like anything I suggest.  The library’s reporting form changed 
greatly over the years as has its Code of Conduct.

With all that said, and without the backing of a legal department and HR 
office, I am not afraid to take incident reports at Centerfold, either 
officially or if someone is uncomfortable approaching one of the people on duty.

My overall opinion of the situation is that it’s hard to have to change things 
you have been nurturing for 11 years because of changes in societal 
expectations.  

Carol Martinson 



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> On May 19, 2021, at 2:58 PM, Anne LaVin  wrote:
> 
> On Wed, May 19, 2021 at 10:04 AM Weinstein, Michael  
> wrote:
> > Says me if we can’t have a gathering of adults for one weekend without the 
> > expectation that everyone can be civil to everyone, 
> 
> That ship has, clearly, already sailed, and years ago at that. We're fooling 
> ourselves if we think our community is just one big happy family all the time.
> 
> Which is not to say that there aren't a lot of great people in origami, and 
> that for the most part, people treat each other quite well. In my own 
> personal experience, anyway, most people at origami conventions actually 
> treat each other *better* than out in the big old real world. But it's clear 
> that bad stuff happens in our little corner, too.
> 
> > we just shouldn’t do it. My enthusiasm for Origami conventions has taken a 
> > BIG nosedive over this.
> 
> This has rattled me, solidly, for the past week. I am horrified to have heard 
> from friends and colleagues about some of their experiences. But rather than 
> making me want to avoid the community or its events ... it makes me want to 
> help fix it. Hence this discussion.
> 
> > There is one aspect of this whole RoC discussion that REALLY bothers me. 
> > Lots of folks have said they support RoC for lots of reasons.  Doesn’t 
> > sound so bad, writing one of these things looks like the work of a couple 
> > hours.  Enforcing it, another matter entirely.
> >
> > My employer has a Human Resources Department.  Allegations of harassment, 
> > discrimination and other maladaptive behavior get sent there.  Such 
> > allegations are handled by a professional staff that is well paid and 
> > trained to handle such situations in a professional manner.
> >
> > This is what the volunteers of Centerfold have been asked to do.  And I 
> > will note that no where have I seen even one person volunteer to write said 
> > RoC and/or implement it at Centerfold. 
> 
> Actually, we've had one generous list member, with professional experience in 
> just such things, volunteer right here on the list. Perhaps you missed it? 
> Carol Martinson stepped up right at the start.
> 
> > I for one don’t want to go anywhere near it.  You can wind up in the middle 
> > of things you don’t want to be in the middle of.
> 
> There was an excellent show on TV for a while called "Dirty Jobs," which 
> celebrated those who do the work that makes "civilized life possible for the 
> rest of us." I'd classify this as exactly that. No one is saying this is 
> especially easy, but that doesn't mean it isn't important to try.
> 
> And here's a thing: have any of the organizations *asked for assistance*? I 
> haven't seen any organization ask their membership for help drafting such a 
> thing (not that I couldn't have missed such a call for volunteers, it's not 
> like I'm a member everywhere nor do I see everything) nor ask specifically 
> for this kind of volunteer help at conventions. (OrigamiUSA drafted their CoC 
> internally, I believe, and then added to it with some cyber-specific 
> guidel

Re: [Origami] CoC - abuse of power

2021-05-18 Thread Carol Martinson
Again, I am writing from many, many years of having to write what we called 
incident reports and then also being a front line manager having to enforce a 
CoC once one was developed.  At the library where I worked, incidents that took 
place not on library property were not reportable as such, even if it took 
place in the city park across the street or in the library in the courthouse 
two blocks away.  If an incident took place on our property grounds, and we had 
10 branches and a bookmobile, an incident report could be filed.  The library 
was not responsible for people’s behavior elsewhere.

Having said that, if an incident took place on library property and it was 
mentioned another incident took place somewhere else, that could be included in 
the description of what happened as having been mentioned by one of the people 
reporting the situation  in case legal (police, court, etc,) action resulted, 
but it did not determine the action the library itself could take.  Convention 
organizers are not responsible for people’s actions elsewhere.

So, this is my opinion based on personal experience and should not be taken as 
a legal pronouncement.  If an incident occurs during a convention but offsite 
and/or “off hours”, such as within a individual’s hotel room or while out for 
dinner with a group of convention attendees, report it.  Better safe than sorry 
for everybody, including the convention organizers.  Abuse of power can be 
reported, but it has to take place during the convention’s period of 
responsibility.  If nothing can be done the first time except maybe issue a 
warning, repeat offenses carry an increasing amount of weight.   

And remember, while rare since people’s personalities seldom change, but their 
behavior can change.  I’ve seen individuals who have changed offensive behavior 
after having it pointed out to them, or who had to go through individualized 
harassment prevention training and no further problems happened.  It doesn’t 
always work, but sometimes it does.  

Carol Martinson 

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> On May 18, 2021, at 3:21 PM, Laura R  wrote:
> While issues that have a sexual or racial connotations are the ones that 
> most people will think about in relation with a CoC, there are other issues, 
> e.g. abuse of power, that are important to consider for a CoC. 
> 
> However, if coming to an agreement on how to implement the rules related 
> sexual and racial misdonduct (how to behave, how to report and how to handle 
> a report), I wonder how much more difficult this discussion will become when 
> we discuss what abuse of power means (it is easier to label an abusive person 
> a jerk and that’s it.)
> 
> Perhaps an abusive person does not behave as such during the whole meeting, 
> but he is enough of a psychopath to allienate and/or frighten others in a 
> different context. 
> 
> So, if I know that someone attending a convention exercised a sexual 
> misconduct or an abuse of power over me to the point to become traumatized 
> for months afterwards, but the act happened in a different environment (not 
> at the convention), should I make a report during the convention just because 
> he and I are there and I'm feeling unconfortable? Should I make the report 
> elsewhere (where?) because as someone said in another email we are a 
> “close-knit community” (are we?) Or the only cases to be considered will be 
> those that happen during the event? 
> 
> Laura Rozenberg  


Re: [Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread Carol Martinson
Malachi, 

While that is worded differently than what the library had in the same 
category, to me it appears fine.   Apparently the problem is my 
misunderstanding what we each meant by the words “exact” and “specific”.  I 
apologize for misinterpreting your overall  intent.  

Carol Martinson 

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> On May 17, 2021, at 1:02 PM, Malachi Brown  wrote:
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> 
> 
> On Mon, May 17, 2021 at 11:18 AM Carol Martinson via Origami 
>  wrote:
>> If I am interpreting what he is trying to say correctly, people need the 
>> specific words and actions named so they know what is and is not allowed.  
>> Acceptable behaviors vary widely from culture to culture so they may need 
>> specific actions listed to know what is expected.
> 
> I believe you misunderstood what I was trying to say or I am misunderstanding 
> what you are trying to say.
>  
> I think, at least for an event CoC, there is a balance that can be struck 
> between the very vague and open to interpretation "don't be a jerk" and the 
> overly specific enumeration of all words and actions that qualify as 
> harassment.  
> 
> I specifically referenced the OUSA CoC because it does enumerate several 
> types of discrimination that are specifically prohibited which gives the 
> person reading it an understanding of what is not acceptable.  I don't think 
> specific words or actions need to be spelled out, but that it is useful to 
> know what areas are covered by the policy.
> 
> So, maybe we can clarify this point.  From the OUSA CoC, do you consider the 
> following to be overly specific?
> 
> * offensive communication related to gender, sexual orientation, disability, 
> physical appearance, body size, race, religion, and age.
> * use of sexist, racist, ableist, or any other discriminatory or exclusionary 
> language. 
> 
> thanks,
> malachi


[Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread Carol Martinson via Origami


Before my day gets too busy to respond, I want to reply to a point made by 
Malachi about the need for specific acts and items to be named in a Code of 
Conduct.  If I am interpreting what he is trying to say correctly, people need 
the specific words and actions named so they know what is and is not allowed.  
Acceptable behaviors vary widely from culture to culture so they may need 
specific actions listed to know what is expected.

The original thread was getting too long so I have copied this from Malachi’s 
long statement in a string of other long statements.  I hope it is enough to 
illustrate what I am replying to. 
***
The OUSA CoC (just used for convenience) says that harassment includes but is 
not limited to:
* offensive communication related to gender, sexual orientation, disability, 
physical appearance, body size, race, religion, and age.
* use of sexist, racist, ableist, or any other discriminatory or exclusionary 
language. 

From my point of view, this is like saying that "murder, stealing, and assault" 
are against the law.  It doesn't go into details about what different specific 
words are offensive, but outlines broad areas of language that are not 
tolerated.

However, I want to draw attention to one part of your statement that seems 
troublesome to me.  I don't think it is a "problem" that the list will include 
"a lot of things that only a very small subset of people will care about."  
Part of the point of a CoC is to make it clear that people in what are often 
marginalized groups feel comfortable attending because they know what will and 
won't be tolerated


The library I worked in had to translate many of their policies into Spanish, 
Hmong, Karen, and Somali since, while the metropolitan area as a whole was 
still primarily Caucasian, the core cities are not.  The cultures named have 
widely different standards of acceptable behaviors.

All our city attorneys would not approve a code of behavior for the library 
that named specific words and acts because you could not name them all.  If a 
list is specific and something is left off, it can be legally argued that it is 
allowed because it wasn’t named.  I took statements where that argument was 
made.  It is also perfectly possible to harass someone without using any 
prohibited words or actions.

Malachi’s desire to protect people by being specific is very admirable.  He 
wants to protect everyone.  I wish it could work that way and everything would 
be clearly understandable.   No CoC in existence will satisfy everyone.

If I have misinterpreted what Malachi was saying, or he feels unfairly singled 
out,  I apologize and he may publicly correct me.  Furthermore, I am not a 
lawyer nor am I familiar with the laws in Ohio.

Carol Martinson 

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[Origami] CoC — Volunteering Offer

2021-05-16 Thread Carol Martinson via Origami
As a now retired public librarian from a Midwestern fairly large urban 
library system, I have helped write Code of Conducts and have banned people 
from all the library facilities on my own authority for periods up to three 
months.  Longer periods of banishment had to be determined by the library 
administration.

Centerfold has not wanted to write a Code of Conduct, feeling it was 
unnecessary in a smaller venue.  Unfortunately, now that the issue has been 
brought up, it has become necessary.  People are now aware of the lack of a CoC 
and feel unsafe, or at least unsettled, that there is not one.  Perceptions are 
important, and this won’t go away.

A CoC does not mean that the convention would suddenly become safe.  Incidents 
occur.  What a CoC does, however, is make victims feel that their complaints 
will be taken seriously and that there will not be any retaliation for 
reporting an incident — and that help can be obtained and problems will be 
solved and worked on.  It protects organizers from being accused of ignoring 
potential problems or discriminating against an individual.   It also serves to 
tell attendees that there will be consequences for unacceptable behavior.

In reply to the email that was sent by Monica, I volunteered to help write a 
CoC for Centerfold and a form to take reports of incidents.  I said the easiest 
route with only two months before the convention would be to adopt OUSA’s CoC 
for this convention, and I assumed an Ohio specific CoC could be written later, 
but I have since learned that Ohio does not want to use OUSA’s CoC.  That is 
fine.  There are many examples to choose from and other people can do that.

What I can uniquely provide is a standard reporting form, and if desired, some 
quick remedial training in using unbiased language in filling out such forms.  
If this convention does end up being held, a better form more adapted to the 
convention can be developed later.  I can also make suggestions as to varying 
levels of consequences, but others will be more qualified to do that than me.

I hope this offer is taken seriously.  Other people have also made offers to 
help and mediate, but it seems to have reached a point people are not capable 
of actually hearing what is being said.  

Carol Martinson 

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Re: [Origami] Old website project about listing what different creators allowed?

2020-10-26 Thread Carol Martinson
Geraldo,

I tried sending this to you using your email address, but I was not successful. 
 So, apologies to everyone, this is going to the whole List.  I’ll also try 
sending it directly to you again.

You are not imagining this project.  It was an OrigamiUSA project headed by 
Robert Lang.  I volunteered for this project as did a couple of other people.  
It was supposed to be a site teachers could use to see if origami creators gave 
permission to teach their models, hand out diagrams, and the like.  Robert Lang 
then got too busy to set it up the way he wanted it set up and the project 
died.  

It was driven by how strict OrigamiUSA is about getting permission to teach 
models at their conventions.  They are far, far more restrictive than U.S. 
copyright law. 

I’ll see if I still have any of the old emails.  It might take a couple of 
days.  If you want to take up the project, I will volunteer to help you. 
 
I love teaching and am considered a decent teacher, but since I am not a famous 
person in the origami world, often creators do not even respond to my requests 
for permission to teach.  The last OrigamiUSA Convention I attended I could not 
get a response granting permission to teach models, so I did not teach.

Carol Martinson

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> On Oct 26, 2020, at 6:34 PM, Gerardo @neorigami.com  
> wrote:
> 
> 
> HI EVERYONE
> 
> I'm almost 100% sure that years ago someone mentioned here a project 
> regarding a website were people could find what a particular creator allowed 
> in relation to his or her own models. And it was also mentioned that that 
> project was abandoned.
> 
> Did that project really exist or did I dream it all? I tried to find those 
> messages using different keywords but to no avail.
> 
> If someone can tell me more about it, but more importantly, if someone can 
> help me find the old messages I'd really appreciate it. You can send me a 
> private message to gerardo(a)neorigami.com if you prefer.
> 
> 
> Thank you in advance : )
> 
> --
> Gerardo G.
> gerardo(a).com
> Knowledge and Curiosity in Origami:
> six private classes online


Re: [Origami] Please help me choose one picture for a collective activity

2020-04-08 Thread Carol Martinson via Origami
I am going to be somewhat contrary to most of your other responses.  My 
preference is Being Sumapaz.  The fact that it appears to be freestanding and, 
to me, it appears to be representative of a few trees in the country, makes it 
tops,  Also, the fact that the other two are framed causes me to notice the 
folds rather than the theme.

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> On Apr 6, 2020, at 4:19 PM, Mercedes Batista via Origami 
>  wrote:
> 
>> On Apr 6, 2020, at 5:04 AM, Mercedes Batista via Origami 
>>  wrote:
>> 
>> My first choice is Landscape.
>> 
>> My second choice is “No Name"
>> 
>> I like also like the “name" Sumapaz
>> 
>> M
>> 
>> 
>> 
>>> On Apr 5, 2020, at 6:28 PM, Gerardo @neorigami.com  
>>> wrote:
>>> 
>>> Can you please help me choose one of the following three pictures of folds
>>> for a photograph collective activity? I must only choose one and I really
>>> can't make up my mind!
>>> 
>>> "Landscape":
>>> https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/jcDG-G2uO8FYQuEizix-JxP2GfB10qx_bnF5In1L5CN8Ld4ElKCjCjvGiHOLK3u1g2dGQaZLWCkfmIeV1nyiKtMJ-j4d3C1ITyuZbTLTMYxai1Qu5Ijeyp-9dfb8GdEqPbx6V8ksIw=w2400
>>> 
>>> "Being Sumapaz":
>>> https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/ofBOyuxcgv8UKKFRoEeT09n1Iz5VUeJfZWjnpVZzU2ks0lTeBVRIEJIusnnsql1qW1u127IzhIHtd_y_Cp6Eo2CJkZaILfVr828BHvTPSL60-ICCQrW4Uf3TkcRdn9Lj5J2iSpGT7w=w2400
>>> 
>>> "No name":
>>> https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/9D-84MNCuC4yEBh8F50ia-8SySoPKc9slF-vFNFowsZcUzhrzvYRllIsiaUINxMyf4PZ1zhd2QEDnoBS_ab3Ivhunr2FUmO__UbdJRgbBTqnYOTF99lWyIsmT8kzX0FnBQIkZcftDA=w2400
>>> 
>>> Which one would you choose, but more importantly *why*?
>>> 
>>> You can share your opinion through the list or privately with me by sending
>>> me a message to gerardo(a)neorigami.com Please don't forget to also give a
>>> reason as to why you choose that one over the other two.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Thank you : )
>>> 
>>> --
>>> Gerardo
>>> gerardo(a)neorigami.com
>> 
> 



[Origami] Two Origami YouTube Sightings

2014-09-23 Thread Carol Martinson
I am pretty sure this first sighting hasn't been reported before.  On the
September 14, 2014 episode of I Kveld Med Ylvis, Vegard, Bard and Calle
Hellevang-Larsen performed A Song For Swedish Viewers, during which they
folded origami.  Only one succeeded.  The video has English subtitles.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzwGiCMbzYM
https://webmail2.state.mn.us/owa/redir.aspx?C=ES2L0YEzZkqeYOfZm7P9FRybB30Zq9EIEwDmvFF2j0bnHTM6k-wniY_SJFQ1-GIk24bcH_5nbSU.URL=http%3a%2f%2fwww.youtube.com%2fwatch%3fv%3dWzwGiCMbzYM

The second sighting I am surprised no one has reported, as far as I can
tell.  It is called Heineken Irish Legend Talent Search.  In it Conor
McGregor, a mixed martial arts fighter competes with two others, and his
talent is origami.  There is a tiny bit of origami in the beginning, but be
sure to watch until the end for the payoff.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SnrAP26dzZc
https://webmail2.state.mn.us/owa/redir.aspx?C=ES2L0YEzZkqeYOfZm7P9FRybB30Zq9EIEwDmvFF2j0bnHTM6k-wniY_SJFQ1-GIk24bcH_5nbSU.URL=http%3a%2f%2fwww.youtube.com%2fwatch%3fv%3dSnrAP26dzZc

Carol Martinson

   carol...@yahoo.com?subject=Re%3A%20Two%20YouTube%20Origami%20Sightings




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[Origami] Paperless Origami

2013-12-11 Thread Carol Martinson
 This must have appeared before, but I searched and could not find it so I am 
 sending it because it may be interesting to some.
 
 In the December 10, 2010, post on the blog craftstylish.com, Jeffery Rudell 
 writes about creating non-sagging origami centerpieces for the holidays using 
 fusible interfacing in an article called How To Make Paperless Origami..   
 The direct link is:
 
 www.craftstlish.com/item/18994/how-to-make-paperless-origami
 
 If that link does not work, just search for.  paperless origami  on Google 
 and it comes up as one of the first couple results.
 
 Carol Martinson


[Origami] Origami Sighting - Modular Cathedral

2012-10-17 Thread Carol Martinson
A colleague from work spotted this and pointed it out to me.  It is an 
extraordinary rendering of the Svyato-Spassky Cathedral in Minusinsk done in 
block origami using approximately 60,000 units.  In the background sits a 
different origami cathedral.

It can be found in BBC News in Piictures for October 15.  The link will take 
you to the photographs for October 15, and it is the 7th photo right under the 
caption for the skydiver.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/in-pictures-19946456

Carol Martinson