Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread frank theriault
On 11/28/05, Shel Belinkoff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Making children afraid of anything is stupid and irresponsible.  Teaching
> children caution, awareness, and the ability to exercise good judgment is
> far more important.

You are absolutely right, Shel.

A year or two ago, I was walking with my kids down the street in
Toronto, and a stranger walking the other direction on the sidewalk
smiled and said "hi".  I reciprocated.  Later that day, on the
streetcar, I engaged in some superficial conversation with a fellow
traveller.

My kids I noticed my kids snuggling against me as if they were
uncomfortable.   I asked what was wrong, and they said that their mom
(my ex) told them that it was wrong to talk to strangers.

They were afraid for my safety, because I was "talking with
strangers".  I had a long chat with them, letting them know that it's
okay to exchange pleasantries with people on the street, or have brief
conversations with people you don't know (although one must be careful
not to reveal too much personal info).  It's all part of living in
society.

I know with kids it can be difficult to teach such nuances.  It's
easier to make things black and white.  They like it that way, and
it's easier to teach that way.  Maybe it's easier to drill into them,
"don't talk to strangers", and once they've taken that to heart to
teach the exceptions.

Still, I found it sad that my kids seemed to walk the streets in fear
that they'd be approached or talked to.  I don't want to minimize the
problems of perverts and weirdos approaching little kids.  But, there
has to be some balance, and the post that started this thread shows
what can happen when that balance isn't kept.

-frank


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Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread Godfrey DiGiorgi


On Nov 29, 2005, at 6:00 AM, Rob Studdert wrote:


Sometimes I wonder about the sanity of the world at large. Sometimes
I just know, shake my head, and keep on doing what I do.


Great theory so long as the insanity doesn't land you in the clink.


;-) I keep an eye on self-preservation and my own sanity along the  
way ...


Godfrey



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread frank theriault
On 11/28/05, frank theriault <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> On 11/28/05, David Mann <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > Heard this on the radio this morning.
> >
> > http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920
> >
>
> Maybe they shouldn't let young boys travel alone?
>
> (although as a single father, I know that's not always possible)
>
> Sheesh - what's this world coming to?

Just looking at my post from yesterday, I shouldn't really have
specified "boys", but rather it should be "children"...

-frank

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Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread Rob Studdert
On 29 Nov 2005 at 4:55, Godfrey DiGiorgi wrote:
 
> Sometimes I wonder about the sanity of the world at large. Sometimes  
> I just know, shake my head, and keep on doing what I do.

Great theory so long as the insanity doesn't land you in the clink.


Rob Studdert
HURSTVILLE AUSTRALIA
Tel +61-2-9554-4110
UTC(GMT)  +10 Hours
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Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread Godfrey DiGiorgi
So with all this pedonoia nonsense floating about, two days ago I met  
up with my brother for lunch in his small town (West Nyack). Went  
into a hippy-dippy dessert & lunch restaurant, sitting in the back  
room. Five-six tables. In the corner of the room are these two young  
women with a little girl. The little girl is wearing those eyeglasses  
made for young children ... they look very goofy and cute on her.  
I've got the little Panasonic LX1 with me, start snapping pictures.  
Remember: two men sitting at a table, shooting across the room.


They notice me taking pictures, and start primping the little little  
girl to make cute faces and smile at the camera. Got one snap that  
looks really cute. We're about to leave ... walk over to their table,  
show them the photos on the LCD. They loved them. Gave 'em my card,  
told them to send me a note if they'd like a print. Nice folks, cute  
little girl. Sensible interaction.


Sometimes I wonder about the sanity of the world at large. Sometimes  
I just know, shake my head, and keep on doing what I do.


Godfrey



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread William Robb


- Original Message - 
From: "Malcolm Smith" 
Subject: RE: OT: latest pedonoia story




Bob Shell wrote:

Simple solution.  Make parents who want to put unaccompanied 
children on airplanes buy three seats and put the child in the middle.


Don't they have luggage racks on planes anymore?


Give em wing side seats.

William Robb



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread Eactivist
In a message dated 11/28/2005 4:11:13 PM Pacific Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Interestingly enough, I've been reading a thread on another, normally 
sensical, forum about a teacher who slept with her 14 year old student 
and had people saying it's perfectly all right for her to do so (And 
bravo to the boy) while simultaneously stating that if the sexes had 
been reversed it would have been despicable.

-Adam

HER doing that is despicable.

On a side note, I picked up a Mad magazine today. Haven't looked at one in 
years. One of the humorous articles (article? -- well, with cartoons) is about 
etiquette when dating one's teacher. Such as "It is not a good form to ask your 
school PTA to hold a bake sale to help pay your teacher's legal expenses." 
And "Like most people, teachers seldom enjoy mixing business with pleasure, so 
after a really steamy make-out session, don't ask her to give you extra credit."

Mad's changed a lot since I read it many long years ago.

But so has the world.

Marnie aka Doe 



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread Ralf R. Radermacher
Malcolm Smith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Don't they have luggage racks on planes anymore?

What about those boxes used for pets?

Come to think of it, the Spartans were really clever people. They kept
all those noisy stinking brats at some remote place in the woods until
they were legal.

Ralf

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RE: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-29 Thread Malcolm Smith
Bob Shell wrote:

> Simple solution.  Make parents who want to put unaccompanied 
> children on airplanes buy three seats and put the child in the middle.

Don't they have luggage racks on planes anymore?

Malcolm




Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread brooksdj
First impression: Were the hell is any one taking a child on a plane.Yes i kno 
a movie was
made,
but., fire suit on.

But cripers. Is this what the world is now.

If so.

Back it up and let me the F' off.

Dave

> 
> On Nov 28, 2005, at 5:46 PM, David Mann wrote:
> 
> > Heard this on the radio this morning.
> >
> > http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920
> 
> 
> Simple solution.  Make parents who want to put unaccompanied children  
> on airplanes buy three seats and put the child in the middle.
> 
> Bob
> 






Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Bob Shell


On Nov 28, 2005, at 5:46 PM, David Mann wrote:


Heard this on the radio this morning.

http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920



Simple solution.  Make parents who want to put unaccompanied children  
on airplanes buy three seats and put the child in the middle.


Bob



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread keith_w

David Mann wrote:


Heard this on the radio this morning.

http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920

- Dave


If the poor guy had had a camera around his neck, he'd probably be in 
jail by now!


keith whaley



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Adam Maas
Interestingly enough, I've been reading a thread on another, normally 
sensical, forum about a teacher who slept with her 14 year old student 
and had people saying it's perfectly all right for her to do so (And 
bravo to the boy) while simultaneously stating that if the sexes had 
been reversed it would have been despicable.


-Adam


graywolf wrote:


These are the first steps for doing away with men.

"Men are undesirable creatures anyway, and doing away with them 
entirely would be the best solution", said Ms Noseintheair.


"Also it is perfectly alright for women to behave inappropriately with 
children, or to abuse them in anyway." "That has always been womans' 
right."


"Men on the other hand should be euthanized at puberty."

graywolf
http://www.graywolfphoto.com
"Idiot Proof" <==> "Expert Proof"
---



David Mann wrote:


Heard this on the radio this morning.

http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920

- Dave






Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Cotty


>> >Be damned If I'd get out of my seat, they can change the child to an 
>> >adult but I wouldn't move. The whole thing is sad :-(
>> 
>> I'd move if it was to club or first class :-)))
>> 
>
>I don't think they'd give you an entire class, but they might upgrade you to
>a teenager.

Har!!!


Cheers,
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Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread P. J. Alling
You arrive at work on time, stay for your entire shift, and have a 
passing acquaintance with the English language, all rare traits today...


William Robb wrote:



- Original Message - From: "Godfrey DiGiorgi"
Subject: Re: OT: latest pedonoia story


Absolutely absurd. Making children afraid of adult men is so stupid  
as to be criminal.



I have had, on two seperate occassions, been told by unruly parents to 
not talk to their children, as they don't want them talking to strangers.
I, of course, practiced freedom of speech and association as outlined 
in our Charter of Rights and Freedoms, and continued interacting with 
them.

I generally mock that which I find to be stupid.

On the other side of the coin, I did threaten social services on a 
lady who smacked her kid across the face in front of me.


That went over well...

Sometimes, I wonder why I am still employed

William Robb





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	Run in circles, (scream and shout).




RE: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Bob W
> -Original Message-
> From: Cotty [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
> 

> >Be damned If I'd get out of my seat, they can change the child to an 
> >adult but I wouldn't move. The whole thing is sad :-(
> 
> I'd move if it was to club or first class :-)))
> 

I don't think they'd give you an entire class, but they might upgrade you to
a teenager.

Bob



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Shel Belinkoff
Making children afraid of anything is stupid and irresponsible.  Teaching
children caution, awareness, and the ability to exercise good judgment is
far more important.

Shel 
"You meet the nicest people with a Pentax" 


> [Original Message]
> From: Godfrey DiGiorgi 

> Absolutely absurd. Making children afraid of adult men is so stupid  
> as to be criminal.
>
> Godfrey
>
> On Nov 28, 2005, at 2:46 PM, David Mann wrote:
>
> > Heard this on the radio this morning.
> >
> > http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920




Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Cotty
On 29/11/05, Rob Studdert, discombobulated, unleashed:

>Be damned If I'd get out of my seat, they can change the child to an
>adult but 
>I wouldn't move. The whole thing is sad :-(

I'd move if it was to club or first class :-)))




Cheers,
  Cotty


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Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread William Robb


- Original Message - 
From: "Godfrey DiGiorgi"

Subject: Re: OT: latest pedonoia story


Absolutely absurd. Making children afraid of adult men is so stupid  as to 
be criminal.


I have had, on two seperate occassions, been told by unruly parents to not 
talk to their children, as they don't want them talking to strangers.
I, of course, practiced freedom of speech and association as outlined in our 
Charter of Rights and Freedoms, and continued interacting with them.

I generally mock that which I find to be stupid.

On the other side of the coin, I did threaten social services on a lady who 
smacked her kid across the face in front of me.


That went over well...

Sometimes, I wonder why I am still employed

William Robb 





Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread graywolf

These are the first steps for doing away with men.

"Men are undesirable creatures anyway, and doing away with them entirely 
would be the best solution", said Ms Noseintheair.


"Also it is perfectly alright for women to behave inappropriately with 
children, or to abuse them in anyway." "That has always been womans' right."


"Men on the other hand should be euthanized at puberty."

graywolf
http://www.graywolfphoto.com
"Idiot Proof" <==> "Expert Proof"
---



David Mann wrote:


Heard this on the radio this morning.

http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920

- Dave






Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Godfrey DiGiorgi
Absolutely absurd. Making children afraid of adult men is so stupid  
as to be criminal.


Godfrey

On Nov 28, 2005, at 2:46 PM, David Mann wrote:


Heard this on the radio this morning.

http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920

- Dave





Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Rob Studdert
On 29 Nov 2005 at 11:46, David Mann wrote:

> Heard this on the radio this morning.
> 
> http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920

Be damned If I'd get out of my seat, they can change the child to an adult but 
I wouldn't move. The whole thing is sad :-(


Rob Studdert
HURSTVILLE AUSTRALIA
Tel +61-2-9554-4110
UTC(GMT)  +10 Hours
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
http://members.ozemail.com.au/~distudio/publications/
Pentax user since 1986, PDMLer since 1998



Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread Cotty
On 29/11/05, David Mann, discombobulated, unleashed:

>Heard this on the radio this morning.
>
>http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920

Outrageous!!

I mean, a man with a beard I can understand, but - - !!

->  ;-)




Cheers,
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Re: OT: latest pedonoia story

2005-11-28 Thread frank theriault
On 11/28/05, David Mann <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Heard this on the radio this morning.
>
> http://seven.com.au/news/worldnews/124920
>

Maybe they shouldn't let young boys travel alone?

(although as a single father, I know that's not always possible)

Sheesh - what's this world coming to?

-frank


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"Sharpness is a bourgeois concept."  -Henri Cartier-Bresson