Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-25 Thread Alvaro Herrera
Bruce Momjian wrote:

 I think this is the crux of the problem --- if I subscribed to multiple
 email lists, and some have rely going to the list and some have
 reply going to the author, I would have to think about the right reply
 option every time I send email.

That's not really the case.  I always use reply to all in mutt (the
g key) and it always work; in all the lists I subscribe (including
those which set reply-to) and in personal email too.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-24 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2008-10-23 15:52:30, schrieb ries van Twisk:
 anyways.. I don't care anymore... I will do a reply all.

I do normaly:  killall   ;-)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Bruce Momjian
Greg Smith wrote:
 On Fri, 17 Oct 2008, Bill Moran wrote:
 
  You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
  because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
  number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
  you.
 
 Mikkel is right, every other well-organized mailing list I've ever been on 
 handles things the sensible way he suggests, but everybody on his side 
 who's been on lists here for a while already knows this issue is a dead 
 horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just 
 work around that the settings here are weird, it does annoy me a bit 
 anytime I stop to think about it though.

I think this is the crux of the problem --- if I subscribed to multiple
email lists, and some have rely going to the list and some have
reply going to the author, I would have to think about the right reply
option every time I send email.

Fortunately, every email list I subscribe to and manage behaves like the
Postgres lists.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Collin Kidder

Bruce Momjian wrote:


Mikkel is right, every other well-organized mailing list I've ever been on 
handles things the sensible way he suggests, but everybody on his side 
who's been on lists here for a while already knows this issue is a dead 
horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just 
work around that the settings here are weird, it does annoy me a bit 
anytime I stop to think about it though.



I think this is the crux of the problem --- if I subscribed to multiple
email lists, and some have rely going to the list and some have
reply going to the author, I would have to think about the right reply
option every time I send email.

Fortunately, every email list I subscribe to and manage behaves like the
Postgres lists.

  


I find it difficult to believe that every list you subscribe to behaves 
as the Postgres list does. Not that I'm doubting you, just that it's 
difficult given that the PG list is the ONLY list I've ever been on to 
use Reply as just replying to the author. Every other list I've ever 
seen has reply as the list address and requires Reply All to reply to 
the original poster. Thus, I would fall into the category of people who 
have to think hard in order to do the correct thing when posting to this 
list.


I've checked and I can't even find an option to make Thunderbird (the 
client I use in windows) reply to the list properly with the reply 
button (it just cannot be set that way.) You must use Reply All. You 
might say that that makes Thunderbird crippled but I see it more as a 
sign that nobody outside of a few fussy RFC worshipping types would ever 
want the behavior of the Postgre list. Yes, I'll have to live with the 
current behavior. Yes, it's an RFC standard. But, even after having 
heard the arguments I'm not convinced that this list's behavior is 
desirable. YMMV.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread ries van Twisk


On Oct 23, 2008, at 12:25 PM, Collin Kidder wrote:


Bruce Momjian wrote:


Mikkel is right, every other well-organized mailing list I've ever  
been on handles things the sensible way he suggests, but everybody  
on his side who's been on lists here for a while already knows  
this issue is a dead horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail  
client on the market I just work around that the settings here are  
weird, it does annoy me a bit anytime I stop to think about it  
though.




I think this is the crux of the problem --- if I subscribed to  
multiple

email lists, and some have rely going to the list and some have
reply going to the author, I would have to think about the right  
reply

option every time I send email.

Fortunately, every email list I subscribe to and manage behaves  
like the

Postgres lists.




I find it difficult to believe that every list you subscribe to  
behaves as the Postgres list does. Not that I'm doubting you, just  
that it's difficult given that the PG list is the ONLY list I've  
ever been on to use Reply as just replying to the author. Every  
other list I've ever seen has reply as the list address and requires  
Reply All to reply to the original poster. Thus, I would fall into  
the category of people who have to think hard in order to do the  
correct thing when posting to this list.


I have the same experience, only PG list seems to behave different.

In my humble opinion I feel that I am subscribed to the list (It also  
says on the bottom Sent via pgsql-general mailing list (pgsql-general@postgresql.org 
)), so a reply (not reply all --- remove original author) should go  
back to the list where I am subscribed at, in in my opinion the source  
is the list aswell (that's why I am getting it in the first place).





I've checked and I can't even find an option to make Thunderbird  
(the client I use in windows) reply to the list properly with the  
reply button (it just cannot be set that way.) You must use Reply  
All. You might say that that makes Thunderbird crippled but I see it  
more as a sign that nobody outside of a few fussy RFC worshipping  
types would ever want the behavior of the Postgre list. Yes, I'll  
have to live with the current behavior. Yes, it's an RFC standard.  
But, even after having heard the arguments I'm not convinced that  
this list's behavior is desirable. YMMV.


mail.App is crippled aswell.. I think I will install Mutt again for  
convenience --- just kidding...


Ries








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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Alan Hodgson
On Thursday 23 October 2008, Collin Kidder [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 You must use Reply All. You
 might say that that makes Thunderbird crippled but I see it more as a
 sign that nobody outside of a few fussy RFC worshipping types would ever
 want the behavior of the Postgre list. Yes, I'll have to live with the
 current behavior. Yes, it's an RFC standard. But, even after having
 heard the arguments I'm not convinced that this list's behavior is
 desirable. YMMV.

If it bugs you that much, just fix it for yourself.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Angel Alvarez
El Jueves 23 Octubre 2008 Collin Kidder escribió:

  horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just 
  work around that the settings here are weird, it does annoy me a bit 
  anytime I stop to think about it though.

What's such most advanced mail reader??

No one, ive seen, seems to be perfect nor thunderbird.
By the way kmail has 4 options (reply, reply to all, reply to author, reply to 
list) 
in addition to be able to use list headers included in the message. 

in fact many other mail-list dont have such extended features, as not all of 
the 
previous 4 options works as expected. For me this makes postgres lists the most
complete about the RFC.

So is about, thunderbird to move forward one step, not to cripple standars back.
In fact this remembers me the M$ way of doing things..

Regards, Angel


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Raymond O'Donnell
On 23/10/2008 19:09, Angel Alvarez wrote:

 No one, ive seen, seems to be perfect nor thunderbird.
 By the way kmail has 4 options (reply, reply to all, reply to author, reply 
 to list) 
 in addition to be able to use list headers included in the message. 

Here's a reply to list add-on for ThunderBird - it's marked
experimental, but may be worth a try:

   https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/thunderbird/addon/4455

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Collin Kidder

Angel Alvarez wrote:

What's such most advanced mail reader??

No one, ive seen, seems to be perfect nor thunderbird.
By the way kmail has 4 options (reply, reply to all, reply to author, reply to list) 
in addition to be able to use list headers included in the message. 

in fact many other mail-list dont have such extended features, as not all of the 
previous 4 options works as expected. For me this makes postgres lists the most

complete about the RFC.

So is about, thunderbird to move forward one step, not to cripple standars back.
In fact this remembers me the M$ way of doing things..

Regards, Angel


  


One could argue that a standard which is respected by nobody but a few 
people from this list is NOT a standard but rather a botched attempt at 
creating a standard which no one wanted.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Angel Alvarez
Well

but the RFC's were in fact prior to thunderbird
So for he most of its life, when few people was using it, 
Thiunderbird was a sad example of your botched attempt of creating a
standar of NOT FOLLOWING THE RFC's...

Well, also M$ thought they invented internet so its a common mistake.

May be you can push Thunderbird guys a bit to include a little more funcionailty
other than complaining others that try to follow what to seemed to be the right 
way.

Are we going to try be standars compliant or we keep trying to reinvent the 
wheel?

Poor RFC people, what a waste of time...

Regards, Angel

El Jueves 23 Octubre 2008 Collin Kidder escribió:
 Angel Alvarez wrote:
  What's such most advanced mail reader??
 
  No one, ive seen, seems to be perfect nor thunderbird.
  By the way kmail has 4 options (reply, reply to all, reply to author, reply 
  to list) 
  in addition to be able to use list headers included in the message. 
 
  in fact many other mail-list dont have such extended features, as not all 
  of the 
  previous 4 options works as expected. For me this makes postgres lists the 
  most
  complete about the RFC.
 
  So is about, thunderbird to move forward one step, not to cripple standars 
  back.
  In fact this remembers me the M$ way of doing things..
 
  Regards, Angel
 
 

 
 One could argue that a standard which is respected by nobody but a few 
 people from this list is NOT a standard but rather a botched attempt at 
 creating a standard which no one wanted.
 



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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Collin Kidder

Angel Alvarez wrote:

Well

but the RFC's were in fact prior to thunderbird
So for he most of its life, when few people was using it, 
Thiunderbird was a sad example of your botched attempt of creating a

standar of NOT FOLLOWING THE RFC's...
  
But, as I mentioned, nobody cares about this particular standard. In my 
opinion a standard which is totally ignored by almost everyone is 
effectively dead and worthless.



Well, also M$ thought they invented internet so its a common mistake.
  


I thought that was Al Gore that invented the internet. ;-)


May be you can push Thunderbird guys a bit to include a little more funcionailty
other than complaining others that try to follow what to seemed to be the right 
way.

Are we going to try be standars compliant or we keep trying to reinvent the 
wheel?

Poor RFC people, what a waste of time...
  
Standards are all well and good but anything should be evaluated for 
it's utility. If a standard is undesirable then it's undesirable. Most 
mailing lists do not exhibit the same behavior as this list not because 
they are all ignorant of the standard but because they feel that 
following the standard is not desirable. I'm perfectly fine to follow 
the convention of this list. Some lists like top posting. Not this one. 
That's ok, I'll bottom or interleaved post. All I'm saying is that one 
cannot look to standards as gospel and disengage their brains. It's 
perfectly acceptable to say 'this standard sucks!' And so, I along with 
a couple of other people from this list, say 'this standard sucks.'


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On standards weenies (was: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To)

2008-10-23 Thread Andrew Sullivan
On Thu, Oct 23, 2008 at 01:25:47PM -0400, Collin Kidder wrote:

 that that makes Thunderbird crippled but I see it more as a sign that 
 nobody outside of a few fussy RFC worshipping types would ever want the 
 behavior of the Postgre list. 

Indeed.  And PostgreSQL not interpreting '' as NULL, or '2008-02-31'
as a date, or other such silly strictness is just the imposition on
you of the personal views of a few fussy ANSI worshipping types.
Nobody would ever want such behaviour.

Of course, you could consider that the behaviour as defined in the
standards, which are there to ensure good interoperability, were
written over many years by painstaking standards weenie types who
spent a great amount of time thinking about the advantages and
disadvantages of these various options.[1]  Or perhaps you think that
you're the only person to whom it ever occurred that some different
behaviour might be desirable?

Sorry, but pointing and laughing at people with whom you disagree
doesn't constitute an argument.  Relying on an appeal to popularity
is, in fact, a well-known fallacy (sometimes known as _ad populum_).
If you want to argue that the standard is wrong, you need something
better than this.  Alternatively, please go stand in the corner with
the people who think that MySQL version 3.x is the pinnacle of correct
database behaviour.

A

[1] To pick an example I can think of off the top of my head, you
would not believe just how much wrangling has gone on this year alone
over whether the ß character (LATIN SMALL LETTER SHARP S) should or
should not be allowed into internationalized domain names.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Steve Atkins


On Oct 23, 2008, at 12:01 PM, Collin Kidder wrote:


Angel Alvarez wrote:

Well

but the RFC's were in fact prior to thunderbird
So for he most of its life, when few people was using it,  
Thiunderbird was a sad example of your botched attempt of creating a

standar of NOT FOLLOWING THE RFC's...

But, as I mentioned, nobody cares about this particular standard. In  
my opinion a standard which is totally ignored by almost everyone is  
effectively dead and worthless.


If you don't like it (and this applies to everyone else arguing about  
it, on either side) please do one of these three things:


1. Fix it locally at your end, as is trivial to do with procmail,  
amongst other approaches, and quit whining about it.


or

2. Quit whining about it.

or

3. Find somewhere else to whine about it and quit whining about it here.

Cheers,
  Steve


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Greg Smith

On Thu, 23 Oct 2008, Angel Alvarez wrote:


horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just
work around that the settings here are weird


What's such most advanced mail reader??


That quoted bit was actually from me, I was hoping to get a laugh out of 
anyone who actually looked at the header of my messages to see what I use. 
Or perhaps start a flamewar with those deviant mutt users; that would be 
about as productive as the continued existence of this thread.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Alvaro Herrera
Greg Smith escribió:
 On Thu, 23 Oct 2008, Angel Alvarez wrote:

 horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just
 work around that the settings here are weird

 What's such most advanced mail reader??

 That quoted bit was actually from me, I was hoping to get a laugh out of  
 anyone who actually looked at the header of my messages to see what I 
 use.

You did get a laugh from me, one of those deviant mutt users ;-)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread ries van Twisk


On Oct 23, 2008, at 3:44 PM, Greg Smith wrote:


On Thu, 23 Oct 2008, Angel Alvarez wrote:

horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the  
market I just

work around that the settings here are weird


What's such most advanced mail reader??


That quoted bit was actually from me, I was hoping to get a laugh  
out of anyone who actually looked at the header of my messages to  
see what I use. Or perhaps start a flamewar with those deviant mutt  
users; that would be about as productive as the continued existence  
of this thread.



Just checked... it says : Sender: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Does that mean a reply should go back to the sender :D Just  
kidding



anyways.. I don't care anymore... I will do a reply all.


regards, Ries van Twisk


-
A: Because it messes up the order in which people normally read text.
Q: Why is top-posting such a bad thing?
A: Top-posting.
Q: What is the most annoying thing in e-mail?


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Dave Coventry
2008/10/23 Steve Atkins [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
 If you don't like it (and this applies to everyone else arguing about it, on
 either side) please do one of these three things:

 1. Fix it locally at your end, as is trivial to do with procmail, amongst
 other approaches, and quit whining about it.

 or

 2. Quit whining about it.

 or

 3. Find somewhere else to whine about it and quit whining about it here.

 Cheers,
  Steve

 On Fri, 17 Oct 2008, Bill Moran wrote:

  You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
  because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
  number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
  you.

Personally I am of the view that, as I am on this list principally to
get support from it, and I am quite prepared to submit to the vagaries
and oddities of the list behaviour in pursuit of the answers I might
seek.

As such, I am quite prepared to 1) Fix it my end, 2) Quit whining
about it and 3) Find something else to whine about.

However, the point is made by Bill that 'only one person' might feel
that the reply-to configuration could be improved, and I feel
compelled to say that, while I might not be driven to complain about
the list behaviour myself, I do feel that the OP does have a point.

And that's all that I'm going to say on the matter.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Aarni
Hulou hjuvat folkenbergers und goody good peoples ute po daer in allas e 
oceanos / terranos,

I chose to 'Reply to Mailing-List' in my preferred mail app. (Kmail on Ubuntu 
8.10) I really don't know why ... but shore hope, mean sure, as in truly, this 
is hopefully not an annoying postage broadcastung. wink, lol, capatcha, 
tsajajaja, manolito!

Furthermore, I am pop to(a)sting. Phonetically reversed, top posting.

Puff the embers every once and a while. To have [a] flame[s] --help?.

Keep on keepin' on.

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(laughing it off)?

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1. I wish

2. I had a button that kept me from sending silly messages.

3. Whoops, still not do.

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On Thursday 23 October 2008 23:54:41 Dave Coventry wrote:
 2008/10/23 Steve Atkins [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
  If you don't like it (and this applies to everyone else arguing about it,
  on either side) please do one of these three things:
 
  1. Fix it locally at your end, as is trivial to do with procmail

Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Rob Wultsch
On Thu, Oct 23, 2008 at 10:42 AM, ries van Twisk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 On Oct 23, 2008, at 12:25 PM, Collin Kidder wrote:

  Bruce Momjian wrote:


 Mikkel is right, every other well-organized mailing list I've ever been
 on handles things the sensible way he suggests, but everybody on his side
 who's been on lists here for a while already knows this issue is a dead
 horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just
 work around that the settings here are weird, it does annoy me a bit 
 anytime
 I stop to think about it though.


 I think this is the crux of the problem --- if I subscribed to multiple
 email lists, and some have rely going to the list and some have
 reply going to the author, I would have to think about the right reply
 option every time I send email.

 Fortunately, every email list I subscribe to and manage behaves like the
 Postgres lists.



 I find it difficult to believe that every list you subscribe to behaves as
 the Postgres list does. Not that I'm doubting you, just that it's difficult
 given that the PG list is the ONLY list I've ever been on to use Reply as
 just replying to the author. Every other list I've ever seen has reply as
 the list address and requires Reply All to reply to the original poster.
 Thus, I would fall into the category of people who have to think hard in
 order to do the correct thing when posting to this list.


 I have the same experience, only PG list seems to behave different.

 In my humble opinion I feel that I am subscribed to the list (It also says
 on the bottom Sent via pgsql-general mailing list (
 pgsql-general@postgresql.org)), so a reply (not reply all --- remove
 original author) should go back to the list where I am subscribed at, in in
 my opinion the source is the list aswell (that's why I am getting it in the
 first place).


I know of at least one other list that is similar: MySQL.

And I brought it up a year ago with no eventual change:
http://lists.mysql.com/mysql/209593

After a while you just get used to hitting reply all when you mean to reply
all. I now prefer (though not strongly) this setting.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-23 Thread Guy Rouillier

Raymond O'Donnell wrote:

On 23/10/2008 19:09, Angel Alvarez wrote:


No one, ive seen, seems to be perfect nor thunderbird.
By the way kmail has 4 options (reply, reply to all, reply to author, reply to list) 
in addition to be able to use list headers included in the message. 


Here's a reply to list add-on for ThunderBird - it's marked
experimental, but may be worth a try:

   https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/thunderbird/addon/4455


Works great!  Thanks, Ray - no more complaints from me ;).  Anyone using 
Thunderbird to read this list would benefit from this add-on.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-21 Thread Peter Eisentraut
On Friday 17 October 2008 22:01:33 Guy Rouillier wrote:
 When I use Reply All in Thunderbird, it adds a To: to each of the
 individuals in the discussion, and a CC: to the list.  Since I
 personally don't like receiving multiple copies of emails from this
 list, I delete all of the To: addressees and change the list from
 CC: to To:.  Would be nice if everyone did the same.

Set the eliminatecc option in your majordomo configuration to avoid getting 
duplicate mail.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-21 Thread Aidan Van Dyk
* Guy Rouillier [EMAIL PROTECTED] [081001 00:00]:
 Bill Moran wrote:
 You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
 because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
 number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
 you.
 
 I'm another in the crowd that had this same discussion when I joined 
 years ago.  I had the same point of view as Mikkel, but I've adapted to 
 the community way of doing things.
 
 When I use Reply All in Thunderbird, it adds a To: to each of the 
 individuals in the discussion, and a CC: to the list.  Since I 
 personally don't like receiving multiple copies of emails from this 
 list, I delete all of the To: addressees and change the list from 
 CC: to To:.  Would be nice if everyone did the same.

Since you asked, I did. 

But now, if the list munged my reply-to, how would you get back to me?

Clicking on the author, as the 2nd link Greg posted suggested *won't*
work.  In fact, my MUA explicitly told you how to get back to me (by
setting a reply-to), but if the MLM munged that...
 
/me is glad that PostgreSQL doesn't just insert NULL when I give it an
empty string, just because NULL is pretty much the same thing ;-)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-21 Thread Guy Rouillier

Aidan Van Dyk wrote:

But now, if the list munged my reply-to, how would you get back to me?


I wouldn't ;).  The whole point of a mailing list is to have discussions 
with the list.  If I wanted to correspond with you directly, I wouldn't 
use the list for that.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-21 Thread Greg Smith

On Fri, 17 Oct 2008, Aidan Van Dyk wrote:


But now, if the list munged my reply-to, how would you get back to me?


Why'd you have to interrupt a perfectly good, unwinnable idealogical 
argument with a technical question?  While there is only one reply-to 
allowed for a message, you can put multiple addresses in there.  It is not 
necessarily the case that a list that munges the header must be lossy 
(although majordomo isn't a good example here[1]).  As most incoming list 
messages around only have a from, not a reply-to, you can usefully add 
reply-to for regular messages to redirect them to the list (the goal 
people who are pro list-based reply to want) and append the list address 
to any existing reply-to for the occasional odd message that specifies it 
directly, like yours I'm replying to.


As for an actual implementation of good behavior here, see the end of 
http://www.gnu.org/software/mailman/mailman-admin/node11.html for one 
example of list software that supports adding a reply-to without stripping 
any already there off in the process.


From a RFC 5322 standards-based perspective, I see the crux of the 
argument like this:  the reply-to is supposed to be set to the 
address(es) to which the author of the message suggests that replies be 
sent.  The RFC says the author is the mailbox(es) of the person(s) or 
system(s) responsible for the writing of the message.  I don't think it's 
completely unreasonable to say the system running the mailing list 
originating the actual message into my account could be considered a 
co-author of it by that definition.  It's a system with a mailbox that's 
responsible for me receiving the message, and the fact that it does touch 
some headers says it's writing part of the message (if you consider the 
header part of the message, which I do).


I'm OK that such interpretation is not considered correct, but it does bug 
me a bit that most of the arguments I see against it are either strawman 
or appeal to authority based rather than focusing on the practical. 
You'd be better focusing on real-world issues like oh, if reply-to were 
set to the list, every idiot subscribed with an auto-reply that doesn't 
respect the bulk precedence would hit the whole list, thereby introducing 
the potential for an endless mail-loop; now that is much easier to 
swallow as a problem for a large list than RFC trivia.


[1] majordomo doesn't handle this very well out of the box as far as I 
know.  I believe its only behavior is still to only replace the reply-to 
with the list address.  You can insert something in between where messages 
are approved as list-worthy (attachments aren't too big, etc.) and when 
resend is called to implement the same feature:  add or extend the 
reply-to with the list address while not losing any explicit reply-to in 
the original.  But I think you still have to hack it in there yourself, as 
I did once long ago.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-20 Thread Michelle Konzack
Hi Martinn, here the great Dictator Michelle!

Am 2008-10-17 10:24:44, schrieb Martin Gainty:
 
 free unfettered and open discussion without interference from ANY entity is a 
 requirement of a democracy
 the REAL question is ..is this a democracy???

Shut-Up or I will install you Micr0$of SQL Server...  LOL  ;-)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-20 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2008-10-17 08:12:00, schrieb Scott Marlowe:
 I prefer the list the way it is.  And so do a very large, very silent
 majority of users.

pip I agree with you.

I am on Mailinglist since I use the Internet (1995) and  there  are  not
very much mailinglists which manipulate the Reply-To: Header...

So, I prefer, HOW this list is.

Of course, I reply with l or Reply-To-List.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-20 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2008-10-17 08:42:46, schrieb Andrew Sullivan:
 My suggestion would be to use a mail user agent that knows how to read
 the list headers, which were standardized many years ago.  Then you
 reply to list.  Mutt has done this for at least a few years now.  I
 don't know about other MUAs.

N.C.  ;-)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-20 Thread Martin Gainty

since you are not an advocate of democracy I bid you adieu
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 Am 2008-10-17 10:24:44, schrieb Martin Gainty:
  
  free unfettered and open discussion without interference from ANY entity is 
  a requirement of a democracy
  the REAL question is ..is this a democracy???
 
 Shut-Up or I will install you Micr0$of SQL Server...  LOL  ;-)
 
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[GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Mikkel Høgh


On 17/10/2008, at 12.24, Tomasz Ostrowski wrote:


On 2008-10-17 12:13, Mikkel Høgh wrote:


You're supposed to use Reply to all if you want to reply to the
list.


Well, I think the most common use case for a mailing list is to reply
back to the list, isn't that the whole point?


It is a point of having Reply to all button. With reply-to is it
hard to reply to one person, easy to reply to the list. Without it  
it is

both easy.


But again, how often do you want to give a personal reply only? That  
is a valid use-case, but I'd say amongst the hundreds of mailing-list  
replies I've written over the years, only two or three were not sent  
back to the mailing list.





Personally I find it annoying that I get two copies of each reply to
one of my posts, one that is filtered into the mailinglist folder
because it has the correct X-Mailing-List header and the other just
sits there in my inbox, wasting both bandwidth and disk space in the
process.


So set reply-to in messages you send by yourself - it will be honored.


Yay, even more manual labour instead of having the computers doing the  
work for us. What's your next suggestion, go back to pen and paper?






Besides, the if the Reply-To thing is so dangerous, why do most other
mailing lists do it?


for i in Windows MySQL IE Sweets Alcohol etc.; do
echo If using $i is so dangerous, why do most do it?
done



Well, my point is that Reply-To: is only dangerous if you're not  
careful. Not so with the other examples you mention :)


If you're writing something important, private and/or confidential,  
don't you always check before you send? You'd better, because a small  
typo when you selected the recipient might mean that you're sending  
love-letters to your boss or something like that :)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Bill Moran
In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:

 
 On 17/10/2008, at 12.24, Tomasz Ostrowski wrote:
 
  On 2008-10-17 12:13, Mikkel Høgh wrote:
 
  You're supposed to use Reply to all if you want to reply to the
  list.
 
  Well, I think the most common use case for a mailing list is to reply
  back to the list, isn't that the whole point?
 
  It is a point of having Reply to all button. With reply-to is it
  hard to reply to one person, easy to reply to the list. Without it  
  it is
  both easy.
 
 But again, how often do you want to give a personal reply only? That  
 is a valid use-case, but I'd say amongst the hundreds of mailing-list  
 replies I've written over the years, only two or three were not sent  
 back to the mailing list.

You're forgetting the cost of a mistake in that case.

As it stands, if you hit reply when you meant reply-to, oops, resend.

If it's changed and you hit reply when you want to send a private message
to the poster, you just broadcast your private message to the world.

 Yay, even more manual labour instead of having the computers doing the  
 work for us. What's your next suggestion, go back to pen and paper?

Don't be an asshole.  There's no need for that kind of cynicism.

 Well, my point is that Reply-To: is only dangerous if you're not  
 careful. Not so with the other examples you mention :)

But as it is now, it's not dangerous at all.

 If you're writing something important, private and/or confidential,  
 don't you always check before you send? You'd better, because a small  
 typo when you selected the recipient might mean that you're sending  
 love-letters to your boss or something like that :)

I'd rather know that the computer had my back in the case of an error,
instead of it helping me mindlessly even when I'm doing the wrong thing.
To me, that's also the difference between MySQL and PostgreSQL.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Mikkel Høgh


On 17/10/2008, at 13.20, Bill Moran wrote:


In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:



On 17/10/2008, at 12.24, Tomasz Ostrowski wrote:

But again, how often do you want to give a personal reply only? That
is a valid use-case, but I'd say amongst the hundreds of mailing-list
replies I've written over the years, only two or three were not sent
back to the mailing list.


You're forgetting the cost of a mistake in that case.

As it stands, if you hit reply when you meant reply-to, oops, resend.

If it's changed and you hit reply when you want to send a private  
message

to the poster, you just broadcast your private message to the world.


And again, how often does this happen? How often do people write  
really sensitive e-mails based on messages on pgsql-general.


Because if we wanted to be really safe, we should not even send the  
mailing-list address along, so even if someone used the reply-all  
button, he could not accidentally post his private e-mail on the web.


In true McDonalds-style, we could change the mailing-list-address to  
be [EMAIL PROTECTED]


How far are you willing to go to protect people against themselves?

Yay, even more manual labour instead of having the computers doing  
the

work for us. What's your next suggestion, go back to pen and paper?


Don't be an asshole.  There's no need for that kind of cynicism.


In my opinion, asking for sane defaults is neither cynicism or being  
an asshole.
I may have put it on an edge, but having to manually add a Reply-To  
header to each message I send to pgsql-general is not my idea of fun.






Well, my point is that Reply-To: is only dangerous if you're not
careful. Not so with the other examples you mention :)


But as it is now, it's not dangerous at all.


No, just annoying and a waste of time, energy, bandwidth and  
ultimately, money.






If you're writing something important, private and/or confidential,
don't you always check before you send? You'd better, because a small
typo when you selected the recipient might mean that you're sending
love-letters to your boss or something like that :)


I'd rather know that the computer had my back in the case of an error,
instead of it helping me mindlessly even when I'm doing the wrong  
thing.

To me, that's also the difference between MySQL and PostgreSQL.



Well, in the above case, the computer doesn't have your back. If you  
told it to send the e-mail to Marty Boss instead of Maggie Blond,  
that's exactly what it'll do.


Currently, when I tell my computer to reply to a message on the pgsql  
mailing list, it'll do something else, because who ever set it up  
decided to cater to the 0.1% edge-case instead of just having the  
default action be what it should be 99.5% of the time.


You may not care about usability or user experience, but remember that  
what seems to be correct from a technical perpective is not always the  
right thing to do.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Bill Moran
In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
 
 On 17/10/2008, at 13.20, Bill Moran wrote:
 
  In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
 
  On 17/10/2008, at 12.24, Tomasz Ostrowski wrote:
 
  But again, how often do you want to give a personal reply only? That
  is a valid use-case, but I'd say amongst the hundreds of mailing-list
  replies I've written over the years, only two or three were not sent
  back to the mailing list.
 
  You're forgetting the cost of a mistake in that case.
 
  As it stands, if you hit reply when you meant reply-to, oops, resend.
 
  If it's changed and you hit reply when you want to send a private  
  message
  to the poster, you just broadcast your private message to the world.
 
 And again, how often does this happen? How often do people write  
 really sensitive e-mails based on messages on pgsql-general.

It happens very infrequently.  You're ignoring me and constantly trying
to refocus away from my real argument.  The frequency is not the
justification, it's the severity that justifies it.

If we save one overworked DBA per year from endangering their job online,
I say it's worth it.

 How far are you willing to go to protect people against themselves?

Personally, I'm willing to go so far as to expect the person to think
about whether to hit reply or reply-to before sending the mail.  I don't
see that as unreasonable.

 but having to manually add a Reply-To  
 header to each message I send to pgsql-general is not my idea of fun.

I was not aware that Apple Mail was such a primitive email client.  You
should consider switching to something that has a reply-to button.  I'm
very disappointed in Apple.

 You may not care about usability or user experience, but remember that  
 what seems to be correct from a technical perpective is not always the  
 right thing to do.

As I said, consider getting a real email client if this is wasting so
much of your time.  It doesn't cause me any undue effort.

Or, you could just be lonely.  I think you've spent enough man hours
complaining about this to manually work around the problem for several
years, which blows your this wastes too much of my valuable time
argument out of the water.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Tom Lane
=?ISO-8859-1?Q?Mikkel_H=F8gh?= [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
 Yay, even more manual labour instead of having the computers doing the  
 work for us. What's your next suggestion, go back to pen and paper?

Please stop wasting everyone's time with this.  The list policy has
been debated adequately in the past.  You are not going to change it.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Michael Glaesemann


On Oct 17, 2008, at 8:01 , Bill Moran wrote:


In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:


but having to manually add a Reply-To
header to each message I send to pgsql-general is not my idea of fun.


I was not aware that Apple Mail was such a primitive email client.   
You
should consider switching to something that has a reply-to button.   
I'm

very disappointed in Apple.


It's not. It has Reply and Reply All buttons for the clicky-clicky  
folk, and keyboard shortcuts for each as well.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Mikkel Høgh


On 17/10/2008, at 14.01, Bill Moran wrote:


In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:


On 17/10/2008, at 13.20, Bill Moran wrote:


In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:


On 17/10/2008, at 12.24, Tomasz Ostrowski wrote:

But again, how often do you want to give a personal reply only?  
That
is a valid use-case, but I'd say amongst the hundreds of mailing- 
list
replies I've written over the years, only two or three were not  
sent

back to the mailing list.


You're forgetting the cost of a mistake in that case.

As it stands, if you hit reply when you meant reply-to, oops,  
resend.


If it's changed and you hit reply when you want to send a private
message
to the poster, you just broadcast your private message to the world.


And again, how often does this happen? How often do people write
really sensitive e-mails based on messages on pgsql-general.


It happens very infrequently.  You're ignoring me and constantly  
trying

to refocus away from my real argument.  The frequency is not the
justification, it's the severity that justifies it.

If we save one overworked DBA per year from endangering their job  
online,

I say it's worth it.


How far are you willing to go to protect people against themselves?


Personally, I'm willing to go so far as to expect the person to think
about whether to hit reply or reply-to before sending the mail.  I  
don't

see that as unreasonable.


Well, neither is checking whether you're sending it the right place  
unreasonable. The difference here being if you have to do it each time  
you're posting to the mailing list or that once in a blue moon where  
there's something that should remain private.

So I respect





but having to manually add a Reply-To
header to each message I send to pgsql-general is not my idea of fun.


I was not aware that Apple Mail was such a primitive email client.   
You
should consider switching to something that has a reply-to button.   
I'm

very disappointed in Apple.


You should read the original post. Thomas suggested So set reply-to  
in messages you send by yourself - it will be honored.. That's what  
I'm talking about here, not Reply All-buttons (which it has, with  
reasonable keyboard shortcuts, even). I can also add a Reply-To:  
field on my composer window and even have it pre-filled for all my  
outgoing email, but the features of my MUA are not point here :)





You may not care about usability or user experience, but remember  
that
what seems to be correct from a technical perpective is not always  
the

right thing to do.


As I said, consider getting a real email client if this is wasting so
much of your time.  It doesn't cause me any undue effort.

It's good for me, so it's good for everyone


Or, you could just be lonely.


I resent that you're trying to make this a personal thing.


I think you've spent enough man hours
complaining about this to manually work around the problem for several
years, which blows your this wastes too much of my valuable time
argument out of the water.



And it's not as much time as it is energy. I've only used this mailing- 
list for a few days, and I've already had to manually resend mails to  
the mailing-list several times. If I manage to save myself from that  
only 5 times, i figure talking this debate has been worth it :)




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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Mikkel Høgh

On 17/10/2008, at 14.06, Tom Lane wrote:


=?ISO-8859-1?Q?Mikkel_H=F8gh?= [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Yay, even more manual labour instead of having the computers doing  
the

work for us. What's your next suggestion, go back to pen and paper?


Please stop wasting everyone's time with this.  The list policy has
been debated adequately in the past.  You are not going to change it.


 It is probably going to come up again every once in a while, as long  
as it's not changed, but I will respect your wishes.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Andrew Sullivan
On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 01:02:57PM +0200, Mikkel Høgh wrote:
 Yay, even more manual labour instead of having the computers doing the work 
 for us. What's your next suggestion, go back to pen and paper?

My suggestion would be to use a mail user agent that knows how to read
the list headers, which were standardized many years ago.  Then you
reply to list.  Mutt has done this for at least a few years now.  I
don't know about other MUAs.

A


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Bill Moran
In response to Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
 
 On 17/10/2008, at 14.01, Bill Moran wrote:
 
  Or, you could just be lonely.
 
 I resent that you're trying to make this a personal thing.

I was going to answer the rest of this email, then I realized that the
real problem was right here, and discussing anything else was dancing
around the issue and wasting time.

You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
you.

I'm not saying your problems aren't real, I'm just saying you're apparently
the only person in this community that has enough trouble with them to
take the time to start a discussion.  To that degree, the problem is
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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Stephen Frost
* Bill Moran ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:
 You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
 because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
 number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
 you.

Ugh.  No one else is jumping in simply because we've already been
through all of this and it hasn't and isn't going to change.  The PG
lists are the odd ones out here, not the other way around, I assure you.
One might compare it to our continued use of CVS.  It's wrong and
backwards and all that, but most of the PG community is used to it and
changing is a pain.  shrug.

Enjoy,

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Greg Smith

On Fri, 17 Oct 2008, Bill Moran wrote:


You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
you.


Mikkel is right, every other well-organized mailing list I've ever been on 
handles things the sensible way he suggests, but everybody on his side 
who's been on lists here for a while already knows this issue is a dead 
horse.  Since I use the most advanced e-mail client on the market I just 
work around that the settings here are weird, it does annoy me a bit 
anytime I stop to think about it though.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Andrew Sullivan
On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 09:27:46AM -0400, Greg Smith wrote:

 Mikkel is right, every other well-organized mailing list I've ever been on 
 handles things the sensible way he suggests, but everybody on his side 

They may be well-organized, but they're doing bad things to the mail
headers.  RFC 5322 (which just obsoleted 2822) says this:

   When the Reply-To: field is present, it
   indicates the address(es) to which the author of the message suggests
   that replies be sent.

The mailing list is not the author of the message.  Therefore it
should not alter that header.

Moreover, since you are allowed at most one Reply-To header, if the
original author needs individual responses to go to some other
address, then that Reply-To: header will be lost if the list munges
them.

There is therefore a mail standards reason not to munge the headers,
and it rests in the rules about origin fields and in the potential for
lost functionality.  Given the project's goal of SQL conformance, why
would we blow off SMTP standards?

(Anyway, I agree with Tom, so I'm saying nothing more in this thread.)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Collin Kidder



I resent that you're trying to make this a personal thing.



I was going to answer the rest of this email, then I realized that the
real problem was right here, and discussing anything else was dancing
around the issue and wasting time.

You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
you.

I'm not saying your problems aren't real, I'm just saying you're apparently
the only person in this community that has enough trouble with them to
take the time to start a discussion.  To that degree, the problem is
very personal to you.

  


I was going to stay out of this but I'll jump in and defend him. The 
people on this list are so pedantic, so sure that their way is the only 
way that they absolutely rain nuclear fire down on anyone who dares to 
disagree. And you wonder why no one sprang to his defense???


And, I do agree with him on this issue.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Scott Marlowe
On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 7:39 AM, Collin Kidder [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 I was going to stay out of this but I'll jump in and defend him. The people
 on this list are so pedantic, so sure that their way is the only way that
 they absolutely rain nuclear fire down on anyone who dares to disagree. And
 you wonder why no one sprang to his defense???

 And, I do agree with him on this issue.

I prefer the list the way it is.  And so do a very large, very silent
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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Mikkel Høgh

On 17/10/2008, at 16.12, Scott Marlowe wrote:

On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 7:39 AM, Collin Kidder [EMAIL PROTECTED]  
wrote:
I was going to stay out of this but I'll jump in and defend him.  
The people
on this list are so pedantic, so sure that their way is the only  
way that
they absolutely rain nuclear fire down on anyone who dares to  
disagree. And

you wonder why no one sprang to his defense???

And, I do agree with him on this issue.


I prefer the list the way it is.  And so do a very large, very silent
majority of users.


And no one messes with the silent majority and their spokesmen ;)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Scott Marlowe
On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 8:15 AM, Mikkel Høgh [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 On 17/10/2008, at 16.12, Scott Marlowe wrote:

 On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 7:39 AM, Collin Kidder [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I was going to stay out of this but I'll jump in and defend him. The
 people
 on this list are so pedantic, so sure that their way is the only way that
 they absolutely rain nuclear fire down on anyone who dares to disagree.
 And
 you wonder why no one sprang to his defense???

 And, I do agree with him on this issue.

 I prefer the list the way it is.  And so do a very large, very silent
 majority of users.

 And no one messes with the silent majority and their spokesmen ;)

No, no one makes idiotic arguments that go against the RFCs for how to
run a mailing list and then makes the entire pgsql community change
from the rather sensible way it's done to a non-sensical way to
accomodate broken email clients.  But I thought that was rather
obvious.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Martin Gainty

free unfettered and open discussion without interference from ANY entity is a 
requirement of a democracy
the REAL question is ..is this a democracy???

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 Date: Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:15:20 +0200
 
 On 17/10/2008, at 16.12, Scott Marlowe wrote:
 
  On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 7:39 AM, Collin Kidder [EMAIL PROTECTED]  
  wrote:
  I was going to stay out of this but I'll jump in and defend him.  
  The people
  on this list are so pedantic, so sure that their way is the only  
  way that
  they absolutely rain nuclear fire down on anyone who dares to  
  disagree. And
  you wonder why no one sprang to his defense???
 
  And, I do agree with him on this issue.
 
  I prefer the list the way it is.  And so do a very large, very silent
  majority of users.
 
 And no one messes with the silent majority and their spokesmen ;)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Alvaro Herrera
Martin Gainty escribió:
 
 free unfettered and open discussion without interference from ANY
 entity is a requirement of a democracy the REAL question is ..is this
 a democracy???

_Of course_ it isn't ... (thankfully!)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Scott Marlowe
On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 8:24 AM, Martin Gainty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 free unfettered and open discussion without interference from ANY entity is
 a requirement of a democracy
 the REAL question is ..is this a democracy???

No, it's a well mostly well behaved meritocracy.  And I prefer that.
I believe that free and unfettered discussion is important to many
quality forms of governance, not just democracies.

I really do prefer the way this list works because when I hit reply
all to a discussion with Bob Smith and Postgresql-general I know
that Bob gets a direct answer from me, now, when he needs it at 2am
when his servers are puking their data out their gigE ports, and the
rest of the list gets it whenever the mailing list server can get
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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Alvaro Herrera
Scott Marlowe escribió:

 I really do prefer the way this list works because when I hit reply
 all to a discussion with Bob Smith and Postgresql-general I know
 that Bob gets a direct answer from me, now, when he needs it at 2am
 when his servers are puking their data out their gigE ports, and the
 rest of the list gets it whenever the mailing list server can get
 around to it.

Right.  It also works in the following situations:

1. Bob Smith posted without being subscribed; when the moderator
approves and somebody replies to Bob, whenever Bob responds the person
that he is responding to will receive his response right away without
having to wait for the moderator.

1a. Note that this means that crossposting to lists from other projects
works too (for example when there are discussions between here and
FreeBSD)

2. In the example (1) above, Bob is sure to receive the response,
whereas if the list was the Reply-To-set kind, Bob would never get it;
he'd have to troll the archives

3. Discussions continue to work even when the list servers die (happens,
even if rare) or they are very slow (relatively frequent)

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Rainer Pruy
Sigh...
wasting another junk of bandwidth with this bike shed discussion

Granted, replying here is more annoying and less convenient compared to other 
lists -
as long as your MUA still does not provide decent support for mailing lists.

Down back from 1998 is RFC 2369 that defined additional headers for mailing 
lists to indicate important information (e.g. how to post
messages). Thus, since then there is no excuse in hijacking Reply-To headers 
for use of simplifying mailing list replies.

Even if for the last ten years most MUAs did not care adding support, there is 
no real reason for blaming mailing list maintainers
that follow current standards for inconveniences caused by dumb MUAs. 
Especially if there is a reasonable workaround (using Replay All
- not ideal as any workaround but manageable).

Thus, *please* complain with the maintainer of your MUA to get the annoyance 
alleviated - or change your MUA.

As long as there are friendly list maintainers that abuse mail headers for 
overcoming deficiencies of some MUAs,
there will be no change for the better with MUAs.

Sorry I'm a bit fussy here,
but nowadays there is so much effort wasted with solving the wrong problems in 
making bad things bearable instead of fixing the
underlying reasons in the first place

Rainer

Collin Kidder wrote
 
 I resent that you're trying to make this a personal thing.
 

 I was going to answer the rest of this email, then I realized that the
 real problem was right here, and discussing anything else was dancing
 around the issue and wasting time.

 You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
 because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
 number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
 you.

 I'm not saying your problems aren't real, I'm just saying you're
 apparently
 the only person in this community that has enough trouble with them to
 take the time to start a discussion.  To that degree, the problem is
 very personal to you.

   
 
 I was going to stay out of this but I'll jump in and defend him. The
 people on this list are so pedantic, so sure that their way is the only
 way that they absolutely rain nuclear fire down on anyone who dares to
 disagree. And you wonder why no one sprang to his defense???
 
 And, I do agree with him on this issue.
 

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Ivan Sergio Borgonovo
On Fri, 17 Oct 2008 08:56:34 -0400
Stephen Frost [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 * Bill Moran ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:
  You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's
  personal because you are the only one complaining about it.
  Despite the large number of people on this list, I don't see
  anyone jumping in to defend you.
 
 Ugh.  No one else is jumping in simply because we've already been
 through all of this and it hasn't and isn't going to change.  The
 PG lists are the odd ones out here, not the other way around, I
 assure you. One might compare it to our continued use of CVS.
 It's wrong and backwards and all that, but most of the PG
 community is used to it and changing is a pain.  shrug.

I'd say because postgresql list has been used to it by a longer time
than most of the new comers doing the other way around did. But it
seems that the new comers are the most vocal.
Maybe because what's in the email headers have been abstracted to
them long ago they never had the need to look what they are for and
use them properly getting all the functionality their way has and
some additional bits too.

It is surprising how many people think to have enough knowledge in
email distribution systems to discuss an RFC that has been
already rewritten 1 time.
It would be nice if all those people spent their time rewriting in a
coherent way that RFC so that Reply-To works as they think is best
for the overall Internet without breaking any already existent
functionality before challenging this list consolidated habits.

Settings of ml are generally a mirror of their community.

Decent email clients have a switch for reckless people. That's
freedom.
Mine is called: Reply button invokes mailing list reply.
Decent lists generally have quite helpful headers for filtering and
choosing to reply to the right address.

If you're for freedom... then let the recipients choose. Not the
list. If people insist in badly configuring/choosing their email
clients how far are you willing to go to protect them against
themselves and imposing a toll on the rest of the others?

I think the overall amount of the time I spent choosing the right
button in my life is lower than the time a single person has spent
writing 1 post on this topic and much much much lower than the time
they will have to spend in excuses (if anything worse) the first
time they will send to the wrong address.
But still it is much more than the time the people are complaining
have spent reading RFC 2822 and considering its implications.

But maybe this will give everyone a chance to consider all the small
coherent technical details that good engineers placed deciding about
email headers and email clients and reconsider what RFC are there
for.
If headers are properly set the action taken once you press your
chosen button is unambiguous and you conserve as much information as
possible.

If you think the majority is right since most of the people that
arrived to the Internet late got used to mangled Reply-To I think
that mistakes are educating. But till people will ignore what's
available and why I bet they will just learn to wait 20 minutes
before sending any email after their first expensive error, rather
than considering other ways to operate.

BTW consider this even from a HCI point of view... you still need 2
functions: one to send to list one to author.
Saying you just want one button since 99% of times you'll reply to
the list is making the wrong expensive choice even more probable.
Once you've 2 buttons why should you mangle the headers and give
them meaning they don't have?
Because most of the people aren't able to properly chose and
configure their email client?
What's wrong between making the difference in the header, in the
client and in your mind between Reply-to and List-Post?
Or is it better that the client thinks that Reply-To is replying to
the Sender (that's not true), the mailing list thinks that the
Reply-To is the List-Post (that's not true) and you think that today
is a good day to play lottery (In Italy it may be true)?

If you're among the reckless people you could get used to invoke the
send to list button and let your client send it to the Reply-To in
case there is no List-Post... or whatever bad habit you enjoy more.
But I see no reason to harass an RFC.

What about non standard web sites that have to cope with not
standard browsers and then being forced to adapt browsers that were
already standard to cope with non standard web sites?
Does it sound familiar?

I beg everyone pardon, especially to Tom Lane whose replies always
shine here, but I couldn't resist to reply to people thinking I'm not
sensible, I took it personally ;) Evidently I'm old enough to
know the existence of RFCs but not mature enough ;)


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Stephen Frost
* Ivan Sergio Borgonovo ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:
 I'd say because postgresql list has been used to it by a longer time
 than most of the new comers doing the other way around did. But it
 seems that the new comers are the most vocal.

sigh.  First people complain that poor Mikkel is the only one
complaining, now people are bitching that us 'new comers' are the most
vocal when we point out he's not alone.  Yes, the PG lists have been
around a long time.  So have the Debian lists.  In the end, it's not a
contest.  This discussion obviously isn't going anywhere tho, and it's
not going to change the list policy, so let's just drop it, please.  I'm
sure we'll all have an opportunity to revisit it (again) in another 6
months.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Greg Smith

On Fri, 17 Oct 2008, Andrew Sullivan wrote:

There is therefore a mail standards reason not to munge the headers, and 
it rests in the rules about origin fields and in the potential for lost 
functionality.


I should have included the standard links to both sides of this 
discussion:


http://www.unicom.com/pw/reply-to-harmful.html
http://www.metasystema.net/essays/reply-to.mhtml

I find the Principle of Minimal Bandwidth and Principle of Least Total 
Work arguments in the latter match my personal preferences here better 
(particularly as someone who only cares about on-list replies even more 
than the 90% of the time given in that example), while respecting that 
true RFC-compliance is also a reasonable perspective.


It's also clear to me you'll never change the mind of anyone who had 
adopted a firm stance on either side here.  My spirit for e-mail pedantry 
arguments was broken recently anyway, when I had someone I'm compelled to 
communicate with regularly complain that they couldn't follow my 
top-posted messages and requested me to reply like everybody else to 
their mail in the future.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Guy Rouillier

Bill Moran wrote:

You can resent it or not, but this _is_ a personal thing.  It's personal
because you are the only one complaining about it.  Despite the large
number of people on this list, I don't see anyone jumping in to defend
you.


I'm another in the crowd that had this same discussion when I joined 
years ago.  I had the same point of view as Mikkel, but I've adapted to 
the community way of doing things.


When I use Reply All in Thunderbird, it adds a To: to each of the 
individuals in the discussion, and a CC: to the list.  Since I 
personally don't like receiving multiple copies of emails from this 
list, I delete all of the To: addressees and change the list from 
CC: to To:.  Would be nice if everyone did the same.


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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Alvaro Herrera
Guy Rouillier wrote:

 When I use Reply All in Thunderbird, it adds a To: to each of the  
 individuals in the discussion, and a CC: to the list.  Since I  
 personally don't like receiving multiple copies of emails from this  
 list, I delete all of the To: addressees and change the list from  
 CC: to To:.  Would be nice if everyone did the same.

I don't know about Thunderbird, but my email client has a keystroke that
does exactly that.  I disable that feature though, because I don't like
it; I very much prefer the two copies because I get the fastest one
first (of course, I only receive one -- the system makes sure that the
second one is not delivered to me but discarded silently).

I would be really annoyed if my mail system inflicted so much pain on my
as Thunderbird seems to inflict on you.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Serge Fonville
On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 9:26 PM, Serge Fonville [EMAIL PROTECTED]wrote:

 Altough I am not sure what the real issue is,I do know that on (for
 example) the tomcat mailing list, when I choose reply (in gmail) the to:
 field contains the address of the mailing list.
 Based on what I know, this should be relatively easy to set up in the
 mailing list manager.

 just my 2ct

 Serge Fonvilee

 On Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 9:15 PM, Alvaro Herrera 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Guy Rouillier wrote:

  When I use Reply All in Thunderbird, it adds a To: to each of the
  individuals in the discussion, and a CC: to the list.  Since I
  personally don't like receiving multiple copies of emails from this
  list, I delete all of the To: addressees and change the list from
  CC: to To:.  Would be nice if everyone did the same.

 I don't know about Thunderbird, but my email client has a keystroke that
 does exactly that.  I disable that feature though, because I don't like
 it; I very much prefer the two copies because I get the fastest one
 first (of course, I only receive one -- the system makes sure that the
 second one is not delivered to me but discarded silently).

 I would be really annoyed if my mail system inflicted so much pain on my
 as Thunderbird seems to inflict on you.

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Dave Coventry
I am a member of a number of lists, some of which exhibit this
'reply-to' behaviour and I have also managed to adapt... to a point.

Sometimes, however, I do end up replying directly to the poster rather
than through the list. Tellingly, I very nearly sent this post
directly to Serge Fonvilee.

Without wanting to be too controversial, I have generally found that
the lists which have the default reply configured like this do tend to
be those that are dominated by members who are, shall we say, pedantic
about protocol and 'netiquette'.

Personally I would prefer the default reply-to to go to the list, but
I'm not really bothered about it.

My 2 cents.

Disclaimer: If we are not talking about the default 'reply-to'
behaviour of this list, please ignore this post; I came upon the
thread late and it is possible that I am at cross purposes.

Kind reagards,

Dave Coventry


2008/10/17 Serge Fonville [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
 Altough I am not sure what the real issue is,
 I do know that on (for example) the tomcat mailing list, when I choose
 reply (in gmail) the to: field contains the address of the mailing list.
 Based on what I know, this should be relatively easy to set up in the
 mailing list manager.
 just my 2ct
 Serge Fonvilee

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Re: [GENERAL] Annoying Reply-To

2008-10-17 Thread Jason Long
I am not fond of this approach either.  I never find myself replying 
directly to the poster.


I actually greatly prefer forums which email me a copy of every post 
with a nice link to the original thread.  95% of the time I do not even 
need to use the link.  The latest posting is enough.


This makes things more organized as accessible.

Dave Coventry wrote:

I am a member of a number of lists, some of which exhibit this
'reply-to' behaviour and I have also managed to adapt... to a point.

Sometimes, however, I do end up replying directly to the poster rather
than through the list. Tellingly, I very nearly sent this post
directly to Serge Fonvilee.

Without wanting to be too controversial, I have generally found that
the lists which have the default reply configured like this do tend to
be those that are dominated by members who are, shall we say, pedantic
about protocol and 'netiquette'.

Personally I would prefer the default reply-to to go to the list, but
I'm not really bothered about it.

My 2 cents.

Disclaimer: If we are not talking about the default 'reply-to'
behaviour of this list, please ignore this post; I came upon the
thread late and it is possible that I am at cross purposes.

Kind reagards,

Dave Coventry


2008/10/17 Serge Fonville [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
  

Altough I am not sure what the real issue is,
I do know that on (for example) the tomcat mailing list, when I choose
reply (in gmail) the to: field contains the address of the mailing list.
Based on what I know, this should be relatively easy to set up in the
mailing list manager.
just my 2ct
Serge Fonvilee