RE: FW: [QUAD-L] About A.D. = Autonomic Dysflexia

2005-10-23 Thread Lana Baugh








Gabe’s average diastolic is in the
70s. So when he moves into 90-100, it’s a jump. He had to establish norms
of highs and lows before he could set up a protocol. Before PRN meds were
ordered by a doc. He only takes something if it won’t come down after
about 15-30 minutes- Depending on how high and how fast it goes up. If Gabe’s
goes up then comes down immediately he doesn’t take anything. 

 

Lana

Gabe’s mom

 









From: Eric Olson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005
5:38 PM
To: Lana Baugh
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] About
A.D. = Autonomic Dysflexia



 

My diastolic is above 110 just about every time I go
from chair to bed.  It usually comes down without doing anything.  I
never take anything.  Maybe I should look into taking something. 
Trouble is, when I'm in the chair, my pressure is really low.  

Eric 

Lana Baugh wrote:



 

 









From: Lana Baugh [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]

Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005
2:56 PM
To: 'Brien Stocker'
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia





 

Brien,

 

Gabe carries procardia. It is a gel
capsule. You snip or bite off the tip and squeeze it under your tongue and
swallow the remaining pill. If the high BP doesn’t resolve in 15 minutes,
repeat. One more repeat if it doesn’t resolve in 15 minutes. If it doesn’t
resolve at that point call the rehab doc and 911. The protocol was worked up
with a doc. AD is dangerous because if it doesn’t resolve quickly the BP
can climb fast. We have a 45 minute window for the aides. They need to cath,
check bowels, check for any other irritation- they usually find the problem in
the first 10 minutes. If not they start the procardia. We start action when the
diastolic is 90. if it reaches 110 despite all the treatment listed above
that’s when 911 is called and the rehab doc. Our original plan idea came
from the PVA SCI book.

 

If your doc will not prescribe you should
ask for a plan. If he can’t give you one with medication, get a new doc.
I know I’m pushy. I hope I do not offend. It just pisses me off when I
hear things like what you said. You deserve better.

 

Lana

Gabe’s mom

10 yrs post C 4-5

 









From: Brien Stocker [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]

Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005
12:35 PM
To: Lana Baugh
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia





 

Lana Baugh wrote:

From
the info I’ve read on AD, it is the number 1 cause of death in
individuals with a SCI. The number 1 cause of unresolved AD was kidney stones. 

 

Fortunately, most of Gabe’s
specialists take it seriously. It’s the reg MDs and the nurses that
don’t seem to have a clue. He carries an emergency sheet around in his
back pack. I have attached a 4 page document on AD that his aides or docs can
access in an emergency. I copied it out of the PVA book on SCI. 

 

The problem is when you really need them
to understand or know about it - the most important times – they know
zip. Gabe suffers, risks serious damage- possibly death and we look into a
blank face. 

 

Now we try to go through the Rehab doc as
much as possible. He says the other docs do not have a clue. They want us to
call them when AD occurs regardless of the cause and they call the other doc.

 

When Gabe is in the hospital and everyone
pales when we try and discuss that the foley kink and high BP are related I want
to pull my hair out. One nurse helped out a couple of years ago. She pulled up
the info on AD, printed it out and put it on the front of Gabe’s chart.
Everyone had to see it. Still I can’t always control what’s on the
front of a chart.

 

I think everyone should
list their occupation as attorney. Maybe
you’re just currently unemployed. My husband is an attorney and several
docs somehow got the idea I was. I never said I was. I haven’t said I am.
Who knows what could lurk in the mind of a women who is an attorney J and mighty pissed. 

 

Best wishes on dealing with AD.

 

Lana

Gabe’s mom

10 yrs post C 4-5

 

 

 









From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
Sent: Friday, October 21, 2005
3:34 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia



 

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AD is a life-threatening problem.  It can raise
your blood pressure to where you can have severe strokes and heart damage.





 





Jim



There is a short term fast acting pill too reduce
blood pressure.  I  asked my primary doc to give me some and he said
NO.  Does anybody carry that med with them when they are prone to
AD.  When I have AD, I am afraid I am going to have  a stroke and
would like to lower my BP.  Any Ideas, folks?

Brien








Re: FW: [QUAD-L] About A.D. = Autonomic Dysflexia

2005-10-23 Thread Eric Olson




My diastolic is above 110 just about every time I go from chair to
bed.  It usually comes down without doing anything.  I never take
anything.  Maybe I should look into taking something.  Trouble is, when
I'm in the chair, my pressure is really low.  

Eric 

Lana Baugh wrote:

  
  

  
  
   
   
  
  
  
  From: Lana
Baugh [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
  Sent: Sunday, October
23, 2005
2:56 PM
  To: 'Brien Stocker'
  Subject: RE: [QUAD-L]
About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia
  
   
  Brien,
   
  Gabe carries
procardia. It is a gel
capsule. You snip or bite off the tip and squeeze it under your tongue
and
swallow the remaining pill. If the high BP doesn’t resolve in 15
minutes,
repeat. One more repeat if it doesn’t resolve in 15 minutes. If it
doesn’t resolve at that point call the rehab doc and 911. The protocol
was worked up with a doc. AD is dangerous because if it doesn’t resolve
quickly the BP can climb fast. We have a 45 minute window for the
aides. They
need to cath, check bowels, check for any other irritation- they
usually find
the problem in the first 10 minutes. If not they start the procardia.
We start
action when the diastolic is 90. if it reaches 110 despite all the
treatment
listed above that’s when 911 is called and the rehab doc. Our original
plan idea came from the PVA SCI book.
   
  If your doc
will not prescribe you should
ask for a plan. If he can’t give you one with medication, get a new
doc.
I know I’m pushy. I hope I do not offend. It just pisses me off when I
hear things like what you said. You deserve better.
   
  Lana
  Gabe’s mom
  10 yrs post
C 4-5
   
  
  
  
  From:
Brien Stocker [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
  Sent: Sunday, October
23, 2005
12:35 PM
  To: Lana Baugh
  Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia
  
   
  Lana
Baugh wrote:
  From
the info I’ve read on AD, it is the number 1 cause of death in
individuals with a SCI. The number 1 cause of unresolved AD was kidney
stones. 
   
  Fortunately,
most of Gabe’s
specialists take it seriously. It’s the reg MDs and the nurses that
don’t seem to have a clue. He carries an emergency sheet around in his
back pack. I have attached a 4 page document on AD that his aides or
docs can
access in an emergency. I copied it out of the PVA book on SCI. 
   
  The problem
is when you really need them
to understand or know about it - the most important times – they know
zip. Gabe suffers, risks serious damage- possibly death and we look
into a
blank face. 
   
  Now we try
to go through the Rehab doc as
much as possible. He says the other docs do not have a clue. They want
us to
call them when AD occurs regardless of the cause and they call the
other doc.
   
  When Gabe is
in the hospital and everyone
pales when we try and discuss that the foley kink and high BP are
related I want
to pull my hair out. One nurse helped out a couple of years ago. She
pulled up
the info on AD, printed it out and put it on the front of Gabe’s chart.
Everyone had to see it. Still I can’t always control what’s on the
front of a chart.
   
  I think
everyone should
list their occupation as attorney. Maybe
you’re just currently unemployed. My husband is an attorney and several
docs somehow got the idea I was. I never said I was. I haven’t said I
am.
Who knows what could lurk in the mind of a women who is an attorney J and mighty
pissed. 
   
  Best wishes
on dealing with AD.
   
  Lana
  Gabe’s mom
  10 yrs post
C 4-5
   
   
   
  
  
  
  From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
  Sent: Friday, October
21, 2005
3:34 PM
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com
  Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia
  
   
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or display file.Error! Cannot read or display file.
  
  AD is a life-threatening
problem.  It can raise
your blood pressure to where you can have severe strokes and heart
damage.
  
  
   
  
  
  Jim
  
  There is a short term fast
acting pill too reduce
blood pressure.  I  asked my primary doc to give me some and he said
NO.  Does anybody carry that med with them when they are prone to
AD.  When I have AD, I am afraid I am going to have  a stroke and
would like to lower my BP.  Any Ideas, folks?
  
Brien
  






Re: [QUAD-L] Dave K - Part D

2005-10-23 Thread Eric Olson




All you need to qualify is part a or b.  Income has nothing to do
with eligibility.  If you don't sign up you're penalized 1% per month
that you are not enrolled when you eventually do.  The doughnut hole
refers to the out of pocket costs for your medications.  Basically you
have a premium and deductible and some amount of co-insurance.  I think
some plans have higher premiums and no deductible.  Your out of pocket
costs determine the co-insurance.  I think it's 25% between a-b 75%
between b-c 100% between c-d (the doughnut hole where you pay full
price for your medications ) and 5% over d (catastrophic coverage ) I
know d is 3600.  You'll have to check here for the other amounts.  
http://www.medicarerights.org/newlawframeset.html

Eric
Lori Michaelson wrote:

  
  

  

  

 
Hi Dave,
 
We're here too stewing over what to do.  Recently got a
letter from CMS semi-explaining
what one must do.  It just says "IF YOU QUALIFY" but, of
course doesn't explain how you
go abt finding alot of info out.
 
And don't you have to pick a plan BEFORE Jan 1,2006?  My
PN Magazine said something
abt a penalty for late appliers?
 
In our situation, with that BIG mysterious doughnut hole
on income ... we may be better off
not paying into a plan when it MAY
cost us more TO DO SO rather than continue to
pay for my scripts outright.
 
Did you get the list from Medicare.ORG?
 
Lori Michaelson
Age - 41
C4/5 complete quad, 26 years post
Tucson, AZ
 
 
---Original
Message---
 

From: David K. Kelmer
Date:
10/20/05 19:08:56
To: Lori Michaelson
Subject:
Re: [QUAD-L] Greg - Medicare and God help us all!

 


Hi Lori,
 
Last week I contacted about 30 companies by phone that
will be offering a Medicare Part D Plan in Texas and requested an
information packet from them.  Some said they'd mail the info out this
week, some said they'd mail it out within two weeks, and some said a
month or more.  Either way I am going to be doing a lot a comparison
shopping before I commit to ANY plan!
 
With Love,

CtrlAltDel aka Dave
C4/5 Complete - 29 Years Post
Texas, USA  .

Lori Michaelson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:



  

  
   
  
  As you know I get weekly email Medicare info
(especially on the new Part D prescription plan but alot more).  But it
has gotten so complex (for a govn't reason no doubt!) that even Dave
(hubby being in a genius category) can not understand it all.
   
  We got the 2006 Medicare & You
Handbook today.  All the past ones have been exactly the same pretty
much.  This one says on the front that it is
different.  In Red.   Understatement!  
   
  Toward the back (I think) it says that there
will be like $400+ in monthly premiums!  With my SSD check being not
much much more than that  ... what the heck?  Plus a debit taken out
for the new Part D prescription program whether one is eligible or
not!  Thoroughly mind boggling!   
   
  Greg ... I hope the plan you chose IS
WORKING for you and that you're not just PAYING INTO it!
   
  And, Greg, hope you
weren't offended by my last email to you on what to do.  It's hard on
me too.  Well two days gone this week ... did you make any calls?  You
shoulda got your MEDICARE & YOU 2006 Handbook today too.
   
  Lori Michaelson
  Age - 41
  C4/5 complete quad, 26
years post
  Tucson, AZ
   
  
  


  
  

  






  

  
  

  




 

  
  


  

  
  
  
  
  
  

  


  

  





Re: [QUAD-L] falling asleep

2005-10-23 Thread Silas Shelburne




  Lol.  Well Bobbie im glad I just feel the ice.  
  Silas 
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; quad-list@eskimo.com 
Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005 3:14 
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] falling 
asleep

Yep I feel like I have Ice Water running through my arms 
  constantly at times and then later I'm so hot I can't get my blanket off 
  of me and I'm  just miserable.
  This is what us women refer to as menopause. Now add sweating, 
sleeplessness, irritability and forgetfulness.



 



Re: [QUAD-L] New Therapy for Paraplegia and Quadriplegia

2005-10-23 Thread Eric Olson




I got an e-mail from these people a couple years ago.  Don't know if it
works and don't have the money to find out.  

Houston809 wrote:

   New Therapy for Paraplegia and Quadriplegia
  Anybody
familiar with this? Wally what have you heard?
  
  
  New Therapy for Paraplegia and Quadriplegia
  
   
  
 
  GIGER MD® Therapy is a unique therapy
method
   
 
  Dear Sir or Madam
   
  The damaged or
functionally impaired CNS (central nervous system) is functionally
reorganised in its activated network parts or in its basic structure
through the relearning of lost frequency and phase coordination in the
performance of coordinated rhythmical movement. In the case of severe
CNS damage, the restoration of physiological functions is only possible
when instructed learning takes place in an integrative, co-ordinated
and efficient way. The relearning of relative frequency and phase
coordination and of old movement patterns of the diseased CNS can best
be achieved with the use of GIGER MD® medical device which controls the
frequency and phase coordination with a precision of milliseconds.
This relearning of motor functions of the lesioned CNS is considered as
a transformation of the coordination dynamics of the central nervous
system. The increase in the relearning rate of specific
spatial-temporal pattern of activity among the many billion neurons of
the CNS networks through movement and other functions of the CNS is
essentially determined by various factors.
  ge
  





Re: [QUAD-L] falling asleep

2005-10-23 Thread Bobbie299


Yep I feel like I have Ice Water running through my arms constantly at times and then later I'm so hot I can't get my blanket off of me and I'm  just miserable.
  This is what us women refer to as menopause. Now add sweating, sleeplessness, irritability and forgetfulness.



Re: [QUAD-L] falling asleep

2005-10-23 Thread Eric Olson




Mark, 

I have the ice water in my arms but don't ever get hot.  I'm either
okay or varying degrees of cold.  Usually very cold and miserable.  Are
your cold sensations affected by the weather?  

Eric 

 wrote:

  
  
  

  

 Yep I feel like I have Ice Water running through my arms
constantly at times and then later I'm so hot I can't get my blanket
off of me and I'm  just miserable.
 
 
Mark
 
---Original
Message---
 

From: Eric Olson
Date:
10/19/05 16:36:47
To: Tim Syfert
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject:
Re: [QUAD-L] falling asleep

 
I too sleep very poorly.  My nasty-ass sensations of
intense cold often keep me from sleeping at all.  It has to be a
neurogenic thing because I'll feel like I'm soaking in ice water
regardless of my temperature.  Anyone else have cold sensations? 
Anyway, even if I'm not having trouble with the cold sensations, I
either can't fall asleep or can't stay asleep.  I guess not being able
to toss and turn easily makes sleep more difficult.  

Eric 

Tim Syfert wrote:

Before my SCI I could fall right to sleep
when I hit the sack, but post SCI it takes me 1-2 hour to finally fall
asleep. Has anyone else experienced this?
 
Tim

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Re: [QUAD-L] Speakerphone

2005-10-23 Thread Julie A Napper
I've had a USWEST 390 for about 10 yrs. now and it still works great.  No
problems at all.  I'm unsure if they sell that model anymore, but if not,
I'm sure they have others.  Back then, I think I paid around $120.00 or
so for it.   Sometimes people can't tell if I'm using the speaker, so it
must sound pretty good.

Julie c4/5

On Sun, 23 Oct 2005 14:58:02 -0600 Fragile <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes:
> Can somebody recommend a good, preferably inexpensive speakerphone? 
> Over the
> years I've purchased dozens of them, have only been completely 
> satisfied
> with one, an AT&T model 958. I use the AT&T in my living room, but 
> over the
> past 16 months or so I spend most of my time bedridden because of 
> pain. I
> bought another AT&T model 958 for my bedroom, but it was dead on 
> arrival.
> I'm hesitant about buying another one. Most of the ones I've tried, 
> either I
> can't hear the person on the other end, or they can't hear me. I've 
> been
> looking at them all day and am considering a GE (Big-Button Memory 
> Telephone
> with Call-Waiting Caller ID*, Speakerphone, Hearing Aid Compatible 
> and
> 10-Number Memory 29369GE1). Has anybody had any experience with GE
> speakerphones? BTW... I'm a C5, I hit the buttons with the knuckle 
> at the
> top of my index finger or with my wrist.



FW: [QUAD-L] About A.D. = Autonomic Dysflexia

2005-10-23 Thread Lana Baugh








 

 









From: Lana Baugh [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005
2:56 PM
To: 'Brien Stocker'
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia



 

Brien,

 

Gabe carries procardia. It is a gel
capsule. You snip or bite off the tip and squeeze it under your tongue and
swallow the remaining pill. If the high BP doesn’t resolve in 15 minutes,
repeat. One more repeat if it doesn’t resolve in 15 minutes. If it
doesn’t resolve at that point call the rehab doc and 911. The protocol
was worked up with a doc. AD is dangerous because if it doesn’t resolve
quickly the BP can climb fast. We have a 45 minute window for the aides. They
need to cath, check bowels, check for any other irritation- they usually find
the problem in the first 10 minutes. If not they start the procardia. We start
action when the diastolic is 90. if it reaches 110 despite all the treatment
listed above that’s when 911 is called and the rehab doc. Our original
plan idea came from the PVA SCI book.

 

If your doc will not prescribe you should
ask for a plan. If he can’t give you one with medication, get a new doc.
I know I’m pushy. I hope I do not offend. It just pisses me off when I
hear things like what you said. You deserve better.

 

Lana

Gabe’s mom

10 yrs post C 4-5

 









From: Brien Stocker [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005
12:35 PM
To: Lana Baugh
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia



 

Lana Baugh wrote:

From
the info I’ve read on AD, it is the number 1 cause of death in
individuals with a SCI. The number 1 cause of unresolved AD was kidney stones. 

 

Fortunately, most of Gabe’s
specialists take it seriously. It’s the reg MDs and the nurses that
don’t seem to have a clue. He carries an emergency sheet around in his
back pack. I have attached a 4 page document on AD that his aides or docs can
access in an emergency. I copied it out of the PVA book on SCI. 

 

The problem is when you really need them
to understand or know about it - the most important times – they know
zip. Gabe suffers, risks serious damage- possibly death and we look into a
blank face. 

 

Now we try to go through the Rehab doc as
much as possible. He says the other docs do not have a clue. They want us to
call them when AD occurs regardless of the cause and they call the other doc.

 

When Gabe is in the hospital and everyone
pales when we try and discuss that the foley kink and high BP are related I want
to pull my hair out. One nurse helped out a couple of years ago. She pulled up
the info on AD, printed it out and put it on the front of Gabe’s chart.
Everyone had to see it. Still I can’t always control what’s on the
front of a chart.

 

I think everyone should
list their occupation as attorney. Maybe
you’re just currently unemployed. My husband is an attorney and several
docs somehow got the idea I was. I never said I was. I haven’t said I am.
Who knows what could lurk in the mind of a women who is an attorney J and mighty pissed. 

 

Best wishes on dealing with AD.

 

Lana

Gabe’s mom

10 yrs post C 4-5

 

 

 









From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
Sent: Friday, October 21, 2005
3:34 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] About A.D. =
Autonomic Dysflexia



 

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or display file.Error! Cannot read or display file.



AD is a life-threatening problem.  It can raise
your blood pressure to where you can have severe strokes and heart damage.





 





Jim



There is a short term fast acting pill too reduce
blood pressure.  I  asked my primary doc to give me some and he said
NO.  Does anybody carry that med with them when they are prone to
AD.  When I have AD, I am afraid I am going to have  a stroke and
would like to lower my BP.  Any Ideas, folks?

Brien








[QUAD-L] speakerphone

2005-10-23 Thread Fragile
Can somebody recommend a good, preferably inexpensive
speakerphone?  Over the years I've purchased dozens of them, have
only been completely satisfied with one, an AT&T model 958.  I
use the AT&T in my living room, but over the past 16 months or so I
spend most of my time bedridden because of pain.  I bought another
AT&T model 958 for my bedroom, but it was dead on arrival. 
I'm hesitant about buying another one.  Most of the ones I've
tried, either I can't hear the person on the other end, or they can't
hear me.  I've been looking at them all day and am considering a
GE (Big-Button Memory Telephone with Call-Waiting Caller ID*,
Speakerphone, Hearing Aid Compatible and 10-Number Memory
29369GE1).  Has anybody had any experience with GE
speakerphones?   BTW... I'm a C5, I hit the buttons with the
knuckle at the top of my index finger or with my wrist.


Re: [QUAD-L] Tall people issues

2005-10-23 Thread Brien Stocker

[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


Hiya Britri!
Just make 4  4 X 4 blocks made from 2 X 4's.  When you get to the restaurant, 
just place them under the legs.  Don't try it on tables with single 
pedestals, lol

W

 


Thanx,  I will bring an old tire for round tables

Bri



Re: [QUAD-L] falling asleep...no turns

2005-10-23 Thread Houston809
I sleep on 1 of those a.p.p. Pads I don't turn at night. I've had 2 flap
surgeries 1 in 98 1 in 99 I've been sleeping like this 4 over 5 yrs no
problems yet know on wood :)

On 10/22/05 11:57 PM, "Greg" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> I use a 4 inch thick foam mattress with an 18 inch square cut out where my
> butt goes. In that opening I place a gell pad. I sleep all nigh without
> turning, for 15 years or so.
> 
> ---
> If you don't get turned, what do you sleep on ? any special mattress ?
> 
> 



[QUAD-L] Fwd: All Hungry People Look The Same

2005-10-23 Thread DAANOO



 
--- Begin Message ---



I agree with you Jim.  I would never miss anything, as I don't care 
what people look at me when I'm being fed.  They are just curious and I 
understand.  I've caught myself doing the same thing to persons that are 
different from me.  It's only normal. I often have to get suctioned in 
front of people, I'm not going to stay home if I'm not contagious.  I still 
want to go out and do things.
 
Dana (C-4-5, 31 years post, 52 KC) Jim, you've 
got the right idea.  I'm sure that the stares are from people who must 
think that Chris Reeve, is still alive, and moved to Minnesota (lol).You 
have also gathered that people react to your actions, and reactions.  If 
you are totally involved in your group, you will get less reaction.  On the 
other hand, if youare floundering,  people will react and stare.  
But we both know that hungry people all look alike lolBest 
WishesWIn a message dated 10/21/05 4:22:35 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
writes:<< Personally I don't care what I look like or how much 
room might take up in  a restaurant when I go out to eat.  I tell 
the hostess that they need to  place me somewhere where I'm not going 
to be in their way.  I tell them  that I cannot fit underneath a 
table and I am not going to be moving out of  their way continuously if 
they put me in the middle of an aisle.  I have  always been placed 
in a very nice spot of the restaurant and I have been out of  their way so 
they can do their job.  I have never missed a gathering of  family 
or friends because I was too afraid to be singled out.  I know 
I'm  different because I am in a wheelchair and people are going to 
stare even if I  did fit under the table. 
>>
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